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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Righteousness2(m): 10:17pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?
Whether white or Black man Don't give in to fornication. If he is in a haste to have sex, he should be in a haste to marry you.
If he doesn't want, Break up and Break out!
Your Husband who will appreciate you is out there for you.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by seyz91(m): 10:18pm On Apr 30, 2021
Which kind play Dog dey Play with Lion? �‍♂️

God that removed one of Adam's rib to make Eve is not a Fool
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by noble2faith(m): 10:18pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Date me. I wouldn't mind waiting till wedding night.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Zeel007: 10:18pm On Apr 30, 2021
My point exactly bro...God will help this generation where abnormality looks normal...see lady, don't yield to the guys pressure, if he wants to go let him go ...no lady can ever use sex to keep a man

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Rickylambert: 10:19pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I am getting depressed that why I asked this question. I need advice on how to make my relationship work without sex, that's all.
Go to mountain of fire ministry,u go see brother there.U might not even by locky self
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Telstar: 10:19pm On Apr 30, 2021
Romanoff:


Whether she's a virgin or not. As long as she has decided to keep herself till she's married cause she wants to honour God, that's all that matters.

A woman who is really a Christian won't lie about her past. I'm not talking about people who claim to be Christians but are living in sin and fornicating without any care.
LOL. You crack me up here.

Do you live with her to know she kept herself? Do not believe everything you read online.

My gf was a virgin when I met her but she never disclosed that to me in the first place.

That white guy is not a nigga. He probably doesn't know what's up. Never pressurize a woman to go to bed with you. Just act like a nigga, she would want it.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by simhosting: 10:19pm On Apr 30, 2021
If you have other things to offer,
they will not dump you.

Dating is a stage of romantic relationships practised in Western societies whereby two people meet socially with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as a prospective partner in a future intimate relationship

Dating refers to two people exploring whether they are romantically or sexually compatible by participating in dates with the other.


Conclusion.

Don't date if you are not ready for sex or romance

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Alexandersantos(m): 10:19pm On Apr 30, 2021
Freelancer2020:
why can't girls date without asking for money?
who go answer this question
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by tnerro1(m): 10:20pm On Apr 30, 2021
Can girls go out with a guy without asking for something
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by oluwaahmed: 10:21pm On Apr 30, 2021
Mcslize:


Damn! That's the fear of most guys actually. Many men had been deceived with this virginity thing.

Imagine waiting for a girl till wedding night only to discover the place is a well. That can make a man go crazy to be sincere. If I am to date any virgin and wait for her till wedding, I am surely taking her to a doctor to confirm it medically.

Many girls had fooled many men with this.

Thats naija girls scam for you, Virginity & Belle. U will think she's a virgin not knowing she friends with Tom's dick and Harry's cheesy
DNA don cast the belle scam many of our fathers fell prey to.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by frankson1(m): 10:21pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I am getting depressed that why I asked this question. I need advice on how to make my relationship work without sex, that's all.



Why should this get you depressed?

Well, when you meet another guy and you like him, while trying to know him also include the 'no go area' or "dos and don'ts' so he knows from the beginning and be very serious about it. He may still want to try but you stand your ground.

I get to talk about everything before I even start liking you. The girls 'dey tire' for my questions cheesy
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by wpadmin: 10:22pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

What is delaying you guys from getting married?

If both of you are okay financially, then just get married.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by fineboynl(m): 10:22pm On Apr 30, 2021
id only he will not spend or part away his money why not.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Emmanueladvocate(m): 10:23pm On Apr 30, 2021
What is the point of you wanting to get married? Why not just stay a vergin till you die nah. How many people have you heard was given 50milion because they were vergins when they got married. In fact let me ask you, was your mother a vergin?

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Afolashade00(f): 10:23pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?


Hope I'm not too late to answer this question.
What I did was to stay away from relationship. I got tired of breaking up for the same reason, I was tired of hurting so I stayed away from relationship.
I understand you perfectly well, like if you dont date,how will you get to know him and all. You have to choose.
I don't joke with my job, I'm a hardworker because I have got me and me alone.
I take myself out, breath and smile more. I chose this path to keep myself, I have been called a fool several times because of several opportunities and all but I choose not to regret it no matter what .
I haven't met a man who understands why I want to keep myself but till then I do what makes me happy.
Shalom!

