Welcome, Guest: Register On Nairaland / LOGIN! / Trending / Recent / New
Stats: 3,148,906 members, 7,802,949 topics. Date: Saturday, 20 April 2024 at 04:52 AM

My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. - Romance (4) - Nairaland

Nairaland Forum / Nairaland / General / Romance / My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. (29679 Views)

I Caught My Fianceé Cheating The Second Time. / I Suspect My Fianceé Is Cheating On Me With Her Bestie Banker / Baby Dies 2 Weeks After An Encounter With My Fianceé (2) (3) (4)

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (Reply) (Go Down)

Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by favour32(m): 10:33am On Apr 28, 2021
Run away!
Hot head!
You cannot manage it in a lifetime.
It was what accelerated the death of one of my brothers that married a woman with hot temper.
If you ignore and marry her...you will remember this comment few years later.
You cannot change her.

3 Likes

Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by ibechris(m): 10:34am On Apr 28, 2021
That means u just use ur hand carry bomb come keep for ur house waiting for the time it will explode.

Listen,every woman who had stabbed their husband as a result of anger,actually mentioned the devil as the cause and they beg and cried profusely for forgiveness but the law never spared them.

So,dont start what u cant finish.

My girl friend in the university stabbed me in my stomach because she called me and I didn't know my phone ranged and then,she came around and took the pen knife on my table to stab me...men, I almost died before I sought for medical attention.

Be careful,dont just love,love with sense.

5 Likes

Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by jaxxy(m): 10:34am On Apr 28, 2021
jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.

It requires the right action, some action management advice and others tough actions so they learn. The person has to know it is wrong, accept it is wrong and then learn how to change. It’s a process of behavioral correction.

The level of anger and characteristics or how it’s displayed matters. Some it’s just vex and malice, some insults bt the dangerous one is physical attacks/abuse. So u need to be careful.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by penplus: 10:35am On Apr 28, 2021
jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.


Run
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by gbemishile: 10:36am On Apr 28, 2021
heard a story on a radio program one day and it really sent chills down my spine as a man.
the woman met this older man and they got along real well up to considering marriage.her parents were really against the marriage,but she said she so much loved the guy,so she went against her parents wish.she said she got to know the man had anger issues with the way he beats up other guys at any slightest issue,but she thought she could change him.she said when he is angry and uncontrollable,she would call him by his pet name and he would stop immediately,so she felt she could change him and he wouldn't hurt her.
after marriage,the beatings started on a serious high.

2 Likes

Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by lucky4west: 10:36am On Apr 28, 2021
hmmmm all this talk of love helping each other with issues such as anger etc just de make me laff...read between the lines now if u expect her to change in marriage u are dreaming she will remind you she was like this b4 u tied the knot....just let her go now, else she will feel u are too attached to her to leave her thus she will start playing on ur intelligence, b4 u say Jack kids don show and then u cant easily let her off...na then she go show u pepper....the small luv when de blind you now go clear one time!
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Bright2(m): 10:37am On Apr 28, 2021
You showed her much love and care, that may be the reason. Reverse!

Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by MrEndowed1: 10:37am On Apr 28, 2021
She has made it very easy for you to take a decision. RUN FOR YOUR LIFE!!!!!
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by bluefilm: 10:38am On Apr 28, 2021
jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.

End that relationship now.

Send her away now as fast as possible.

You can never tame bad temper.

3 Likes

Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by IghravweIG(m): 10:38am On Apr 28, 2021
Olayetan:


I had a GF like that, on any little thing, she will start flaring up and throwing things away, I had to cut the relationship cux I can't deal with anger issues.

I remembered getting both of us food from an Eatery and the chicken inside hers was Krispy chicken while mine was spicy, I took a bite of her chicken and she started shouting and complaining, you won't believe cux of that little bite I had, she spilled the rest of the food on the fooor.

