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| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Xandelle: 10:05am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:Maturity is when you will marry a used up girl. Oshee |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Gloriouspa(m): 10:08am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Lovethaa:It shows you didn't love her from the onset and you are still not yet mature to get married, all you wanted is her parent's wealth and her personal status and connection. Having told you all her past, what was your response and what did you tell her about your own past. You didn't tell us here anything about your own past. Are you a saint? I think it is better you let her go because you didn't love her in anyway. All you wanted is s*x from her. I pitied people like because at the end you might not be able to find a faithful lady at the end. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by godliman: 10:09am On Apr 13, 2021 |
I Magnoliaa:The shitty past are not laurels to be proud of they are scares for life. To the young man in question, if you have indulge in premarital sex in the past you are a hypocrite to judge her. Your types created her type. If there are no hegoats there won't be harlots. If you were a virgin I can understand with you, but if you are not, you are not an ounce better. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by PeachtreeReside(f): 10:11am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Lovethaa:Awww, Eyah! You don't love her at all. Her family connections are what you were hoping to capitalize on. Are you a virgin though? She was molested at a tender age which isn't her fault. Having an abortion or having it for the same guy , which is a problem for you? We like our men virgins or inexperienced but with skills. You do not see us complaining do you? Ladies, before you burst your speakers and spill your life history, be sure of the man's emotional intelligence and maturity. Poster, please let her be . Tell her lies so she would forget you. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Dupsierae: 10:13am On Apr 13, 2021 |
If you really love her,you are supposed to take up that case..make sure that beast is detained..fight for her..moreover it’s a past |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Xandelle: 10:14am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Lovethaa:Guy never and I repeat never you ever marry that girl. Forget the bashing and shaming you're getting here.. Check the time you posted. People who would give you reasonable advice based on reality are not very active at that time. Most of these females won't want their brothers to marry such a girl that they are shaming you for. Moreover feminism in Nigeria has a group financially sponsored. Forget wokeism... You owe your children the right to have thee best mom. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Nobody: 10:14am On Apr 13, 2021 |
PeachtreeReside:She's a slut who needs medical intervention ASAP not a man, except that man is stupid and ready for problem |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by ImaIma1(f): 10:17am On Apr 13, 2021 |
ibkonekt:I would have agreed with you a bit. But we are talking about a girl that was introduced to sex at a tender age when she should have been occupied with being a child. That kind of experience can break and destroy someone. Her sexual orientation was obviously distorted and played on her later. Recently, a 15 year old family friend came to me and told me how her aunty's husband was touching her body inappropriately. She was living with them. I was caught between telling the aunty or her mum. I eventually told her mum which really broke her. But I didn't want her to stay in that house longer. That touching was already traumatic, even for me. Imagine her being introduced to sex by a 60 year old man that's supposed to look after her. How do you think she will turn out? When someone, guy or girl speaks up about a traumatic experience that affected the course of their lives, it is not cool to judge them with it. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Nobody: 10:18am On Apr 13, 2021 |
ImaIma1:She needs medical intervention not a Man |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Advancedman(m): 10:23am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Lovethaa:You are not serious. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by ibkonekt(m): 10:26am On Apr 13, 2021*. Modified: 10:53am On Apr 13, 2021 |
ImaIma1:Understood however recall that the girl had 4 abortions. You cannot use childhood trauma to explain way all responsibilities of peoples actions. There must be accountability at some point in people’s action and choices. For a lady to do 4 abortions means she was grown enough to go to a medical personnel that does such acts. There is also failure from the parenting, it is their duty to protect their ward, no matter the circumstances. They failed in that. Let me give you an example a suicide bomber that believes it is okay to kill others to receive rewards in heaven will at some point question himself if his actions are truly just, or if his family or loved one are to be killed he would panic, showing that instinctively he knows that the act of killing is bad. Its just that they believe that their reason was just. She would have know at some point that acting sexually in that way was bad but maybe no courage or she enjoyed it. Recently, a 15 year old family friend came to me and told me how her aunty's husband was touching her body inappropriately. She was living with them. I was caught between telling the aunty or her mum.The girl came to “tell” you, which means her instincts knew something was wrong and she made a move to correct it somehow. How can a lady have 4 abortions, why didn’t she tell her parents like this child did to you. I understand fear, trauma and manipulations exist but at what point do we say this person needs to be held accountable for this (it is already established that the man is useless and should be dealt with). However, we are responsible for our actions at some point. We all have teachings given to us from childhood but if we feel it’s not up to par we have the choice to question them. What you say does happen and it does seem like it may have some element in this story, but I also see someone that was enjoying all the pleasures of sleeping around and doing abortions because in her mind society does not condemn as it did in the past. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Oloristarr(f): 10:30am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Drop her number or social media account let us counsel her or beg god to erase her past Lovethaa: |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by tiswell(m): 10:33am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:you sound more personal and pained than the lady in context. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by karkinase(m): 10:35am On Apr 13, 2021 |
