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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by SweetCunt97(f): 7:35am On Apr 18, 2021

ebuka10box:
been dating this girl for a while ,we have had our ups and downs but we settled. I plan to get married to her when I get back by God's grace . I noticed she wants to get married by all means,note:she is 27.
today ,I wanted to try her loyalty and submissiveness. I decided to give her number to a friend ,guess what ..... she denied me , I dont feel bad at all but tired of searching....
omo this girl use me play gg2.5 lolz...... imma take a break rn

Come village make we find one loyal mgbeke give you. After you pump her with money eh, nma ya ga puta ofuma.

Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Skyfornia(m): 7:35am On Apr 18, 2021

ebuka10box:
hey bro
..no need for this picture.please take it down

For your sake...I have done that. You owe me drink

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by FiverrTutor(m): 7:38am On Apr 18, 2021

Skyfornia:

Girls are not loyal...

Oga why go to instagram to get her pic to post here

This is very immature of u. I feel like giving u a big slap!!!!

Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by SweetCunt97(f): 7:39am On Apr 18, 2021

ebuka10box:
been dating this girl for a while ,we have had our ups and downs but we settled. I plan to get married to her when I get back by God's grace . I noticed she wants to get married by all means,note:she is 27.
today ,I wanted to try her loyalty and submissiveness. I decided to give her number to a friend ,guess what ..... she denied me , I dont feel bad at all but tired of searching....
omo this girl use me play gg2.5 lolz...... imma take a break rn

But why test her with what she desires mostly? Shey na today women dey jump follow man wey wan marry sharp sharp? Have you guys discussed about getting married? Have you proposed? You over there, she's here. It aint cool bro.

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by FiverrTutor(m): 7:40am On Apr 18, 2021

ebuka10box:
hi man ,are u okay.....stop that man

You shouldn't have quoted him. You should have clicked the report button and the post would have been taken down. This is invasion of privacy

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by missimelda01(f): 7:40am On Apr 18, 2021

BRATISLAVA:

The number of fake stories and sensational topics designed to bash women is getting boring.

For every thread they post something about women, there are two other posts on social media about men doing worse things. They don't seem to make it to nairaland, though. It won't sell clicks.

Isn't it funny that only men seem to do this? Women don't have time to monitor chats remotely and be looking for who is cheating with who. Seems scripted.

Meanwhile they are still there ones here claiming to be dating 4 women at a time, but nobody is policing them. In fact, they are hailing themselves about it. The usual storyline is that it was someone he "wanted to wife". Even the ones with a crooked pe.nis will say the same thing. Testing loyalty indeed. It seems they got their girls through hook and crook, so they are suspicious and need this "testing".

What exactly is the problem? Everyone is cheating and happy. But a set of people are here to promote misogyny.

Most Nairaland men are petty and childish. They can’t receive what they constantly give out, take them seriously at your own peril. Gone are the days when I get pissed over certain stories I see here, like you said some of them are scripted.

The bolded is always the funniest part of their lies grin

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by ebuka10box(m): 7:40am On Apr 18, 2021

Skyfornia:

For your sake...I have done that. You owe me drink

thanks man

Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by ubola: 7:47am On Apr 18, 2021

Being in a relationship with a gal isn't a guarantee that she must marry you especially when you keep delaying things. Stop tempting your gfs with marriage proposal from other guys, cos even the most faithful ladies will fall for it. You cannot use that to conclude that they don't love you, just that you are delaying things. 2ndly, she's not yours until you marry her. My wife of more than 10 years now was someone's gf until I appeared and talked marriage, after 3 months of courtship we got married. I know the guy and he knows me as we live in same city, just that whenever we cross each other in public places, he exhibits an ego of supremacy which is false. Once met him in a supermarket when he was about to pay for 1satchet Milo and 1cowbell milk,immediately he saw me, guy abandoned those stuff at the payment counter and rushed to pick tin peak milk. After greeting him I went and picked a row of cowbell coffee, that's when he came asking me if the satchet beverage was better. I told him point blank that satchet beverages are cheaper and cost effective than the tin, that's when he was fully relaxed and paid for the satchet Milo and cowbell he collected earlier. I even joked with him that at times my wife overuses the tin stuff, while he was there lamenting about how women are insensitive to the present economic down turn. Funny enough this guy still squart in a room apartment where my wife knew him 11 years ago, no advancement. So Op, it's only when you've married her that you can call her your own, stop those trials and temptations on someone's daughter, cos she's human.

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Nobody: 7:47am On Apr 18, 2021

dominique:
Naija men be putting their girlfriends through stupid tests they themselves wouldn't pass.

