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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Bloomfrancs2: 1:36am On Apr 18, 2021
Even married women deny that they are married. So, this is no news. Op you cover the girl number come leave her picture? undecided

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Nobody: 1:36am On Apr 18, 2021
Oga park well. Have you introduced her to your parents? Has she done same? Have you done proper ceremonial introduction? Have you married her? Probably NO with a capital letter.

I am tired of all these endless lamentations on Nairaland from kids all the time. You are yet to put a ring on her finger and you do not want someone else who is serious and ready to wed her? At 27 you want her to waste her time with your sorry and unserious ass in a relationship of boyfriend and girlfriend that will probably not lead to marriage?

I will advise your girlfriend to dump your sorry ass and get on with a serious and ready man.

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Ojady(m): 1:37am On Apr 18, 2021
What many young men do not realize is, every girl is seeking a man who will 'dress/cover' and keep her. To a.) dress is to protect immaterially (mentally and morally) and materially (network and net worth). To keep is to prevent a.) above from getting lost. Now the foundation of dressing and keeping is a charity that is taught from home. Who is her Father? Brother, Uncle's etc who were/are the blood related males in her life. Did they dress and keep her, are they dressing and keeping her? If yes, then your work is to resemble them with an offer that matches them or surpasses theirs...
Many girls have not been kept or dressed and so don't have a clue of what it is like, and so the first hapless fellow who desecrates them becomes their standard of being dressed and kept. And so the cycle of seeking anyone and getting it anyhow becomes the norm.

Long story short, men should go and look after (dress and keep)their own sisters, daughters and even their mothers... teach their boys from childhood the responsibility of being a man starts from your own sister at home. Only then will girls learn loyalty and avoid anyhow kind of boys/men

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Lionize: 1:39am On Apr 18, 2021
You said it that she wants to get married and you are not ready for that. I ask you, you not with another there? She doesn't have a husband yet biko.

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by dingbang(m): 1:44am On Apr 18, 2021
I'm scared if my babe will do this to me cry
Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Ogalanyaidi(m): 1:49am On Apr 18, 2021
Hey Manipulator. This is not a reason to ditch her.

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Nobody: 1:50am On Apr 18, 2021
GreatestManEver:
thats communication too .just indirect lol��

Nope, it is not. It is a sign of weakness. Deception. It is cowardice. Emotional and psychological insecurity. It is an attitude not deserving of a gentle man. Such is common among insecure men.

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Jaykay16: 1:51am On Apr 18, 2021
My nigga�at first place you shouldn't have tested her in that manner. Remember she is 27 and she'll be finding any means to roll up with guy who's ready to ask her hand in marriage.
Now lemme tell you *bi ba lo ba koti baje* reconcile with her if you truly love her. JUST PUT CALL ACROSS TO HER and let her know your plan. Her reaction will tell you what you do next lobaparii..

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by tit(f): 1:54am On Apr 18, 2021
Awon event planner!
You see yoursef?

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by No4kin: 1:56am On Apr 18, 2021
missimelda01:
I personally think that the idea of messaging your partner with a different number to test them is trash! If you’re having doubts, simply communicate.

na them be this

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Nathan2016: 2:01am On Apr 18, 2021
At 27 years old, most Nija babes are getting pressure left and right for marriage.

As far as you have not engage and done a formal introduction, menh you shouldnt be worried in the girls answer.

She is allowed to keep her option open. Men these days cannot be trusted too.

How many guy friend do you know that has one girlfriend.

So any wise lady at 27 should always keep her option open until someone that is compatible comes along

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by dontbothermuch: 2:10am On Apr 18, 2021
Me trust girl, I dey craze

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Kapeter(m): 2:18am On Apr 18, 2021
CandyOps:
Wrong move bro. You don't test your girl by bringing in another man
But there's always another man which you don't know. So what differ?