KBdownloads:Too horrifying...subconsciously the msg passed across by this simps to ladies is do whatever you like wen it's time to settle down, open up and ur sins will be washed away ![]() |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by OgbeniSamm(m): 10:35am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:I just spoke to the dealer now, he asked me to check back next week, so be patient till then ![]() |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Jacksparrow7(m): 10:37am On Apr 13, 2021 |
My own is If you don have sex once, look for woman who have had sex once. If you don have sex twice, look for woman who have had sex twice. If na 3 times u had sex, look for someone who had sex 3 times. Don't look at someone's education, but lifestyles |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by kemjoe: 10:41am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Guy, you are not been fair to her. She spilled everything because of the love she has for you. It is very rare for you to see a woman who will tell all even at gun point. There are so many other girls that have done worse and are going to do more. What makes you think that if you leave this one for those that did not tell you that all will be well with you. If this girl has passed all the other tests of what you expect from a wife-to-be, I would advice you give her a chance and not hold her story against her especially when she is willing not to go back to that her uncle or such immoral life. Some men have ended up marrying former prostitutes and they are happily married while some have divorced seemingly saints haven found out that they were not who they make people believe they were. Lovethaa: |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by biggy26: 11:01am On Apr 13, 2021 |
donbachi:And they forget that it was a guy that slept with her and made her commit abortions. Yet that same guy will want to marry a virgin. Well, like they say, it's a man's world. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by captainjoh(m): 11:01am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Your lost interest, move its OK. But please before you go tell us your own honest story |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by VCodes: 11:07am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Lovethaa: |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Ecosystem4u: 11:08am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Acidosis:Say it out loud, preach it. Let's put these simps on the straight path. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Nobody: 11:09am On Apr 13, 2021 |
kemjoe:Her case is worse than prostitution Bro she's damaged She need medical attention |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by wirinet(m): 11:11am On Apr 13, 2021 |
BLOODYSPERM:This Harlot is far better than you. She is probably in her mid 20s and have achieved more than you in your late or early 30s. this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC HolderShe already has an MSc and is working, while you are still struggling with common BSc and still jobless. I doubt you could ever date a girl of such standard. Religious farcade gives you guys false sense of importance. Most religious fundamentalists ( US conservatives and Islamic fundamentalists included) are failures in life. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by antoniobaresi(m): 11:13am On Apr 13, 2021 |
This is very unfair of you!! A lady opens up to you, especially putting into consideration that she doesn't have any needs that she anything from you asides the fact that she likes you.....what if she kept quiet till you probably got married She has had abortions, so Does that affect how she would make a good partner and home builder ? Sometimes men are the cause of some of the dishonesty women give to us, because some people don't like the truth. You are being unfair to the lady, I think you should be happy she opened up to you. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by wirinet(m): 11:14am On Apr 13, 2021 |
BLOODYSPERM:No psychiatrists will read your posts without recommending admittance into a mental facility. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Ecosystem4u: 11:15am On Apr 13, 2021 |
DonFreshmoney:I won't stop appreciating this your input, let orientate these simps, that's all that matter. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Nobody: 11:15am On Apr 13, 2021 |
wirinet:For fvck sake, she was molested, jeez |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by kushme: 11:18am On Apr 13, 2021 |
1Sharon:Why? |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by wirinet(m): 11:23am On Apr 13, 2021*. Modified: 8:40am On Apr 14, 2021 |
antoniobaresi:You don't know Nigerians. They love deceit, lies, dishonesty and hypocrisy. That's why pastors scam them of their money. Most of those bible carrying sisters have had more than 10 abortions, but they would claim virgin. If the girl had not told the guy she has had abortions, how will the guy know? If she claimed (she never had sex before but was raped and thus lost her virginity), the guy cannot dispute the claim, as toto no get meter. The guy would have never known and live blissfully in his ignorance. This guy does not deserve the lady. He better go to his church choir to pick a bride. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Ecosystem4u: 11:24am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Xandelle:Thanks on the poster's behalf. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Midas01: 11:25am On Apr 13, 2021 |
You're a gold digger. You just said you would've also lived to marry her since she's from a rich home. You're a gold digger. Lovethaa: |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by wirinet(m): 11:26am On Apr 13, 2021 |
BLOODYSPERM:The fact that she opened up to being raped and sexually abused at a very early, and that she was still able to complete her MSc shows she had healed and move on. Most ladies would be scarred for life and would end up a psychological mess. |
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She has had abortions, so