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Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Nobody: 4:53pm On May 11, 2021
God bless you wherever you are....
Yusufisraelj:


Absolutely I agree with your first paragraph I've taken ladies out without ever calling them again just for the fun of making new friends and finding insights on topics of interest or just getting to know them and it's clear from the get go, plain friends nothing else. If I want something serious I equally state it, bkos I hate ambiguity.

Your second paragraph speaks to reality, and the OP posing ignorant of that fact beats my imagination.

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Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Nobody: 4:57pm On May 11, 2021
Jeon:



Hi Lollittaa.
You see Nigerian men nowadays are after lust. They don't love.


They glorify immorality.

Come to me! Baby sugar.



Lollittaa and dollywood can be together. Cus he's one of the responsible fellow that respect his body.
dollywood ko, kannywood ni. Lemme alone sad
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Perry26: 5:04pm On May 11, 2021
some guys neva even spend 1naira don dy ask for sex alrdy... dis country is finished
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Emerie22(m): 5:04pm On May 11, 2021
Psych412:
nature my foot.

Our fore father's never did this rubbish.

Don't bring nature into this.

Our Fore Mothers didn't not ask for urgent 2k
And having two or more guys once

E shock you
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Blackdisciple(m): 5:07pm On May 11, 2021
It's because they that asked for sex on first date is because that is what they need from her at that time.
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Lekq2: 5:18pm On May 11, 2021
Soon as I fucvvk them I forget them coz if I go broke they will stop fuvvking with me
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Yamprince(m): 5:23pm On May 11, 2021
psucc:
AND what actually was on your mind when you were biting hard on the chicken and sipping those juice while he watches?


grin grin grin grin You are legend
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by tightpussy156: 5:28pm On May 11, 2021
@op it depend on the way you look at it many of you girls are selfish an foolish.firstly why will you go on a.date with a guy you not intetested in.your mind na to chop fried rice chicken juice shawama after that you order for meat pie fish roll icecream even like 5 diffrent for your friends at home then.you expect the guy.not to ask you for sex.you girls change that mindset.your mouth they sweet free tins.moreover not all guys are the same.i can decide to take a girls no but i will not call afterall na me go spend money but if want to flex you scatter i call you go chop scatter you will be tired an i wouldnt ask u for sex in return you keep imagine after all the spending this guy did he didnt ask for anytin.lastly so many girls dont appreciate after spending on them you didnt ask for anytin the go about calling you MUGU that why 99% of boys ask for something in return.if you dont no a girl can go with 20k.cash right inside her purse but she wouldnt spend a dime she want the guy to spend his and even buy the whole fastfood for them if it possible.A guy will always respect a ladie that take care of her bill on a date.i was at chicken.express sunday when a lady came from far to come wait for a guy in chicken express she didnt even have transport.she came to me and beg me for 500 naira to pay bike that the guy is waitin for hasnt come.due to my kind heart i gave her she paid.she came inside started waiting for the guy 1hr she was alone looking confuse inside there.i later invited to my table.ask her what she care for she said fried rice.i order fried an chicken for her with cold juice. i advice her never you go wait for a guy without holding your money because u.might not be lucky like this.After all these she expect i will take her no or probably book an.hotel but i didnt after eating an.relaxing told her am going she was surprise i even.give her 500 naira to go back home.she wa expecting to ask for SEX in return which other guys would have done.that is it who quote me should hug transformer.

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Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by romunu(m): 5:44pm On May 11, 2021
If you don’t woo women,you won’t get pussy,that’s why men spend on them,that’s called wooing before doing.
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by focus7: 5:49pm On May 11, 2021
Psych412:
This is a very serious issue. Spending on a lady doesn't give you the right to ask her for sex. This needs to stop. Taking a girl out for a date doesn't have to be sex in return.


Please let's try to be responsible

Spending on you because na you save the money for their hands?

