You should have the opposite called COOL TEMPER.

Nack her 2by2

jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.

It's a quick temper if it occurs frequently.

It obvious that it bothers you, hence you are seeking for advice. Please see a marriage counsellor to know if you should proceed with the marriage.

As for your fiancee's anger management problem, it's important she seeks professional help. There might other underlying issues. There's nothing wrong with her. She just needs to learn how to manage those emotions better. As a self help, she should pay attention to the triggers and avoid them as much as possible.

All the best bro.

if a woman with hot temper does not sit well with you, why are you still with her?

jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.

I had a GF like that, on any little thing, she will start flaring up and throwing things away, I had to cut the relationship cux I can't deal with anger issues.

I remembered getting both of us food from an Eatery and the chicken inside hers was Krispy chicken while mine was spicy, I took a bite of her chicken and she started shouting and complaining, you won't believe cux of that little bite I had, she spilled the rest of the food on the fooor.

I couldn't deal with all sorts of her words so I had to cut it.

DON'T MARRY THE PERSON!

jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.

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No cause for alarm.

Na AC fire or hot oil bath go settle una matter.

Congratulations!

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You ain't married yet and she's already showing off steam with hot temper...wait until you guys have said your vows then you'll understand what thermodynamics refers to as superheated steam.

Tear race and save your life

BECAUSE NA BY FORCE TO LOVE _____AWON SELEYA MUMMY AND DADDY ON NAIRALAND

she will end up being fat and you as tin as broom stick.

You better let her go cos the more she settles the more hostile she becomes and when she have male kids, she will transfer that love you think she has for u to d kids .

Then u become a lonely dumped ass

Ask her to get treatment. And give her a few years before you consider marriage. Look for real progress and effort.

OP, have you come across the world RED FLAG before ?


I would rather advise someone to marry a religion extremist than end up with hot temper person


I just hope you know this on time, make her hot temper no send you to your untimely death then she will now be apologizing to your family later



shebi she's the only lady with sweet pussy in Nigeria abi?

Xenry:
"My brother, marry her, she will change after marriage," I think that is what you want to hear from us.Your case will surely reach Front-Page after una marriage, like, "Woman arrested for breaking husband's spinal cord (photos)."

Don't mind him. Instead of him to dump her, he is subtly seeking validation from his fellow simps to go ahead and wife her.

jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.

Mr jiksman3
Most of my threads is about myself, so let me tell you short story that may help your destiny

I once dated a girl who's anger nearly killed me. How?

It was difficult for me to talk out fustration with her. She get angry anyhow to the point that I nearly had accident.

Before that girl anger make me enter inside pave road I no even know. It was God that says it was not yet my time to die

The bolded,
It is not his duty to help her overcome her problems. If the woman in question felt that her temper was an issue, she would have worked on it.

You sound like the type that encourage people into relationships when it is obvious that the other party has issues.

Issues should be dealt with by the person that has it, before putting themselves forward for relationships.

TripleDdotcom:
Faults and being prone to error is one of the things that define humanity. But dealing with it with the right attitude is what's important.

The wrong attitude - like some people do - is to recognize the attitude and continue with it or not bother to change it due to malicious desires or the carefree attitude and excuse of "everybody has faults".

But the right attitude is to recognize that fault and strive as much as possible to correct it; getting back up and continue to try if someone fails or relapses in it.

People are out there with their own faults; there's most likely something you wouldn't like if your present girl was replaced with a thousand different women. You'll probably find an area where she's lagging in character just as you yourself are lagging in perfect character to some extent.

So eliminating someone from your life - just because she has a MANAGEABLE/REPARABLE fault - is somewhat illogical or not ideal as a move.

Anger is not a good thing. it destroys things and its consequences can be very disastrous. There are numerous aspects or examples of life affairs that I could give in which if anger was to be applied, calamities will most likely follow.

What you must do now is to come together with her to identify this problem and try as much as you can - with all credible means within your capacity - to rid her of this problem. On that (the measures you're going to take), you should do your research. This is not a time to leave her. She needs your help; it's a time for you to help her.

But if after all efforts and no considerable changes have reflected, then you have to pick a choice.

Take her like that, knowing you're at risk of whatever fate has in store for you as a consequence of her anger OR you leave her to free yourself from whatever her problem could result to for you in future.

