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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobody: 10:08pm On Apr 30, 2021
donbachi:
And why,will u date a guy and expect him not to ask for sex...na ur blood brother?pls,grow up.

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What a mentality. Mtcheeeewwwwwww
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobody: 10:09pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

God go punish you for this talk...dont date until you marry. lol

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by kachimoore94: 10:09pm On Apr 30, 2021
Come let's date
Rosement:
I am getting depressed that why I asked this question. I need advice on how to make my relationship work without sex, that's all.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Telstar: 10:10pm On Apr 30, 2021
Romanoff:


If your reason for keeping yourself is to honour God, God will lead a godly man to you who Loves Him enough to love and wait till you're married.

You shouldn't bring topics like this to Nairaland, all you'll find are hungry Lions looking for new recruits and whom to devour.
Are you really sure she's a virgin? Because most virgins never say they are until you find out yourself.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Olusholar24(m): 10:10pm On Apr 30, 2021
SportsHD:
Wait for a person that's trusting and patient enough to wait till your wedding night.

If na me maami, I for don dump your ass for hitting me with tha virgin bull shet. Not cos I'm cruel, but because i once trusted a girl, she said she was a virgin and i later found out she's feasting on regular bbc on the weekends while i was simping for her.

like naira marley would say-
to ba doko wa ma lole.
I trust less nowadays.
#monsters they made.
Whew!grin


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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by OmovuduTheBeast(f): 10:10pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rocktation:


There are girls that actually date without asking for money. Change the circle you roll with.

Nor be today we don dey hear this one
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by princemartinsG(m): 10:11pm On Apr 30, 2021
Your relationship can only work without sex if you don't not ask for money from the guy.




quote author=Rosement post=101208094]I am getting depressed that why I asked this question. I need advice on how to make my relationship work without sex, that's all.[/quote]
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by OBA117(m): 10:12pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Not all guys dear.....we still have sincere men out there. Pray that God should make your own husband locates you.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by pocohantas(f): 10:12pm On Apr 30, 2021
Has nothing to do with money. Mentioning money is just a convenient rebuttal. Even the jobless ones that are still eating mummy-thank-you, would be saying don’t ask for money.

Can you give what you don’t have?

OP, goodluck finding the one in a million man.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Romanoff(f): 10:12pm On Apr 30, 2021
Telstar:
Are you really sure she's a virgin? Because most virgins never say they are until you find out yourself.

Whether she's a virgin or not. As long as she has decided to keep herself till she's married cause she wants to honour God, that's all that matters.

A woman who is really a Christian won't lie about her past. I'm not talking about people who claim to be Christians but are living in sin and fornicating without any care.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Karleb(m): 10:13pm On Apr 30, 2021
These are the same women who would quit the next day after marriage if the man is impotent.

Hypocrisy!

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by DenyafaG(m): 10:13pm On Apr 30, 2021
If u know Ur not ready for sex when u date, then don't date, don't have anything to with any guy, don't collect money don't get involved with any man, just wait till when ur ready to marry.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Adex1220: 10:13pm On Apr 30, 2021
Tlc
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobody: 10:13pm On Apr 30, 2021
LesbianBoy:
With the high rate of sexual denial by wives these days


Guys don't allow any girl deceive you with that no sex until marriage nonsense


Fvck that pvssy tongue tongue

If you're not ready to have sex or spend money, stay away from relationships. Very simple something

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by PrimadonnaO(f): 10:13pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Sex should never happen out of pressure.

A guy that pressures you into having sex has no restraint, is manipulative, and probably doesn't love you enough nor sees a future with you. So he simply wants to get the only thing he thinks he can get - sex.

Don't let anyone deceive you. Lots of people date without sex. LOTS! It depends on how much they care about you and their values.

You also don't need to be a virgin to stay off sex. You can stay off sex anytime you freaking decide you want to stay off sex.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by dipson4u08(m): 10:14pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

WHY CANT GIRLS DATE WITHOUT ASKING FOR MONEY
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Elzakzaky: 10:14pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?
You can eat your cake and still have it. Let him use the back door. wink

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Zumax008: 10:14pm On Apr 30, 2021
Telstar:
You're a virgin? And that sounds interesting. How old are you?

See them baba ijeshas
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by stayclearofme: 10:14pm On Apr 30, 2021
See question.o! Can a woman date without asking for or expecting a gift?
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nobody: 10:14pm On Apr 30, 2021
Are you even attractive sef in the first place?most of the fine babes wey dem dey claim virgin can be wosky most times. Anyway virgin no dey my menu though, sight of blood thing does me somehow.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by realray(m): 10:14pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

am also a virgin and u can break up with ur guy and come stay with me
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Daniety(m): 10:15pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Na your blood brother, ?

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Emma1Oj(m): 10:15pm On Apr 30, 2021
Why can't ladies date without asking for money?
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by MoneyTrees(m): 10:16pm On Apr 30, 2021
You're a real niggar
I'm so much impressed

aktolly54:
its possible as long as you know throw any stupid billing, if you want to confirm whether the guy is generous or stingy ,ask him to send money to orphange but you dare bill him for any reason till wedding day. Even if your phone spoil or anything, ask your brother or father to get you another one

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by LZAA: 10:16pm On Apr 30, 2021
Thunder fire you
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by darediamond(m): 10:16pm On Apr 30, 2021
Telegram234:
Smellysperm chook mouth...
The future is kpekus
But girls are the ones enjoying the thing called sex but instead they behave like fallen angels..
Ndi ara

GBAM!!
O PA RI O!!!!

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by clericuzzio(m): 10:17pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Why Can't girls date without asking for money.


I am a hustsler and I make sure I spend my money on self development and on my immediate family. But my GF is asking me for money all the time, from request for recharge cards to making bone straight hair to asking for iPhones.
We are just dating and I'm not her father neither am I her brother who should take care of her needs.
I'm tired of all these requests as it seems she's just after my money.

I need your advise too
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Nifemi2512(m): 10:17pm On Apr 30, 2021
So when his joystick rises for help, where do you expect him to insert it?
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by aidameoryou: 10:17pm On Apr 30, 2021
INCREDIBLE007:
stick to your status quo

don't yield to to pressure

virginity might have been rubbished under various guise in today's world but GOD honours it
sex is meant for marriage

so after your virginity what next?
you are reserved a place right beside Gods dining table

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by PAQ(m): 10:17pm On Apr 30, 2021
Why cant Nigerian girls date without asking for money? Why?
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by dipson4u08(m): 10:17pm On Apr 30, 2021
PrimadonnaO:


Sex should never happen out of pressure.

A guy that pressures you into having sex has no restraint, is manipulative, and probably doesn't love you enough nor sees a future with you. So he simply wants to get the only thing he thinks he can get - sex.

Don't let anyone deceive you. Lots of people date without sex. LOTS! It depends on how much they care about you and their values.

IN AS MUCH AS I WOULD LIKE TO AGREE WITH YOU BUT I STILL DISAGREE BECAUSE OF OUR METALITY IN THIS PART OF THE WORLD,

RELATIONSHIP IN NIGERIA IS LIKE A BUSINESS TRANSACTION WHICH NONE OF THE BOTH PARTY WOULD LIKE TO LOSE...

THE FEMALE REQUEST FOR MONEY WHILE THE BLEEP AND THIS IN MOST CASES STRIKES A BALANCE.

IF I KEEP SPENDING ON A GIRL WITHOUT BLEEPING AND SHE BREAKS UP WITH ME I WONT FORGIVE MYSELF AND VICE VERSA.....

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