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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Vaiki(m): 6:48am On May 12, 2021
Fedrick100:


Your bestie normally dress up in front of you and you don’t have urge
Oga that your bestie is ugly that’s why you don’t have urge seeing her naked
Nna na you Sabi that one o! My sexual energy is too valuable to dash out to every lady...I guess that's why I'm hot around the ladies because they wanna know what makes me special.

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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Jack005(m): 7:32am On May 12, 2021
Vaiki:
Let him go because he has broken rules. Back in Uni my female bestie used the dress up in front of me and I never had any urge to have sex with her because I saw her as my sister. She was the one always telling people she has never seen a hot guy like me keep his hands away from a lady even naked before him. Loyalty is the word your bestie doesn't understand...he is fake and just wants to take advantage of your closeness. Let him go!
Rubbish statement from either an impotent man, a gay dude or a woman wrapper.

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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by molybdenum0012: 8:05am On May 12, 2021
Jack005:
Now you are blaming the guy? Rubbish talk from a simp.

You are only smart by half. So whose fault.. The lady. If the guy had done his home work well, this would not have happened in the first place. Don't blame the lady, na the guy fumbled.
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Jeon(f): 8:08am On May 12, 2021
Lollittaa:

Get lost

My candy bar.
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Jeon(f): 8:09am On May 12, 2021
Lollittaa:

straight ko, bending ni cry


Yeah baby lollipop sweet
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Jeon(f): 8:09am On May 12, 2021
Lollittaa:

yes do that. Jeon, you can't take him away from me angry

Please don't leave me.
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by laiza(m): 8:09am On May 12, 2021
Hanty let me be completely honest with you. Your besty may be the best thing that ever happened to you and probably the best man you have come across but the truth of the matter is he wants to bleep you and continue bleeping you. Don't fret yet, he's been there for 6 years, throughout all the good and bad and saw you cry and heartbroken and happy....he actually loves you but he just don't want a relationship, he already has that but he doesn't want to be on the sidelines anymore if you get what I mean.

If you see yourself having sex with him and the relationship will still be rock solid then you probably want him more than you think. And please don't say it never crossed your mind, cos that' absolute crap. In all fairness he should be the one you should be having this weird conversation with and why you want to or don't want to have sex with him. You guys obviously know each other more than we could ever imagine but you don't want to give him the cookie because you know after the cookie you would either cheat on him or it won't last. I understand how you feel, he probably does too but e be like say na you de overthink am oh. Dude might not care about you having multiple partners and shit, na wetin una two have to talk about be that but no doubt a guy that can stay with you for 6 years is definitely in love with you.

There are two ways to go about it....send him a message that if it's sex he wants you can get him one or two girls who will bleep him on a regular, and you gotta be sure about this cos once you offer it you can't go back and be prepared for him to say no, you still have to offer them shaa and no jealousy. Secondly, tell him if you guys go down this road would he mind if you have a new bestie? How he responds will definitely tell you what to do. But if I would advice shaa I believe dude deserve that cookie even if na one night stand but on a more serious note you guys belonged together unless for some weird supernatural stupid reason you don't want to believe you guys can have love and friendship together. Na you come sabi wetin you go do next oh.
Shalom!!!
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by cayorday89(m): 8:10am On May 12, 2021
Jack005:
Stop encouraging her, she's heartless.
LOL, she seems confused herself.
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by BigBizzy(m): 8:18am On May 12, 2021
Bestie kill una there

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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by DavidEsq(m): 9:09am On May 12, 2021
paulolee:
stopped reading when I saw "known him for 6 years"....meaning he have been friendzoned for dt long all in d name of bestie??
and even after dt long time you are still not sure about dating him abi??
some guys dey this life o, that gee is a simp n dnt need a girlfriend so pls leave him in dt zone n dnt gv him promotion to EPL since he isn't sharp...
Mrs op, na people like u be d reason why naija no dey go forward, 6yrs in friendzone n i know say u go follow dey insult buhari for keeping naija stagnant after 6yrs even If una two na almost d same..
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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by larryking540: 9:28am On May 12, 2021
Carchoice:
Friend zoned for 6 years, I’m sure he’s been nursing the move for all the years only to be slapped with a rejection letter.

