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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Judybash93(m): 2:53pm On May 21, 2021
He shouldn't have resorted to physical violence. You literally belittled him in front of everyone in public. Would you have done the same thing if he still had his job?

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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by RightToReject(m): 2:53pm On May 21, 2021
This is recycled fiction. That said, a responsible man in his position who has the best interest of his family at heart needn't be told before he extends such a helping hand to the business in particular and wife in general.

On the other hand, the slap could be justifiable or not depending on how she communicated the plea to him. If she did it crassly or haughtily with an obvious intention to prove a point and embarrass him, it's justifiable as far as I'm concerned - even though he could have done better.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Prenonjebose: 2:53pm On May 21, 2021
You said it the first time, the man pretended not to hear was a signal to drop such. She should learn to be more sensitive. Doing school run is something. The customers know that you don't have a worker, many of them would be a bit patient with you, while you attend to them. In the midst of the pressure, the man may even assist. Now, they left disappointed with what they saw.

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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Stanleyville(m): 2:53pm On May 21, 2021
Margy:
The man is stupid!

I have seen husband and wife running a business together..and guess what ..it's booming.

Just in front of my yard.. a woman owns a retail shop..the husband stocked it up..the next thing I saw was the husband helping in the sales in the shop..the shop is growing

Another man helps his wife in the restaurant..she does the cooking and the man takes orders, serves the customers and helps out.where necessary...customers keep flowing san-san into the restaurant..

There's a program called restaurant impossible aired on food network.. I see a lot of husband and wife and children running their restaurants.

All I can say is that this man will die a wretched poor man..proud grasshopper with no shi-shi.. yeyee dey smell



Keep quiet before thunder strike you there!...you think you've heard it all,.you think she actually really said everything that's bn happening in that house??

That man has endured alot!.. No be women again,no be una?!..

Spits*

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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by koolest4christ(m): 2:53pm On May 21, 2021
I'm married but I do house chores willingly. According to my Boss, LOOK AT THE SPIRIT BEHIND THE WORD before you pass judgement. Oga may thinking that you are disrespecting him in public. You guys supposed to have discussed the issue of him helping you out in the restaurant from home. With that, he will serve the customers more than you and with joyful heart. He will see d restaurant as a family business. Apologies to him and build your home. Any little provocation can trigger up a man who lost his job or business.

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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Emmyxclusive: 2:53pm On May 21, 2021
Hardgun:
That's very bad telling your husband to wash plate
there is nothing bad there except maybe she didn't ask him in a nice way. What's wrong in giving ur wife a helping hand?

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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by WHITELIGHTER: 2:54pm On May 21, 2021
Michelle55:
It's not the message that warranted the slap, it's the tone that she used to pass the message across. There's absolutely nothing wrong with a man helping his wife do the dishes as long as there's an understanding and respect in between.

With please, thank you, you can achieve more than someone who thinks the world revolves around them. The man could have simply walked away and trash it out with her at home thereby earning more respect than before, the woman was totally wrong to have said that in the public as well.


She could have gently nudged him to a corner with a sweet smile on her face and say "honey, please help me out with the dishes while I serve the customers or please be a darling and help me out a little, the customers are beginning to stress me out with lots of demands" any caring man would go the extra length to help his woman out seeing the state of things at that moment.

I know that some ladies are quite saucy and nasty when they are opportune to be the bread winner of the house for sometime but it doesn't give anyone the right to mistreat the male folks.

On the other hand, that slap should have helped reset her brain but e be like say the man no do am well, because she still get liver to table the matter for public forum smiley instead of seeking means to apologize to her for the public disgrace she gave him, she dey find judge and jury wey go take her side undecided
Some people just don't learn!

Exactly, that’s their way, buying public sympathy’s and justifying the wrongs....funny manipulative gender

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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Noblesh: 2:54pm On May 21, 2021
Margy:
The man is stupid!

I have seen husband and wife running a business together..and guess what ..it's booming.

Just in front of my yard.. a woman owns a retail shop..the husband stocked it up..the next thing I saw was the husband helping in the sales in the shop..the shop is growing

Another man helps his wife in the restaurant..she does the cooking and the man takes orders, serves the customers and helps out.where necessary...customers keep flowing san-san into the restaurant..

