| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Xandelle: 10:05am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:
Get the fuçk out of here. I don't give a damn about your background. Las' las', you're simply immature and delusional  , looking for relevance online, trolling and forming hard guy with standards.
You're very small, swrs, and you're not worth my time at all even. Maturity is when you will marry a used up girl. Oshee 2 Likes |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Gloriouspa(m): 10:08am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Lovethaa:
She claimed she's telling me all this because she loves me and wants to be honest with me .
But hearing all that I was weak.. this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder , [b]unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus [/b]but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that .. It shows you didn't love her from the onset and you are still not yet mature to get married, all you wanted is her parent's wealth and her personal status and connection. Having told you all her past, what was your response and what did you tell her about your own past. You didn't tell us here anything about your own past. Are you a saint? I think it is better you let her go because you didn't love her in anyway. All you wanted is s*x from her. I pitied people like because at the end you might not be able to find a faithful lady at the end. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by godliman: 10:09am On Apr 13, 2021 |
I Magnoliaa:
I don't believe this story, but I like that kinda babe. And I wish she'd kick your gold-digging ass to the curb if it was true.
Yeah, right. We should keep our sexual histories to ourselves and then you get mad about the deception?? So if she lied she was a virgin, that's better? And what's to stop a woman from doing anything she wants? Pretty face? Like, I don't understand what the deal is, like it's new.
"You don't know the shitty things women do behind..." Pelee. Discoverer of the century.
If you can't deal with any lady's history, vamoose and move on. C'est fini. The shitty past are not laurels to be proud of they are scares for life. To the young man in question, if you have indulge in premarital sex in the past you are a hypocrite to judge her. Your types created her type. If there are no hegoats there won't be harlots. If you were a virgin I can understand with you, but if you are not, you are not an ounce better. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by PeachtreeReside(f): 10:11am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Lovethaa:
Have been friends with a babe at my workplace and from her frequent visit to my office plus the way she calls me to check on me . you could easily tell that she likes me .
One thing led to another and we ended up kissing , after the kiss I told her to tell me about her past relationships plus her sexual life .
She opened up to me that she was introduced to sex at 8years old by one neighbor uncle ,
she told me how the uncle take her to his room and ask her to play with his Prick and sometimes would make her suck it ,she claim she couldn't tell her mom because she will beat her mercilessly
She said she officially started having sex at 10 ,she disclosed that she had done 4 abortions so far although the abortions were for the same guy . mind you she is just 24 years old
She claimed she's telling me all this because she loves me and wants to be honest with me .
But hearing all that I was weak.. this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder , unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that ..
Ladies are doing shit behind forget all that pretty gentle face.. if I was to judge with the face I could have bet with my life that this babe was a virgin or atleast not that experienced in sex ...
and pls ladies if you have such dirty past ,I think u should keep it to yourself...
I'm just lost for words , wish I could unhear everything Awww, Eyah! You don't love her at all. Her family connections are what you were hoping to capitalize on. Are you a virgin though? She was molested at a tender age which isn't her fault. Having an abortion or having it for the same guy , which is a problem for you? We like our men virgins or inexperienced but with skills. You do not see us complaining do you? Ladies, before you burst your speakers and spill your life history, be sure of the man's emotional intelligence and maturity. Poster, please let her be . Tell her lies so she would forget you. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Dupsierae: 10:13am On Apr 13, 2021 |
If you really love her,you are supposed to take up that case..make sure that beast is detained..fight for her..moreover it’s a past |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Xandelle: 10:14am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Lovethaa:
Thank you for understanding... I like her honesty but the secrets was just too much to handle ... but I'll handle it like a man... although I'm not sure we might get married Guy never and I repeat never you ever marry that girl. Forget the bashing and shaming you're getting here.. Check the time you posted. People who would give you reasonable advice based on reality are not very active at that time. Most of these females won't want their brothers to marry such a girl that they are shaming you for. Moreover feminism in Nigeria has a group financially sponsored. Forget wokeism... You owe your children the right to have thee best mom. 7 Likes |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Nobody: 10:14am On Apr 13, 2021 |
PeachtreeReside:
Awww, Eyah!
You don't love her at all.
Her family connections are what you were hoping to capitalize on.
Are you a virgin though?
She was molested at a tender age which isn't her fault.
Having an abortion or having it for the same guy , which is a problem for you?