I couldn't deal with all sorts of her words so I had to cut it.
Good you cut it off or young man like u for done get stroke by now.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by favour32(m): 10:40am On Apr 28, 2021
Heavensent01:
OP, have you come across the world RED FLAG before ?


I would rather advise someone to marry a religion extremist than end up with hot temper person


I just hope you know this on time, make her hot temper no send you to your untimely death then she will now be apologizing to your family later



shebi she's the only lady with sweet pussy in Nigeria abi?
Sweet pussy full everywhere yagayaga!
I wife two for years now...and more to follow but no hot temper from both grin

1 Like

Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by SeriouslySense(m): 10:41am On Apr 28, 2021
Its could be hard to change, especially if the brain is affected, sometimes could be a problem with the prefrontal lope, due to injury or trauma.
gbemishile:
heard a story on a radio program one day and it really sent chills down my spine as a man.
the woman met this older man and they got along real well up to considering marriage.her parents were really against the marriage,but she said she so much loved the guy,so she went against her parents wish.she said she got to know the man had anger issues with the way he beats up other guys at any slightest issue,but she thought she could change him.she said when he is angry and uncontrollable,she would call him by his pet name and he would stop immediately,so she felt she could change him and he wouldn't hurt her.
after marriage,the beatings started on a serious high.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by IghravweIG(m): 10:41am On Apr 28, 2021
Never stay with a bitvch that has got anger issues. It usually doesn't end well at all.

So what do you do then? Throw her back to the streets where she truly belongs.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by scooprush: 10:42am On Apr 28, 2021
this websiteIn most business circles, actually white-washed with indecencies like defilement, plot, cheating, and so forth Independent of the size of the business, insidious practices are seen wherever in light of the fact that the pressing factor of beating a futile daily existence rivalry in the market is very high.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Nobody: 10:42am On Apr 28, 2021
jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.
... Oll Boy !!! Run for your Life ! All those News about women killing there husband or mistress killing and bathing there partners with Hot water or oil wey you dey read on this forum "" e no dey teach you anything ni undecided undecided undecided

2 Likes

Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by KhalidSan(m): 10:44am On Apr 28, 2021
[color=#990000][/color] I'm Facing Same shit with my Woman....
It's breaking my Heart any day it happens cry cry
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by sharpwriter(m): 10:49am On Apr 28, 2021
Olayetan:


I had a GF like that, on any little thing, she will start flaring up and throwing things away, I had to cut the relationship cux I can't deal with anger issues.

I remembered getting both of us food from an Eatery and the chicken inside hers was Krispy chicken while mine was spicy, I took a bite of her chicken and she started shouting and complaining, you won't believe cux of that little bite I had, she spilled the rest of the food on the fooor.

I couldn't deal with all sorts of her words so I had to cut it.

Kai ....that one no get love for heart o; dat one na mad woman. Imagine what this kind will do to house maids or wards under their care.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by kushme: 10:50am On Apr 28, 2021
jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.


From experience oh, when I noticed the anger issue, I decided within me to be fvcking her and be caring less about her getting high on "easy anger".

To me it was just a game like the EA sport , l'll pet her, fvck her then see her off,

Las las, she left, found herself another guy, but the love story for them ended worse.

most times, peace will be far from your life. Now, let me ask you, how long can you tolerate the "easy anger"?

I believe most persons who get angry easily are suffering from low self-esteem.. Most of them can't even take a joke. Poooor sense of humor

It will become worse should the both of you start living together..

If you love "peace of mind" then run...

2 Likes

Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by femifemi1(m): 10:50am On Apr 28, 2021
Xenry:
"My brother, marry her, she will change after marriage," I think that is what you want to hear from us.Your case will surely reach Front-Page after una marriage, like, "Woman arrested for breaking husband's spinal cord (photos)."


Afterward she will apologize grin Is there anything "Anger" can not bring down to ruin?

People suffering from it, always wish to avoid it, but they always couldn't. It is much more powerful than your mortal rejection. It is even worse than trying to overcome smoking, drinking and formication.

