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Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by imagrg(m): 5:35pm On May 04, 2021 |
The heat will cool down with time. Be patient and play the fool. This way, you make a better married life. It was same at the beginning of my marriage to my wife who passed on a few days back. At the beginning, all he'll was let loose but with time till her death, we became the envy of very many couple around us for 25 years! Please, be patient, you will smile at last and remember to thank me later. 1 Like |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by Originalsly: 5:36pm On May 04, 2021 |
The writing is on the wall.... she has read it.... it it will not change. When married and together... he will no longer be the man... he will become the king. Can one tell a king what to do or not to do?... can the king ever be wrong?... and who will dare try to reign in the kings anger? ... and stop it from boiling over to blows? The decision is hers.... as well as the consequences. 1 Like |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by Nobody: 5:36pm On May 04, 2021 |
CSoul: I won't advise you to marry him dear. This is coming from a man. Don't make that mistake of marrying someone like that cos the other lady with whom he is cheating can never be happy and would have her own plans. A cheat will end up with a second wife in the end... Do not accept an unserious man like that. Also, his anger issues are a red flag, he may end up beating you some day and that's just nasty... 2 Likes |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by whodeyhere: 5:38pm On May 04, 2021 |
why is everyone talking as if court marriage can not be dissolved, those two are valid reason for divorce before a magistrate. Please let her call off the wedding before she walk into a trap. Domestic violence is real, please act while you are still alive.. 1 Like |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by Nobody: 5:39pm On May 04, 2021 |
thatgirl504:I would have ignored you like the rest of your ilks. For non entities are meant to be kept that way. But I noticed the pained and lost soul behind the moniker. My advice... Go out, get some alcohol, try orijin, it knocks people out. Then contact sefunmihookups that you follow to get some oloshos for you. If you can't afford it DM me I'll pay. I promise. You need to release these pent up emotions. I'm believing you're a guy though because a woman will not flare up at any slight opportunity but if fate has bestowed you with the f gender then I suggest you still link up with the moniker above to get a nasty gbola to flog sense into your head as it seems you've gifted yours for a loaf of bread with aluminium condemn people. Do have a great day. Cheers |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by nfcshanghai(m): 5:40pm On May 04, 2021 |
Marriage is risk, most men cheat. Be loyal to him and always put God first. Things will cool off when kids starts coming, and avoid bringing ur family problems here, most men won't be happy with that. Tell to God Happy married life. |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by bhella10: 5:40pm On May 04, 2021 |
incogni2o:This is the best advice you anyone in this kind of entrapment can get. Never get belle. See if he changes otherwise ja pa! |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by chachamore(f): 5:40pm On May 04, 2021 |
Ishilove:Ndi agadi nwanyo abia go |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by olamide0147: 5:40pm On May 04, 2021 |
You already concluded on what to do asking for our opinion is just that you wanted to find some similar suggestions that suits your decision, no matter what we say to you, there's nothing that will change your mind but don't end up getting killed because only few can control themselves when the anger triggered |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by timota(m): 5:41pm On May 04, 2021 |
ireneidiva:No,they are not married ,the only marriage recognized by God is traditional wedding,what we call court wedding is court registry ,while white wedding is mere marriage blessing in the church. |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by charlesucheh(m): 5:42pm On May 04, 2021 |
Desperately single ladies are the most vulnerable to being preys to unhappy marriages. your desperation got you into this. pull out while you can before your story tops chat in all Nigerian Newspapers; WIFE STONED TO DEATH BY HUSBAND, WIFE ENGAGES HUSBAND IN A PHYSICAL FIST BATTLE, HUSBAND THROWS WIFE DOWN FROM 800 STORY BUILDING ETC. 1 Like |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by teamoneline: 5:42pm On May 04, 2021 |
Why doesn't he want to marry that one he is cheating on?. If you like don't run away from that marriage. It will surely end in premium tears. No amount of prayer will save you. You have not started marriage you are already a prayer warrior. It's better you are single than that trash |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by kbright911(m): 5:42pm On May 04, 2021 |
How long was the courtship before she decided to marry him? |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by Nobody: 5:42pm On May 04, 2021 |
First, your friend needs to know that her worth does not depend on marriage. Second, though legally married already, I will advise they put the preparations for the other ceremonies on hold until they resolve the issues. Especially the anger issue Third, they need counseling and a clear evidence for that he won’t disrespect his marriage and wife by brazenly sleeping around. |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by Evidenx(m): 5:43pm On May 04, 2021 |
