Emperor88:
Things I learnt are :-
1.You are a Gold digger
2.The lady deserves someone better
3.You lack respect towards the opposite sex.
4.You don't deserve a good woman.
Ask me why then I will tell you.

OgbeniSamm:



What are friends for ?

Kingcalls:


Abortions and number of sexual partners must concern a man just like money concerns a woman

BLOODYSPERM:



She's a damaged slut who needs medical intervention

Freemasonry:

And you’re a misguided, judgemental buffoon with bloody, smelly, sterile sperm.
You need more help than she does.

BiggyB242:


If na so them dey collect destiny our politician suppose don poor by now, because their promiscuity na on a steady basics. Only poor man they catch witch upandan.

JeffSiberstein:


How e take affect you, if you love person their past does not concern you, it only does when it's affecting your current relationship. If due to the abortions you guys are finding it difficult to conceive or you notice she has other sexual relationship with others or still keep in touch with her exes apart from those bros e nor concern you. The pussy is always new to the newcomer.

All of una wey dey complain about girls and money are really babies. You want your girl to look like craze they follow you about town, make her know how you feel about your role in the financial obligations of the relationship, make plans together and stick to it, encourage her to hustle(not with her body or you die Young) if she can't reason with you run for your life, "LOVE WORKS TO BRING MONEY....MONEY DOESN'T BUY LOVE...SO KNOW WHAT YOU SOW WHILE SEEKING FOR LOVE.

Kingcalls:


Love u say....u are a novice ....or new in the game... when reality sets in, love will japa

deni2002:


That's the sad part. The women always bear the brunt of it all... I tire o. The world is twisted sha...

The men are allowed to *taste* several women and no one bothers but lerrit be the woman now, everybody shall arise and condemn her...

Baba God, personally you know I told you I dinno want to be a gal...

Lovethaa:



Lol. ... I'm no gold digging ... I'm from a wealthy family and apart from my own personal money I have inheritances ad a firstborn ... but I have decided not to marry from a broke family ........


yes I can't deal with such silly history... that is why u should be careful with every silly thing you do

Kingcalls:


The same way the world dont really care if a woman is financially independent.... if Linda ikeji were a man, she wud hv been married a long time ago... but if a man is broke, he should just forget about marriage cos no woman will take him seriously, best is one woman will manage him and still treat him like trash.... men know this already and thats y we hustle hard...but women have failed to understand that they are validated by number of past sexual partners ... a very rich man will rather marry a broke virgin than to marry a rich hoe...as Ned Nwoko

litaninja:
Well, you have a point. But, you get my point.

Kingcalls:


The same way the world dont really care if a woman is financially independent.... if Linda ikeji were a man, she wud hv been married a long time ago... but if a man is broke, he should just forget about marriage cos no woman will take him seriously, best is one woman will manage him and still treat him like trash.... men know this already and thats y we hustle hard...but women have failed to understand that they are validated by number of past sexual partners ... a very rich man will rather marry a broke virgin than to marry a rich hoe...as Ned Nwoko

wirinet:


Will you marry a virgin? If yes, then you have a point. But if the girl you will marry in the future turn out not to be a virgin, how will you determine how many guys have drilled the hole before you, and how will you determine how many abortions she has had?

Wittyglam:
Are you judging her for opening up to you? Or it's her fault she got molested at a younger age. She came clean to you which is very rare and you will judge her with that? Bro you don't deserve her at all.

If you're a parent, aunty, uncle, brother check this out and educate others.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3e4MnDUWF8Q

TundeChris:

She doesn’t deserve him. She needs to stay with the man she gave her womb to 4 times. Everyone has had issues before as an adult you are responsible for your choices.

Aderr:
Op, if you love yourself and if this story is true---- run far and fast from that woman. She is damaged. She would destroy you eventually and wonder why you can't take her rubbish in your stride. One of the laws in 48 laws of power says something about avoiding the sad and damaged. Can't remember which one.

Magnoliaa:


Frien- what?

Wittyglam:
You don't know the damages the uncle who started sleeping with her at age 8 has cause her. She came out clean to him, does that not count for something? This is how you help a person and this is how you know someone that is willing tlive a better life. I'm sad

OgbeniSamm:



Your sense of humour is super �

TundeChris:

Well she should get a therapist not look for a relationship. Damaged/hurt people hurt people.... I’m not saying he should mistreat her but he shouldn’t invest in a love relationship with her, friendship would d

What if she has a damaged womb? So he is supposed to be childless for a decision she made as a adult? Abortions also don’t leave women the same emotionaly. She needs therapy not another boyfriend.

AmazonTopaz:

You truly made sense.

The OP lies though he has been caught many times so this is a made up story

BLOODYSPERM:



She's a slut who needs medical intervention ASAP not a man, except that man is stupid and ready for problem

TundeChris:

Well she should get a therapist not look for a relationship. Damaged/hurt people hurt people.... I’m not saying he should mistreat her but he shouldn’t invest in a love relationship with her, friendship would d

What if she has a damaged womb? So he is supposed to be childless for a decision she made as a adult? Abortions also don’t leave women the same emotionaly. She needs therapy not another boyfriend.

PeachtreeReside:




What if she doesn't ?


What if it's the holy guy shooting blanks or with low seif esteem?

Wittyglam:
How many people in Nigeria go for therapy? She could have hide all this from him but she didn't, they can go the hospital. For someone that is damageyto open up to you is the first step to healing and the person's willingness to move on.

TundeChris:


Well can you tell your son or baby brother to marry a girl who has had 4 abortions for a man? Blanks or no blanks, she has been reckless and actions have consequences.

It is low self esteem that would make a man accept a woman like that. A high value man would not accept that. It's about having standards, Sis. You dont give your womb to a guy 4 times. 4 good times to a man who isnt married to you, Cmon.