only irresposible men do that

Funny u

Lollittaa:

you're not a femail but I won't tell anyone

daylay7:
This question come to mind because of my encounter with some men about their marriage. I still find it funny to think that some guys after marriage would still go for another woman for sex. Some would even go after married women. Some would go for girls as young as their daughter.

A conversation ensued between my married friends and I about infidelity. When I told them since I have been married 10 years ago, I have never slept with another woman or touch another woman inappropriately. They were all surprised and called me a "pastor".

Why is it difficult for some men not to adhere to their marital vows?

I always argue this with friends too. Not all men cheat! Yes, they may have other shortcomings but they don't cheat. Afterall, there's imperfection in humanity. That's why when I see people complaina that everyone(men & women) cheat, I just laugh. Maybe they've been the unfortunate/unfortunate ones meeting unfortunate partners. Mind you, you cannot be werey and expect to meet a good or near perfect partners. Life doesn't work like it. But it's not some people's fault entirely. They're not just lucky enough to meet good partners. It's well...
And for those of you that go to Church and exchange marital vows with your partners and you turn around to do something else. I pity you lots. And you begin to wonder why things are not going well in your homes? You 've already placed a curse on yourselves by yourselves.

adonnaiii:
Because the some men indiscipline are beginning to think marriage is over rated

isn't it? Tell me, what is so special about marriage?

FOREX4free:
Wow

e choke u?

DEMZEE:
Because men don't cheat, they just have sex

Women do cheat.

Men and women love differently and show love differently

Men love idealistically
Women love opportunistically

Men show love through sharing his resources and commitment and providing financial security to his woman
Women show love through fidelity ie not being a hoe

And this is the mentality that is destroying people and their marriages.If he has sex he is not cheating it she does she is a hoe.

Tutu82:

And this is the mentality that is destroying people and their marriages.If he has sex he is not cheating it she does she is a hoe.

You dey mind Them? They just keep contradicting themselves...

daylay7:
This question come to mind because of my encounter with some men about their marriage. I still find it funny to think that some guys after marriage would still go for another woman for sex. Some would even go after married women. Some would go for girls as young as their daughter.

A conversation ensued between my married friends and I about infidelity. When I told them since I have been married 10 years ago, I have never slept with another woman or touch another woman inappropriately. They were all surprised and called me a "pastor".

Why is it difficult for some men not to adhere to their marital vows?

papa Ijeomaaaaa, you can lie o

Emmy3:
So many men out there don't cheat on their wives, this not because they want to keep to theirs marital vows or exhibit morality; but these reasons include:
* they don't have the financial pilot to fly the cheaters jet
* they don't have the time/opportunity (always busy)
* they hold a special office in Simps Association of Nigeria
* they have low self esteem or doesn't know how to woe a lady
* they haven't seen their specs that they can trust.

I think your first point is true

Mikester:
There are a lot of reasons for that but the most common one is low IQ and sexual perversion

if men with low IQ cheats, how do they then convince their preys even when those ladies know the guy is married, I am not a fan of cheating, and have never cheated since I married, but the real answer would have been men who have sexual perversion in them, it's inbuilt, sometimes some wives gives room to this due to their unecessary nagging, and making the home uncomfortable to the man which results to the man looking for succour somewhere.

MissSweet:
I haven't seen such men. Three common men; those that are promiscuous, the drunkered and the smokers.

I guess, you have limited ladies or you don't have boldness/confidence and resources that's why you haven't cheated.

Men are human that cannot be trusted; even bf he shouldn't just rub it off on my face.

Wow, It is not about the boldness or confidence but because i told myself that I wont and I have not seen a reason to.

17yrs straight and I proudly state that I have been faithful to my wife, never slept outside marriage or any relationship whatsoever....

I remember sometimes ago when a similar discussion happened in my office. On the whole floor only two of us raised up our hands. One egbon come spoil show and said out of the two of us if any can swear that we have never looked at a woman "inappropriately".....well our hands slowly came down...

NamelessOGBENI:

Technically, men with low IQ cheats and the ones with high IQ are faithful?

Nairaland Sha...

u dey mind that mugu

DEMZEE:
Because men don't cheat, they just have sex

Women do cheat.

Men and women love differently and show love differently

Men love idealistically
Women love opportunistically

Men show love through sharing his resources and commitment and providing financial security to his woman
Women show love through fidelity ie not being a hoe

Keep deceiving urself. Cheating is cheating. And cheating is done for different reasons for both men and women. Some men also cheat for a lot more than sex and some loose their senses not just women.

Kingcalls:
U will still cheat...unless say u no get money

that is not true but lets hope and see. Just that I won't come back to kiss and tell

who cares??

daylay7:
This question come to mind because of my encounter with some men about their marriage. I still find it funny to think that some guys after marriage would still go for another woman for sex. Some would even go after married women. Some would go for girls as young as their daughter.

A conversation ensued between my married friends and I about infidelity. When I told them since I have been married 10 years ago, I have never slept with another woman or touch another woman inappropriately. They were all surprised and called me a "pastor".

Why is it difficult for some men not to adhere to their marital vows?

They lack self control. They are always amazed when they see men that have such attributes

Na wah o

Enudapan:
Nah eh! No qualms
Ogbeni
Men especially odogwus like me are polygamous in nature,
We can Bleep without emotional attachment
While Ladies can't,
So it's kinda normal to bang the leaving hell
Out of any f gender
That comes your way asking for the ice cream and high scream

Mikester:
There are a lot of reasons for that but the most common one is low IQ and sexual perversion

same low IQ that made bill gates cheat on his wife abi?... i for say na u get the low IQ but the truth be say u no even get any IQ at all.

