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Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Mrlouis: 6:16pm On May 17, 2021 |
IT LOOKS TO BE THAT THERE ARE MORE CRAZY THAN SANE PERSONS THAT UTILIZE THIS FORUM. SOMEONE SAID "ONE'S IN-LAWS BECOMES ANOTHER MAN'S RESPONSIBILITIES" HOW SO?? ANYWAY TO THE OP, ONE CAN THRIVE ON ANY GIVEN INCOME ONCE DISCIPLINE AND FRUGALITY BECOMES INSTILLED. YOU SEE THESE THINGS DON'T WORK LIKE MAGIC, ONCE YOU ADD AN ADDITIONAL PERSON TO THE EQUATION, YOU HAVE TO BALANCE THINGS UP. TRANSPORTATION COSTS, COST OF ACCOMODATION, FEEDING, SCHOOL FEES AND EVEN CONTIGENCIES ARE ALL DEPENDENT ON LOCATION AND MUST BE FACTORED IN. LAGOS IN ITSELF IS BROAD AND BASED ON YOUR FINDINGS AS REGARDS THE AREA YOU'D BE RESIDING, YOU ALONE CAN WORK OUT YOUR SALVATION BY YOURSELF. SEEKING FOR ADVICE FROM OTHERS WILL MOST LIKELY MISLEAD YOU AS THERE IS NO RULE BOOK TO LIFE. IF YOU FEEL YOU WANNA MARRY, BY ALL MEANS GO AHEAD. BUT REMEMBER THAT YOU AND YOUR SPOUSE WILL BE BOTH RESPONSIBLE FOR YOURSELVES AND FUTURE CHILDREN (IF THERE WILL BE ANY). BE DILIGENT AND HARDWORKING AND LOOK FORWARD TO GREATER THINGS. THEN YOU WOULD SEE THAT EVEN A SALARY OF 10K, SURPRISINGLY WILL BE SUSTAINABLE. SHALOM 4 Likes |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Nobody: 6:17pm On May 17, 2021 |
Don’t rush. 80k is a very little funds . Wait till you earn at least 300k monthly |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by lordatkinson07(m): 6:18pm On May 17, 2021 |
I remembered I married a few year back immediately after my MSc., programme. While I was preparing for the wedding my salary was just 30k. Imagine! But Immediately after my wedding, things turned around and the door of breakthrough opened. Today, I earn nothing less than 200k every month. Meaning of this is that, pray and work hard. Be strategic at the same time. I'm sure, God will crown your efforts with divine elevation and success 1 Like |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Samchik: 6:21pm On May 17, 2021 |
Guy you can marry, you only know how you live your life. Before going ahead, consider the following: 1. Yearly house rent 2. Cost of feeding per month 3. Cost of utilities per month 4. Miscellaneous expenses 5. Average precautionary expenses per month 6. Your lifestyle and your partner's lifestyle, can you guys cope? 7. Your future plans for improvement, know that future is not certain, things might get better or the other way(God forbid). Consider the above factors and be honest with yourself if truly you should go ahead or not. 2 Likes |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by ifeanyi317(m): 6:30pm On May 17, 2021 |
if you are staying alone please go ahead but marry someone that is working and please dont start rushing to give birth without having a proper plan. 3 Likes |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Liposure: 6:30pm On May 17, 2021 |
dammyagboola:but why |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by stupidmod3: 6:34pm On May 17, 2021 |
Skillsnigeria: 40k time 12 is 480k u keep 40k for other things monthly, now marry a working woman earning at least 30k or 40k monthly. u ok to leave in lagos, stop saying life is hard there are people driving keke with children they are not begging 1 Like |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by niyidenrele: 6:36pm On May 17, 2021 |
When will a grown up man stop displaying their stupid on this same issues |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by oluwasegun007(m): 6:38pm On May 17, 2021 |
Wickedness....N80k is not enough for only you not too talk of another man pikin. |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Martinez39s(m): 6:42pm On May 17, 2021 |
SMH. A man with 80k per month shouldn't be thinking of marriage. How people bring children into this world without any huge inheritance for the children and money to afford them options and comfort is beyond me? Why do most men like perpetuating suffering? Most men will just marry and start families at their own financial detriment just to feel they have achieved something in life, even when it's not advisable to do so. They excuse this vanity with "I just have to spread my genes" and "I just want to continue my legacy and family name." See how OP is contemplating whether he should weigh himself down financially and perpetuate poverty to the next generation. What nonsense is this? Look around you, no one cares about your genes and family name. If a disaster wiped out your entire bloodline, as it did others, hence putting an end to your family name, the world will move on and heaven won't fall. Also, what legacy are you leaving with 80k/month and suffering in the new generation? Most men that are rushing to marriage to "continue their legacy" can't even take their children to a good secondary school or give them three good meals per day, yet they are talking about legacy. Hustle and establish yourself. 80k is too small. Marriage is not by force. If you die single or get married, the universe doesn't care and the world will move on whether or not you continue your family name. So take it easy and hustle for more money per month. Almajiris everywhere, economic hardship everywhere, an overwhelming population, so much competition and vices, yet people are still giving birth without restraint when they are struggling financially. 11 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Martinez39s(m): 6:43pm On May 17, 2021 |
