| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by KangaIye: 6:12am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Genea:
that’s their business. They won’t say they don’t know their daughter That's just it. One thing about character is that, it smokes. |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Organs(m): 6:14am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Cut long story short, last week Tuesday she woke up, had her bath, ate then stepped out briefly, when she returned we were outta water. Tap water of course. She called my attention to it to which I remained calm. Meanwhile I hadn't eaten neither had I bathed. At noon, she came to me that she was hungry but couldn't cook due to unavailability of water, I then asked her if I am to fetch her water??!.
She said she was gonn take food stuff to her friend's place (upstairs) to cook.
I replied by asking how many of her friends had lacked water and brought food stuff to cook here??!
Bros, You are at fault here. You did not behave like a man or a senior egbon. This is a little girl in PD at most 20 years maybe living outside her home for the first time. Its your house, she showered and now wanted to cook and there was no water, she expected you to do something about it, but you got upset and said you remained "calm". Now, you did not shower or eat and you expect her to shower you or go fetch water and give you to shower cos youre accommodating her?? Or worry you'd not eaten cos she's your mother? The whole point here is there was no clarity as to when she was supposed to leave your house. There should be a plan. However, i salute you for vacating your bed for her and sleeping on the floor. You have no right to lock her out. Yes agreed her attitude is wrong, you should sit her down and tell her your rules and not lock her out cos you want to be worshipped cos you provide her accomodation. |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by chomskyina85(f): 6:14am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Let her look for another accommodation. Fear those kind of people. Hmm... and don't give her a spare key again.
When you are not around, she should wait for your return 1 Like |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by justmi1: 6:17am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Can't you see that the girl is obviously having feelings for you, and don't know how to go about it.
I don't believe she is that rude, just talk to her, and if you like her too...enuff said. |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Genea(f): 6:17am On Apr 28, 2021 |
KangaIye:
That's just it. One thing about character is that, it smokes. Gbam... I dislike entitled people. It’s not easy accommodating people and here she is giving attitude. She should go and squat with her friends. Good riddance 1 Like |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by HRMK: 6:19am On Apr 28, 2021 |
UR PERFECTLY RIGHT! |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by OsuIgboIpob: 6:19am On Apr 28, 2021 |
[s] stinflame:
Level down to her , I feel you been too bossy and you don't relate with her often. There is a lot after school. [/s] Shut up! |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Nobody: 6:19am On Apr 28, 2021 |
daveyjay:
My neighbor called that she's stranded that I should return
Don't allow that girl back in oo. She may poison you bro. Girls are now useless and dangerous. 3 Likes |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Olawalelead(m): 6:20am On Apr 28, 2021 |
No long thing. Just go back home... |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Genea(f): 6:21am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Rocktation:
But she clearly told you that she couldn't cook due to unavailability of water. You are the host and very likely the one with the muscles. I don't see how fetching water for your guest to prep your meal is a big deal. Unless, you want her to pay for the roof over her head, by doing all the house chores, I'm certainly not understanding what really prompted this fight.
There's probably more that you are not telling. Really? He should keep on fetching water for someone that has been with him since January? Babe say the truth and stop encouraging bad behaviour 3 Likes |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by 123papas(m): 6:22am On Apr 28, 2021 |
MickzyDonald:
He hasn't bleeped her see the way she's misbehaving, what if the Guy has now been f*king her nko, she will even lock him outside out of respect She is frustrated by his good conduct. She wants to annoy him, so dt during reconciliation - the deed will be done. |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by 123papas(m): 6:25am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Let her parents call. She knows what she is doing? How can a young lady be sleeping with a man in the same room and not getting oiled. You may endure, but people are different. Body no firewood daveyjay:
My neighbor called that she's stranded that I should return
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| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by OsuIgboIpob: 6:26am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Depressed101:
you a man indeed for keeping things straight with her, you are a benefactor to her not her father, or brother, or boyfriend.. She should respect you.. If she can't she is better off parking out, although I suspect he has seen and stupid Bobo that has promised her roof over her head, she will soon understand that People like you are rare, very hard to find.. I am very sure by the time that Bobo is done with her puzzy, she will have to find a place to go Rape kill her there. You people just think you can have things your way. If she accused him of rape, medical test can prove it. She will have to spread her smelly olosho pussy and a doctor, nurse or lab scientist will conduct tests on her pussy to prove it. If she's found wanting to be lying, jail and disgrace awaits her. And if na me, nothing in this world can beg me to forgive her. She must suffer for the lies... Use your brain before you accuse someone of rape. A word is enough for the wise. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Ugo4hotish(m): 6:27am On Apr 28, 2021 |
daveyjay:
Good day NLers, please I need your take on this.