There's a program called restaurant impossible aired on food network.. I see a lot of husband and wife and children running their restaurants.

All I can say is that this man will die a wretched poor man..proud grasshopper with no shi-shi.. yeyee dey smell
nonsense
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Teaveapoet(f): 2:54pm On May 21, 2021
You don't have a husband madam.
But as it is now. Just take care of your children. Do the little you can do. Don't overstress yourself.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Teejay13(m): 2:54pm On May 21, 2021
At least the fact he has no job, he deserves some respect from you.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by pikechukwu6(m): 2:54pm On May 21, 2021
Dear, you did not do anything wrong. If love play, Some couples can even go to market together, cook together, wash plate together, manage restaurant together, do all possible to meet their daily goal. But, it depends on the way you approached him. If you talk to him in private or in good rational, I think he would have not acted that way!!!
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Senatorwo7(m): 2:55pm On May 21, 2021
It's when you are reall down that you get to know the type of wife you have

Happy though with the decision my guy took after the slap

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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by konkonbilo(m): 2:55pm On May 21, 2021
Very wrong.. He just entered your shop and you welcome him with "wash plate for me" in front of your customers.. That's bad. Atleast let him enter first and I'm sure he'd do it himself without you telling him as you had so many customers to attend to. He's not blind for God sake. Women need to apply wisdom in handling issues. Somethings need common sense

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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by IamAsiri: 2:55pm On May 21, 2021
Margy:
The man is stupid!

I have seen husband and wife running a business together..and guess what ..it's booming.

Just in front of my yard.. a woman owns a retail shop..the husband stocked it up..the next thing I saw was the husband helping in the sales in the shop..the shop is growing

Another man helps his wife in the restaurant..she does the cooking and the man takes orders, serves the customers and helps out.where necessary...customers keep flowing san-san into the restaurant..

There's a program called restaurant impossible aired on food network.. I see a lot of husband and wife and children running their restaurants.

All I can say is that this man will die a wretched poor man..proud grasshopper with no shi-shi.. yeyee dey smell

Thank you o. God bless you for this. If this is all there is to the story, then the man is very proud. Something wey dem suppose start to run together now that one business is nonexistent and the other is struggling. Anyway, it is well sha.

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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Babara1994(m): 2:55pm On May 21, 2021
Margy:
The man is stupid!

I have seen husband and wife running a business together..and guess what ..it's booming.

Just in front of my yard.. a woman owns a retail shop..the husband stocked it up..the next thing I saw was the husband helping in the sales in the shop..the shop is growing

Another man helps his wife in the restaurant..she does the cooking and the man takes orders, serves the customers and helps out.where necessary...customers keep flowing san-san into the restaurant..

There's a program called restaurant impossible aired on food network.. I see a lot of husband and wife and children running their restaurants.

All I can say is that this man will die a wretched poor man..proud grasshopper with no shi-shi.. yeyee dey smell
Shut ur smelling mouth there. If your husband tells you in public to take off ur pant and let him bang ur pussy, would you do it because he is ur husband?
You can say the same thing in different ways. You women have no sense.

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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by muyico(m): 2:55pm On May 21, 2021
This type of slap?

Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by advanceDNA: 2:55pm On May 21, 2021
fuckingAyaya:
U can still see well to type the man no slap you well

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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by lagonovo: 2:56pm On May 21, 2021
grin
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Ashirioluwa: 2:56pm On May 21, 2021
Another story for entertainment
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by ransomed: 2:56pm On May 21, 2021
DaCharis2016:
What's totally bad? Considering the pressure on her she mentioned. I think her asking for her husband's help was justified.

The same pressure will make the man to drive out customers, lock the place up and go home with the key, anuofia.

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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by saintmm(m): 2:56pm On May 21, 2021
The two were wrong. The woman more wrong, even her presentation in her write up indicted her. Because for her to say she was embarrassed publicly showed she said it publicly.
The first course in marriage is understanding each other. Unfortunately, you have to keep doing this and improve on this because situation changes.
The woman was wrong given the man she married and the manner of handling the issue. The man was wrong for slapping her no matter what, what happened to him giving her a reprimanding look, hissed and walk away the way he did?
Manliness also includes self control but not cowardice or stupidity






I rise
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Xpol: 2:56pm On May 21, 2021
You only said what happened in your restaurant but refused to say all the altitudes you’ve been given him all these while his business had collapsed. Sentiment apart if a man is doing well and provides all the family needs it’s seen as normal thing to the woman but once he failed to any excuse won’t be tolerated by most women. If it’s only that one day in the restaurant the husband ( even though he slapped her) wouldn’t have moved out

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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by lincs25(m): 2:57pm On May 21, 2021
The man hand no strong you still have energy to come type the trash here! He would have given you a life changing hot slap that can reset your brain. And for those that are saying the man is not romantic, I pity their husband.

