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My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by Eranders(f): 8:49am On Feb 26, 2022
It saddens me to say but, I am not able to help him or advise him on what to do.

Here is what he told me;

He met a girl twice coincidentally in the banking hall. On the first met He simply said hi and she responded. Then on the second meeting, he engaged her more in a conversation using the initial meet as a pickup line.

Deep in the conversation they exchanged contacts and he started flirting with her and hinting on how much they'll do together if she were to spent more time with him... Cooking, games, shopping, bathing, etc. Though he said nothing about sex explicitly but, you understand, it's meant to be the happy ending.

He described the direction to his street and flat and told her he'll be available all week and when next she visits the bank, that she can stop by afterwards.

To his greatest surprise she knocked on his door 3 days later.

Long story short, while they were in bed, his gen broke down, one of his fan got burnt, his phone chargers blew, his phone down board damaged. To crown it all, he lost a contract that was awarded him.

His atm card got stuck in the machine and over 100k was withdrawn a day later. When he reported to the bank they said he made illegal transaction and blocked his bank account pending the outcome of there investigation into the matter.

For weeks now he has been borrowing from his friends to eat. He told me all these after asking me to borrow him 20k for the second time.

He has since been facing all sorts of embarrassment and disregard from people that initially had high regards for him.

I told him, it must be spiritual and that he should pray over it.

Gentleman and Ladies, please what should he do to stop all these problems? Am I correct that it is a spiritual matter?

Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by tee59(f): 8:58am On Feb 26, 2022
Seriously? The hunter has become the hunted. Do you think , all the girls you see outside are good? Some of them are carriers of bad omen. The guy lack sense. You just want to get into her leg without thinking of the consequences of you action. He has learnt his own lesson.

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Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by immortalcrown(m): 9:05am On Feb 26, 2022
Samson and Delilah part 2.
Live right so that your misfortune will not be interpreted as the nemesis of your bad acts.

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Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by Blakjewelry(m): 9:07am On Feb 26, 2022
This sounds more like badly written from and horror movie

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Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by Jeon(f): 9:13am On Feb 26, 2022
lol, when we said you ppl should rebuke unholy sex because it not only biological, physically but spiritually.. ..

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Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by Eranders(f): 9:14am On Feb 26, 2022
Advise please.

He is my crush turned bestie and has never made sexual Advance towards me, so I believe he is well mannered.

But we all have things we can not resist.

Apparently he met someone he liked, made his move and it turned badly.

Advise please. Keep your sarcasm aside.

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Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by Flexherbal(m): 9:23am On Feb 26, 2022
This is a complicated matter.
Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by Eranders(f): 9:26am On Feb 26, 2022
No woman is cheap. If she meets someone she likes, why play hard to get?

Moreover sex on first date is very normal. If the circumstances are right, why not?

Some of you loosers that call yourself men can't understand that.

That's why you run your stupid tongues about bedding a girl. My bestie couldn't have told me, if not for the problem that arose, why should he?

Bedding a lady is not an achievement, you didn't convince her, she just gave it to you cause she likes you, why punish her for liking you by running your stupid mouth.

Some of you men need to grow up.

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Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by boxer022(m): 9:35am On Feb 26, 2022
From what I just read, you are right on it been spiritual. Two things are involved, it is either she caused him those misfortunes or her spiritual husband who of course out of jealousy did those things to him. My own little advice for him is that he should take the issue to church, prayers and deliverance should be carried out to liberate him from the powers against him. It should also serve as a warning to him, it is not every lady you see anywhere is a human being and also it is not every lady you will have sex with. Hope he learns from it.

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Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by Nobody: 9:52am On Feb 26, 2022
Eranders:
No woman is cheap. If she meets someone she likes, why play hard to get?

Moreover sex on first date is very normal. If the circumstances are right, why not?

Some of you loosers that call yourself men can't understand that.

That's why you run your stupid tongues about bedding a girl. My bestie couldn't have told me, if not for the problem that arose, why should he?

Bedding a lady is not an achievement, you didn't convince her, she just gave it to you cause she likes you, why punish her for liking you by running your stupid mouth.

Some of you men need to grow up.
Stop all these unnecessary posts. The first is enough. Let him get closer to God in prayers and find a true church to worship and learn how to get free. Nothing is ever too difficult fo God to do. Absolutely nothing.
Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by Healthrelatedjo: 10:01am On Feb 26, 2022
person wey get head suppose know say spiritual things and things don dey involved,go to a white garment church (ccc or c&s for spiritual cleansing and deliverance.)

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Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by Healthrelatedjo: 10:05am On Feb 26, 2022
And to u op,be careful cos u will be the next target since ure the one looking for solution to his spiritual problem.

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Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by Eranders(f): 10:16am On Feb 26, 2022
boxer022:
From what I just read, you are right on it been spiritual. Two things are involved, it is either she caused him those misfortunes or her spiritual husband who of course out of jealousy did those things to him. My own little advice for him is that he should take the issue to church, prayers and deliverance should be carried out to liberate him from the powers against him. It should also serve as a warning to him, it is not every lady you see anywhere is a human being and also it is not every lady you will have sex with. Hope he learns from it.