I'm a student in one of Nigeria's prominent public universities.
A girl decided to vie for admission in my school via the predigree programme but she had no accommodation. Because of the relationship between my parents and hers, I offered to take her in from January till now
I offered a roof over her head.
The first night she came, she slept on the floor and I wasn't okay with that, the following night, I told her she could have the bed, I vacated my bed and relegated myself to sleeping on the floor, we can't share same bed since she's neither my babe nor sister. And this sleeping routine has continued ever since then. The floor is my new bed
I gave her my spare key, uncensored access to my kitchen and everything within my legal occupancy.
Cut long story short, last week Tuesday she woke up, had her bath, ate then stepped out briefly, when she returned we were outta water. Tap water of course. She called my attention to it to which I remained calm. Meanwhile I hadn't eaten neither had I bathed. At noon, she came to me that she was hungry but couldn't cook due to unavailability of water, I then asked her if I am to fetch her water??!.
She said she was gonn take food stuff to her friend's place (upstairs) to cook.
I replied by asking how many of her friends had lacked water and brought food stuff to cook here??!
She got angry and took some money and left
That same Tuesday, I went to see Chelsea game, when I returned, I asked her if she cooked but she didn't dignify me with her attention talk more of a response.
I thought it was rude but considered it as one of the many tantrums of ladies
The following morning, she woke up, acted like I don't exist, couldn't greet... had her bathe and left. Returned, unlocked the door, walked in like I wasn't there, ate, left to her friend's place.
On Thursday she repeated the routine, I called her back when she was going out, I asked her if she considered me as her father, brother or boyfriend that she'd wake up and start throwing attitudes...
I made her understand that I am her benefactor.
Hardly did I finish before she left. She returned and continued in same path and that has continued till this very moment...
Last night she didn't sleep at home, when she returned in the morning, she unlocked the door with her spare, walked in, ate, brushed, dressed and walked out without a single word e come be like say I be ghost.
What I did, I changed the locks, took some stuff, sealed my door with strict instructions to the caretaker then moved to a friends place outside my lodge and I've been there ever since.
She has returned and has been calling my line but I've been ignoring...
Now, is my action too harsh or still in line??!
You are the man bro.... Thumbs up � |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by BigDawsNet: 6:27am On Apr 28, 2021 |
daveyjay:
Good day NLers, please I need your take on this.
I'm a student in one of Nigeria's prominent public universities.
A girl decided to vie for admission in my school via the predigree programme but she had no accommodation. Because of the relationship between my parents and hers, I offered to take her in from January till now
I offered a roof over her head.
The first night she came, she slept on the floor and I wasn't okay with that, the following night, I told her she could have the bed, I vacated my bed and relegated myself to sleeping on the floor, we can't share same bed since she's neither my babe nor sister. And this sleeping routine has continued ever since then. The floor is my new bed
I gave her my spare key, uncensored access to my kitchen and everything within my legal occupancy.
Cut long story short, last week Tuesday she woke up, had her bath, ate then stepped out briefly, when she returned we were outta water. Tap water of course. She called my attention to it to which I remained calm. Meanwhile I hadn't eaten neither had I bathed. At noon, she came to me that she was hungry but couldn't cook due to unavailability of water, I then asked her if I am to fetch her water??!.
She said she was gonn take food stuff to her friend's place (upstairs) to cook.
I replied by asking how many of her friends had lacked water and brought food stuff to cook here??!
She got angry and took some money and left
That same Tuesday, I went to see Chelsea game, when I returned, I asked her if she cooked but she didn't dignify me with her attention talk more of a response.