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by favour32(m): 10:24pm On Apr 30, 2021
Telstar:
That's funny. Sex is not everything. There's more to life than sex.
If there's more to life than sex, then date or marry person e penis nor dey work if you be real female.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by favour32(m): 10:25pm On Apr 30, 2021
Na sex make relationship sweet.
If sex nor dey, na soup wey sour be that.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Telstar: 10:25pm On Apr 30, 2021
favour32:

If there's more to life than sex, then date or marry person e penis nor dey work if you be real female.
Hahaha. I am not a woman, bro.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by tunary(m): 10:25pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?
Keep ur virginity but it ain't gonna be easy to get a man that will wait that long.

Just pray about it God will get you the right man

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Romanoff(f): 10:26pm On Apr 30, 2021
Telstar:
LOL. You crack me up here.

Do you live with her to know she kept herself? Do not believe everything you read online.

My gf was a virgin when I met her but she never disclosed that to me in the first place.

That white guy is not a nigga. He probably doesn't know what's up. Never pressurize a woman to go to bed with you. Just act like a nigga, she would want it.

If that's the case, she's deceiving herself na.

My comment is speaking to many other ladies out there, so if she's lying, I pray other ladies will learn from what I said.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by tuna85: 10:26pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?


Your chastity is very important, it's a great virtue. You did not allow the so called civilization to get into you.
Keep praying to God, he will definitely provide a patient man who will respect you for who you are and don't forget to keep maintaining your moral standards. Kudos
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Ghostmode2two(m): 10:27pm On Apr 30, 2021
Women spend sex to get money why men spend money to get sex
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Jayrow08: 10:27pm On Apr 30, 2021
Am d right person for you
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by izubext007: 10:28pm On Apr 30, 2021
if u want to remain a virgin , u have to make that allow the guys pocket or account to remain a virgin since u met him, don't ask and don't collect any gift .

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Osesedney: 10:28pm On Apr 30, 2021
There are still alot of guys out there that dnt ask for sex in a relationship....
Its even de girl dat ll start doing like snake...�
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by favour32(m): 10:28pm On Apr 30, 2021
Telstar:
Hahaha. I am not a woman, bro.
Ok!
I am a realist!
Girl wey nor wan sex,make she nor near dating.
If you nor chop food, nor use am dey smell nose.
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by jmoore(m): 10:29pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I am getting depressed that why I asked this question. I need advice on how to make my relationship work without sex, that's all.

It's very simple. Date a man that has same principle as yours.

Trying to change a community penis to abide to your standard is like teaching a goat how to speak Igbo.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Jefferic(m): 10:30pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

This one no be problems nah. If he can't wait then you move. You can still find someone that will respect your belief and values. For me even nah 10 years I can date without sex as far as that's what you want and I will not cheat on you.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by jaxxy(m): 10:30pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

Then don’t. Without being hypocritical it’s quite possible to get guys who are fine with such bt they might be rare. I believe people shouldn’t be forced to break their core principles.

The core problem is there is alot of selfishness in dating, many people trying to protect their interests the wrong way bt sometimes I can’t blame them. undecided

I have dated without having sex so it’s not a big deal. It was still cool. Unless Ure in it majorly for sex not marriage then make it clear.

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by gram: 10:30pm On Apr 30, 2021
Rosement:
I'm a virgin, I don't want to have sex until my wedding night. I'm a Nigerian but my bf is a white guy, he told me he loves and he wants to marry me but he wants us to start having sex while we are dating. I tired of breaking up for this same reason. What do I do?

I hope you read this: It is difficult, if not impossible to abstain if your partner does not want to. I'd rather you don't deceive yourself. Your partner wants it and he's going to get it one way or another from someone else. If he wants it and you don't, your relationship WILL NOT work.

You do have a choice, however: Just say no, and if he insists, which I am very sure he will, then end the relationship.

I don't know your age, but I hope you have the required emotional maturity to make this choice, which I will encourage you to make.

BTW, if you let him have it just to keep the relationship, how would you feel if he leaves you (which is very, very likely) after getting it?

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Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by Telstar: 10:31pm On Apr 30, 2021
Romanoff:


If that's the case, she's deceiving herself na.

My comment is speaking to many other ladies out there, so if she's lying, I pray other ladies will learn from what I said.
That's right, girl. Hope you aren't a virgin?
Re: Why Can't Guys Date Without Having Sex? by omonnakoda: 10:31pm On Apr 30, 2021
guys form better friendships with other guys whom they do not want to fucck

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