We like our men virgins or inexperienced but with skills. You do not see us complaining do you?
Ladies, before you burst your speakers and spill your life history, be sure of the man's emotional intelligence and maturity.
Poster, please let her be . Tell her lies so she would forget you. She's a slut who needs medical intervention ASAP not a man, except that man is stupid and ready for problem 6 Likes |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by ImaIma1(f): 10:17am On Apr 13, 2021 |
ibkonekt:
It would have been better if she did not sleep around in her past like a worthless wh0re in the name of freedom feminism and my body my choice. That way you wont have to lie or be economical with the truth. But ladies want to have their cake and eat it too. Men are disgusted by high body count. It signifies impulsiveness stupidity and lack of ability to discern the lies of society and feminism. No matter the amount of commercial and indoctrination that media tries to push about accepting wh0res as wives, men of value will not do so. They belong to the street I would have agreed with you a bit. But we are talking about a girl that was introduced to sex at a tender age when she should have been occupied with being a child. That kind of experience can break and destroy someone. Her sexual orientation was obviously distorted and played on her later. Recently, a 15 year old family friend came to me and told me how her aunty's husband was touching her body inappropriately. She was living with them. I was caught between telling the aunty or her mum. I eventually told her mum which really broke her. But I didn't want her to stay in that house longer. That touching was already traumatic, even for me. Imagine her being introduced to sex by a 60 year old man that's supposed to look after her. How do you think she will turn out? When someone, guy or girl speaks up about a traumatic experience that affected the course of their lives, it is not cool to judge them with it. 1 Like |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Nobody: 10:18am On Apr 13, 2021 |
ImaIma1:
I would have agreed with you a bit. But we are talking about a girl that was introduced to sex at a tender age when she should have been occupied with being a child.
That kind of experience can break and destroy someone. Her sexual orientation was obviously distorted and played on her later.
Recently, a 15 year old family friend came to me and told me how her aunty's husband was touching her body inappropriately. She was living with them. I was caught between telling the aunty or her mum.
I eventually told her mum which really broke her. But I didn't want her to stay in that house longer. That touching was already traumatic, even for me. Imagine her being introduced to sex by a 60 year old man that's supposed to look after her. How do you think she will turn out?
When someone, guy or girl speaks up about a traumatic experience that affected the course of their lives, it is not cool to judge them with it. She needs medical intervention not a Man 1 Like |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Advancedman(m): 10:23am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Lovethaa:
Have been friends with a babe at my workplace and from her frequent visit to my office plus the way she calls me to check on me . you could easily tell that she likes me .
One thing led to another and we ended up kissing , after the kiss I told her to tell me about her past relationships plus her sexual life .
She opened up to me that she was introduced to sex at 8years old by one neighbor uncle ,
she told me how the uncle take her to his room and ask her to play with his Prick and sometimes would make her suck it ,she claim she couldn't tell her mom because she will beat her mercilessly
She said she officially started having sex at 10 ,she disclosed that she had done 4 abortions so far although the abortions were for the same guy . mind you she is just 24 years old
She claimed she's telling me all this because she loves me and wants to be honest with me .
But hearing all that I was weak.. this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder , unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that ..
Ladies are doing shit behind forget all that pretty gentle face.. if I was to judge with the face I could have bet with my life that this babe was a virgin or atleast not that experienced in sex ...
and pls ladies if you have such dirty past ,I think u should keep it to yourself...
I'm just lost for words , wish I could unhear everything You are not serious. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by ibkonekt(m): 10:26am On Apr 13, 2021 |
ImaIma1:
I would have agreed with you a bit. But we are talking about a girl that was introduced to sex at a tender age when she should have been occupied with being a child. That kind of experience can break and destroy someone. Her sexual orientation was obviously distorted and played on her later.
Understood however recall that the girl had 4 abortions. You cannot use childhood trauma to explain way all responsibilities of peoples actions. There must be accountability at some point in people’s action and choices. For a lady to do 4 abortions means she was grown enough to go to a medical personnel that does such acts. There is also failure from the parenting, it is their duty to protect their ward, no matter the circumstances. They failed in that. Let me give you an example a suicide bomber that believes it is okay to kill others to receive rewards in heaven will at some point question himself if his actions are truly just, or if his family or loved one are to be killed he would panic, showing that instinctively he knows that the act of killing is bad. Its just that they believe that their reason was just. She would have know at some point that acting sexually in that way was bad but maybe no courage or she enjoyed it. Recently, a 15 year old family friend came to me and told me how her aunty's husband was touching her body inappropriately. She was living with them. I was caught between telling the aunty or her mum.