I thought it was rude but considered it as one of the many tantrums of ladies
The following morning, she woke up, acted like I don't exist, couldn't greet... had her bathe and left. Returned, unlocked the door, walked in like I wasn't there, ate, left to her friend's place.
On Thursday she repeated the routine, I called her back when she was going out, I asked her if she considered me as her father, brother or boyfriend that she'd wake up and start throwing attitudes...
I made her understand that I am her benefactor.
Hardly did I finish before she left. She returned and continued in same path and that has continued till this very moment...
Last night she didn't sleep at home, when she returned in the morning, she unlocked the door with her spare, walked in, ate, brushed, dressed and walked out without a single word e come be like say I be ghost.
What I did, I changed the locks, took some stuff, sealed my door with strict instructions to the caretaker then moved to a friends place outside my lodge and I've been there ever since.
She has returned and has been calling my line but I've been ignoring...
Now, is my action too harsh or still in line??!
Good job bro... My bro had same experience with a female cousin and it's wasn't pleasant.. Girls sometimes like what we call "conducive" environment... I believe she actually got some expectations between you and her Bet you never created that chance.. The effect is what you experiencing with her now.. Let say you actually unlock that path...she could have been able to control everything you possess and make her own decisions without restrictions.. My advice... Before you return back to ur hostel Call your parents Call the girls and tell her to come meet you with one of her friends to help her carry her bags Go back now and let her pick all her stuffs and leave... Note: there will be some rumors going around about you that you will not like when you here them...but ignore because it's only spread just to punish you.... |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Microwhy: 6:27am On Apr 28, 2021 |
daveyjay:
What I'm concerned about is how both families will receive the news...
Her parents will believe whatever lie she sells
It won't surprise or be a new thing to her parent. Attitude they say is a smoke, it will always find it way to leak. |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Ugo4hotish(m): 6:31am On Apr 28, 2021 |
mmadu4:
she wants you to sleep with her so she can take full control . or become and liability and tie you down with pregnancy you better let her go . if you have money find small single room and porch rent for her so she can carry her wahaala go . Very stupid response. A student should rent house for his fellow student all because he is a guy. Stop dwelling in foolishness |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by OsuIgboIpob: 6:31am On Apr 28, 2021 |
[s] Telstar:
OP, have a change of heart. She is someone's daughter. [/s] Shut up |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by izubext007: 6:31am On Apr 28, 2021 |
disadvantage of familiarities.
I once suffered same. |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by gabbytabby: 6:32am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Both families are quite funny how will they have their young lady living with a young man. They are courting trouble kwo. |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by ashawopikin(m): 6:33am On Apr 28, 2021 |
daveyjay:
Good day NLers, please I need your take on this.
I'm a student in one of Nigeria's prominent public universities.
A girl decided to vie for admission in my school via the predigree programme but she had no accommodation. Because of the relationship between my parents and hers, I offered to take her in from January till now
I offered a roof over her head.
The first night she came, she slept on the floor and I wasn't okay with that, the following night, I told her she could have the bed, I vacated my bed and relegated myself to sleeping on the floor, we can't share same bed since she's neither my babe nor sister. And this sleeping routine has continued ever since then. The floor is my new bed
I gave her my spare key, uncensored access to my kitchen and everything within my legal occupancy.
Cut long story short, last week Tuesday she woke up, had her bath, ate then stepped out briefly, when she returned we were outta water. Tap water of course. She called my attention to it to which I remained calm. Meanwhile I hadn't eaten neither had I bathed. At noon, she came to me that she was hungry but couldn't cook due to unavailability of water, I then asked her if I am to fetch her water??!.
She said she was gonn take food stuff to her friend's place (upstairs) to cook.
I replied by asking how many of her friends had lacked water and brought food stuff to cook here??!
She got angry and took some money and left
That same Tuesday, I went to see Chelsea game, when I returned, I asked her if she cooked but she didn't dignify me with her attention talk more of a response.
I thought it was rude but considered it as one of the many tantrums of ladies
The following morning, she woke up, acted like I don't exist, couldn't greet... had her bathe and left. Returned, unlocked the door, walked in like I wasn't there, ate, left to her friend's place.
On Thursday she repeated the routine, I called her back when she was going out, I asked her if she considered me as her father, brother or boyfriend that she'd wake up and start throwing attitudes...
