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Hello Everyone.

This is my first ever topic on this session.


I'm a bit confused on something I need clarification on.

I used to belong to these group of friends but I noticed a full blown betrayal spirit among them.


Anytime I bring a lady around them with the intention of dating ,they always try to woo the lady so they can sleep with the lady.


They have tried it with different of the girls I bring around.
Most of the girls fall for them and I have to end the relationship with the girl while I continue friendship with my friends

Two of the girls reject them outrightly while warning me against the type of friends they are.

On 2 occasions I have had to blow up with my so called friends on why they keep betraying me but they claim the girls are trying to manipulate me .


This is the tactics they use:They spoil my image before the girls ,some of the girls end up leaving me for them but they don't keep the girls after having their way.

Now I don't bring girls around them, they have changed the narrative about me not having a girlfriend but I know better than to bring my girls around betrayals.


But why are some guys like that


Update:::

My Guys done do me the thing again...

So after calling their attention to what they are doing, One said I had low self esteem And I was jealous of him and continued with tryin to sleep with any girl they know I have an interaction with...

I nor do friendship again abeg.

Make every body get out

Flee from bad company

The fact is that no good thing comes from this bad company than talk about sex and alcohol.
Or is there anything you’ve gained from them?

Emu4u2c:
Hello Everyone.

This is my first ever topic on this session.


I'm a bit confused on something I need clarification on.

I used to belong to these group of friends but I noticed a full blown betrayal spirit among them.


Anytime I bring a lady around them with the intention of dating ,they always try to woo the lady so they can sleep with the lady.


They have tried it with different of the girls I bring around.
Most of the girls fall for them and I have to end the relationship with the girl while I continue friendship with my friends

Two of the girls reject them outrightly while warning me against the type of friends they are.

On 2 occasions I have had to blow up with my so called friends on why they keep betraying me but they claim the girls are trying to manipulate me .


This is the tactics they use:They spoil my image before the girls ,some of the girls end up leaving me for them but they don't keep the girls after having their way.

Now I don't bring girls around them, they have changed the narrative about me not having a girlfriend but I know better than to bring my girls around betrayals.


But why are some guys like that

good for you

Keep your circle tight. Bad friends, far away

What does it mean to bring girls around one's friends?
You are in a company of people worse than the bad friends tag.

Bad association spoils useful habits.

baba 4 the girls!!! you o, ur friends o, ur girlfriends o, all of una dey craze!

People(not friends) that will badmouth you just to lay a girl can harm you when bigger or more meaningful things are involved. Beware

About the girls:

Don't you know that your so called friends are doing you a favour indirectly? What kind of girls fall easily for your friends? A hoe right? They are letting you know that the girls you think loves you, don't!. They are the type of girls you shouldn't have something serious with.

About your friends:

Surely, there are some things you should keep secret to yourself, don't reveal too much about yourself to anyone not just your friends. People can be evil. You are more likely to be killed by a 'friend' than by an enemy. You should know the type of people you roll with.

You don't have friends bro

Emu4u2c:
Hello Everyone.

This is my first ever topic on this session.


I'm a bit confused on something I need clarification on.

I used to belong to these group of friends but I noticed a full blown betrayal spirit among them.


Anytime I bring a lady around them with the intention of dating ,they always try to woo the lady so they can sleep with the lady.


They have tried it with different of the girls I bring around.
Most of the girls fall for them and I have to end the relationship with the girl while I continue friendship with my friends

Two of the girls reject them outrightly while warning me against the type of friends they are.

On 2 occasions I have had to blow up with my so called friends on why they keep betraying me but they claim the girls are trying to manipulate me .


This is the tactics they use:They spoil my image before the girls ,some of the girls end up leaving me for them but they don't keep the girls after having their way.

Now I don't bring girls around them, they have changed the narrative about me not having a girlfriend but I know better than to bring my girls around betrayals.


But why are some guys like that

On how then try an next time punch them like this

bad energy stay far away...

Yours is good nah.
My own friends then will keep discouraging me not to date those guys asking me out then were as,this same babes will carry their body to d same dudes they were badmouthing.
They will b like babe this guy too huge for you, the guy is arrogant and proud,he carries fair ladies, he can b in his car 4 hours without putting of his A.c, bla bla bla bla...later i go hear say my friend don de date d same guy.
They were quite older than i then, and i was naive so i do follow their adv then.

Emu4u2c:
Hello Everyone.

This is my first ever topic on this session.

I'm a bit confused on something I need clarification on.

I used to belong to these group of friends but I noticed a full blown betrayal spirit among them.

Anytime I bring a lady around them with the intention of dating ,they always try to woo the lady so they can sleep with the lady.

They have tried it with different of the girls I bring around.
Most of the girls fall for them and I have to end the relationship with the girl while I continue friendship with my friends

Two of the girls reject them outrightly while warning me against the type of friends they are.

On 2 occasions I have had to blow up with my so called friends on why they keep betraying me but they claim the girls are trying to manipulate me .