From the chat it seems the guy is an abroad guy that wants to come home to marry. Oga talk true, if an abroad based lady indicates interest in you and tells you that she won't have anything to do with you if you had a girlfriend, wouldn't you deny your so-called girlfriend? If you don't want the relationship anymore, just tell her you're not longer interested instead of messing her head up in the name of test

Excuse me why was I banned on business section "Goodwill tiles fze thread, I can't use the quote and reply button again? Y the ban?

Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by 22brains(m): 7:49am On Apr 18, 2021

Biafranboys:

Don't blame her please buhari made zoogeria so hard and remember she is 27 and she might have families asking for money

so cashing out on guys to meet her family financial needs is your advice? Birds of the same feathers.

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by FiverrTutor(m): 7:50am On Apr 18, 2021

missimelda01:

Most Nairaland men are petty and childish. They can’t receive what they constantly give out, take them seriously at your own peril. Gone are the days when I get pissed over certain stories I see here, like you said some of them are scripted.

The bolded is always the funniest part of their lies

Nah I don't think those stories are scripted. It's the reality of what alot of young men in this indomie generation are experiencing. The young men we have now don't have the relationship skills to handle women. That's the sad reality.

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by IbrahimSkiba(f): 7:56am On Apr 18, 2021

ebuka10box:
been dating this girl for a while ,we have had our ups and downs but we settled. I plan to get married to her when I get back by God's grace . I noticed she wants to get married by all means,note:she is 27.
today ,I wanted to try her loyalty and submissiveness. I decided to give her number to a friend ,guess what ..... she denied me , I dont feel bad at all but tired of searching....
omo this girl use me play gg2.5 lolz...... imma take a break rn

I hope you sort out things with ya gurl

One love

Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by OkoAnike(m): 7:59am On Apr 18, 2021

bejick:

did you read where he said when he get back. that means he is abroad.

Don't let assume, he might be in another state in Nigeria, women don't deny abroad husband... My tot

Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by FunnyDude(m): 7:59am On Apr 18, 2021

gnykelly:

he will learn the hard way

Him no wise na.. 99 per cent of Women will easily fall for this kind of test

Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by MaxVee: 8:00am On Apr 18, 2021

Her mother fit dan pressure her to go marry...

Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Klass99(f): 8:03am On Apr 18, 2021

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Michaelota: 8:04am On Apr 18, 2021

No big deal, she is still single you can't come and tire down an innocent girl at 27. Haba she has really tried, you are to love if you really want her while she is to respect that's what the Bible says.

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by seyz91(m): 8:06am On Apr 18, 2021

confirm!

CandyOps:
Wrong move bro. You don't test your girl by bringing in another man

Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Whitecoal711: 8:06am On Apr 18, 2021

Taywon:
Na wu go first marry her she dey find... Nothing special...

her priority should be who will treat her well not marriage,

Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by seyz91(m): 8:07am On Apr 18, 2021

dont mind dem vagina people, always trying to justify their Hoeloshoism undecided

SimplyFacts:

Una must sha find an excuse to cover up illicit acts

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by seyz91(m): 8:08am On Apr 18, 2021

abioo

they keep doing things as done in past not knowin the world is rapidly changing andone must change with it

johnkey:
All these mumu boys they're always planning to get married. why not plan to make more millions or plan to travel out.

Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by larryking540: 8:10am On Apr 18, 2021

CsRockefeller:

If I say that relationship issues never tire me then I'm lying. Recent behaviour of a very religious lady I have been friends with for sometime with a view to taking it further has got be thinking, at this point I don't know what to believe in again as it relates to love.

So, I'm just gonna take my seat and do what my people call "Siddon look" cos I'm tired honestly, why can't I find a simple lady in Nigeria for marriage?

keep looking you go see,,if e too hard meet your pastor , Bec na them go point out who serious among some ladies , right now ,na them fit refer give you ,trust me ,u can't pretend for long inside church,and pastor with their evangelical team go don meet them either for wrong place or right place outside church

Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by seyz91(m): 8:12am On Apr 18, 2021

even if dem married girls self dem still single cuz they still sleeping around with other rich men with better offers

vagina people holes no longer meant for one dick anymore

veekid:
She's single until anyone marries her

Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Nobody: 8:15am On Apr 18, 2021

Michelle55:
All of you are always planning to get married to the said girls, osheey! Event planner, I hail thee!

If the relationship done tire you, oga go rest no be do or die affair, if Peter can deny Jesus thrice who are you that she can't deny you? [/[b]b]Even dangote deny im yarnsh for pishure so lemme ask again, who you be?