I made her understand that I am her benefactor.
Hardly did I finish before she left. She returned and continued in same path and that has continued till this very moment...
Last night she didn't sleep at home, when she returned in the morning, she unlocked the door with her spare, walked in, ate, brushed, dressed and walked out without a single word e come be like say I be ghost.
What I did, I changed the locks, took some stuff, sealed my door with strict instructions to the caretaker then moved to a friends place outside my lodge and I've been there ever since.
She has returned and has been calling my line but I've been ignoring...
Now, is my action too harsh or still in line??!
bros u even try sef, if na me i for pursue her tey tey |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Sije(m): 6:34am On Apr 28, 2021 |
With all due respect
There is more to this story than we were told.
My opinion:
This guy must have shown manly advances to her...
And she declined.
(This alone can give a girl mind oh)
The attitude must be accumulated issues the host did not address well.
The simple logic here is that
1. If the girl misbehaves, what is stopping u from telling her parents
2. The girl must be willing to leave and have told her parents but, no funds or accomodation yet.
3. She is seeing someone you don't approve of.
4. She too beautiful and your physical intimidation gives her wings.
I am not far from the truth |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by ashawopikin(m): 6:37am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Richochett:
At least I'm more intelligent than you. Oga u are not |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by wizod(m): 6:38am On Apr 28, 2021 |
u are a real man. don't give her d spare of dis new key. tell her when u will be around so dat she can hv access to d house� and if she thinks u are nothing to her, show her d exit door |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by donhils: 6:39am On Apr 28, 2021 |
daveyjay:
Bossy by vacating my bed and sleeping on the floor since January??!
Bossy by tolerating her insolent behaviour for one full week??!
C'mon
Ignore him |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by Mrlouis: 6:41am On Apr 28, 2021 |
I always tell my boys, "Treat ’em Mean, Keep ’em Keen"
You validated that girl hence she's treating you like cra.p.. number 1 rule: Never ever relinquish your bed to a girl. That was your first mistake to validating her. You're a hybrid simp. Overly Nice but not a push over though. There is still hope for you.
Redeem yourself by reporting all these nuances to your parents and her parents ASAP cos the narrative does always change from here onward. Shalom 2 Likes |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by grandee4u(m): 6:42am On Apr 28, 2021 |
daveyjay:
Good day NLers, please I need your take on this.
I'm a student in one of Nigeria's prominent public universities.
A girl decided to vie for admission in my school via the predigree programme but she had no accommodation. Because of the relationship between my parents and hers, I offered to take her in from January till now
I offered a roof over her head.
The first night she came, she slept on the floor and I wasn't okay with that, the following night, I told her she could have the bed, I vacated my bed and relegated myself to sleeping on the floor, we can't share same bed since she's neither my babe nor sister. And this sleeping routine has continued ever since then. The floor is my new bed
I gave her my spare key, uncensored access to my kitchen and everything within my legal occupancy.
Cut long story short, last week Tuesday she woke up, had her bath, ate then stepped out briefly, when she returned we were outta water. Tap water of course. She called my attention to it to which I remained calm. Meanwhile I hadn't eaten neither had I bathed. At noon, she came to me that she was hungry but couldn't cook due to unavailability of water, I then asked her if I am to fetch her water??!.
She said she was gonn take food stuff to her friend's place (upstairs) to cook.
I replied by asking how many of her friends had lacked water and brought food stuff to cook here??!
She got angry and took some money and left
That same Tuesday, I went to see Chelsea game, when I returned, I asked her if she cooked but she didn't dignify me with her attention talk more of a response.
I thought it was rude but considered it as one of the many tantrums of ladies
The following morning, she woke up, acted like I don't exist, couldn't greet... had her bathe and left. Returned, unlocked the door, walked in like I wasn't there, ate, left to her friend's place.
On Thursday she repeated the routine, I called her back when she was going out, I asked her if she considered me as her father, brother or boyfriend that she'd wake up and start throwing attitudes...
I made her understand that I am her benefactor.
Hardly did I finish before she left. She returned and continued in same path and that has continued till this very moment...
