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Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by Prisi12345(f): 6:18pm On May 04, 2021 |
A broken courtship is far better than a broken marriage, If you decide to go ahead with the marriage I will get you 1st aid box. A man that does want or is not submissive to anybody, will never listen to anyone, don't go ahead because of what people will say, just pray for God's direction and talk to your parents and pastor and it. 2 Likes |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by sparko1(m): 6:19pm On May 04, 2021 |
ireneidiva: I thought I am the only one that saw that, all that is remaining is just formalities, you are married. |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by Kebbiprince: 6:20pm On May 04, 2021 |
Spidermon:Another angle to it. Most women don't respect peaceful men, I have seen it happen most times. They only respect u when u go wild 3 Likes |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by LeeSantos(m): 6:23pm On May 04, 2021 |
Dimma22:she has prove and can file for annulment.. An annulment is sought when one or both of the spouses believe that there was something legally invalid about the marriage in the first place 1 Like |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by LeeSantos(m): 6:25pm On May 04, 2021 |
KallmemrB0:she has prove and can file for annulment.. An annulment is sought when one or both of the spouses believe that there was something legally invalid about the marriage in the first place |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by KallmemrB0: 6:26pm On May 04, 2021 |
LeeSantos:true sha but it doesn't happen easily like you think oooo |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by expert1(m): 6:26pm On May 04, 2021 |
Mindlog:You are legally married doesn't warrant you to go and die untimely. That you are legally married doesn't make a female less to a male. That you are legally married doesn't mean you should deny yourself of your freedom. That you are legally married doesn't mean you can not marry another person customarily. Legally married? Stay away from the guy if you are not comfortable with the future. In 2 to 3 years time he will try to file for divorce but no go see money do am. Divorce for 9ja is not the same as Nollywood movies o. |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by omobaba101(m): 6:27pm On May 04, 2021 |
Nothing difficult here. She should quit the relation ship and live in peace. She may equally go ahead, but should learn to bear the burden for the rest of her life. I really don't think she needs any advise, she only wants people to support the wrong steps she is taking! CSoul: |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by Jayslyder: 6:28pm On May 04, 2021 |
People go just enter nairaland dey give People avenue for disrespect..obviously she knows what to do.. but make she go marry if na husband be her everlasting problem |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by prophetfire: 6:30pm On May 04, 2021 |
CSoul:. No emotions, no sentiments. Just call it off. Damn the preparations. Even in church on the wedding day proper, they still ask you whether you still want to go ahead or not. So it's not late to call it off. She can dissolve the court marriage later. I am talking from experience. Bleep mate living close by? Don't even try that nonsense. She will just be a standby generator and house keeper in that marriage and she will die of emotional trauma. |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by LeeSantos(m): 6:32pm On May 04, 2021 |
KallmemrB0: at least it's a start. and it also means the traditional is not going to go through. and these is another method of not moving to his house. in the process they can both love separately |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by Ashirioluwa: 6:34pm On May 04, 2021 |
We have known the issues or bad attitudes of the husband to be but before I comment can I know her own issues or bad attitudes. Still waiting |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by fineberry(m): 6:35pm On May 04, 2021 |
Base on this consequencial evidence before this humble jury, I think the bride to be should not proceed with the marriage. If she does...hmm...she will regret it. She should explain all these fault to her family... Because they' ve to be on her side. A brokew r/ship is better than a broken marriage. |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by SefunmiHookups: 6:36pm On May 04, 2021 |
MejiLoyon:Nawa lol, I was just watching "abandoned engineering" when you dragged me into your squabble with thatgirl. What did I do nau?? Oh...You too noticed that thaz moniker belongs to a guy. That's a guy behind that very moniker and he has used an alternative to email me. The things he posts doesn't sound like what a girl will post "on impulse" it's like he is cautious before typing so as not to give himself away as being a male. But anyway, who am I to judge...My own na two people bin dey use my account, until I stopped the girl from operating it. Infact , no more hook ups again. That chapter closed. |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by henryadex(m): 6:38pm On May 04, 2021 |
If you care to listen to elders advice, run like say it's leopard that is pursuing you I am a father who have done elaborate introduction for my daughter before we discover a fundamental lie with the supposed spouse, we didn't discuss with any flesh and blood before we call it quit 1 Like |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by Slimzy388(m): 6:38pm On May 04, 2021 |
