₦airaland Forum

mywells:
Girls are shits from the hole of exes,ladies are like chicken kill one eat it fried or boiled,don't try and keep them unless you're ready to marry,spending money taking them out don't have any other name than lust.the time energy vested in them does not worth it,some attract nothing but bad lucks and set back in someone careers.The best way to have your fun is inthe house of strippers.

Hassanmaye:
Is she a woman?

Pa3cia:
What if you end up marrying a lady that has been fried or boiled, most times, yr type end up with such ladies.

Amanee:
I have none

I loved and lost but there are no regrets, only lessons

AsherAmari:
Never regret your past relationships because at a time it was all you wanted.

I've learnt never to regret anything I wilfully entered into in the past cos I enjoyed it while it lasted.

So, no regrets.

luminouz:
K

Mustiboy:
May a permanent curse be on you.

What's with Nigerians and this sickening hypocrisy?

Oga, don't ever quote me again. You're sick.

I blame myself for sharing my story.

Melst:
I just had to talk. I honestly don't know what you are trying to defend or the point you are trying to make by defending that act or comparing it to what you described up there. A woman pins a pregnancy on a man is usually done out of love. Either a selfish love for herself, or love for the child since she didn't consider abortion or love for the said man. This doesn't justify such deceit yes, but comparing it to what that guy did is plain unreasonable. That you'd intentionally impregnate a girl because you want to punish her that she insulted you. How low can one go? Then he is defending himself that he claimed responsibility. Imagine! See what the girl passed through. Do you know what abortion does to a lady mentally and emotionally? Do you know the rigors of carrying a pregnancy to term? Because either consequences would have been too brutal if he had thought it through. Even in the western world where abortion is legal, women go for counseling pre and post the abortion schedule. You young guys will think everything revolves around your penis and money.

Talking about cheating gfs, are there no cheating bfs all over? Or is it because these days, we have more of boys whining all over the place than actual real men. Gosh!

Danyyyyyyyyyyy:
I don't have any regrets , except that I made the first move twice and I grabbed a perfect man who just chose not to make an effort with me , coz he may have been hurt in the past , I ignored his red signals the fact that saying I love you is like punishment for him ,the fact that he always says sorry and makes absolutely no corrections , the fact that he barely communicated with me , no vision , no ambition , no goals , no future plans , only knew three ppl and one was a child , hid me like palliative, he was good looking , spoke like an actor , dark and handsome , its like he was trying to say "you should be lucky to have me" but I'm also very pretty so I know I had chances outside , I just kept wanting the wrong one but I'm glad its over, I'm going to enjoy my single lifestyle and breath fresh air till I spot a lovey dovey that deserves me. no more batman relationships

Melst:
My dear, they have no idea. But they will eventually. They can't even wear our shoes for one month. See ordinary menstrual cramps, I'd be crying like a baby. Abortion and the pains of labour is best left imagined. They end up creating damaged ladies with cold conscience then come back and cry foul. Well, those ladies are the monsters they created.
Thank you for the compliment. One can't emphasize the need to be extremely careful especially with what is obtainable these days.


Please ignore that troll up there with a soul that is the exact opposite of his moniker. Lonliness is already affecting him. They chase everyone away with their bad attitude and nonchalance towards people's emotions all in the name of forming man. Last time I checked, a man is a man and need not say it to be one. Someone that can't even keep a relationship is calling himself a man. Nonsense and baseless pride with unfounded ego. I have dealt with his type. They come back begging after realizing their folly. Pride goes before a fall. Though this one sounds like a teenager.

FORWARDEVERLY:

Bro why nah .. why you wicked like this.. see as you quote em epistle and replied with a capital letter K.. this your reply gannn.. LMFAO

Chriswazo:
Having only one girlfriend a time i should have had many to forestall what I am facing now

Mustiboy:
Intentionally impregnating a girl so that I'd leave her and she'd suffer.
Ọmọ, my eyes couldn't take it when she was crying. I knew she was loyal and there's no way I could tell her to go find the person who impregnated her. My mouth just couldn't open to say such. I knew it was my handwork.

In the end, I took responsibility, and we went through an excruciating abortion process. I was drained financially, mentally, and emotionally.

I still regret that foolish act. I wanted to punish her, but i ended up punishing the both of us.

mosho2good:
*Someone cannot just dial a wrong number in Nigeria an a politician or a celebrity will pick it.*

*Must it be only aboki?* �

mosho2good:
*Someone cannot just dial a wrong number in Nigeria an a politician or a celebrity will pick it.*

*Must it be only aboki?* �

BlueAir:
thinking a woman can be selflessly loyal

BlueAir:
thinking a woman can be selflessly loyal

TheOnlyUyai:
My greatest relationship regret will be "not chopping his money when I had the chance". I was busy forming one stupid good girl when I should have just chopped his money and dumped his sorry ass.

As for now, I am already a changed person. For better, I stay, for worse, I move. No time.

larryking540:
it's from girlfriend,she turns to a wife ,we need to stop this ,she isn't your wife but your girlfriend ,what's is the difference ,bride price? to me there is no difference between a lady who stays with your for couple of years and the one u finally out ring ,na the same character u go still jam for hux ,
just as man way day rude (boyfriend ) will still be rude wen e become husband

TheOnlyUyai:
My greatest relationship regret will be "not chopping his money when I had the chance". I was busy forming one stupid good girl when I should have just chopped his money and dumped his sorry ass.

As for now, I am already a changed person. For better, I stay, for worse, I move. No time.

luminouz:
K

Beverlyjean:
Checking the phone of my ex behind his back

yanabasee1:
Forgiving a cheating girlfriend, hoping that she'll change...

TheOnlyUyai:
My greatest relationship regret will be "not chopping his money when I had the chance". I was busy forming one stupid good girl when I should have just chopped his money and dumped his sorry ass.

As for now, I am already a changed person. For better, I stay, for worse, I move. No time.

Diegostan:
My story will shake the whole nairaland if I drop it here...

NewSoul:
Wrong mindset

wastage of beauty

It is a pity

because you'll be single at fifty

TJaguar:
I'm suspecting you are a chronic cheat

Theoarhics:
Quiting my job to be with my ex because of distance and love ,later I discovered she was not worth spending the rest of my life with.

WoundedLamb:
Were you selflessly loyal?