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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Gadsun39(m): 5:04am On Apr 14, 2021
Lovethaa:
Have been friends with a babe at my workplace and from her frequent visit to my office plus the way she calls me to check on me . you could easily tell that she likes me .

One thing led to another and we ended up kissing , after the kiss I told her to tell me about her past relationships plus her sexual life .

She opened up to me that she was introduced to sex at 8years old by one neighbor uncle ,
she told me how the uncle take her to his room and ask her to play with his Prick and sometimes would make her suck it ,she claim she couldn't tell her mom because she will beat her mercilessly

She said she officially started having sex at 10 ,she disclosed that she had done 4 abortions so far although the abortions were for the same guy . mind you she is just 24 years old

She claimed she's telling me all this because she loves me and wants to be honest with me .

But hearing all that I was weak.. this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder , unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that ..

Ladies are doing shit behind forget all that pretty gentle face.. if I was to judge with the face I could have bet with my life that this babe was a virgin or atleast not that experienced in sex ...


and pls ladies if you have such dirty past ,I think u should keep it to yourself...



I'm just lost for words , wish I could unhear everything

Marry her if you love her, we all have our pass and there is nothing wrong with her.
He that is without sin should cast the first stone, she was abused by a peodophile afterall and God will judge him
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by AwesomeStormy00(m): 5:19am On Apr 14, 2021
Lovethaa:

unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that ..

Oga don't marry her, you are not fit to marry her. Out of all what you said you didn't say I Love her, you only wants to marry her because she is educated and from a wealthy family. Too early to be saying what i think.

People with head has no cap and People with cap has no head. A girl love you open up to you and you are judging her it is well. You story is going to prevent other people from opening up to people they love. Cause average african men can't take it.
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by AwesomeStormy00(m): 5:22am On Apr 14, 2021
Emperor88:
Things I learnt are :-
1.You are a Gold digger
2.The lady deserves someone better
3.You lack respect towards the opposite sex.
4.You don't deserve a good woman.
Ask me why then I will tell you.

God bless you bro. I agree 100% with you bro spot on mate.

Finally someone can see what he is planning. Imagine op saying all that stuff nothing like i love her rather she is from a wealthy family msc holder.

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by AwesomeStormy00(m): 5:26am On Apr 14, 2021
wirinet:


You don't know Nigerians. They love deceit, lies, dishonesty and hypocrisy. That's why pastors scam them of their money. Most of those bible carrying sisters have had more than 10 abortions, but they would claim virgin. If the girl had not told the guy she has had abortions, how will the guy know? If she claimed (she never had sex before but was raped and thus lost her virginity), the guy cannot dispute the claim, as toto no get meter. The guy would have been ever known and live blissfully in his ignorance.

This guy does not deserve the lady. He better go to his church choir to pick a bride.

Thank you bro, comment like yours do show that tjere are real positive thinker on NL. caused most people here are judgemental. Naija people likes deceit.
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Lovethaa: 5:44am On Apr 14, 2021
AwesomeStormy00:


Oga don't marry her, you are not fit to marry her. Out of all what you said you didn't say I Love her, you only wants to marry her because she is educated and from a wealthy family. Too early to be saying what i think.

People with head has no cap and People with cap has no head. A girl love you open up to you and you are judging her it is well. You story is going to prevent other people from opening up to people they love. Cause average african men can't take it.


And you think women don't consider your financial status before choosing to marry too?? ...

How many ladies are ready to marry a broke man.?.. you don see anything wrong in that but a man like you decides he wants to marry from a wealthy home too.. you suddenly have a problem with that..



let me just stop here before I say something u will regret hearing

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Nobody: 8:56am On Apr 14, 2021
fairheart:
I can imagine how you feel. I am sorry!
This is a deep story. Goodness, a man who couldn't control himself just messed up the lady's childhood. cry

hello to you once again sir
Quick question please
If a visa interview date is booked already and one requests for an emergency date and it’s denied
Would he lose his initial booked date ?
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by adeboizy11(m): 9:18am On Apr 14, 2021
Bro, she opened up to you cos she feels safe and remorseful. You gotta love her wholeheartedly. Nobody holy pass. All of us have done despeakable things at one point or the other. Tho our misdeeds varies. Love is all bout loving truly despite.

BLOODYSPERM:




What foolish love, redeeming a damaged woman with problems, that's stupidity,she needs medical intervention
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by AwesomeStormy00(m): 9:54am On Apr 14, 2021
Lovethaa:


And you think women don't consider your financial status before choosing to marry too?? ...

How many ladies are ready to marry a broke man.?.. you don see anything wrong in that but a man like you decides he wants to marry from a wealthy home too.. you suddenly have a problem with that..

let me just stop here before I say something u will regret hearing

Omg say something i will regret hearing... WTF! you barely know me or my status. I dare you to say it unless you are not a man...

