jaxxy:
What U described is not a Rlationship it is a business arrangement or even a Scam. More like an escort service. Money for company/companionship or relationship... I can’t call that a relationship and it never feels like a relationship nor does it have the characteristics of a real relationship.

A real relationship is built on the right yardsticks, and values after knowing each other that translates or transforms into love or Smtn close.

GoodFaith:
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Sorry to tell you
Marriage (relationship) is a Business arrangement
All you need to do is to do your best to protect U why still loving her

saphiere:
What did I do?

NaijaMutant:
Greetings y'all,

Just making my debut in the romance section.

Why relationship is a scam.

Human beings are selfish by nature and everyone is only looking out for himself/herself. This is an undeniable fact. This fact also applies to relationships.

He is rich and she's beautiful; he wants a beautiful lady to match his wealth while she wants a rich guy to complement her beauty. Both of them reach a compromise to enter into a relationship since their selfish interest has been met.

When you also consider other various qualities such as Intelligence, education, complexion, character, height, sense of humor amongst other biases that shapes our selfish interest; both parties reach a compromise when their interest is met.

Both parties profess love and a relationship is established which is usually expected to lead to marriage. This is usually the case of some beautiful marriages around us.

Things usually fall apart the moment a partner meets another person who is higher in the scale of preference to satisfy his/her interest.

Then, the losing party feels cheated, betrayed and eventually turns into a feminist or misogynist.

We usually pretend our relationships are born out of true love forgetting that true love is not usually conditional or selfish.

If you have this understanding, you'll no longer kill yourself when your partner finds a better partner that will fulfill his/her dreams (selfish interest)

Know this and know peace.

P.S: This narrative does not negate the existence of true love which accounts for less than 5% of marriages today.

jaxxy:


That is ur misguided assumption and ideology. It’s way more than that and abit more deeper bt many people just marry for marrying sake or because others are getting married or age reasons. They marry strangers and cohabit and make babies and call it marriage. U are still single.

nigeriagospel:
You're wise OP, nothing like love, selfish interest is the order of the day.

If it's does not favour us, we don't love it.

NaijaMutant:
Greetings y'all,

Just making my debut in the romance section.

Why relationship is a scam.

Human beings are selfish by nature and everyone is only looking out for himself/herself. This is an undeniable fact. This fact also applies to relationships.

He is rich and she's beautiful; he wants a beautiful lady to match his wealth while she wants a rich guy to complement her beauty. Both of them reach a compromise to enter into a relationship since their selfish interest has been met.

When you also consider other various qualities such as Intelligence, education, complexion, character, height, sense of humor amongst other biases that shapes our selfish interest; both parties reach a compromise when their interest is met.

Both parties profess love and a relationship is established which is usually expected to lead to marriage. This is usually the case of some beautiful marriages around us.

Things usually fall apart the moment a partner meets another person who is higher in the scale of preference to satisfy his/her interest.

Then, the losing party feels cheated, betrayed and eventually turns into a feminist or misogynist.

We usually pretend our relationships are born out of true love forgetting that true love is not usually conditional or selfish.

If you have this understanding, you'll no longer kill yourself when your partner finds a better partner that will fulfill his/her dreams (selfish interest)

Know this and know peace.

P.S: This narrative does not negate the existence of true love which accounts for less than 5% of marriages today.

GoodFaith:


LOL
Deeper with all the BS in the world
Best of luck
Find out the hard way
Facts and reality is NO "That is ur misguided assumption and ideology."
Go out there and find love the world is crazy and protect you

NaijaMutant:
Greetings y'all,

Just making my debut in the romance section.

Why relationship is a scam.

Human beings are selfish by nature and everyone is only looking out for himself/herself. This is an undeniable fact. This fact also applies to relationships.

He is rich and she's beautiful; he wants a beautiful lady to match his wealth while she wants a rich guy to complement her beauty. Both of them reach a compromise to enter into a relationship since their selfish interest has been met.

When you also consider other various qualities such as Intelligence, education, complexion, character, height, sense of humor amongst other biases that shapes our selfish interest; both parties reach a compromise when their interest is met.

Both parties profess love and a relationship is established which is usually expected to lead to marriage. This is usually the case of some beautiful marriages around us.

Things usually fall apart the moment a partner meets another person who is higher in the scale of preference to satisfy his/her interest.

Then, the losing party feels cheated, betrayed and eventually turns into a feminist or misogynist.

We usually pretend our relationships are born out of true love forgetting that true love is not usually conditional or selfish.

If you have this understanding, you'll no longer kill yourself when your partner finds a better partner that will fulfill his/her dreams (selfish interest)

Know this and know peace.

P.S: This narrative does not negate the existence of true love which accounts for less than 5% of marriages today.

prince2pac:
I don't even know what relationship feels like.. life killed my emotions and I don't really know how to show love... no sexual feelings... just live my life tryna be happy, make everyone around happy...

maybe one day I will have to experience it

jaxxy:


And u think theres anything new under the sun? Unless u don’t know what time it is. Love and games and scams have always existed from the beginning of time. Same thing different actors.

GoodFaith:


Like tell people
Lot of games don't change the players change

NaijaMutant:
[s]Greetings y'all,

Just making my debut in the romance section.

Why relationship is a scam.

Human beings are selfish by nature and everyone is only looking out for himself/herself. This is an undeniable fact. This fact also applies to relationships.

He is rich and she's beautiful; he wants a beautiful lady to match his wealth while she wants a rich guy to complement her beauty. Both of them reach a compromise to enter into a relationship since their selfish interest has been met.

When you also consider other various qualities such as Intelligence, education, complexion, character, height, sense of humor amongst other biases that shapes our selfish interest; both parties reach a compromise when their interest is met.

Both parties profess love and a relationship is established which is usually expected to lead to marriage. This is usually the case of some beautiful marriages around us.

Things usually fall apart the moment a partner meets another person who is higher in the scale of preference to satisfy his/her interest.

Then, the losing party feels cheated, betrayed and eventually turns into a feminist or misogynist.

We usually pretend our relationships are born out of true love forgetting that true love is not usually conditional or selfish.

If you have this understanding, you'll no longer kill yourself when your partner finds a better partner that will fulfill his/her dreams (selfish interest)

Know this and know peace.

P.S: This narrative does not negate the existence of true love which accounts for less than 5% of marriages today[/s].

jaxxy:


Exactly that’s why I said.

Love exists
Games exists
And scams exists.

They all exist.

U can pick or choose ur preferred meal. Lol

punisha:
this your talk self be somehow.

I dey broke when I marry my wife that year.

she is beautiful, Intelligent (I no sabi anything)

how many years later, her beauty is now pronounced and enhanced. she's also a career woman.

she married me in my wowo state.

Relationship no be always scam.

ps, whomever broke ur heart needs to be stoned.

walkingshadow911:



Only a career woman can be there for a man.
Any man dating a broke girl and jobless is only dating himself while the girl is only dating his pocket
it is what it is
thank your stars dude

walkingshadow911:



Only a career woman can be there for a man.
Any man dating a broke girl and jobless is only dating himself while the girl is only dating his pocket
it is what it is
thank your stars dude

Coolimage:
Wuna say wahala be like wetyn again?���

walkingshadow911:



Only a career woman can be there for a man.
Any man dating a broke girl and jobless is only dating himself while the girl is only dating his pocket
it is what it is
thank your stars dude

DEMZEE:


Women don't build, they just move in

Ishilove:

Well written crap