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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 2:57pm On May 21, 2021
Margy:
The man is stupid!

I have seen husband and wife running a business together..and guess what ..it's booming.

Just in front of my yard.. a woman owns a retail shop..the husband stocked it up..the next thing I saw was the husband helping in the sales in the shop..the shop is growing

Another man helps his wife in the restaurant..she does the cooking and the man takes orders, serves the customers and helps out.where necessary...customers keep flowing san-san into the restaurant..

There's a program called restaurant impossible aired on food network.. I see a lot of husband and wife and children running their restaurants.

All I can say is that this man will die a wretched poor man..proud grasshopper with no shi-shi.. yeyee dey smell
Shut up, you slimy bitch! Everything u wrote up there nowhere did you state that the men washed plates. Its just funny for a man to bend down and wash plate. And if the man mistakenly does, he should just take it as his permanent job. Because once one does something once for you dummy brains u automatically register it as ones civic duty. Rubbish!

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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Mozegee: 2:57pm On May 21, 2021
Did you not read what this woman wrote. What does it take her husband to help her wash plates. He is not a good man and as the same time arrogant.i am a father of 3,I do most of those stuffs when I have the chance.
Hardgun:
That's very bad telling your husband to wash plate
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 2:57pm On May 21, 2021
Matters like these can't be judged easily.... there's two sides to a story......but the husband overreacted by slapping the wife.
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by annyberry: 2:57pm On May 21, 2021
Y won't he help her in washing d plate,after all I have seen a man in such situation help d wife to evn serve food and remove d plates evn wen dey have workers to help,pride won't kill some people.....because he opened d business for her den she should kill herself.....

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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by detectivejones: 2:58pm On May 21, 2021
grin grin Give pidgin a chance



Na Wa o. This kind comment dey cos headache. undecided
Make una dey try use pidgin na. No be by force to speak English. tongue[/quote]

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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by DryMouth: 2:58pm On May 21, 2021
Coldie:

She's not even supposed to tell him that, if the man is a reasonable and considerate man he would go and do it himself.

How would u as a man feel if your wife is going tru such stress, despite fending for the family u see her attending to loads of customers then she's attending to them, plates are piling up nobody to wash them, u can't help to attend to the customers and u still cant help to at least wash the plates.

Which kind yeye pride be that
Bro!
Women are something else.
Maybe he told the man authoritatively..

I can never side a woman without hearing from the man first.
A woman came to our close one day and reported how her husband was beating her because she told him to go pick the children from school.. out of curiosity to knw how a man would beat his wife because of that, I and my friends went there and saw a very peaceful man.
When that man explained the way and manner in which the wife told him to go pick up the children ehn, i felt like slapping the woman sef.

Woman have bad mouth. Dnt ever side them without hearing the man out.

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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Asadujames202(m): 2:58pm On May 21, 2021
Margy:
The man is stupid!

I have seen husband and wife running a business together..and guess what ..it's booming.

Just in front of my yard.. a woman owns a retail shop..the husband stocked it up..the next thing I saw was the husband helping in the sales in the shop..the shop is growing

Another man helps his wife in the restaurant..she does the cooking and the man takes orders, serves the customers and helps out.where necessary...customers keep flowing san-san into the restaurant..

There's a program called restaurant impossible aired on food network.. I see a lot of husband and wife and children running their restaurants.

All I can say is that this man will die a wretched poor man..proud grasshopper with no shi-shi.. yeyee dey smell




Trash

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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Adequadry2014: 2:58pm On May 21, 2021
Massage a man's ego nd see him turn to your mumu. The truth was that man like and appreciate a woman that massage his ego in form of submission

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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Preciouschinwe(f): 2:58pm On May 21, 2021
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