I am not a woman to answer your question if woman's consider your financial status or not. But while in uni i had nothing as international student living from hand to mouth relying on foodbanks my girlfriend stood by me she loves me now we are married more than a decade.

You are missing the point he said everything excerpt i love her, while is that mot a fake love. If you can let women play you then that shows your level of maturity Bros dont let poverty in that zoo of your country to cloud your reasoning

He wants to marry her cuz of her background. Go look for wealthy person to marry oga abi that is your own criterial? Se make i find you wealthy woman politicians pikin ni. #brokeguy grin
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by TundeChris: 10:22am On Apr 14, 2021
PeachtreeReside:




Lolz!

Naivete issa buzzkiller.

Why do you think women lie about their past?

Bro , to take this stance you must be a virgin and celibate.

Don't subject yourself to needless mental torture about a woman's sexual history especially if you are not a saint or a born again virgin.
Neither celebate nor a virgin. Neither am was I born yesterday. If you interact with people, you can judge their character to a good extent. For me, I don't care she is a Virgin or not, I am more concerned about her character. What mindset did she have when she was racking up them bodies. Has that changed? As a man or woman, you deserve to know to make a good decision on whether you have a future together. A girl who cheated on her ex's because she was bored will probably cheat on you. A girl who had a LovePeddler phase and is looking to settle down and is disciplined and trust worthy might be a better choice. It is about the mindset, it is about basic decency if she would be the mother of my kids.

NO man wants to marry a woman with an extensive list of men btw, especially a man who is going somewhere in life.

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Aderr: 10:59am On Apr 14, 2021
TundeChris:

Neither celebate nor a virgin. Neither am was I born yesterday. If you interact with people, you can judge their character to a good extent. For me, I don't care she is a Virgin or not, I am more concerned about her character. What mindset did she have when she was racking up them bodies. Has that changed? As a man or woman, you deserve to know to make a good decision on whether you have a future together. A girl who cheated on her ex's because she was bored will probably cheat on you. A girl who had a LovePeddler phase and is looking to settle down and is disciplined and trust worthy might be a better choice. It is about the mindset, it is about basic decency if she would be the mother of my kids.

NO man wants to marry a public toilet btw.
To buttress your point.. My friend got entangled with a girl at a difficult time in his life, a guy walked into his room while his girlfriend was with him. The strange guy spilled the beans about how he had been banging the hoe he called a girlfriend. How the girl had been taking money from my friend to come and Cook for him! All this with the girl right there and she couldn't deny. The girl left my friend.
So I encouraged him to go for this other girl at his workplace. They got talking and sleeping together. She told him how a neighbor slept with her at 8, how a colleague slept with her on a desk, this and that. He was happy she opened up. He had found a soulmate, someone to marry! grin
A year later, she broke his heart by leaving him for a man with two kids, a man she earlier claimed was a relative. grin

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Elsueno: 11:07am On Apr 14, 2021
litaninja:
Are you a virgin bro?

of course cool in body & soul
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by royalamour(m): 11:19am On Apr 14, 2021
Kebbiprince:

That's why I laugh when people insult older ladies, most ladies in their 30s are far purer than the so called Ladies in early 20s who have been damaged beyond repair

How is this even logical?
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by fairheart(m): 11:26am On Apr 14, 2021
Malone122:
hello to you once again sir
Quick question please
If a visa interview date is booked already and one requests for an emergency date and it’s denied
Would he lose his initial booked date ?
No, the initial date will remain and you can prepare for interview for it.
Emergency appointment is only approved if you request it when your program is starting within the next 60 days. So if you asked for emergency and it was denied, it is because you requested for it early.

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Kebbiprince: 11:29am On Apr 14, 2021
royalamour:


How is this even logical?
For only pure ladies in their 30s
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Elsueno: 11:31am On Apr 14, 2021
Kingcalls:


The same way the world dont really care if a woman is financially independent.... if Linda ikeji were a man, she wud hv been married a long time ago... but if a man is broke, he should just forget about marriage cos no woman will take him seriously, best is one woman will manage him and still treat him like trash.... men know this already and thats y we hustle hard...but women have failed to understand that they are validated by number of past sexual partners ... a very rich man will rather marry a broke virgin than to marry a rich hoe...ask Ned Nwoko

Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Tohsynetita1: 12:44pm On Apr 14, 2021
space booked
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by OgbeniSamm(m): 1:11pm On Apr 14, 2021
Magnoliaa:


Kikikiki. Warriz happuning tonight? Where are those people that read related events and tell future signs, sef, 'cos you're the second person telling me this this night. It should not be like something wants to happen oh.


Maybe money and banana 'bout to fall on you grin grin
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Nobody: 6:56pm On Apr 14, 2021
wirinet:


You seem to have a psychological hatred for women. Half of your posts are denigrating insults against women. I hope your had your mother's love and attention while growing up.