Infrabetatech:: |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by naturefellow(m): 6:41pm On May 04, 2021 |
Infrabetatech:
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Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by Xmen149(m): 6:42pm On May 04, 2021 |
CSoul: see,.I hate it when people don't even know them selves well but will want to jump into relationship. I can't advice her to leave or stay for the following reasons: 1)everyone has a deal breaker if you or your partner don't know yours please relationship is not for you. 2) What is my deal breaker can never be yours. 3) after deal breaker there are manageable bad traits( these are bad side you can always work out with your partner but can live with it.) now : I hate violence and its my deal breaker and believe you me I can smell it from afar life fresh cow poop. same way violence turns some people on,or they see it as manageable trait. there is no way your friend must not have noticed the violence part and cheating too but it's probably in her list of "manageable trait" or "no Deal breaker" there is nothing like "suddenly find out that.." any person saying that either is fantastically careless or desperate. You can't suppendly wake up and your manageable or normal trait list is automatically a deal breaker. and we are even talking marriage here which has already been concluded. What ever decision she wants to take its best now b4 there are kids in between..Na that one dey hard pass |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by millionboi(m): 6:42pm On May 04, 2021 |
lucky999:funny Make thy no send thunder fire you abi |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by Dangrace01: 6:42pm On May 04, 2021 |
sisisioge: A guy posted your line of thought sometime back but everyone was attacking him. He said every successful marriage has the man or the woman or both playing away game to keep the marriage balance |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by naturefellow(m): 6:42pm On May 04, 2021 |
Ishilove: Honestly, after court marriage. Point of no return. Well, better to seek a divorce now. Than end up in slavery or a bodybag. |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by naturefellow(m): 6:44pm On May 04, 2021 |
ireneidiva:Divorce Irreconcilable differences? |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by BRATISLAVA: 6:46pm On May 04, 2021 |
mmadu4: Are you married? |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by naturefellow(m): 6:47pm On May 04, 2021 |
madridguy:big red flag � in marriage is when there's no one you are accountable to. 1 Like |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by SefunmiHookups: 6:48pm On May 04, 2021 |
bjprodint1:I would just like to ask what is it you were doing that always made him get triggered and threaten you? Share it if u don't mind ,so others can see what happens in marriages. - Where you always in your phone typing and chatting and not letting him see who you were chatting with (that's if you did so for lengthy periods of time) -Did you occasionally give him reasons to doubt your fidelity? - where you chatting ex-lovers, or other male acquaintances? And did he warm you to desist from those acts at any time? Because these are usually the things that get men livid with their women. Where you too social with other men? Hope you will answer truthfully. Gracias |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by Rocktation(f): 6:49pm On May 04, 2021 |
Call It Off. E get why I talk so... |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by Xmen149(m): 6:51pm On May 04, 2021 |
bjprodint1: is this same story or completely different one |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by Dupsierae: 6:53pm On May 04, 2021 |
Better don’t make such mistake..marriage is forever..a man with anger issues can kill and at the end blame it on his anger.. Pls be wise |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by Ekaka1(m): 6:53pm On May 04, 2021 |
CSoul:She should go do thanksgiving for the bullet she just dodged, throw a party on the anniversary of the breakup, advise herself to keep very faaaarrrrrr away from that guy, get families involved, look out for any threat and get police or private security involved for at least a year....keep a. Sry low profile. Tell all those who know them both and on a need to know basis the true story ...no embellishments, no exergerations...no drama, take every advise at this stage with a pinch of salt...she'd be ok!!! |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by Karozy: 6:54pm On May 04, 2021 |
CSoul:Wow this is serious, firstly how come you are just discovering he has anger issues,this is very serious or you thought he will change and secondly he is cheating which is too bad, if I were you I will call off the wedding regardless of the pressure, don’t let anyone sweet talk you into getting married to such guy, this is marriage we are talking about not relationship, once you are in it becomes very difficult to get out. Secondly he is planning to continue cheating on you even after marriage this is a serious issue, and he can use his anger to cause domestic violence in the home, these are red flag, run for your life before it’s too late my dear.forget all this he will change, I don’t condemn people but this is your life and happiness we are talking about. |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by Ekaka1(m): 6:54pm On May 04, 2021 |
Dupsierae:Short, strong and to the point!! |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by ireneidiva(f): 6:56pm On May 04, 2021 |
naturefellow:I'm sure you are attempting to communicate. Keep trying. |
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