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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by BruncleZuma: 3:20pm On May 21, 2021 |
Princedapace: There are a thousand and one ways to communicate displeasure sir, physical or psychological assault is not one of them. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by TUTU147: 3:21pm On May 21, 2021 |
Hotshisha: |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Longman8: 3:21pm On May 21, 2021 |
Make una no 4get say the woman had to multi-task as a result, she resorted to pleading 4 help from her husband. Haba na, she be human being fa. Lets call a spade a spade. 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Coldie(m): 3:22pm On May 21, 2021 |
EaglesEyes1:House that out of the fact that there's no money, you had to sack all your real staffs and start doing your business alone you want to still go ahead to bring an extra mouth to feed in the name of the kid is poor so u are trying to help. U never see wetin people way no get money dae suffer, ordinarily the family is struggling to survive u are not even sure the kids are feeding properly and u want go add another person pikin 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by seyz91(m): 3:22pm On May 21, 2021 |
you just shot yourself in the leg good you said the truth about him opening the restaurant for you and you wrong on the part you said he's not doing anything but just sit at home, and maybe go pick the kids from school regardless of him doing anything or not, you are very wrong to ask him to help you wash plate so you can serve customers wrong on all levels i wish i can come help your husband join another HOT slap BonPatrick: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Jayrow08: 3:22pm On May 21, 2021 |
I will slap u again, nonsense! 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by ojasweb(m): 3:22pm On May 21, 2021 |
GeneralShepherd: Nothing wrong in helping her. However, from the write up, it appears that the woman has been using his current situation as a means to insult the man. Remember the man opens the business for her, so i doubt if he would want the business to colapse. In the write up, instead of the woman to admit that the man is the one picking the kids in school, she said "MAYBE" which shows that she doesn't recognize his input. Secondly, emphasizing on losing his business to scam is another clue to what the man might be going through in the hand of the woman. We are not there though. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Obainomilano: 3:23pm On May 21, 2021 |
Many people supporting the woman here are crazy and unreasonable we are Africans we are not Europeans..we do not have the luxury live or good governance of the white men and yet the Nigerian women always want to compare the man with their European counterpart It is highly insulting and highly humiliating to open your mouth to ask your husband to wash plate in ur restaurant to serve customers.. especially when that husband do not have a job ..when his pride and personality is at the lowest ..that is the time you are supposed to treat him more like a king ..support him in any way u can and give him maximum respect...if customers are too much they can come and wash the plates by themselves I have washed plate in so many restaurants so I can eat and I believe many people here have done so too ....there is no justification for such a public humiliation of a man that is supposed to be your pride .... 4 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by BigCowH0rn: 3:23pm On May 21, 2021 |
Hardgun: Under the circumstance it isn't. It might be how she told him. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Obainomilano: 3:23pm On May 21, 2021 |
Many people supporting the woman here are crazy and unreasonable we are Africans we are not Europeans..we do not have the luxury live or good governance of the white men and yet the Nigerian women always want to compare the man with their European counterpart. It is highly insulting and highly humiliating to open your mouth to ask your husband to wash plate in ur restaurant to serve customers.. especially when that husband do not have a job ..when his pride and personality is at the lowest ..that is the time you are supposed to treat him more like a king ..support him in any way u can and give him maximum respect...if customers are too much they can come and wash the plates by themselves I have washed plate in so many restaurants so I can eat and I believe many people here have done so too ....there is no justification for such a public humiliation of a man that is supposed to be your pride .... |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Elporo(m): 3:24pm On May 21, 2021 |
bepositive11: And so you turn into a humble servant because your scared, you might break an arm or leg, when you fall. Look prosperity and success have nothing to do humility, empathy, sobriety, meekness. These are all virtues the rich and powerful display after the fact like burning down a village and confiscating their gold mines and beautiful women. Earth itself was created through a destructive process. Even the Bible or Quran , do you know how many nations where plundered and looted on thier behalf. That man will start from washing dishes, then attending to the woman's boyfriend's.. which she will have once she finds he is beneath her. At the moment the only thing keeping him atop is his pride. You can't afford to be nice when your struggling to expand or rise from the ashes. You must be ruthless, cunning and opportunistic.. once you get to the top, then you can mimic those silly virtues. 2 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by digitrend: 3:24pm On May 21, 2021 |
Jeon: Every human being born of a woman has ego. But it shows in varying degrees. Its only hidden or subtle or in some people While in others it is 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by NairaMaster1(m): 3:24pm On May 21, 2021 |
BonPatrick: He's supposed to be upset. When you saw his face after the first command, you wouldn't have repeated yourself. Remember, he just walked in. You would have welcome him and observe him. May be, he came to help. Look for him to apologize. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 3:24pm On May 21, 2021 |
Margy: The examples you sighted up there, might be as a result of agreement that has been reached in private by both parties. Why didn't the woman discuss the idea in private with the man? You just use emotion comment.
