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Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by JUBILEE2000: 12:34pm On Apr 28
jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.

Anger is a spirit. Cast it out!!!!
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by izubext007: 12:38pm On Apr 28
if u are the chief financier in the relationship, she will not be behaving like that.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Eluala(m): 1:09pm On Apr 28
jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.

Walk away. You are not a therapist. If you ignore this advise, you will live to regret terribly or in extreme case, die in the process.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by dalass(f): 1:21pm On Apr 28
Wakins:
Sit her down and talk sense into her. And you're gonna have a lot of patience.

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Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Vicibelle: 1:42pm On Apr 28
Lmao


Xenry:
"My brother, marry her, she will change after marriage," I think that is what you want to hear from us.Your case will surely reach Front-Page after una marriage, like, "Woman arrested for breaking husband's spinal cord (photos)."
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Newboss(m): 1:46pm On Apr 28
Wakins:
Sit her down and talk sense into her. And you're gonna have a lot of patience.

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You can't talk sense into anyone. Don't learn this the hard way

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Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by shalomm10: 1:56pm On Apr 28
PlayMaker14:
The handwriting on the wall is clear enough...


Nor go let "I TOO LOVE AM" make you drink sniper.


A word for the wise is enough.

If he leave her who he leave her for? Me?
Abeg allow the guy marry her make we know the ones wey remain
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Loisemm2(f): 2:01pm On Apr 28
izubext007:
if u are the chief financier in the relationship, she will not be behaving like that.
Says who? Some no send who get money pass o. Some levels of anger does not respect anyone or money. Na very strong hand dey bend to.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by 1newnairalander: 2:06pm On Apr 28
MARRY HER AT YOUR OWN PERIL. sPEAKING FROM EXPERIENCE.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Boatswain(m): 2:08pm On Apr 28
jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.


And you believe she will change after marriage ? No! That will be your biggest mistake to start with.

I dated one like that and whenever she gets angry, she must carry out what is on her mind before calming down and apologizing... O mo.. I quit o
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by ofiko123(m): 2:11pm On Apr 28
Talk to God about the issue, he will definitely answer you...
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by obryns: 2:20pm On Apr 28
My bro,it is easy for people to advise you based on theory but in practice flee from a woman with anger issues,you will never be happy in that marriage,you,your siblings, parents, friends, children etc nobody will be spared and this her coming to apologise later is because she wants to coin you into marriage when you guys marry the apologies will become fewer,besides these apologies never compensate for what is said or done during d anger crisis,so d time to flee is now,no sentiments,some of us talk from experience not textbook theories
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Nobody: 2:40pm On Apr 28
jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.
Tell Us D Crazy Things She Had Done 4 Us To Know Weda U Are Safe Or Not. Make U No Go Make Her Vex, She Come Go Burst Bottle 4 Ur Head Or Stab U To Death With Knife.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Lostchild(m): 2:42pm On Apr 28
PrimadonnaO:


God forbid!! shocked

She was a horrible person and her anger and bitterness was such that the man had to flee for his own life.

One of the thing a person should look into their mate is temperament.

I, myself I am a peace loving person and I cant see myself being with a hot temper woman. Never ever

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Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by 09085607453king: 3:14pm On Apr 28
I am not a cheap guy. I don't just give in to any woman or lady. At least am grateful that no woman has seen my boxers
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Onyi90(m): 3:19pm On Apr 28
HeyHey:
Op, I cant advise you to marry her or not but I can tell you first hand information from my brother's hot tempered wife.

She go change, she go cool etc them marry. After they got married they stayed 1 week with us before moving to their house. Omo, that week na die. For night oo, morning oo Fight. Everyday, my bro get fresh scratch for all him neck and hand. My mama say mk he no retaliate (though he slapped her too), he is smallish, she is big.



After them move, the situation got worse. At least in my presence and presence of my siblings, she pour am glass of water, and in her anger constantly abuses him.
Pour him hot water for him hand. What broke the camel's back was when she chased him with knife, he ran and locked the door. All my uncles and aunties pack go there to throway her load o, her people said its spiritual problem. Then they already had 4kids, where them go start from?