Take care son, and God guide you.


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If she's willing to accept that she's hot tempered and also ready to learn to work on it, give her a chance. Where that is not the case, let her go for your own good and future peaceful living.

u have Fianceé her already lol

I wont even waste my time with any hot tempered woman.

I value Sanity and reason above anything else, well some men can handle that.

I want to create value with my Life not waste it with some self centered or controlling person.

why is she hot tempered, lol.

HeyHey:
Op, I cant advise you to marry her or not but I can tell you first hand information from my brother's hot tempered wife.

She go change, she go cool etc them marry. After they got married they stayed 1 week with us before moving to their house. Omo, that week na die. For night oo, morning oo Fight. Everyday, my bro get fresh scratch for all him neck and hand. My mama say mk he no retaliate (though he slapped her too), he is smallish, she is big.



After them move, the situation got worse. At least in my presence and presence of my siblings, she pour am glass of water, and in her anger constantly abuses him.
Pour him hot water for him hand. What broke the camel's back was when she chased him with knife, he ran and locked the door. All my uncles and aunties pack go there to throway her load o, her people said its spiritual problem. Then they already had 4kids, where them go start from?

After that she opted for religion, prayers, vigils etc, it helped calm her down. She started a business too, it keeps her busier, plus the 4kids. She is better now, after 11years marriage

Your own story might be like this, might be worse or might be better. But I pray you both come out triumphant and alive

jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.

Ephesians 4:26 says Be angry and sin not

It's is actually not bad to be angry considering the fact that we are humans but, the ability to control the anger matters a lot.

If in the process of her anger, she sin and keep committing the act. I'll advise you flee because 1000 broken relationship is better than 1 broken marriage

The Cause of Anger is Usually FEAR.

The Only way to Overcome FEAR is to get into
the Habit of doing things that you are Scared of.

Ironically Speaking i am also embarking of
a self-development project to overcome my Fears.

I just started reading the book the 50th Law
by Robert Greene and 50 cents.
The main Topic of the book is Overcoming Fear.

Click to download pdf:

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Chris525:

A woman is not to be hot tempered. How is she going to cope with your kids and in-laws or even neighbors? Thats HBP for you, sure banker. Also kids are cute and lovely but can be pretty annoying and frustrating, how will she cope? This will affect the atmosphere around your home because all the tolerance you’re having now will run short when you feel like she’s not being rational with the kids.

I dont know how you intend to go out all day and come home to a woman who gets upset at the slightest things, you see those guys that go to the bar from work and come home late? You’ll soon join them.

Take her for anger management and make it clear to her if she doesn’t show visible change, you cant proceed. Again, women are known to mellow when they’re with a guy they really like...think deeply.

This can only come from a married man with real practical experience. By the way OP, THE SUMMARY IS THIS ..'women are known to mellow when they’re with a guy they really like...think deeply.' If she does not value the realtionship enough to mellow down, then ...

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RIP in advance if you don't cut ties with the barni

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This is actually good advise.

angelfallz:
The bolded,
It is not his duty to help her overcome her problems. If the woman in question felt that her temper was an issue, she would have worked on it.

You sound like the type that encourage people into relationships when it is obvious that the other party has issues.

Issues should be dealt with by the person that has it, before putting themselves forward for relationships.

Leave her. She doesnot love u that much if she keeps showing her anger 2wards you. She cant change 2wards u as she does not love u that much. When n if she meets one she loves dearly she will change that anger nature!
Leave her my friend. Do u think she will have anger problems if she meets an anger hot tempered man willing to give her slaps at will?

jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Woxz9bIg6Mk

She need serious anger management classes. Don't be in a hurry to marry

jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.

Can't you find another girl?there are some many fishes in the water.

please please please. It is the person that has a problem that should sort it out. people that have issues should sort out their issues before presenting themselves for relationships

Sweetshuga:


Well said, I don't know why most people advise lovers to leave their partners because of a fault which isn't their making and by the way, love is all about helping each other overcome their weaknesses and not abandon them to deal with it, if we don't help our partners overcome their flaws then why are we friends and lovers?

Mr jiksman3

I know a woman who once use razor blade to tear her hubby ass when the man was sound asleep.

Words are enough for the wise