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by BBBells: 2:25am On Apr 18, 2021
ebuka10box:
u well at all

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by larryking540: 2:26am On Apr 18, 2021
missimelda01:
I personally think that the idea of messaging your partner with a different number to test them is trash! If you’re having doubts, simply communicate.


relationship na try your luck ,that's just the truth ,if it works for you ,be happy if e no work ,still move on ,till we all finx a better person ,... instead of using psychology or emotional strategy to beat the other person .

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by BBBells: 2:28am On Apr 18, 2021
CsRockefeller:
grin

If I say that relationship issues never tire me then I'm lying. Recent behaviour of a very religious lady I have been friends with for sometime with a view to taking it further has got be thinking, at this point I don't know what to believe in again as it relates to love.

So, I'm just gonna take my seat and do what my people call "Siddon look" cos I'm tired honestly, why can't I find a simple lady in Nigeria for marriage?


GO TO GHANA
Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Roseey0(f): 2:37am On Apr 18, 2021
You already knew she won't wait for you.
Free the babe .
She made it clear to you.


Her life, her choice.
It's not a crime to want marriage.
Allow her

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by ceaser: 2:44am On Apr 18, 2021
Another one! In less than 12 hrs. Na wa o.

We never even settle the matter from this thread
https://www.nairaland.com/6509570/fooled-girlfriend-4-years-thinking

And another real life account is popping up. The same format, the same temptation and the same disappointment.

Jaykay16:
My nigga�at first place you shouldn't have tested her in that manner. Remember she is 27 and she'll be finding any means to roll up with guy who's ready to ask her hand in marriage.
Now lemme tell you *bi ba lo ba koti baje* reconcile with her if you truly love her. JUST PUT CALL ACROSS TO HER and let her know your plan. Her reaction will tell you what you do next lobaparii..

In that earlier thread, she was 22 years. The reason given for unfaithfulness was that she is young and therefore should be allowed to explore and look for the man that is best since the current boyfriend has not even promised her marriage nor engaged to her yet.

Now in this thread, the subject is 27 years, already ripe for the nuptial knot and promised marriage by the boyfriend when he comes to the country.

But the reason for justification of unfaithfulness in this case is that "she is 27 and she'll be finding any means to roll up with guy who's ready to ask her hand in marriage".

So I think the male folks needs to be educated: when is the right age for the girl to be faithful in a relationship?

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Map1(m): 2:46am On Apr 18, 2021
CsRockefeller:
grin

If I say that relationship issues never tire me then I'm lying. Recent behaviour of a very religious lady I have been friends with for sometime with a view to taking it further has got be thinking, at this point I don't know what to believe in again as it relates to love.

So, I'm just gonna take my seat and do what my people call "Siddon look" cos I'm tired honestly, why can't I find a simple lady in Nigeria for marriage?
Most of you guys don't know how to deal with females, how on earth will you be dating a lady for four years,five years and more and still singing a song of marriage to her ear like bird, do you think they are fool's?a lady of 27 believes she has ripe enough for marriage and most of Nigeria male at 30 don't have a job, apartment and still taking permission from there parents also dating a jobless girl, still want such a girl to wait for him till he will ready financially which is too risky, girls are very wise they are always in relation ship for a purpose when they study you can't meet up any more they moved to who has a means of providing for their needs and ready to settle down.my advice, stop dating a girl for purpose of marriage when you know you wouldn't be ready to settle down in the next 1year, just date to have sex and fun and safe your self from unnecessary spending and when you know you are ready for marriage marry someone who get a job simple

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by spiceadole: 2:49am On Apr 18, 2021
ebuka10box:
been dating this girl for a while ,we have had our ups and downs but we settled. I plan to get married to her when I get back by God's grace . I noticed she wants to get married by all means,note:she is 27.
today ,I wanted to try her loyalty and submissiveness. I decided to give her number to a friend ,guess what ..... she denied me , I dont feel bad at all but tired of searching....
omo this girl use me play gg2.5 lolz...... imma take a break rn


I thought you would say your wife denied you.
So it's girlfriend.
You have always been single.
If you like, be in a relationship for 100 years, you are single until you are married.