I eventually told her mum which really broke her. But I didn't want her to stay in that house longer. That touching was already traumatic, even for me. Imagine her being introduced to sex by a 60 year old man that's supposed to look after her. How do you think she will turn out?
When someone, guy or girl speaks up about a traumatic experience that affected the course of their lives, it is not cool to judge them with it. The girl came to “tell” you, which means her instincts knew something was wrong and she made a move to correct it somehow. How can a lady have 4 abortions, why didn’t she tell her parents like this child did to you. I understand fear, trauma and manipulations exist but at what point do we say this person needs to be held accountable for this (it is already established that the man is useless and should be dealt with). However, we are responsible for our actions at some point. We all have teachings given to us from childhood but if we feel it’s not up to par we have the choice to question them. What you say does happen and it does seem like it may have some element in this story, but I also see someone that was enjoying all the pleasures of sleeping around and doing abortions because in her mind society does not condemn as it did in the past. 1 Like |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Oloristarr(f): 10:30am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Drop her number or social media account let us counsel her or beg god to erase her past Lovethaa:
Have been friends with a babe at my workplace and from her frequent visit to my office plus the way she calls me to check on me . you could easily tell that she likes me .
One thing led to another and we ended up kissing , after the kiss I told her to tell me about her past relationships plus her sexual life .
She opened up to me that she was introduced to sex at 8years old by one neighbor uncle ,
she told me how the uncle take her to his room and ask her to play with his Prick and sometimes would make her suck it ,she claim she couldn't tell her mom because she will beat her mercilessly
She said she officially started having sex at 10 ,she disclosed that she had done 4 abortions so far although the abortions were for the same guy . mind you she is just 24 years old
She claimed she's telling me all this because she loves me and wants to be honest with me .
But hearing all that I was weak.. this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder , unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that ..
Ladies are doing shit behind forget all that pretty gentle face.. if I was to judge with the face I could have bet with my life that this babe was a virgin or atleast not that experienced in sex ...
and pls ladies if you have such dirty past ,I think u should keep it to yourself...
I'm just lost for words , wish I could unhear everything |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by tiswell(m): 10:33am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:
Get the fuçk out of here. I don't give a damn about your background. Las' las', you're simply immature and delusional , looking for relevance online, trolling and forming hard guy with standards.
You're very small, swrs, and you're not worth my time at all even. you sound more personal and pained than the lady in context. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by karkinase(m): 10:35am On Apr 13, 2021 |
KBdownloads:
The amount of simps on this thread is horrifying...If you're looking to settle down with a lady her sexual past matters alot Too horrifying...subconsciously the msg passed across by this simps to ladies is do whatever you like wen it's time to settle down, open up and ur sins will be washed away  3 Likes |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by OgbeniSamm(m): 10:35am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Magnoliaa:
Buy me diamond shoes and emerald-encrusted bags and I won't be hangry again. I just spoke to the dealer now, he asked me to check back next week, so be patient till then  |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Jacksparrow7(m): 10:37am On Apr 13, 2021 |
My own is If you don have sex once, look for woman who have had sex once.
If you don have sex twice, look for woman who have had sex twice.
If na 3 times u had sex, look for someone who had sex 3 times.
Don't look at someone's education, but lifestyles |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by kemjoe: 10:41am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Guy, you are not been fair to her. She spilled everything because of the love she has for you. It is very rare for you to see a woman who will tell all even at gun point. There are so many other girls that have done worse and are going to do more. What makes you think that if you leave this one for those that did not tell you that all will be well with you. If this girl has passed all the other tests of what you expect from a wife-to-be, I would advice you give her a chance and not hold her story against her especially when she is willing not to go back to that her uncle or such immoral life. Some men have ended up marrying former prostitutes and they are happily married while some have divorced seemingly saints haven found out that they were not who they make people believe they were. Lovethaa:
Have been friends with a babe at my workplace and from her frequent visit to my office plus the way she calls me to check on me . you could easily tell that she likes me .
One thing led to another and we ended up kissing , after the kiss I told her to tell me about her past relationships plus her sexual life .