If men must not ask you for sex pay your bills when you go on a date with one then you will gain your dignity and respect.
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Iykman042(m): 5:55pm On May 11, 2021
Op,think we dey do oyibo stuffs here,we no dey fellow protocols for pussy
after ist date,na sex dey fellow am,unless the girl paid for the bills and i will nt demand sex
una manipulation no dey work again
guys don wise
i go dey spend on u,u go dey delay the sex as if u re a virgin
women self dey enjoy the sex more,that why if u want to stop,she will say no,continue and her ringing tone will increase
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by MoIbrahim: 6:21pm On May 11, 2021
Psych412:
This is a very serious issue. Spending on a lady doesn't give you the right to ask her for sex. This needs to stop. Taking a girl out for a date doesn't have to be sex in return.


Please let's try to be responsible

It depends on the way you present yourself. If throughout the date you are displaying your breast and other sensitive parts, don't be shocked if the man gets turned on at the end.
You turned him on and he asks to quench the fire. Period!
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by lascos912(m): 6:24pm On May 11, 2021
This op is mad o

So i will just spend for girls anyhow

You must be out of your sense

Idiot
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by obstead200(m): 6:25pm On May 11, 2021
Psych412:
What nonsense.

So you think all ladies are the same(been cheap). You need to change your mindset.
am Sory, but u are not alright upstairs.

If a guy asks u out, why not ask him upfront what he expects from u?

U can't just assume he is Jesus Christ and start talking nonsense when he asks for sex. Abeg behave urself. Infact, what stops u from taking urself out and spending Ur own money?
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by benji93: 6:32pm On May 11, 2021
Your mates in Turkey will not even let men pay for whatever stuffs they buy on dates. Pay your own make I pay my own. I dare you to do that. I dare you. grin. When next he asks you out insist that you pay for your stuffs, and see whether he will not behave himself.
Psych412:
What nonsense.

So you think all ladies are the same(been cheap). You need to change your mindset.
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Nobody: 6:40pm On May 11, 2021
Temigirl95:
Is it today u know Nigeria men are one set of dumb, stupid, senseless abd foolish things... so because you bought rice for me, rice snd meat, means I should sleep with you? Plz , stop going out with poverty oriented men. Poverty stricken mentality. How does fofood, FOOD? Equates sex. If not because Nigeria is full of poor bastards
Haba calm down, You could as well pay for the meal to avoid unecessary demands. Most ladies pay for meals now.
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Yusufisraelj(m): 6:41pm On May 11, 2021
Temigirl95:
God bless you wherever you are....

And you too my dear.
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Mrlouis: 6:51pm On May 11, 2021
tightpussy156:
@op it depend on the way you look at it many of you girls are selfish an foolish.firstly why will you go on a.date with a guy you not intetested in.your mind na to chop fried rice chicken juice shawama after that you order for meat pie fish roll icecream even like 5 diffrent for your friends at home then.you expect the guy.not to ask you for sex.you girls change that mindset.your mouth they sweet free tins.moreover not all guys are the same.i can decide to take a girls no but i will not call afterall na me go spend money but if want to flex you scatter i call you go chop scatter you will be tired an i wouldnt ask u for sex in return you keep imagine after all the spending this guy did he didnt ask for anytin.lastly so many girls dont appreciate after spending on them you didnt ask for anytin the go about calling you MUGU that why 99% of boys ask for something in return.if you dont no a girl can go with 20k.cash right inside her purse but she wouldnt spend a dime she want the guy to spend his and even buy the whole fastfood for them if it possible.A guy will always respect a ladie that take care of her bill on a date.i was at chicken.express sunday when a lady came from far to come wait for a guy in chicken express she didnt even have transport.she came to me and beg me for 500 naira to pay bike that the guy is waitin for hasnt come.due to my kind heart i gave her she paid.she came inside started waiting for the guy 1hr she was alone looking confuse inside there.i later invited to my table.ask her what she care for she said fried rice.i order fried an chicken for her with cold juice. i advice her never you go wait for a guy without holding your money because u.might not be lucky like this.After all these she expect i will take her no or probably book an.hotel but i didnt after eating an.relaxing told her am going she was surprise i even.give her 500 naira to go back home.she wa expecting to ask for SEX in return which other guys would have done.that is it who quote me should hug transformer.

SO WITH THIS "VALIANT ACT" OF YOURS I'M GUESSING YOU FEEL YOU DESERVE A CHOCOLATE CAKE OR SOMETHING.