Last night she didn't sleep at home, when she returned in the morning, she unlocked the door with her spare, walked in, ate, brushed, dressed and walked out without a single word e come be like say I be ghost.
What I did, I changed the locks, took some stuff, sealed my door with strict instructions to the caretaker then moved to a friends place outside my lodge and I've been there ever since.
She has returned and has been calling my line but I've been ignoring...
Now, is my action too harsh or still in line??!
Two things are involved: is either see finish or she's into you but you're not just getting the sign....Women, a complex and weird creature!!! Back to your question, go back to the drawing board like how she gain access to your apartment |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by mrkings84(m): 6:43am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Richochett:
You don't have any legal right to lock her out of her personal belongings (e.g clothes). If you're not comfortable with her attitude simply tell her to start looking for accommodation.
Moreover, from your narratives I can't see anywhere the girl has wronged you. You're are just acting bossy because its your house 
Allow her to enter the house. Guy just hear yourself. I know your type. People like you would have done worse if in the OP's position! |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by seohubb: 6:43am On Apr 28, 2021 |
LordDarius:
You're trying so hard to sound Intelligent, but you ain't... Sorry Bro, No vex .seconded, thirded and everythingded!! |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by benebaby77: 6:44am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Rocktation:
But she clearly told you that she couldn't cook due to unavailability of water. You are the host and very likely the one with the muscles. I don't see how fetching water for your guest to prep your meal is a big deal. Unless, you want her to pay for the roof over her head, by doing all the house chores, I'm certainly not understanding what really prompted this fight.
There's probably more that you are not telling. Guest? After four months of staying with him. Your gender can do better than this. |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by seohubb: 6:45am On Apr 28, 2021 |
Richochett:
At least I'm more intelligent than you. You are not..buhari get sense pass you |
| Re: Accommodating An Insolent Girl by IvarDboneless: 6:46am On Apr 28, 2021 |
daveyjay:
Good day NLers, please I need your take on this.
I'm a student in one of Nigeria's prominent public universities.
A girl decided to vie for admission in my school via the predigree programme but she had no accommodation. Because of the relationship between my parents and hers, I offered to take her in from January till now
I offered a roof over her head.
Na man you be....women are like kids. She will learn the hard way and know how important you are later on when she displays same attitude at her new heaven..cheers
The first night she came, she slept on the floor and I wasn't okay with that, the following night, I told her she could have the bed, I vacated my bed and relegated myself to sleeping on the floor, we can't share same bed since she's neither my babe nor sister. And this sleeping routine has continued ever since then. The floor is my new bed
I gave her my spare key, uncensored access to my kitchen and everything within my legal occupancy.
Cut long story short, last week Tuesday she woke up, had her bath, ate then stepped out briefly, when she returned we were outta water. Tap water of course. She called my attention to it to which I remained calm. Meanwhile I hadn't eaten neither had I bathed. At noon, she came to me that she was hungry but couldn't cook due to unavailability of water, I then asked her if I am to fetch her water??!.
She said she was gonn take food stuff to her friend's place (upstairs) to cook.
I replied by asking how many of her friends had lacked water and brought food stuff to cook here??!
She got angry and took some money and left
That same Tuesday, I went to see Chelsea game, when I returned, I asked her if she cooked but she didn't dignify me with her attention talk more of a response.
I thought it was rude but considered it as one of the many tantrums of ladies
The following morning, she woke up, acted like I don't exist, couldn't greet... had her bathe and left. Returned, unlocked the door, walked in like I wasn't there, ate, left to her friend's place.
On Thursday she repeated the routine, I called her back when she was going out, I asked her if she considered me as her father, brother or boyfriend that she'd wake up and start throwing attitudes...
I made her understand that I am her benefactor.
Hardly did I finish before she left. She returned and continued in same path and that has continued till this very moment...
Last night she didn't sleep at home, when she returned in the morning, she unlocked the door with her spare, walked in, ate, brushed, dressed and walked out without a single word e come be like say I be ghost.
What I did, I changed the locks, took some stuff, sealed my door with strict instructions to the caretaker then moved to a friends place outside my lodge and I've been there ever since.
She has returned and has been calling my line but I've been ignoring...
Now, is my action too harsh or still in line??!
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