Give me his number, we should sympathize with him.
some people keep saying let's be friends before starting a relationship ,I just laugh at them ,who is a high school kid here ,,,most ladies will say let's be friends then with time ,my guy I just pity you ,by the time she brings story of how she just came from a guys hux or spend the night over ,then u will ask yourself why punish ur emotions ...

and the last time I checked getting into a relationship or even marriage with a bestie doesn't grantee a successful marriage
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by KingZaddy(m): 9:53am On May 12, 2021
Ginaz:
We have known each other for 6yrs. he’s a very smart , highly intelligent dude, Very playful and deep minded .

We have spent both good and bad times together and he’s the one I run to when I have deep stuff on my mind but I just want him as a friend cos I have never envisioned more than friendship with him.

He came to town , took me on a lovely trip and he confessed his feelings for me which came as a shock to me. He’s a perfect guy , very caring and hardworking. He knows me so well, my imperfections and introverted self. He’s the only morafucker that can call me in the morning , say shittt and just end call without me being angry . Lolz

Since the revelation he hasn’t called me, he said he doesn’t want me in his life for friendship and he needs some space . I am missing him terribly. sad

I don’t want to lose him, this friendship we have . I’m in a dilemma. He hasn’t been online , I don’t even know what’s going on with him. Should I leave him alone ? Pls advice me.

I don’t want a relationship! This has made things awkward for us , I don’t even know what to do anymore. We haven’t been the same since that day!
Gina, I personally created a post on my blog for you, with the solution to your problem


https://godhow.blog spot.com/2021/05/my-best-friend-is-in-love-with-me-solved.html

Just close the space between blog and spot
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by CheedyJ(m): 10:15am On May 12, 2021
Never date out of pity, it wouldn’t end well

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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Masturbator2020: 10:24am On May 12, 2021
Ginaz:


I can’t .
You already know you can't, so what do you want nairalanders to do for you?
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 10:29am On May 12, 2021
Masturbator2020:

You already know you can't, so what do you want nairalanders to do for you?
I don’t want to lose him as a friend .
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Masturbator2020: 10:35am On May 12, 2021
Ginaz:

I don’t want to lose him as a friend .
Well,I think giving him a chance won't be a bad ideal..Dating Someone you already know is far better than dating someone you barely know..If were you I would give it a try..He's got good personality like you rightly said,what else do you want?
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by I888(m): 11:16am On May 12, 2021
Ginaz:

I don’t want to lose him as a friend .
Let him go then. He will be hurt for sure BUT he will get over it with time and then, he will never ask again.
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 11:35am On May 12, 2021
I888:
Let him go then. He will be hurt for sure BUT he will get over it with time and then, he will never ask again.

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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by I888(m): 11:36am On May 12, 2021
Ginaz:


roll eyes
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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Skullano(m): 11:38am On May 12, 2021
You know him for six years now and you don't know your way around him..

Una two dey joke abeg.

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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by I888(m): 11:43am On May 12, 2021
Skullano:
You know him for six years now and you don't know your way around him..

Una two dey joke abeg.
Bros, leave that girl. grin she knows what she is doing and wants him exactly where she has him.

Women are not as confused we sometimes assume. They are often intentional about their missions in any man's life.

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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 11:55am On May 12, 2021
I888:
Bros, leave that girl. grin she knows what she is doing and wants him exactly where she has him.

Women are not as confused we sometimes assume. They are often intentional about their missions in any man's life.

Your obsession with me is crazy. Leave me the hell alone! What can’t you understand? Should I put a gun to your head before you leave me alone ? All the comments of yesterday no reach you? You don start today for comment wey no concern you. Leave me alone o and stop bothering my life or anything that has to do with it .
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Vaiki(m): 12:01pm On May 12, 2021
Jack005:
Rubbish statement from either an impotent man, a gay dude or a woman wrapper.
Rapist spotted!! I had my first real girlfriend at 14 please do the maths.
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by I888(m): 12:20pm On May 12, 2021
Ginaz:


Your obsession with me is crazy. Leave me the hell alone! What can’t you understand? Should I put a gun to your head before you leave me alone ? All the comments of yesterday no reach you? You don start today for comment wey no concern you. Leave me alone o and stop bothering my life or anything that has to do with it .
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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by I888(m): 12:22pm On May 12, 2021
Ginaz:


Your obsession with me is crazy. Leave me the hell alone! What can’t you understand? Should I put a gun to your head before you leave me alone ? All the comments of yesterday no reach you? You don start today for comment wey no concern you. Leave me alone o and stop bothering my life or anything that has to do with it .
Why would I be obsessed with a two face cunning person? For the life of me, the day you broke shame was the day I didn't want to have anything to do with you lol. You drew a line, you overstretch your luck the day you did that. And like you already know, I will never forget those words.
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 12:25pm On May 12, 2021
I888:
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Carry your fake concern somewhere else cos I don’t need it . And quit being a stalker and bothering my life. I’ve kept silent cos I like peace more than anything but it seems your head is blocked or shallow you don’t want to leave me alone .

Stop calling or texting , I don’t need it and I don’t care ,mind your business and stay away.
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 12:28pm On May 12, 2021
I888:
Why would I be obsessed with a two face cunning person? For the life of me, the day you broke shame was the day I didn't want to have anything to do with you lol. You drew a line, you overstretch your luck the day you did that. And like you already know, I will never forget those words.

Kindly leave me alone. Biko. Why is it hard for you to do that ? Leave me alone and stop stalking my life .
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by I888(m): 12:31pm On May 12, 2021
Ginaz:


Carry your fake concern somewhere else cos I don’t need it . And quit being a stalker and bothering my life. I’ve kept silent cos I like peace more than anything but it seems your head is blocked or shallow you don’t want to leave me alone .

Stop calling or texting , I don’t need it and I don’t care ,mind your business and stay away.
next time, don't come online to talk to me rudely. In reality you can't try that to my face.

What is my business with how you wish to live your life? I can only advise like everyone does on nairaland. I called cos I do not keep malice lol but you should be bold enough to tell this forum that you broke shame someone that you are no where near financially....

Be bold enough girl... I mean run your hands like you love to do. I intentionally ignored you on here but you chose to want to be arrogant...

i MEAN be bold to tell this forum what you once said to me...

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Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by I888(m): 12:35pm On May 12, 2021
Ginaz:

Kindly leave me alone. Biko. Why is it hard for you to do that ? Leave me alone and stop stalking my life .
who quoted me and tried to be rude on here? no one else but you! even though I ignored you and tried to be cool. And now you are hypocritically shouting "leave me alone" when you were the one that quoted with rudeness...

Your problem is, you always think gentility is a weakness... You think some people being tolerant is a sign of weakness and when the person you tried to bully stand up against you, you start crying.

Na who no know you go take you serious.
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 12:35pm On May 12, 2021
I888:
next time, don't come online to talk to me rudely. In reality you can't try that to my face.

What is my business with how you wish to live your life? I can only advise like everyone does on nairaland. I called cos I do not keep malice lol but you should be bold enough to tell this forum that you broke shame someone that you are no where near financially....

Be bold enough girl... I mean run your hands like you love to do. I intentionally ignored you on here but you chose to want to be arrogant...

i MEAN be bold to tell this forum what you once said to me...

roll eyes
Obsession is real
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by I888(m): 12:37pm On May 12, 2021
Ginaz:


roll eyes
Obsession is real
lol.. fly!
Re: My Bestie Is In Love With Me But I Don’t Want To Lose Him by Ginaz(f): 12:39pm On May 12, 2021
I888:
who quoted me and tried to be rude on here? no one else but you! even though I ignored you and tried to be cool. And now you are hypocritically shouting "leave me alone" when you were the one that quoted with rudeness...

Your problem is, you always think gentility is a weakness... You think some people being tolerant is a sign of weakness and when the person you tried to bully stand up against you, you start crying.

Na who no know you go take you serious.

Obsession is real, you need to see a doctor. Your comments of yesterday were not enough right? Your texts were not enough for you right ? This morning you continued and jumped on a quote that you were not called to say I know what I am doing. If you’re not obsessed, then I don’t know what you are doing which doesn’t make sense . Keep your advise to yourself , I don’t need it .

My bestie is more important to me right now , I don’t have time for dramatic obsession. Leave me alone and stay away from my thread.

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