Hardgun:
That's very bad telling your husband to wash plate

richmond500:
So in summary, U tell ur husband to go wash plates so u can serve ur customers?

like him go sit down carry sponge wash plate for u for restaurant weh him open for u?
Is that really what I read or I missed some part?


And what about it Mr man? Does he not eat from that business or pay his children's fees? Nna it's better Op remains single than that proud leech!!!!

Yansham:
You guys always seem to forget the stress men do undergoing or insult they receive at work just to provide for the family without complaining.

But when the woman shoulders the family's responsibility, the man must drop his pride and help her.

richmond500:
So in summary, U tell ur husband to go wash plates so u can serve ur customers?

like him go sit down carry sponge wash plate for u for restaurant weh him open for u?
Is that really what I read or I missed some part?
I see nothing wrong in what she did. So if it were to be you in that situation, seeing your wife attending to customers all by herself, and the dishes not done, will you ignore her? Won't it be nice if you assist her do the dishes? Or is that not were the money she uses in running the home comes from?
Na pride dey worry most of you men

richmond500:
So in summary, U tell ur husband to go wash plates so u can serve ur customers?

like him go sit down carry sponge wash plate for u for restaurant weh him open for u?
Is that really what I read or I missed some part?

Hotshisha:


I payed 100k to rent a shop

I payed an extra 100 k to buy plastic chairs, table and accessories for interior

I bought gas stove, microwave, cutlery, and food stuff almost 100k

Gave the wife another 100k working capital

All in all I spent 500k on a business venture or $1200 USD on a business venture I earned zero Kobo from( 1.2k is minimum wage of hard labour in USA) and annual income in Nigeria

Yet I am told to wash plates for the customers and I should not get angry and slap the person degrading me because I want to be a real man

I won't slap her , I'll take over my business with receipt and proof of payments I made starting up the business, I'll start washing the damn plates and keeping my profits for my damn self, for 50k I'll get an excellent cook in Lagos and run a proper business, let her go and ask her father and elders in their village to wash plate after buying her plates and business so she can survive

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BonPatrick:
A mother of two who pleaded anonymity has taken to social media to ask members of the public whether it was wrong to ask her husband to do the dishes.
According to her, her husband lost his business to scam and she has been the one catering for the family with the little she earns from her restaurant business.
She said: “Truly, My husband was the one who opened the restaurant for me, I cook very well and I still do my cooking by myself as I only direct my staffs on what to do.My husband lost his business to scam and since then it’s been me carrying the responsibilities, most of my staffs left because I could not pay them and at some point, all of them left and I had to do everything by myself.

“My husband is doing nothing yet, he just sits at home and maybe go pick the kids from school and all, so yesterday I had lots of customers in the shop, I was doing everything by myself, so as soon as my husband walked in, I asked him to help me rush to wash a few plates while I serve, and he looked at me in some strange way, I repeated myself and he slapped me in public, and walked out.

“I ignored the embarrassment and even most of my customers left, when I got home I noticed that he moved his things, I called his phone and he said he is in his friends place till he gets a job he will come home, that I should take care of the kids.

“He cut the call I tried to call and the next he blocked me.

“What did I do wrong, who is supposed to be upset? I just need to clear my conscience.”

richmond500:
So in summary, U tell ur husband to go wash plates so u can serve ur customers?

like him go sit down carry sponge wash plate for u for restaurant weh him open for u?
Is that really what I read or I missed some part?


I liked dis ur comment twice

DryMouth:

Bro!
Women are something else.
Maybe he told the man authoritatively..

I can never side a woman without hearing from the man first.
A woman came to our close one day and reported how her husband was beating her because she told him to go pick the children from school.. out of curiosity to knw how a man would beat his wife because of that, I and my friends went there and saw a very peaceful man.
When that man explained the way and manner in which the wife told him to go pick up the children ehn, i felt like slapping the woman sef.

Woman have bad mouth. Dnt ever side them without hearing the man out.

tollyboy5:

Lolz that slap is a result of true love. I will not slap her and we will never be 2geda ever.

In fact let my ancestor put mouth, it'll change nothing .

moshino:


No you missed nothing.

So why cant he sit down, carry sponge and wash plates, to help his wife?

TUTU147:
You see why some men don't invest too much on their wife, when things get rough that is where you will see the true colour of a woman.The slap no sound well self.

donbachi:
Very disrespectful.

Godada:




The man in question is at a very vulnerable point in life. I think you pissed him off. The level of understanding between the both of you would have smoothened any ran
cour here. You hurt his pride

Coldie:

Employ a young boy or girl. U mean child abuse abi?

Make she go carry person pikin way supposed dae school to come dae sell food for am in the name of wetin?

Which kind local wicked mentality be that?

I have seen a situation where an engineer lost his job and his wife has a shop, the shop is all they use to survive the man that's an engineer way don touch better money out of the fact that he knows what the shop brings to the tale he let his pride down sometimes, goes to open the shop for the wife when she goes to the market. Replaces her when she goes home to cook.

The fact that the man is there helping her doesn't take anything from him, cause he is smart enuf to know the situation on ground

wirinet:


To go open shop and sell for wife different from telling your husband to wash plates in public.
I have opened a small snack bar for my wife. She dare not tell me to wash plates in public. She sometimes ask me to watch the donuts when frying, if she goes out to supply customers. But asking me to wash plates? - never.

richmond500:
So in summary, U tell ur husband to go wash plates so u can serve ur customers?

like him go sit down carry sponge wash plate for u for restaurant weh him open for u?
Is that really what I read or I missed some part?

Coldie:

Ask yourself 2 things, is the man doing that because the woman just wants to belittle him or as at the point it's needed.

The woman is attending to a crowd of customers trying to meet up, if she says ok attend to the customers let her go and wash the plates he can't.

Ok wash the plates let her attend to the customers as soon as possible then come over and take over from u, u vex.

What do u want her to do?

Ninisun:





Why not pay workers to help her? Useless man!!!!! Dont worry,hunger will deal with him soon

Margy:
The man is stupid!

I have seen husband and wife running a business together..and guess what ..it's booming.

Just in front of my yard.. a woman owns a retail shop..the husband stocked it up..the next thing I saw was the husband helping in the sales in the shop..the shop is growing

Another man helps his wife in the restaurant..she does the cooking and the man takes orders, serves the customers and helps out.where necessary...customers keep flowing san-san into the restaurant..

There's a program called restaurant impossible aired on food network.. I see a lot of husband and wife and children running their restaurants.

All I can say is that this man will die a wretched poor man..proud grasshopper with no shi-shi.. yeyee dey smell

bepositive11:


Thank you! The first sane comment here. He should have instead told her that she shouldn't talk to him like that. That it's insulting. He needs to learn how to communicate properly.