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Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by Nobody: 11:08am On May 13, 2021
You're a good person: gently, caring, hardworking, amazing heart, kind, resourceful, but to find a decent man na wahala. Why? Should i start being bad?

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Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 11:13am On May 13, 2021
unbotheredfaith:
You're a good person: gently, loving, caring, hardworking, amazing heart, kind, resourceful, but to find a decent man na wahala. Why? Should i start being bad?
do & be what men like or desire, and before you know it, before long u will be flipping men the way u like.

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Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by Kriss216: 11:14am On May 13, 2021
Well, it depends on how you define good person.


A recent research shows, the number of good girls in Nigeria is not up 8. And I'm dead sure no Nairaland girl is among that 8.

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Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by 2dice01: 11:21am On May 13, 2021
Bad is the new Good cheesy

Until we hear from thy Ex(es) till then lipsrsealed
Cos everyone claims Good,Decent and Hardworking even Gigolos and Ashi

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Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by VanDerWaalforces: 11:22am On May 13, 2021
unbotheredfaith:
You're a good person: gently, caring, hardworking, amazing heart, kind, resourceful, but to find a decent man na wahala. Why? Should i start being bad?
What makes you think you are good? Anyway, that's not the point. If you think you are good, keep doing good because it won't be long, you would reap the fruits of your Labour.

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Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by Nobody: 11:24am On May 13, 2021
VeeVeeMyLuv:
do & be what men like or desire, and before you know it, before long u will be flipping men the way u like.
What's that, pls? undecided
Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by Nobody: 11:26am On May 13, 2021
Kriss216:
Well, it depends on how you define good person.


A recent research shows, the number of good girls in Nigeria is not up 8. And I'm dead sure no Nairaland girl is among that 8.


I'm outside Nigeria but i'm sure there are also good girls in Nigeria.
Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by Kriss216: 11:28am On May 13, 2021
unbotheredfaith:
I'm outside Nigeria but i'm sure there are also good girls in Nigeria.
We lost the good girls during the Civil War.

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Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by Nobody: 11:28am On May 13, 2021
VanDerWaalforces:
What makes you think you are good? Anyway, that's not the point. If you think you are good, keep doing good because it won't be long, you would reap the fruits of your Labour.
I've been told and i know i am embarassed
Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by ogeodi(f): 11:31am On May 13, 2021
Na nature o... Besides what is your definition of a decent man.
Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by Austeeenxx: 11:37am On May 13, 2021
Kriss216:
We lost the good girls during the Civil War.

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Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by SenecaTheYonger: 11:38am On May 13, 2021
unbotheredfaith:
You're a good person: gently, caring, hardworking, amazing heart, kind, resourceful, but to find a decent man na wahala. Why? Should i start being bad?


Because you're looking for a bad boy. If you find someone with the same quality as you, you won't let them in because it's boring to you, since it's what you are.

Wait for your bad boy to come sweep you off your feet.

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Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by 99thEnemy(m): 11:53am On May 13, 2021
Kriss216:
Well, it depends on how you define good person.


A recent research shows, the number of good girls in Nigeria is not up 8. And I'm dead sure no Nairaland girl is among that 8.



Denique must hear that you called her a bad girl when she gets back grin
Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by VanDerWaalforces: 11:54am On May 13, 2021
unbotheredfaith:
I've been told and i know i am embarassed
That's commendable! My advice: If you are not "acting" good, then be yourself; be original, no one else can be you. You would definitely regret it if you do otherwise. Don't be desperate! I know you want a good man; a good man you would have. Research have shown that most people do give up when they are very close to their breakthroughs. Pls, hold on a little while.

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Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 12:03pm On May 13, 2021
unbotheredfaith:
What's that, pls? undecided
U are a good person right? Okay.
U want a decent man, abi? Now which attributes do you expect of the decent man, what's your definition of a decent man?

Answer to your question is what the man u desire likes or love so much.

Although there are general or common desires among men.
Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by VeeVeeMyLuv(m): 12:06pm On May 13, 2021
SenecaTheYonger:



Because you're looking for a bad boy. If you find someone with the same quality as you, you won't let them in because it's boring to you, since it's what you are.