NOW THIS IS THE PROBLEM. IT'S DEGENERATE SIMPS LIKE YOU THAT KEEP SPINNING THIS VICIOUS CIRCLE OF ENTITLEMENT MENTALITY WE SEE IN SOME OF THESE GORGERS.

SOME LESSONS ARE BEST LEARNT THE HARD WAY. WITH WHAT YOU DID, TOMORROW THAT LADY WILL DO SAME AGAIN WAITING FOR YOU, CAPTAIN SIMPSON, SIMPED UP IN HIS CAPE TO COME SAVE THE DAY.

ALAS! YOUR MONIKER SAYS IT ALL grin grin
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by CSTRR: 6:59pm On May 11, 2021
After date, the guy is taking you to his place.
Are you going there to do prayer and fasting?
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by CSTRR: 7:03pm On May 11, 2021
There is one fine girl I told one time that she should come to my place na, let's have fun.
We are not dating or anything.

I just told her point-blank expecting her to abuse me or something.

She told me to take her out first.
Which means she already agreed to the transaction.

Unfortunately, something else came up and I had to travel.

The babe has left my area now.

Missed opportunity.
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Benresmy(m): 7:19pm On May 11, 2021
Psych412:
This is a very serious issue. Spending on a lady doesn't give you the right to ask her for sex. This needs to stop. Taking a girl out for a date doesn't have to be sex in return. For my own side I see nothing in women... Becos a woman cannot offer you anything rather than sex


Please let's try to be responsible
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Jeon(f): 7:23pm On May 11, 2021
Lollittaa:

dollywood ko, kannywood ni. Lemme alone sad


Lollittaa my lollipop pop up hip hop candy.

Good evening.
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Mcslize: 7:30pm On May 11, 2021
Psych412:
Sex after an outing is normal, but asking for sex as if it's a most or your right for it to happen. I find it abnormal. You're right and that's how it suppose to be.

A lady is angry with me cuz she came to my house and I didn't make out with her. I only pressed yansh and to respect humanity, being her first visit, I let go of the yansh for further visit. But now she is angry. If she want sex on first visit, why didn't she tell me?

What do ladies truly want?
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Mcslize: 7:34pm On May 11, 2021
LifeOfTrigga:
Me I like to fcck first before date o!


Omo! shocked

Werey grin

But na true talk u talk sha.

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Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Mcslize: 7:37pm On May 11, 2021
Jeon:


Lollittaa my lollipop I'm serious.
Don't panic.

I know what is date. You see many men that do those rubbish [sex date ] don't know the meaning and what's attached to it.

BUT I DO!

A date is an avenue to get to know each other but most ladies make it an avenue to go and squander a guy's money frivolously. Ladies don't respect themselves once they set their eyes on fried rice and chicken.

Can't a guy take a girl out on a date and the girl request just a drink? They must order for this, that as far as they are not the ones paying. Ladies are quite greedy materially.
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by osazsky(m): 7:42pm On May 11, 2021
The right question should have been why do girls eat guys money in fast food without giving sex..if u dont go out for dates nobody will ask u for sex.
U cant eat ur cake and have it.the bottomline is girls go and work..so that u can take yourself out no one will disturb u
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by dominion001(m): 7:44pm On May 11, 2021
Psych412:
do you think going out for a date with a guy means hunger solution to me. Not all ladies are the same with the ones you go/relate with.
I wonder why u are taking this whole thing so personal, after all u brought the topic to be discussed.

I just dey look u with one eye

Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Nobody: 7:55pm On May 11, 2021
InfernoNig:
Nothing goes for nothing. Chop money, he chop body. Beside there's no such thing as date again in Nigeria these days. Only real relationship go on date. The rest is for Bleep.
na so d matter be like this no mind op
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by Nobody: 8:01pm On May 11, 2021
Jeon:



Lollittaa my lollipop pop up hip hop candy.

Good evening.
I'm not your lollipop. I'm not edible angry
Re: Why Do Some Men Ask For Sex After Taking A Girl Out On A Date? by 99thEnemy(m): 8:02pm On May 11, 2021
Jeon:


I only pity any girl dating Nigerian man.


I just shake my head.

Na your type na him Lebanese men the perforate steady grin

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