Good afternoon and happy Sunday to my Co-Nairalanders, I Need your advise on how to tackle this My relationship issue if to End it or Continue with it

I have been dating my girlfriend for 8months now and the relationship was going smoothly until she started showing me her real colour which I didn't really see to be anything because I think for relationship to move forward you have to tolerate each other, but the one that pains me most is each time I talk to her about issues she will get angry when she knows she is wrong and she will want me to apologize to her for her wrong which I keep complaining about. I will call her privately and she will still want me to apologize to her.
So today after church we decided to do some home cleaning and she brought out some trash to burn outside ...while burning them the fire extended to a near by bush and the fire was allover the place, I quickly came outside to put off the fire and I was angry & I shouted at her that why will she burn trash in the afternoon when she is aware that its not Good. She took I as offense and went inside. so I went into the room to continue with what I was doing, after like 30mins I discover that the food she was cooking was already burning. And I was because I shouted at her dats why she took I as offense?? So I got angry and told her that since she doesn't want to stop this her character that she will go and meet DOS that will tolerate her. She got up and went straight to the room to carry her bag that she was going, I stop her not to go any where and she went and pick knife that she will stab me, if I don't leave the road for her to go. I thought she was joking and I told her to drop my things before leaving my house bcose I wouldn't look for her again. She den use her bag to hit me and even use the knife on me and blood started coming from that spot. I got angry and took my ATM from her and throw her things out of my House. So she started using words on me that am a woman beater.

NOTE: this is not the first or second time she has been USING KNIFE AND OTHER SHARP OJECT TO THREATEN ME EACH TIME WE HAVE ISSUE

MIND YOU, I AIN'T PERFECT

My fellow frnds please advise me on what to do in this relationship thank you

Lala pls do the need full, pls help me push the Post to front desk/page

Thank you all as you advise me on what to do

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Please since she's not ready to be mature and take correction please kindly leave her and if truly she stab you and you saw Bros run for your beautiful life..

Gracias

Relationship palavers here & there. Whatever rocks your world, bro. I'm doing singleness coz it gives me a peace of mind.

go back and apologize to her as usual bro..


give her back your ATM,get her some nice gifts and take her out for a treat. love and respect her bro she's all you've got in life

What do u mean by you not perfect ? What's that you do that she always complain of ?

SmellySperm:
go back and apologize to her as usual bro..


give her back your ATM,get her some nice gifts and take her out for a treat. love and respect her bro she's all you've got in life

And then He should go to Aso Rock and receive a National award of Simpism and Mumuism.

Then he should go to national Assembly, so that Sen. Rochas OKorocha will give him a medal for his unimaginable level of Iberiberism.

squash47:
What do u mean by you not perfect ? What's that you do that she always complain of ?

She said I always get angry wen she is wrong

How old is she

GIDIBANKZ:


She said I always get angry wen she is wrong

She is still a child and needs proper counselling.

I think she has pride in her which is restraining her from owing up to her errors and admit when she is wrong.


You need to discuss this problem of hers with her closest family member.

But if symptoms persist after discussion, end the relationship.

You deserve some tablets of happiness and a blood tonic of peace in ur life

GIDIBANKZ:


She said I always get angry wen she is wrong

So in ur mind she intentionally made d fire to extend into the bushes ryt? I am sure you shouted at her outside like a kid forgetting that a relationship is all about friendship and partnership. Abi she tell you say d correction her parents gave her no dey enough? Abegi

Whatever the case MAy be, don't continue a relationship with anyone who grabs sharp dangerous objects during feuds.....

Let her go and never look bck

soon we would see "nairalanders balls cut off by raging girlfriend"

On another note...u should control ur anger!
women are one creature u would never learn everything about them.
they r full of surprises and u need a Lotta patience if u want to live with one.

Times have changed o.
our women ain't like our grandmas and some mothers that will swallow anything d man says or not protest when shouted on.

u need wisdom to follow them.
anything u want in a woman u can get it double just inject the right amount of what u need shikena.

about her pulling a knife...hmm, may she not end up killing u while u sleep someday. that one is a scary trait from her end too

To die dey hungry u..No worry u go soon die, since u no wan get sense

I see two people with anger issues

You have no right to shout at her over wrong doings cos she's a human being, no one is perfect Just correct her with calmness

Maybe until she uses the knife on your throat and you are given free ticket to the afterlife.

Have you heard of Maryam Sanda? that stabbed her husband to death over an issue?