Wait for your bad boy to come sweep you off your feet.
exactly, if a good boy like the op comes along, there is high probability that she will waste no time in dropping him.
Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by paulolee(m): 12:08pm On May 13, 2021
because we all are confused...guys needs. a bad bea to date n a saint to marry..
Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by PlsBanMe: 1:30pm On May 13, 2021
unbotheredfaith:
You're a good person: gently, caring, hardworking, amazing heart, kind, resourceful, but to find a decent man na wahala. Why? Should i start being bad?

Probably because of your circles
Probably because you are unknowingly rejecting the good guys.
Probably because you don't know how to identify good guys.
Probably because you don't have what attracts the good guys.
Probably because of a combination of the above listed items.
Probably because of none of the above.

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Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by zyzxx(m): 1:42pm On May 13, 2021
unbotheredfaith:
You're a good person: gently, caring, hardworking, amazing heart, kind, resourceful, but to find a decent man na wahala. Why? Should i start being bad?
you dont need to be bad, it is happening to both gender, just be patience the right person that will know your value will come

two wrong does not make a right

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Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by idahme(m): 1:45pm On May 13, 2021
Continue in that light, it's pays to exude lovely attributes. Keep it up

Like to know you outside this platform if you so desire.

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Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by Nobody: 1:54pm On May 13, 2021
and I'm the queen of England grin
Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by Nobody: 2:09pm On May 13, 2021
VanDerWaalforces:
That's commendable! My advice: If you are not "acting" good, then be yourself; be original, no one else can be you. You would definitely regret it if you do otherwise. Don't be desperate! I know you want a good man; a good man you would have. Research have shown that most people do give up when they are very close to their breakthroughs. Pls, hold on a little while.
Thank you.

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Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by Kebbiprince: 2:10pm On May 13, 2021
unbotheredfaith:
You're a good person: gently, caring, hardworking, amazing heart, kind, resourceful, but to find a decent man na wahala. Why? Should i start being bad?
Who told you that you're good. Even a prostitute and a robber believe they're good
Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by Nobody: 2:11pm On May 13, 2021
zyzxx:
you dont need to be bad, it is happening to both gender, just be patience the right person that will know your value will come

two wrong does not make a right
Thank you. I pray so.

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Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by Nobody: 2:11pm On May 13, 2021
idahme:
Continue in that light, it's pays to exude lovely attributes. Keep it up

Like to know you outside this platform if you so desire.
Thank you.
Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by careytommy37(m): 2:21pm On May 13, 2021
You are not approachable to even the men you desire
Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by Sammy07: 2:29pm On May 13, 2021
unbotheredfaith:
You're a good person: gently, caring, hardworking, amazing heart, kind, resourceful, but to find a decent man na wahala. Why? Should i start being bad?

This question is actually for guys.
Why is it had for good guys to find a decent girl?
Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by EwuGambia: 2:30pm On May 13, 2021
Lol...its not just love.....its Life generally...

You see good, proactive and hardworking people going through very hard times, and the the non-challant and corrupt ones living their best lives.... undecided
But then what i know is that Time would always depict advantages of being good.....just that sometimes it takes long.. undecided

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Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by bigpicture001: 2:30pm On May 13, 2021
@ OP, Y not gimme a trial. Am very much single.. ND can send u my ex number to confirm what am like relationship wise.... Am also in need of a good female fellow.

Who knows how it turns out
Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by bigpicture001: 3:21pm On May 13, 2021
Sammy07:


This question is actually for guys.
Why is it had for good guys to find a decent girl?

If you find one, their shakara is just too much...
Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by RightToReject(m): 4:20pm On May 13, 2021
If self-destruction isn't the cause, then remain steadfast, for the right man for you will locate you. If you, however, have self-destructed, it's never late for you to make amend and chart a new path for yourself.

Self-destruction has caused most people golden opportunities.
Re: Why Is Love So Difficult To Find When You're Good? by SkyRicks: 4:33pm On May 13, 2021
unbotheredfaith:
You're a good person: gently, caring, hardworking, amazing heart, kind, resourceful, but to find a decent man na wahala. Why? Should i start being bad?

If you are good you will not like a good and true guy but the bad guys so also the good guy will also prefer they bad girls. Such is life

Until maturity step in before you can make a clear and firm decision

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