She opened up to me that she was introduced to sex at 8years old by one neighbor uncle ,
she told me how the uncle take her to his room and ask her to play with his Prick and sometimes would make her suck it ,she claim she couldn't tell her mom because she will beat her mercilessly
She said she officially started having sex at 10 ,she disclosed that she had done 4 abortions so far although the abortions were for the same guy . mind you she is just 24 years old
She claimed she's telling me all this because she loves me and wants to be honest with me .
But hearing all that I was weak.. this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder , unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that ..
Ladies are doing shit behind forget all that pretty gentle face.. if I was to judge with the face I could have bet with my life that this babe was a virgin or atleast not that experienced in sex ...
and pls ladies if you have such dirty past ,I think u should keep it to yourself...
I'm just lost for words , wish I could unhear everything |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by biggy26: 11:01am On Apr 13, 2021 |
donbachi:
Dis is why alot of girls,will rather die with their secrets than spew them out...una dey use am against dem. And they forget that it was a guy that slept with her and made her commit abortions. Yet that same guy will want to marry a virgin. Well, like they say, it's a man's world. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by captainjoh(m): 11:01am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Your lost interest, move its OK.
But please before you go tell us your own honest story 1 Like |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by VCodes: 11:07am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Lovethaa:
Wait chill why did u post this write-up in the first place... To seek advice or what?? Coz ur just bashing everybody that has contributed one or two to ur trailer load of nonesense and ingredients..
Nairaland sef na baby full everywhere.
Lol. ... I'm no gold digging ... I'm from a wealthy family and apart from my own personal money I have inheritances ad a firstborn ... but I have decided not to marry from a broke family ........
yes I can't deal with such silly history... that is why u should be careful with every silly thing you do |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Ecosystem4u: 11:08am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Acidosis:
Don't you think you're doing too much by trying to dictate who a man should settle with?
The thought of sleeping around without protection is a NO for some. I don't care whether the sex led to pregnancy or not. If you can open your legs and allow another person exchange his fluids with yours (not once, twice) in this age of hepatitis and hiv, you can NEVER be mine. That's a careless individual who does not value her life.
That's a principle many have adopted. Please don't come back with that bull-crap of knowing your unmarried partner's hiv status. It's all lies, nobody ever requests for lab results when the tensions are as high as the rooftop. Say it out loud, preach it. Let's put these simps on the straight path. 1 Like |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Nobody: 11:09am On Apr 13, 2021 |
kemjoe:
Guy, you are not been fair to her. She spilled everything because of the love she has for you. It is very rare for you to see a woman who will tell all even at gun point.
There are so many other girls that have done worse and are going to do more. What makes you think that if you leave this one for those that did not tell you that all will be well with you.
If this girl has passed all the other tests of what you expect from a wife-to-be, I would advice you give her a chance and not hold her story against her especially when she is willing not to go back to that her uncle or such immoral life.
Some men have ended up marrying former prostitutes and they are happily married while some have divorced seemingly saints haven found out that they were not who they make people believe they were.
Her case is worse than prostitution Bro she's damaged She need medical attention 1 Like |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by wirinet(m): 11:11am On Apr 13, 2021 |
BLOODYSPERM:
Harlotts will always be Harlotts
No liberal policy legalizing abortion will change these immutable fact
These is evergreen through out history
Once a used Hoe always a used Hoe
I spit on the stupid Simp and weak beta who would depreciate himself and accept a slut who has aborted , that Simp is under a strong curse
This Harlot is far better than you. She is probably in her mid 20s and have achieved more than you in your late or early 30s.
this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder
She already has an MSc and is working, while you are still struggling with common BSc and still jobless. I doubt you could ever date a girl of such standard. Religious farcade gives you guys false sense of importance. Most religious fundamentalists ( US conservatives and Islamic fundamentalists included) are failures in life. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by antoniobaresi(m): 11:13am On Apr 13, 2021 |
This is very unfair of you!! A lady opens up to you, especially putting into consideration that she doesn't have any needs that she anything from you asides the fact that she likes you.....what if she kept quiet till you probably got married  She has had abortions, so Does that affect how she would make a good partner and home builder ? Sometimes men are the cause of some of the dishonesty women give to us, because some people don't like the truth. You are being unfair to the lady, I think you should be happy she opened up to you. 1 Like |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by wirinet(m): 11:14am On Apr 13, 2021 |
BLOODYSPERM:
Her case is worse than prostitution
Bro she's damaged
She need medical attention
No psychiatrists will read your posts without recommending admittance into a mental facility. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Ecosystem4u: 11:15am On Apr 13, 2021 |
DonFreshmoney:
Nairaland these days is very horrifying to say the least. The amount of SIMPS brewing up in here is a cause for concern... it seems out of 200 guys in here, 165 are SIMPS and BETA men..