Bros Park well! Relationship wey una dey take get access to free browsing naim you dey here dey wail because [b]she wan try another network [/b]

If you are not married or engaged to her, you no get babe yet. Either you lock up for life with marriage or let her try her luck elsewhere.

Una wailing don tire me sotey I Don know una wailing pattern for here by heart, it's time to change tactics bros.

when a woman opens her options.she is only trying her luck but when men do the same "men cheat" fills the air.
what i am more concerned about is when will women be incorporated as "cheats" just as we have "men are cheat".

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Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by MISSCONGENIALITY(f): 8:23am On Apr 18, 2021

ebuka10box:
not up to a year

Well the relationship is still young for where to be in a hurry to leave. Maybe she doesn't consider you suitable for her that's why she's still hunting. Did you discuss it with her and told her when you will be coming back for the marriage? If you did and she agreed and then went ahead to hunt, then I can't say I support her on that.

Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Nezan(m): 8:26am On Apr 18, 2021

ebuka10box:
been dating this girl for a while ,we have had our ups and downs but we settled. I plan to get married to her when I get back by God's grace . I noticed she wants to get married by all means,note:she is 27.
today ,I wanted to try her loyalty and submissiveness. I decided to give her number to a friend ,guess what ..... she denied me , I dont feel bad at all but tired of searching....
omo this girl use me play gg2.5 lolz...... imma take a break rn

You are not married to the girl, so actually you are single. The girl is also single and searching, no offence committed

Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Map1(m): 8:27am On Apr 18, 2021

MISSCONGENIALITY:
You e said it all.
Because I don't understand how a guy will.meet a girl he likes and start promising marriage when he knows he won't settle down in the next 4 to 5yrs.. It is better you don't bring up marriage so that the girl will know she's just in a relationship that might not lead to marriage or a fucking relationship. And you can start talking about marriage when you know it's happening within a year.
Most guys use marriage to turn hold babes as their personal whores even when they know they won't marry her.
You can't promise a girl.marriage and after some yrs into the relationship you don't act like someone planing to.marry. a guys actions will tell a girl of she should wait or try other people.

Exactly bro, when I never married I don't date a girl more than 2weeks if I never had sex with you I might extend it to 1month after that I don't called or care anymore even if you called me I don't pick because I saw it as a waste of time and resources and when it's time to settle down I picked what is good for me.

Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by ebuka10box(m): 8:28am On Apr 18, 2021

MISSCONGENIALITY:
Well the relationship is still young for where to be in a hurry to leave. Maybe she doesn't consider you suitable for her that's why she's still hunting. Did you discuss it with her and told her when you will be coming back for the marriage? If you did and she agreed and then went ahead to hunt, then I can't say I support her on that.

we always talk about that but gotta move... we r still gonna be friends

Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by AlexB300: 8:30am On Apr 18, 2021

Taywon:
Na wu go first marry her she dey find... Nothing special...

abi? Na normal naija girl thing. Dem dey always get backup plan. Na who commot ring first dey win. Get over it OP, we preach but u guys do not listen

Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by alphaRego01(m): 8:31am On Apr 18, 2021

Michelle55:
All of you are always planning to get married to the said girls, osheey! Event planner, I hail thee!

If the relationship done tire you, oga go rest no be do or die affair, if Peter can deny Jesus thrice who are you that she can't deny you? [/[b]b]Even dangote deny im yarnsh for pishure so lemme ask again, who you be?

Bros Park well! Relationship wey una dey take get access to free browsing naim you dey here dey wail because she wan try another network

If you are not married or engaged to her, you no get babe yet. Either you lock up for life with marriage or let her try her luck elsewhere.

Una wailing don tire me sotey I Don know una wailing pattern for here by heart, it's time to change tactics bros.

who is this female drug user?

Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Trace8624(m): 8:32am On Apr 18, 2021

Cross river girls are always guilty of this, I find I am still single when I asked her "who am I to you" and she said "i am her DATE". So therefore she will only give me attention when she is need of money.

Re: How I Got To Know I Was Still Single. by Akuruoulo(m): 8:36am On Apr 18, 2021

ebuka10box:
been dating this girl for a while ,we have had our ups and downs but we settled. I plan to get married to her when I get back by God's grace . I noticed she wants to get married by all means,note:she is 27.
today ,I wanted to try her loyalty and submissiveness. I decided to give her number to a friend ,guess what ..... she denied me , I dont feel bad at all but tired of searching....
omo this girl use me play gg2.5 lolz...... imma take a break rn

U suppose run, and not to take a break

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