I'm not sure who's wrong or right in the "issue" but one thing's for sure; the introduction of knife and such degree of violence into the "issue" was extreme and eventually bred irreparable catastrophe.

Yorubas say "an elder that falls into a pit will make other people learn from such calamity"

A word is enough for the wise.



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You are stupid if this is true.

Not knife o. The day a girl will even raise her hand in an attempt to slap because we are in a relationship will be the end of that relationship.

How una take de take all this nonsense in the name of relationship sha

obinna58:
I see two people with anger issues

You have no right to shout at her over wrong doings cos she's a human being, no one is perfect Just correct her with calmness

so if she do something bad make him de pet her?

Relationship crisis can be handled by initiating communication through simple ways. For example try to send good morning thoughts to your girlfriends daily which will set her mood. You can find amazing collection of Good Morning thoughts https://greetingto.com/good-morning-thoughts/ here.

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1. How did you guys get to the extent of she carrying objects whenever you're having issues?
2.What are your reasons for scolding her harshly?
3. When was the last time you overlook some of her wrongs?
4. Have you for once warn her against danger of using objects?
Ok
I'll advice you, to speak with her heart to heart
If she doesn't change, then, take a walk
I'll also advice you to work on how you choose your words when upset likewise your tune.
Gracias

Any relationship/friendship/marriage that is life threatening should be discontinued immediately!!!

Except you want to wait until the day the knife brings out your guts and kidney.

Premiumwriter:
so if she do something bad make him de pet her?

Yes










Believe me it'll give him advantage

GIDIBANKZ:
she went and pick knife that she will stab me, if I don't leave the road for her to go.

NOTE: this is not the first or second time she has been USING KNIFE AND OTHER SHARP OJECT TO THREATEN ME EACH TIME WE HAVE ISSUE

When them stab your throat and stomach, I go tell you weytin to do.

But no dey too shout on anyone like that na.
If na you, you go like am. Sometimes try to they talk am dey put fun but the message don pass reach where e dey go.

Please insert paragraphs in your writeup. It isn't easy to read with everything cramped together.

Lol I understand your plight, bro. See ehn, I take God beg you let her go. The relationship is toxic sef. The only advice you need is to run away from her.

GIDIBANKZ:
Good afternoon and happy Sunday to my Co-Nairalanders, I Need your advise on how to tackle this My relationship issue if to End it or Continue with it

I have been dating my girlfriend for 8months now and the relationship was going smoothly until she started showing me her real colour which I didn't really see to be anything because I think for relationship to move forward you have to tolerate each other, but the one that pains me most is each time I talk to her about issues she will get angry when she knows she is wrong and she will want me to apologize to her for her wrong which I keep complaining about. I will call her privately and she will still want me to apologize to her.
So today after church we decided to do some home cleaning and she brought out some trash to burn outside ...while burning them the fire extended to a near by bush and the fire was allover the place, I quickly came outside to put off the fire and I was angry & I shouted at her that why will she burn trash in the afternoon when she is aware that its not Good. She took I as offense and went inside. so I went into the room to continue with what I was doing, after like 30mins I discover that the food she was cooking was already burning. And I was because I shouted at her dats why she took I as offense?? So I got angry and told her that since she doesn't want to stop this her character that she will go and meet DOS that will tolerate her. She got up and went straight to the room to carry her bag that she was going, I stop her not to go any where and she went and pick knife that she will stab me, if I don't leave the road for her to go. I thought she was joking and I told her to drop my things before leaving my house bcose I wouldn't look for her again. She den use her bag to hit me and even use the knife on me and blood started coming from that spot. I got angry and took my ATM from her and throw her things out of my House. So she started using words on me that am a woman beater.

NOTE: this is not the first or second time she has been USING KNIFE AND OTHER SHARP OJECT TO THREATEN ME EACH TIME WE HAVE ISSUE

MIND YOU, I AIN'T PERFECT

My fellow frnds please advise me on what to do in this relationship thank you

Lala pls do the need full, pls help me push the Post to front desk/page

Thank you all as you advise me on what to do

Since you decide not to use your tongue to count your teeth be ready for the consequences.The sign are there for you but you choose to ignore..That lady will lead you to your early grave.I pity you

Man wey no get sense,na woman go kill am

Don't go back to her. Quit the relationship forever!

Today should be the last time you set your eyes on that girl.

Call it quit bro and prevent future troubles,because it so glaring such girls are not meant to be worth dying for.

Imagine using a knife on you,next time she will just kill you in your sleep,fear such women.

I swear. na mumu him be. she's using a toy knife on him