After that she opted for religion, prayers, vigils etc, it helped calm her down. She started a business too, it keeps her busier, plus the 4kids. She is better now, after 11years marriage

Your own story might be like this, might be worse or might be better. But I pray you both come out triumphant and alive

It's a cross for you man. The question is, can you bear it? If you can't, go ahead and attend to that fear and doubt you have in your heart. Wish you the best in life �
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by frozen70(f): 3:24pm On Apr 28
jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.

It may be in her gene
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by izubext007: 3:30pm On Apr 28
oga leave dat girl......make she go find who she go kill for future.......by the which tribe
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by UDOKABESTLUV(m): 3:36pm On Apr 28
Run away from her immediately
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by MummyD2020(f): 3:40pm On Apr 28
PlayMaker14:
The handwriting on the wall is clear enough...


Nor go let "I TOO LOVE AM" make you drink sniper.


A word for the wise is enough.

If its like that, no one will be married or manage relationships. Even you, amongst your friends or family members, there are very bad characters they display but you over look and carry on. Its workable but when the woman isnt planning on improving on her own errors, then the guy can take his decision. No be small thing, give up! My opinion.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by PlayMaker14: 3:45pm On Apr 28
MummyD2020:


If its like that, no one will be married or manage relationships. Even you, amongst your friends or family members, there are very bad characters they display but you over look and carry on. Its workable but when the woman isnt planning on improving on her own errors, then the guy can take his decision. No be small thing, give up! My opinion.
You have a point Madam, but in this case, it has to do with a life threatening character which is "Uncontrollable Anger"


I don't tolerate that.

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Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by MummyD2020(f): 3:47pm On Apr 28
SmellingAnus:
jiksman3 : A wise man once said...
Them no dey use sweetness of woman toto to take marry her...

I know say her toto dey make you , you no dey reason well, but leave that relationship now cos I can assure you that there is very high chance of you regretting it... Just take this advice above... I can bet you that the person above is still suffering from the effects of hot tempered wife till date... e get why...

What happens to the kids?
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Akuruoulo(m): 3:48pm On Apr 28
bestabigaelever:
Do not marry her o
I don't want to type rip o
This one una the change like this. Waitn happen ?
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Akuruoulo(m): 3:53pm On Apr 28
Sweetshuga:


Well said, I don't know why most people advise lovers to leave their partners because of a fault which isn't their making and by the way, love is all about helping each other overcome their weaknesses and not abandon them to deal with it, if we don't help our partners overcome their flaws then why are we friends and lovers?
Tot women said "men should stop asking women to change ther xter , and also that men should love her they way she is" ?
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by MummyD2020(f): 4:00pm On Apr 28
PlayMaker14:
You have a point Madam, but in this case, it has to do with a life threatening character which is "Uncontrollable Anger"


I don't tolerate that.

Everyone, i mean everyone have their own gidigba for body. Some is gossip, envy, lack of management, lack of love. What about women that dont want to see their husband's people around? Will you chase her out? name it. In marriage, we bear alot. He is even lucky that he found out. What if it is the one he could not see before marriage? If she doesnt improve, then he can take his decision. But its workable.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by bestabigaelever(f): 4:03pm On Apr 28
Akuruoulo:
This one una the change like this. Waitn happen ?
I don't get your question
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by xtervaganza(m): 4:05pm On Apr 28
jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.
she gets angry at you and misbehaves because you allow it.



Same lady that gets angry at you and say things to you out of anger is gentle as a dove to a real Gee while collecting the pénis steadily and obediently
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by PlayMaker14: 4:12pm On Apr 28
MummyD2020:


Everyone, i mean everyone have their own gidigba for body. Some is gossip, envy, lack of management, lack of love. What about women that dont want to see their husband's people around? Will you chase her out? name it. In marriage, we bear alot. He is even lucky that he found out. What if it is the one he could not see before marriage? If she doesnt improve, then he can take his decision. But its workable.
That's why it is advisable to marry someone who you can atleast tolerate their flaws...

"Uncontrollable Anger" is not something you bear in marriage and I don't think it's workable... Anger is an Evil spirit.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Ellylace(f): 4:13pm On Apr 28
Is she violent? Has she ever struck you or used backhanded ways to get back at you with the aim to hurt you? If yes, please my brother flee...FLEE!!

However, if it's just plain anger or irrational moodiness, it's a sign of immaturity but you can help her with that using love, patience, prayer and counselling.

Best of luck sha.

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Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Richthekid: 4:31pm On Apr 28
Oh

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