Before settling down with a person, its neccessary and very important to know the past of your partner, same way you do medical test and ascertain the genotype, let's not decieve ourself.
Let me tell you my story, I met a babe in a fashion school in Abuja in 2019, all set, pretty with a great body. I love this babe and would have asked her out, but when I saw her tattoos on her thigh and breast, I became doubtful about the lady character and past, but some people might say tattoos are nothing.. anyway, one time we were chatting and she got to tell me about how she got pregnant for her ex in school and had a miscarriage, her sexual relationship with a guy in that fashion school and how she loves sex a lot and have tripplemultiple body counts, and she is just 22. She wanted us to marry and told me she would change and all that, I decided to ghost her for a month and do some silent research, only for me to find out she has an active onlyfans account, rebelyus account where she post nudes and sex activities for people to subscribe, and even saw her account on codedruns website.. from that moment I dissapeared with the speed of light..
Imagine I married someone like that who had that last and lied to me she would change, when she is an active sexmaniac. In Summary, ladies that have last multiple sexual partners or were harloting in the past hardly change. Infact, they might pretend to change but in the future would return to their ways especially as they've known and tasted different dick sizes their whole life. I won't stop appreciating this your input, let orientate these simps, that's all that matter. 1 Like |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Nobody: 11:15am On Apr 13, 2021 |
wirinet:
No psychiatrists will read your posts without recommending admittance into a mental facility.
For fvck sake, she was molested, jeez |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by kushme: 11:18am On Apr 13, 2021 |
1Sharon:
You fvcked up. Never open up about your weaknesses to a woman. Why? |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by wirinet(m): 11:23am On Apr 13, 2021 |
antoniobaresi:
This is very unfair of you!! A lady opens up to you, especially putting into consideration that she doesn't have any needs that she anything from you asides the fact that she likes you.....what if she kept quiet till you probably got married She has had abortions, so Does that affect how she would make a good partner and home builder? Sometimes men are the cause of some of the dishonesty women give to us, because some people don't like the truth. You are being unfair to the lady, I think you should be happy she opened up to you. You don't know Nigerians. They love deceit, lies, dishonesty and hypocrisy. That's why pastors scam them of their money. Most of those bible carrying sisters have had more than 10 abortions, but they would claim virgin. If the girl had not told the guy she has had abortions, how will the guy know? If she claimed (she never had sex before but was raped and thus lost her virginity), the guy cannot dispute the claim, as toto no get meter. The guy would have never known and live blissfully in his ignorance. This guy does not deserve the lady. He better go to his church choir to pick a bride. |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Ecosystem4u: 11:24am On Apr 13, 2021 |
Xandelle:
Guy never and I repeat never you ever marry that girl. Forget the bashing and shaming you're getting here.. Check the time you posted. People who would give you reasonable advice based on reality are not very active at that time. Most of these females won't want their brothers to marry such a girl that they are shaming you for. Moreover feminism in Nigeria has a group financially sponsored. Forget wokeism... You owe your children the right to have thee best mom. Thanks on the poster's behalf. 2 Likes |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Midas01: 11:25am On Apr 13, 2021 |
You're a gold digger. You just said you would've also lived to marry her since she's from a rich home. You're a gold digger. Lovethaa:
Lol. ... I'm no gold digging ... I'm from a wealthy family and apart from my own personal money I have inheritances ad a firstborn ... but I have decided not to marry from a broke family ........
yes I can't deal with such silly history... that is why u should be careful with every silly thing you do |
| Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by wirinet(m): 11:26am On Apr 13, 2021 |
BLOODYSPERM:
For fvck sake, she was molested, jeez The fact that she opened up to being raped and sexually abused at a very early, and that she was still able to complete her MSc shows she had healed and move on. Most ladies would be scarred for life and would end up a psychological mess. |