No I treat women with respect if they earn it no because of their genitals, I'm not a sexist misogynist bigot who has biases, prejudices and discrimination against women, I just don't subscribe to gender equality bullshit which I see as a mordern of slavery for men with female supremacist (radical misandrist) dominating the Society today via Feminism, I have a wonderful mother, I have lovely cousins and some female friends, I believe women should have freedom of choice and equality of opportunities but not expect equality of outcome which you leftist so crave to repatriate for our ancestors Patriachal past by giving Quota policies and affirmative actions to improve the well-being of women at the expense of men

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by olamide0147: 7:36pm On Apr 14, 2021
Lordbinsmar:
Nigerians will always celebrate mediocrity embarassed embarassed see how people are justifying someone who had 4 abortions at age 24. shocked shocked shocked

How on earth would you have 4 abortions at age 24 if you are not a prostitute.

Any body blaming the OP for not liking the girl again is wicked and evil. angry angry

Can you allow your male child to marry a lady with 4 different abortions?
Bro that one still small, I get one girl for my compound she already had 2 abortions with a period of 6 months and she's just 16
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Lordbinsmar: 8:03pm On Apr 14, 2021
olamide0147:

Bro that one still small, I get one girl for my compound she already had 2 abortions with a period of 6 months and she's just 16

Yeepaa e choke ooo shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked Omo Mosdii naa real G ooo.

Most Nigerian girls are useless only few of them are wifeable.

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by olamide0147: 9:05pm On Apr 14, 2021
Lordbinsmar:

Yeepaa e choke ooo shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked Omo Mosdii naa real G ooo.
Most Nigerian girls are useless only few of them are wifeable.
I swear bro City girls Don spoil even village girls na bad market
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Magnoliaa(f): 12:20am On Apr 15, 2021
OgbeniSamm:



Maybe money and banana 'bout to fall on you grin grin

Gimme the money and leave banana as I'm a woman and not a monkey, teinz.
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by BluntCrazeMan: 7:03am On Apr 15, 2021
Lovethaa:
Have been friends with a babe at my workplace and from her frequent visit to my office plus the way she calls me to check on me . you could easily tell that she likes me .

One thing led to another and we ended up kissing , after the kiss I told her to tell me about her past relationships plus her sexual life .

She opened up to me that she was introduced to sex at 8years old by one neighbor uncle ,
she told me how the uncle take her to his room and ask her to play with his Prick and sometimes would make her suck it ,she claim she couldn't tell her mom because she will beat her mercilessly

She said she officially started having sex at 10 ,she disclosed that she had done 4 abortions so far although the abortions were for the same guy . mind you she is just 24 years old

She claimed she's telling me all this because she loves me and wants to be honest with me .

But hearing all that I was weak.. this babe is from a wealthy family , she travels to yankee like someone going to a neighboring state plus she is an MSC Holder , unknown to her I have decided that I would marry her because she's educated and wealthy family is like a bonus but now she actually disgust me and I wish she didn't tell me all that ..

Ladies are doing shit behind forget all that pretty gentle face.. if I was to judge with the face I could have bet with my life that this babe was a virgin or atleast not that experienced in sex ...


and pls ladies if you have such dirty past ,I think u should keep it to yourself...



I'm just lost for words , wish I could unhear everything
SEE YOUR LIFE..!!

..
She kept her past to herself, and you went and asked for it.
Now you have gotten it, you are now issuing advices up-and-down.
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by BluntCrazeMan: 7:05am On Apr 15, 2021
gfon:
Swears man,really liked my best female friend to the point of considering marriage(didn't let her know though).Omo i weak wen i knew she had an abortion,can't marry her again, though we still fvck once in a while sha.
You will soon get her pregnant
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by gfon(m): 7:07am On Apr 15, 2021
BluntCrazeMan:
You will soon get her pregnant
lol, 'bluntcrazeman'?? Funny monicker you got
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by BluntCrazeMan: 7:11am On Apr 15, 2021
gfon:
lol, 'bluntcrazeman'?? Funny monicker you got
Thanks
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by BluntCrazeMan: 7:15am On Apr 15, 2021
I think this Lovethaa is a writer.
..
Check out his topics.
All are carefully crafted stories, with himself right there inside the story.
Not even someone else, but himself.

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Kingcalls: 7:45am On Apr 15, 2021
AwesomeStormy00:


Omg say something i will regret hearing... WTF! you barely know me or my status. I dare you to say it unless you are not a man...

I am not a woman to answer your question if woman's consider your financial status or not. But while in uni i had nothing as international student living from hand to mouth relying on foodbanks my girlfriend stood by me she loves me now we are married more than a decade.

