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I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

And why,will u date a guy and expect him not to ask for sex...na ur blood brother?pls,grow up.

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

its possible as long as you know throw any stupid billing, if you want to confirm whether the guy is generous or stingy ,ask him to send money to orphange but you dare bill him for any reason till wedding day. Even if your phone spoil or anything, ask your brother or father to get you another one

Lol

Wait for a person that's trusting and patient enough to wait till your wedding night.

This one easy, dating was designed to serve as an excuse to have sex

In this current generation, the only person you can date, ask for money without wanting anything in return is your father, brothers and me!!

Rare gems like me are few.

I'm financially independent

I'm financially independent

DICKstractor:




In this current generation, the only person you can date, ask for money without wanting anything in return is your father, brothers and me!!

Rare gems like me are few.

Rosement:
I'm financially independent

I wasn't talking about you. It was a general term

BTW, I wasn't talking about only finance

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

You're a virgin? And that sounds interesting. How old are you?

25

Telstar:
You're a virgin? And that sounds interesting. How old are you?

Do as I do, do as I do, do as I do eh. Do as I do, do as I do, do as I do eh. As I dey do, you dey do. As I dey move, you dey move. Do as I do, do as I do, do as I do eh.
Na the thing you dey do dey make am wan pop rosey

Story for the gods......

Rosement:
25

Oh okay but by the time you clock 26, 27 or 28, the game changes.

I am getting depressed that why I asked this question. I need advice on how to make my relationship work without sex, that's all.

aktolly54:
its possible as long as you know throw any stupid billing, if you want to confirm whether the guy is generous or stingy ,ask him to send money to orphange but you dare bill him for any reason till wedding day. Even if your phone spoil or anything, ask your brother or father to get you another one

stick to your status quo

don't yield to to pressure

virginity might have been rubbished under various guise in today's world but GOD honours it
sex is meant for marriage

im ready for such
follow me.

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

nice there are guys out there who want what you want just like me.

Rosement:
I am getting depressed that why I asked this question. I need advice on how to make my relationship work without sex, that's all.

Rosement:
I am getting depressed that why I asked this question. I need advice on how to make my relationship work without sex, that's all.

nothing special about sex, if you choose to celibate till your wedding night, stay away from relationship till like 6month you want to marry then start a relationship thats the only way it will work. If you are ready to marry in 6months, start a relationship then not that you will expect someone to be with you doing boyfriend role and not touching you

Stay out of a relationship young woman.

If you know you don't want sex till your wedding day, then keep yourself and your love till you're ready to settle down.

Body no be firewood.

No man go see babe wey get nice ass and succulent boobs wey he no go one chop am.

why can't girls date without asking for money?

Smellysperm chook mouth...
The future is kpekus

We can date without sex if our pockets will not be involved in the relationship.

Smellysperm chook mouth...
The future is kpekus
But girls are the ones enjoying the thing called sex but instead they behave like fallen angels..
Ndi ara

@op, if he dates you without sex, u will dump him... Trust me, I have done no sex relationships for about 4times now.

You will surely dump him.. So my advice, desist from men like you did till 25, and wait till marriage

just date sokoto guys.na we de date for years without asking for anything

Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Break up once again,

There are such men out there. I've known some. The big BUT is that they could secretly be cheating with someone else behind your back (not necessarily all would be like this, mind you...I always give benefits of doubt), especially the ones that see sex as snacks and if the relationship is long-term. But outside that, they'd do right by you and may really give up their wild ways, when it's time to wife you. So on your part, best be prepared mentally, 'cos you could be bound to notice certain shadiness and may need to start mastering the art of turning a blind eye.

Again, don't expect such a man to just let you be. He will keep asking and trying to get you to change your mind, touch you even, but that shouldn't warrant a breakup, unless you suspect he might use force somewhere down the line.

Incidentally, that kind of man may as well be the man you are with, right NOW.

op abeg why can't girls date without asking money....just curious to know ni??

tosik:
op abeg why can't girls date without asking money....just curious to know ni??

There are girls that actually date without asking for money. Change the circle you roll with.

Rocktation:
There are girls that actually date without asking for money. Change the circle you roll with.

then there are guys that doesn't ask for sex....it seems you wanna twist your answer