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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Biafranboys: 3:24pm On May 21, 2021 |
Women of this generation are crazy, for me I do dishes myself but it is an insult to tell your husband to wash plate, same man that opened the business for you 3 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by NairaMaster1(m): 3:25pm On May 21, 2021 |
Jeon: Mr romantic I the hail ooo. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by ginggerxy: 3:25pm On May 21, 2021 |
Margy:no vex na . . the man wasn't in the business with her , he probably went there for something else . and don't forget he opened that business for her probably on her request , the man went really far slapping his wife in the public . Maybe he felt the wife did that because he was jobless |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Coldie(m): 3:25pm On May 21, 2021 |
TUTU147:There's no way she would say it that a man with pride will not be offended. Tell him oga olu abeg help me wash the plates for backyard make I attend to these people war... Oga Emeka u fit go wash those plates for backyard make I attend to these people still war... Before a wife would tell u sth like this preye go wash plate way dae for backyard so I fit sell for these people, Know that the man has done it before. A woman that's going to this extent to sustain a family where the man is jobless enough that the man comes to the shop to stay with her at times what does she have to gain from talking to him rudely to go and wash plates? |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Aylawani: 3:25pm On May 21, 2021 |
....being reading very depressing comments here. The husband has behaved badly. He supposed to have joined the wife in the restaurant business,- which I know would have exponentially grown the business within a very short time- 2 good heads better than one. The flip side could be how this statement was delivered to the husbanf- though at the same time, the wife should know if such statement is receptive to the husband or not. This is now a family and if possible head of church or mosque to address. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by NoToPile: 3:26pm On May 21, 2021 |
felix10: @ bolded thank you for that. People are looking for means to survive in the country,one person is vexing because he doesn't want to wash plates for the business that feeds his home, issorait. 5 Likes |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Nnamaka1: 3:26pm On May 21, 2021 |
So what would the next request from the wife be assuming the husband agreed to start washing dishes for her in her shop Automatically the husband stops being the head of the house and wifey becomes the head. Ladies please listen to this. No matter the condition of your husband, I mean husband ooo not fiancee or boyfriend. Accord to him the respect and regards due to the head so that you can be blessed and remain blessed. Abi you didn't say for better/for worse |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by NairaMaster1(m): 3:26pm On May 21, 2021 |
Everester: I taya ooo |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by pedrilo: 3:26pm On May 21, 2021 |
If God does not punish u, who will? 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by resourcedude: 3:27pm On May 21, 2021 |
Cinema4d:even if he has no job. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by amadil14(m): 3:27pm On May 21, 2021 |
DaCharis2016:cow like u That is how it starts, |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Verysmart101: 3:28pm On May 21, 2021 |
Margy: My friend shut d fuckup.Who told u the man is stupid and is it compulsory a man must do joint business with his wife? Wat works for a family will not work for all families u scumbag. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Idzitari1(m): 3:28pm On May 21, 2021 |
Still asking what u did wrong. U ar jst disgusting, he gave u a sign with a bad look nd u still repeated urself. Madam ntin wrong in asking him to wash plate, but all is wrong when he don't want to do it publicly. Get small sense 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by NiceMen: 3:28pm On May 21, 2021 |
Hotshisha:I said this on Twitter over this same topic and they almost roasted me. I thank God for my naira land home training ooo. I dem nearly finish me . I Twitter people are vile beast 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by OB7Foreva(m): 3:29pm On May 21, 2021 |
Pride be the reason for family dichotomy Franzinni: 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Tecno66: 3:29pm On May 21, 2021 |
richmond500:She actually deserves an head butt. Not slap. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by moneyissweet(m): 3:30pm On May 21, 2021 |
Stupid woman BonPatrick: |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by bleskid: 3:30pm On May 21, 2021 |
he only slap you that man must b a kind man 1 Like |
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