You are missing the point he said everything excerpt i love her, while is that mot a fake love. If you can let women play you then that shows your level of maturity Bros dont let poverty in that zoo of your country to cloud your reasoning

He wants to marry her cuz of her background. Go look for wealthy person to marry oga abi that is your own criterial? Se make i find you wealthy woman politicians pikin ni. #brokeguy grin

U are a bonified simp ...ubare in a nation whr women are in charge thats y u are a simp... u are also broke and have a woman take care of u, u are a total simp...infact u have turned to a woman.... na ur type ur wife go de 4k other men but u will keep quiet for fear of deportation
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by AwesomeStormy00(m): 8:55am On Apr 15, 2021
Kingcalls:


U are a bonified simp ...ubare in a nation whr women are in charge thats y u are a simp... u are also broke and have a woman take care of u, u are a total simp...infact u have turned to a woman.... na ur type ur wife go de 4k other men but u will keep quiet for fear of deportation


Is this what you want to say that would make me regret hearing as @Lovethaa? And it took you a day to reply with another moniker... wow bros you are not a man but a mouse.

see bitterness flowing in your vein a nd in your country where men are in charge what have they done for you or to you? Gosh you need to get a life and stop letting envy bitterness jealousy cloud your thinking. I now agree that broke guy like you are prone to get angry easily.

With my degrees and qualifications i have been able to get a better job and life for myself just because am a member here doesnt mean i should be so low like you. If you can earn £750 a week as an I.T staffs for NHS come lets talk. I have my own house here built house for my parents in lagos all was through hard work. I am not daft broke like you.

Go read your bible ecc 12:1 i know God i high sch am bless with a wife that love me wholeheartedly. My wife is not messing about. Maybe you should look in the mirror you've fvck your destiny away now you are paying the price. Go for deliverance else you go die in poverty... people like you will be shouting here then send private dm beggin for ££

Fear of deportation with my British pali You are an hungry man and you are angry... go eat breakfast bros and get a life and work hard to sort out your life.

In a nation where women are in charge lol your president is here for treatment maybe you should ask yourself why in your zoo of a country why you have many widows than widowers. Graduates no jobs even your bluechip corporation do come here to look for staffs bros you are not in my league trust me.
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by wirinet(m): 9:27am On Apr 15, 2021
gfon:
Swears man,really liked my best female friend to the point of considering marriage(didn't let her know though).Omo i weak wen i knew she had an abortion,can't marry her again, though we still fvck once in a while sha .

So what happens if she gets pregnant? I hope you will claim responsibility for the baby.

I suggest that a law should be passed that states any guy that gets a lady pregnant must be responsible for paying for the birth, upkeep of the baby and education for the child up to secondary school, or face jail time. This singular law will reduced the need to abort by ladies.

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Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by Kingcalls: 10:38am On Apr 15, 2021
AwesomeStormy00:



Is this what you want to say that would make me regret hearing as @Lovethaa? And it took you a day to reply with another moniker... wow bros you are not a man but a mouse.

see bitterness flowing in your vein a nd in your country where men are in charge what have they done for you or to you? Gosh you need to get a life and stop letting envy bitterness jealousy cloud your thinking. I now agree that broke guy like you are prone to get angry easily.

With my degrees and qualifications i have been able to get a better job and life for myself just because am a member here doesnt mean i should be so low like you. If you can earn £750 a week as an I.T staffs for NHS come lets talk. I have my own house here built house for my parents in lagos all was through hard work. I am not daft broke like you.

Go read your bible ecc 12:1 i know God i high sch am bless with a wife that love me wholeheartedly. My wife is not messing about. Maybe you should look in the mirror you've fvck your destiny away now you are paying the price. Go for deliverance else you go die in poverty... people like you will be shouting here then send private dm beggin for ££

Fear of deportation with my British pali You are an hungry man and you are angry... go eat breakfast bros and get a life and work hard to sort out your life.

In a nation where women are in charge lol your president is here for treatment maybe you should ask yourself why in your zoo of a country why you have many widows than widowers. Graduates no jobs even your bluechip corporation do come here to look for staffs bros you are not in my league trust me.

I dint have to read thru ur long epistle cos u are already a man in a woman body ... only weak men talk like u ... make sure food is ready b4 she gets bk from work or else u will sleep in the cold grin
Re: She Told Me Her Honest Story But It Made Me Lose Interest In Her by AwesomeStormy00(m): 10:42am On Apr 15, 2021
Kingcalls:


I dint have to read thru ur long epistle cos u are already a man in a woman body ... only weak men talk like u ... make sure food is ready b4 she gets bk from work or else u will sleep in the cold grin

Lol you can't read, or you get bored reading i.only reply to your daft questions and you still can't read it Poor you did you drop out of sch ni? And life is tough for you on the street. grin grin i have my own job. Bros you be gold digger my replied to.a post is making yoy bitter haha grin grin grin

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