Forget all this anger management program, once that button is triggered, that person will lose control. Least you know, Anger is a spirit.

A spirit for the single purpose to destroy. As it is about to destroy this couple's relationship now.

With Fasting and Prayers, the mortal can conquer the spiritual.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by baconline(m): 10:51am On Apr 28, 2021
She will never change,if u accept her like that and u are willing to live with the consequences then go ahead
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Aroyjunior(m): 10:51am On Apr 28, 2021
You dead already.letting go would save your ass

1 Like

Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Sanctecosma(m): 10:52am On Apr 28, 2021
one of the most cherished advice from my big bro:" Marry a woman who will give you peace of mind. A woman who rarely gives in to fits of anger"













Bro, the red flag has never been so glaring

3 Likes

Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Bright2(m): 10:53am On Apr 28, 2021

1 Like

Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by nams77: 10:55am On Apr 28, 2021
Abort! I repeat abort!!!
Approach target at your own risk!

3 Likes

Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by sgtponzihater1(m): 10:57am On Apr 28, 2021
jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.

Flee.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by OBku4(m): 10:57am On Apr 28, 2021
Oga OP, do wetin u wan do jare! why u dey ask us.

Nobody send U.. alive or dead. all man get him problem.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:57am On Apr 28, 2021
Lostchild:
Mr jiksman3

I know a woman who once use razor blade to tear her hubby ass when the man was sound asleep.

Words are enough for the wise


God forbid!! shocked
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:58am On Apr 28, 2021
ibechris:
That means u just use ur hand carry bomb come keep for ur house waiting for the time it will explode.

Listen,every woman who had stabbed their husband as a result of anger,actually mentioned the devil as the cause and they beg and cried profusely for forgiveness but the law never spared them.

So,dont start what u cant finish.

My girl friend in the university stabbed me in my stomach because she called me and I didn't know my phone ranged and then,she came around and took the pen knife on my table to stab me...men, I almost died before I sought for medical attention.

Be careful,dont just love,love with sense.

shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Offpoint1: 10:59am On Apr 28, 2021
jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.
Same with my girl o, best is to ignore her. She always come back to her senses hours later and apologizes... I no dey even send again.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Victoria938(f): 11:00am On Apr 28, 2021
Speaking from experience. I am short tempered but usually only with those closest to me. I do feel guilty and wish I didn't always react the way I do. The best thing to do is to have a chat with your fiance and explain to her that if it keeps happening you won't stick around no matter how much you love her. If you always forgive then she has no reason to change.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by tweakdude1: 11:00am On Apr 28, 2021
jiksman3:
Hi everyone, please i need an urgent advice and suggestions on the girl i wish to marry. Her major problem is that she gets angry easily and often but later will apologize after saying or doing something out of anger.

Guy in the name of God please leave her. If you do not be ready to deal with crisis at home.

The word of God is clear. Avoid a nagging woman.
Re: My Fianceé Has Very Hot Temper, Please Advise Me. by Jimoh7555: 11:00am On Apr 28, 2021
Don't marry her, she will never stop that attitude when you both get married and will eventually frustrate you to get married to a second wife.

This is from experience.

(1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (Reply)

Ladies, Muscular Men Vs Skinny Men, Which One Do You Prefer / 10 Reasons Why Marriages/relationships Fail In Nigeria / 5 Clear Signs She Is A Girlfriend Material To Love Forevermore

(Go Up)

Sections: politics (1) business autos (1) jobs (1) career education (1) romance computers phones travel sports fashion health
religion celebs tv-movies music-radio literature webmasters programming techmarket

Links: (1) (2) (3) (4) (5) (6) (7) (8) (9) (10)

Nairaland - Copyright © 2005 - 2024 Oluwaseun Osewa. All rights reserved. See How To Advertise. 52
Disclaimer: Every Nairaland member is solely responsible for anything that he/she posts or uploads on Nairaland.