The girl is 27.
She needs to settle down to avoid boys on this platform tagging her evening newspaper.
Since you are not ready, commot for road.
Let a serious man see her.

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Map1(m): 2:53am On Apr 18, 2021
ebuka10box:
been dating this girl for a while ,we have had our ups and downs but we settled. I plan to get married to her when I get back by God's grace . I noticed she wants to get married by all means,note:she is 27.
today ,I wanted to try her loyalty and submissiveness. I decided to give her number to a friend ,guess what ..... she denied me , I dont feel bad at all but tired of searching....
omo this girl use me play gg2.5 lolz...... imma take a break rn
are you married before?

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Duplexxx: 3:11am On Apr 18, 2021
Is only p*ssy ass niggarrs acting such way


If women no show una pepper


Una no go ever learn


I hope you don learned your mistakes dem na



So wetin you want us to do

We can bring her back to you na




But wait o



Why youth of nowadays dey always talk about only women here and there



Bullshit

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Happy2020: 3:25am On Apr 18, 2021
If I were a Nigerian male, I would NEVER trust a Nigerian female.
There’s always an ulterior motive. Fake love is prevalent

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by GboyegaD(m): 3:32am On Apr 18, 2021
Why include her picture though?

I don't understand why people try to tempt another to find out their faithfulness. If you aren't feeling or trusting the person, please move on.

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by aksule(m): 3:40am On Apr 18, 2021
I think she is just looking for a man to get married to. A girl will go to any length if she is desparate to get married especially if she believes there's no future in her present relationship.

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Dlixtv: 3:43am On Apr 18, 2021
She's Over Matured But Am Sure With Various Advices You Will Get From Here You Can Process With That.



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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by ebuka10box(m): 3:44am On Apr 18, 2021
Map1:
are you married before?
no sir
Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Map1(m): 3:47am On Apr 18, 2021
ebuka10box:
no sir
Olohu a wa pelu yin o
Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by ebuka10box(m): 3:47am On Apr 18, 2021
Jaykay16:
My nigga�at first place you shouldn't have tested her in that manner. Remember she is 27 and she'll be finding any means to roll up with guy who's ready to ask her hand in marriage.
Now lemme tell you *bi ba lo ba koti baje* reconcile with her if you truly love her. JUST PUT CALL ACROSS TO HER and let her know your plan. Her reaction will tell you what you do next lobaparii..
I cant reconcile with her.i just gotta focus on why I'm here and leave naija babes alone for now. for christ sake , the first day and she denied me

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by ebuka10box(m): 3:48am On Apr 18, 2021
Michelle55:
All of you are always planning to get married to the said girls, osheey! Event planner, I hail thee!

If the relationship done tire you, oga go rest no be do or die affair, if Peter can deny Jesus thrice who are you that she can't deny you? [/[b]b]Even dangote deny im yarnsh for pishure so lemme ask again, who you be?

Bros Park well! Relationship wey una dey take get access to free browsing naim you dey here dey wail because she wan try another network undecided

If you are not married or engaged to her, you no get babe yet. Either you lock up for life with marriage or let her try her luck elsewhere.

Una wailing don tire me sotey I Don know una wailing pattern for here by heart, it's time to change tactics bros.
madam I haven't had sex with her ,so take a chill

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by udemzyudex(m): 3:49am On Apr 18, 2021
Michelle55:
All of you are always planning to get married to the said girls, osheey! Event planner, I hail thee!

If the relationship done tire you, oga go rest no be do or die affair, if Peter can deny Jesus thrice who are you that she can't deny you? [/[b]b]Even dangote deny im yarnsh for pishure so lemme ask again, who you be?

Bros Park well! Relationship wey una dey take get access to free browsing naim you dey here dey wail because she wan try another network undecided

If you are not married or engaged to her, you no get babe yet. Either you lock up for life with marriage or let her try her luck elsewhere.

Una wailing don tire me sotey I Don know una wailing pattern for here by heart, it's time to change tactics bros.

You dey yarn dust.

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