Thank for the advise. Can't he just pray by himself and be okay or must it be by deliverance?
Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by Eranders(f): 10:19am On Feb 26, 2022
Healthrelatedjo:
And to u op,be careful cos u will be the next target since ure the one looking for solution to his spiritual problem.

I don't scare easily Mr. Moreover, I just want to advise him better.
Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by suffering: 10:29am On Feb 26, 2022
Tell him to earn money without working. To find out how he should visit [.]com.

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Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by kepstone: 11:22am On Feb 26, 2022
Ha,oga this one strong ooo. The spirit is involved ooo. One my friend had this pretty fine Uyo girl very classy who came to see him. And she said for him to convince her that he loves her he should have sex with her.. the girl landed not upto 30 mins she said the guy should do it. The guy could not resist the babe. That girl is definition of beauty...
So the guy entered oooooo. For 3 days it was eat n sex. After she left... She fell in love with the guy but things went South for the guy... That experience opened h up to plethora of bad experiences until I asked him to go and pray,seek God's face for Mercy and discharge the girl.
He was restored.... Now the guy is celibate and has been seeing free girls to do but that experience hmmm, he will never forget in his life.
Now he is doing well for himself, just looking for a good woman to marry.

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Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by Quality20(m): 11:26am On Feb 26, 2022
tee59:
Seriously? The hunter has become the hunted. Do you think , all the girls you see outside are good? Some of them are carriers of bad omen. The guy lack sense. You just want to get into her leg without thinking of the consequences of you action. He has learnt his own lesson.
but she mentioned it that he didn't enter na
Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by etel124(m): 12:01pm On Feb 26, 2022
He should see a real man of GOD for prayers....And if i may ask, where is the girl, she might also be of help, the guy should ask her though nt directly..Back in my university school days, a friend of mine experienced something similar...my guy should hv lost his life..But it was the girl that intervened and he was spared...the girl had a spiritual husband in my guy's case...Guys please be careful...Lots of these ladies u see are stronger than you can anticipatd...

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Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by Eranders(f): 12:21pm On Feb 26, 2022
kepstone:
Ha,oga this one strong ooo. The spirit is involved ooo. One my friend had this pretty fine Uyo girl very classy who came to see him. And she said for him to convince her that he loves her he should have sex with her.. the girl landed not upto 30 mins she said the guy should do it. The guy could not resist the babe. That girl is definition of beauty...
So the guy entered oooooo. For 3 days it was eat n sex. After she left... She fell in love with the guy but things went South for the guy... That experience opened h up to plethora of bad experiences until I asked him to go and pray,seek God's face for Mercy and discharge the girl.
He was restored.... Now the guy is celibate and has been seeing free girls to do but that experience hmmm, he will never forget in his life.
Now he is doing well for himself, just looking for a good woman to marry.

I am so happy to hear that some people have had such issues and where able to resolve it. I will advise and urge him to see a man of God.
Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by Eranders(f): 12:22pm On Feb 26, 2022
etel124:
He should see a real man of GOD for prayers....And if i may ask, where is the girl, she might also be of help, the guy should ask her though nt directly..Back in my university school days, a friend of mine experienced something similar...my guy should hv lost his life..But it was the girl that intervened and he was spared...the girl had a spiritual husband in my guy's case...Guys please be careful...Lots of these ladies u see are stronger than you can anticipatd...

Definitely I will persuade him to see a man of God.
Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by Truvela: 12:25pm On Feb 26, 2022
Jeon:
lol, when we said you ppl should rebuke unholy sex because it not only biological, physically but spiritually.. ..
Nai People like 2Baba, Davido, Wizkid them never go broke? There is bad a spirit following or in that lady.

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Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by BeautifulSolace(f): 12:29pm On Feb 26, 2022
Non of my business

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Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by Jeon(f): 12:33pm On Feb 26, 2022
Truvela:
Nai People like 2Baba, Davido, Wizkid them never go broke? There is bad spirit following or in that lady.


everyone with their fortune and luck... and how to prevent it..

like me my fortune and luck are in jupiterincancerlocatedin8thhouse..[so I have to prevent this density by abstain from sex if not with my husband ]
I have been warned serverly since growing up..




abeg shift, no go say nah because of Me mods ban you..

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Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by Truvela: 12:38pm On Feb 26, 2022
Jeon:



everyone with their fortune and luck... and how to prevent it..

like me my fortune and luck are in jupiterincancerlocatedin8thhouse..[so I have to prevent this density by abstain from premarital sex ]




abeg shift, no go say nah because of Me mods ban you..
hmmmm, for ur mind....

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Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by Babaheekmat: 12:43pm On Feb 26, 2022
He should just die

Stupid ediot.

Thinking with his dik.

Maybe assholes will learn from this
Re: My Bestie Is Under Spiritual Attack After Bedding A Strange Girl. Please Advise. by Eranders(f): 12:44pm On Feb 26, 2022
suffering:
Tell him to earn money without working. To find out how he should visit [.]com.

He has already joined the affiliate program and people have registered through his link.

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