This is the tactics they use: They spoil my image before the girls, some of the girls end up leaving me for them but they don't keep the girls after having their way.

Now I don't bring girls around them, they have changed the narrative about me not having a girlfriend but I know better than to bring my girls around betrayals.

But why are some guys like that.

Your "friends" are simps, they are not really your friends, and all girls are hoès. Trust no one, not even your family and blood.

The fact that you're still close to such people makes it difficult for me to be willing to give you advise because it seems you don't have enough sense - I'm sorry to say - to comprehend and reason with my advice.

Modified: I've realised he said he 'used to be' with them.

folabayo:
Yours is good nah.
My own friends then will keep discouraging me not to date those guys asking me out then were as,this same babes will carry their body to d same dudes they were badmouthing.
They will b like babe this guy too huge for you, the guy is arrogant and proud,he carries fair ladies, he can b in his car 4 hours without putting of his A.c, bla bla bla bla...later i go hear say my friend don de date d same guy.
They were quite older than i then, and i was naive so i do follow their adv then.

Eyaah..

Women like Eve, may we never meet them in life!

Na because when your so called friends do you something you no dey fit change am for them, na wetin dey bring this kind see finish.

GeneralPula:
Eyaah..

Women like Eve, may we never meet them in life!

Amen

You don't need friends...
Since its hard to see good ones.
Learn to enjoy your own company

Pls listen to Ebenezer Obey music "The Man and his Horse".

Twelfthman:
You don't need friends...
Since its hard to see good ones.
Learn to enjoy your own company

May wisdom never depart from your household

My guy you don't have any friends.....those guys are just people u know shikena

You, the girls , the friends of yours

All of you are mad

You better hustle and get out of that shithole called naija and make something good outta your life oo
Better japa

Lights up my kpoli in peace

Dreyton36:
You, the girls , the friends of yours

All of you are mad

You better hustle and get out of that shithole called naija and make something good outta your life oo
Better japa

Lights up my kpoli in peace

Must u insult the op?

This one na small pikin thread. Friend friend friend.who friend epp

op let me give u a good advise, hang around with ur friends more, buy cold stout for them with steamy cow tail peppersoup or nkwobi anytime u hang around with the, until when they decided to dump your mumu ass, if they ever did, crawl back to them and beg for their forgiveness



i wish i could lash you one better slap thru this keyboard

No blame Wizkid way say BAD ENERGY stay farrrr awayyyyyyy.

Classic confrat moves ..... Na so two of them wan try am with my exes then .... I took one straight to the beach in Cotonou, asked him to start making calls of all his men while I do d same ....niggrr enter panic mode

Emu4u2c:
Hello Everyone.

This is my first ever topic on this session.


I'm a bit confused on something I need clarification on.

I used to belong to these group of friends but I noticed a full blown betrayal spirit among them.


Anytime I bring a lady around them with the intention of dating ,they always try to woo the lady so they can sleep with the lady.


They have tried it with different of the girls I bring around.
Most of the girls fall for them and I have to end the relationship with the girl while I continue friendship with my friends

Two of the girls reject them outrightly while warning me against the type of friends they are.

On 2 occasions I have had to blow up with my so called friends on why they keep betraying me but they claim the girls are trying to manipulate me .


This is the tactics they use:They spoil my image before the girls ,some of the girls end up leaving me for them but they don't keep the girls after having their way.

Now I don't bring girls around them, they have changed the narrative about me not having a girlfriend but I know better than to bring my girls around betrayals.


But why are some guys like that

Amotolongbo:
Flee from bad company

The fact is that no good thing comes from this bad company than talk about sex and alcohol.
Or is there anything you’ve gained from them?

Absolutely nothing!!!

TheUndercover:
About the girls:

Don't you know that your so called friends are doing you a favour indirectly? What kind of girls fall easily to your friends? A hoe right? They are letting you know that the girls you think loves you, don't!. They are the type of girls you shouldn't have something serious with.

About your friends:

Surely, there are some things you should keep secret to yourself, don't reveal too much about yourself to anyone not just your friends. People can be evil. You are more likely to be killed by a 'friend' than by an enemy. You should know the type of people you roll with.

Well I'm not exactly talking about the girls.

Shey 2 exposed their evil intent



But then what's behind them always trying to act like snakes around me.

I have given them long yardsticks gap cause sometimes I wonder how God has kept me alive being with such people over the years.


I learnt a lot from keeping bad friends like that.


They make me fear associations called friendship.

Twelfthman:
You don't need friends...
Since its hard to see good ones.
Learn to enjoy your own company

Working heavily on enjoying my own Company.

chatinent:
What does it mean to bring girls around one's friends?

When you go to hangout spot or you meet at a public place.

DDDEnterprises:
The fact that you're still close to such people makes it difficult for me to be willing to give you advise because it seems you don't have enough sense - I'm sorry to say - to comprehend and reason with my advice.

Try me...


Plus I said I used to be in a group of friends.

Not anymore