Nice one. And thanks

post=101823165:
@OP, most Naija men don’t have that type of good attitude you've got..
So when they are confronted with cheating,
they minimize, rationalize, and justify their behavior with statements like:

Every guy wants to have sex with other women. And when the opportunity arises, he takes it.

It’s a man’s biological imperative to have sex with as many women as he can. Why should I be any different?

If I got enough (or better) sex at home, I wouldn’t need to cheat.

I’m not doing anything that most of my friends don’t do. If you don’t believe me, ask them.

If my wife hadn’t gained so much weight—or if she was nicer to me, or more attentive—I wouldn’t have even thought about going elsewhere.

Why who would call getting a lap dance in a strip club infidelity? It’s just what guys do for fun.

And as we see on this forum on a daily basis,
If the police had been out chasing actual bad guys, I wouldn’t have gotten caught in that brothel, Why don’t they go after some real criminals?

I’m only sexting and flirting. Where’s the harm in that? I don’t meet up with any of these women in person. It’s just a game.

When some of us @MANNA were in the therapy business, we have a name for this type of reasoning, it is called : Denial.

From a psychotherapy perspective, denial is a series of internal lies and deceits people tell themselves to make their questionable behaviors seem OKAY (at least in their own minds).
Typically, each self-deception is supported by one or more rationalizations, with each one bolstered by still more falsehoods.

Keep it up OP.
It will always fall flat on their faces.

SAY NO TO CHEATING.

post=101823165:
@OP, most Naija men don’t have that type of good attitude you've got..
So when they are confronted with cheating,
they minimize, rationalize, and justify their behavior with statements like:

Every guy wants to have sex with other women. And when the opportunity arises, he takes it.

It’s a man’s biological imperative to have sex with as many women as he can. Why should I be any different?

If I got enough (or better) sex at home, I wouldn’t need to cheat.

I’m not doing anything that most of my friends don’t do. If you don’t believe me, ask them.

If my wife hadn’t gained so much weight—or if she was nicer to me, or more attentive—I wouldn’t have even thought about going elsewhere.

Why who would call getting a lap dance in a strip club infidelity? It’s just what guys do for fun.

And as we see on this forum on a daily basis,
If the police had been out chasing actual bad guys, I wouldn’t have gotten caught in that brothel, Why don’t they go after some real criminals?

I’m only sexting and flirting. Where’s the harm in that? I don’t meet up with any of these women in person. It’s just a game.

When some of us @MANNA were in the therapy business, we have a name for this type of reasoning, it is called : Denial.

From a psychotherapy perspective, denial is a series of internal lies and deceits people tell themselves to make their questionable behaviors seem OKAY (at least in their own minds).
Typically, each self-deception is supported by one or more rationalizations, with each one bolstered by still more falsehoods.

Keep it up OP.
It will always fall flat on their faces.

SAY NO TO CHEATING.

For the very first time on this Forum, you earned my full Respect! You are a real Man, not one of the numerous senseless currupt scallywags that have rendered Nigeria useless like this. Truth be told, today I see on NL why Nigeria is the most useless Black Country on Earth. How can the dimwitted sub-animals that shamelessly pride themselves as cheaters here be able to stand up for Justice, Truth, and Defend their future Generations from Bandits and killers?! It is WRITTEN that the more immoral and lustful a Man is, the more cowardly Sissy and useless his life would be, because having sex with 1 lady takes 50% of brain, living promiscuously like many Southern Nigerian men here leave no Brain space remaining to successfully eradicate intruding Killers that are adopting and sodomizing their children and wives! Tueh on all your senseless brainless retards' heads. Shior!!!

Fadeleke1038:
U will still cheat...unless say u no get money

Make we dey see na

hhmmmm

Ishilove:
They say men are polygamous by nature

SmartyPants:


What do you gain from all these fictional stories?

So, I am now the king fictional story teller. Abi? Kwantinue!

folabayo:
Variety is the spice of life
Some of them are following their forefathers legacy ( i mean those categories of men that use king Solomon and king David to cover up),
While some can never b satisfied even if they hv 50 wives...

As a man so far you hv money and you are influential even if you don't want to cheat,some set of ladies won't just let you be.

Regarding your signature, how does someone learn oil production/fish farming. Any thread regarding that?

daylay7:

So, I am now the king fictional story teller. Abi? Kwantinue!

I just find it curious what you gain from this. Yesterday it was another lie about almost making out with your ex. Is this a paid job?

lexander:
actually even broke guys cheat it has absolutely nothing to do with money it's about self control

Thank you my brother. That is what i have been talking about , Self control!

daylay7:
This question come to mind because of my encounter with some men about their marriage. I still find it funny to think that some guys after marriage would still go for another woman for sex. Some would even go after married women. Some would go for girls as young as their daughter.

A conversation ensued between my married friends and I about infidelity. When I told them since I have been married 10 years ago, I have never slept with another woman or touch another woman inappropriately. They were all surprised and called me a "pastor".

Why is it difficult for some men not to adhere to their marital vows?

a wise man once said; if you say you won't fvck the wife of a man with big dick, what if a man with big dick fvck your wife?



That you choose not to have sex with other women does not make you better than us proudly community penis



Las las na we be legends

SmartyPants:


I just find it curious what you gain from this. Yesterday it was another lie about almost making out with your ex. Is this a paid job?

What has that got to do with you? Does it reduced your self esteem or something? Guy, relax!

We don't Cheat.
We Fk with no emotional commitment.

Women cheat with involving emotional commitment and financial stake

You see what I am saying?

kebliss:
Pastor