CSoul:A BROKEN TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE IS BETTER THAN DEATH(physical or emmotional death) ABORT MISSION NOW WE DON'T WANT TO HEAR BAD NEWS LATER. |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by kelblaze(m): 5:45pm On May 04, 2021 |
MY SIMPLE OPINION: It's not too late too quit when you see red flags 1 Like |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by xeju: 5:46pm On May 04, 2021 |
madridguy:she be empress now abi� |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by RealEzee(m): 5:46pm On May 04, 2021 |
So you've come to tell the whole world our secret abi ? |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by ElPhoche(m): 5:47pm On May 04, 2021 |
CSoul: |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by salvation77177: 5:48pm On May 04, 2021 |
I do not really think you need much advice. The ball is in your net and only you can decide what to do. Remember you are not going with anyone to live with your husband; you are going alone. So, think and take a decision that would not make you regret all your life. Good luck! |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by ukaface(f): 5:49pm On May 04, 2021 |
You see all of these signs and you still want to chook head. Wtf is ' everything has been done' Oya Na,go and marry since you can't think well. HAPPY Married Life 1 Like |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by sammirano: 5:49pm On May 04, 2021 |
Most boys of today will most likely cheat on you, no matter how much you fine reach. Deal with you devil. 1 Like |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by Romanoff(f): 5:49pm On May 04, 2021 |
A court wedding can be annulled or she can seek for divorce after 3 years. The next person she marries will just do traditional marriage with her pending when she sorts out the court issues. That man will cheat on her in marriage and she will dare not speak, if she does, na panel beating them go give her. Better late than never o. 2 Likes |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by nams77: 5:50pm On May 04, 2021 |
incogni2o:You really don't know what anger is....it won't vanish. He will only try to control himself for a while. It will definitely get worse. |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by dannex4adx(m): 5:50pm On May 04, 2021 |
LeeSantos: If you don't want to regret it! follow this advice! don't be worried about what people will say! it is your life and you have to be accountable for your actions. |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by candygist: 5:50pm On May 04, 2021 |
CSoul: God as showed her what to expect when she marries that guy, now, will she still like to go on with getting married to that type of man ? Let her follow her heart. That's all I can say. |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by molybdenum0012: 5:51pm On May 04, 2021 |
Johncuppa: You are wrong brother, don't misquote the Bible.. By the law of the land court marriage is valid and even recognized by God. Church wedding, trado wedding all na formality so far court wedding has been done before then. Again, truly the Bible frowns at divorce but again it specifically spells out a ground for divorce, which is in this case is adultery. She has a good ground before the law and biblically too, to divorce the man if it has been established that the man cheated on her in marriage. The point is: she is 100% married to the man already, forget about the church wedding or whatever you call it. Last bullet: it is not a must a clergy or a priest, or a Pastor or imam joins the groom and bride together, anybody recognized by law can do so and in this case the court official.. This too is very scriptural. |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by Blackdisciple(m): 5:52pm On May 04, 2021 |
She knew him very well so why reconnecting, why crying now... nothing dey worry your friend but that cheating thing that's all.... Am wishing her a happy married life |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by emmyN(m): 5:52pm On May 04, 2021 |
She thought she could have her cake and eat it. So after doing all the iyanga during her prime, slaying here and there and forming hard to get, when she saw she was becoming an evening newspaper, she decided to reconnect to the old school toaster who always talked about marriage thinking that she has caught one mumu, but eureka ! 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by samuelson06(m): 5:52pm On May 04, 2021 |
LeeSantos: @ csoul I this comment should make you appreciate knowing about Nairaland. He has said everything. The only little thing I can add is about his last paragraph. Sometimes, your minister of God may not be able to help, look elsewhere. Find out a true minister of God with result in ministry, especially in the deliverance ministry and pay them a visit. If your sister knows she won't be able to 'fight' the battle ahead in God, let her withdraw now. No counseling on the face of this earth can change that guy except true deliverance. There's nothing that guy can promise except he gets delivered and then begin to yield fully to the marriage institution as God ordains. |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by Nukilia: 5:53pm On May 04, 2021 |
madridguy:One-chance mode activated |
Re: One Week To My Wedding, I'm Lost by ayshugar(m): 5:53pm On May 04, 2021 |
The questions and issue stated above have the answers staring @ her.... Flee from the relationship cancel the wedding plans ASAP |
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