lordatkinson07:What if things turned for the worse? 3 Likes |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Martinez39s(m): 6:44pm On May 17, 2021 |
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Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by brownbib(m): 6:46pm On May 17, 2021 |
Honestly the answer is entirely with the person. |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by DEBJOCH1(m): 6:48pm On May 17, 2021 |
GUY 6 YEARS AGO, I LIVED IN SURULERE, GOT MARRIED WITH N60K SALARY, STILL, STILL, THE SALARY IS STILL READING SAME FIGURE, WITH WIFE AND 2 CHILDREN, AS I AM NOW, MY SALARY IS JUST AN ADDITIONAL INCOME, IF YOU WAIT TILL YOU EARN N200K BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED, THAT TIME MAY NOT COME. AT 31 GUY, STOP SEEING YOUR SELF AS TOO YOUNG TO GET MARRIED, I AM STILL IN MY 30'S AND STILL THINK I GOT MARRIED LATE. THANK GOD FOR HIS NUMEROUS PROVISION 2 Likes |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Nobody: 6:50pm On May 17, 2021 |
Olayinka8793: God bless this niggar! I swear down that we Nigerians are just recieving each other blabbing about private schools. I went to a private school during my secondary school days and my little bro attended a public school here in Lagos wey all of us grew up oooh. Nah that my little brain box they carry the highest CGP for chemical engineering department so and according to the HOD of their department, he said by the time he's through with his final year in the next couple of months, he will surely emerge the best graduating student of their set. Who get brain get am, no matter the school you attended. The original OP, biko go marry coz I know what I went through delaying to settle down and how I've endangered my life being single. 3 Likes |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by NaijaCoverBlog(m): 6:51pm On May 17, 2021 |
My Guy, 80k na small money to , Go And Hustle more before getting married |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by BlackFlamefromP: 6:58pm On May 17, 2021 |
No sir. Marriage never hungry you |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by mukthar2000(m): 7:00pm On May 17, 2021 |
Sure, u can get married with 80k once u and ur wife avoid flashing life. Don't allow anybody to delay ur life. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by roundman: 7:02pm On May 17, 2021 |
Olayinka8793:This here is enough advice for you. 1 Like |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by urchcoded(m): 7:05pm On May 17, 2021 |
Futur1stic:how much |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by ojun50(m): 7:07pm On May 17, 2021 |
You can have a beautiful marriage with that amount, you think say.na every body wey marry for lagos dey earn 80k. Get a good wife from a good family I got married two years with half of that earning . 1 Like |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Karozy: 7:09pm On May 17, 2021 |
jayboy112233: You don’t need to have millions to get married, it’s all about finding the right and understanding wife and with the little you have you are good to go, so long you have a supportive wife, if you’re waiting to get millions before marriage you might wait for a long time. But anyway don’t allow anyone to pressurize you into marriage, let it be by your own decision and timing. 2 Likes |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by MT: 7:18pm On May 17, 2021 |
I don't mean to insult you, OP. However, if you have to come to the public domain to settle your family expenditure, then I am afraid marriage might not even be for you yet. 2 Likes |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Solatium(m): 7:29pm On May 17, 2021 |
Skillsnigeria: How much do you think bulk of your population live on? So many families of 4 that live on that in a month and they are coping well. just don't deceive yourself |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by CsRockefeller(m): 7:30pm On May 17, 2021 |
Saintkollyjoe: This is most profitable advice on this thread. |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Solatium(m): 7:32pm On May 17, 2021 |
if you can live on that salary with your retinue of girlfriends and able to survive, obviously you can live comfortably with a wife on that salary,set your priorities right. Don't let anyone deceive you that it is greener out there 1 Like |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by edoairways: 7:36pm On May 17, 2021 |
Greystone:Most women are selfish. They prefer their husbands to do all the expenses 2 Likes |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by Raalsalghul: 7:38pm On May 17, 2021 |
koladata: Op, take this advise, that is if you can't withstand the pressure. |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by stanley000: 7:44pm On May 17, 2021 |
Noblepeace:mr man you want to compare 2006 to 2021 abi? When the rate of inflation has risen above the roof right? 3 Likes |
Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by emmaodet: 7:45pm On May 17, 2021 |
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Re: Can A Man Who Earns N80,000 Marry In Lagos? by stanley000: 7:46pm On May 17, 2021 |
Midas01:coz of kids. Noting more 1 Like 1 Share |
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