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Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Idabakanta: 1:40pm On May 22, 2021 |
sweetdragon2021:Including mine too |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Sebastine1994(m): 1:45pm On May 22, 2021 |
eyinjuege: what would customers think of a husband that washes plates. these food sellers lack respect, especially women |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by eyinjuege: 2:08pm On May 22, 2021 |
Sebastine1994: Never live your life based on people's opinion. Their opinion won't pay your bills and it means jack to your life, in the grand scheme of things. Everyone with their problem and for all you know the customers may even be worse off than you. There are men that run food business. I know an unmarried young man who sells indomie and egg in a small space. He does it by himself and has his customers. He's a graduate btw but he sells cooked meals to make ends meet and he washes his plates. Talkmore of a man who has a family to feed. We see men in market cutting ugwu in their wives kiosk in the market, and customers have no problem with them cutting their vegetables for them or selling foodstuff to them. Nigerians are too elitist, and look down on hard workers and manual labourers. Its wrong, and nobody should ever be ashamed of any legitimate work that they do. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Galaxydon1(m): 2:28pm On May 22, 2021 |
MrCuteAndLoaded:I'm not an idiot. You are entitled to your own opinion. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Bhetguest: 3:14pm On May 22, 2021 |
Most nigerian men are shameless cowards. Reading the comments, it is obvious why the country is backward, since it is full of primitive, animalistic thought patterns. Washing plates is now an insult? That's why when your type move abroad, your wives are quick to call police on you so they can be free from foolishness. Change your ways, humble yourselves. You're not good and there's nothing special about you. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Jodera: 3:19pm On May 22, 2021 |
eyinjuege:You put yourself in the man shoes. A man enters his wife's canteen, and the first thing he heard was "help me rush and wash plate" in front of customers. So as a man, you'll just allow that slide? There's things ought to be discussed at home, and this scenerio is one of such. Give respect to the man cos he's the husband and not some errand boy. Nobody is disputing the fact that he shouldn't help his wife, but is that the right place and time to say it? That is the issue that brought about the slap, even tho I felt he went a little bit overboard |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Jodera: 3:23pm On May 22, 2021 |
eyinjuege:All these men cutting ugwu, pounding yam in restaurants for wife and all sort, you think it's at the restaurant the wife brought up the idea or you think it's in front of customers they made such arrangement? If you don't see that the manner of approach is the issue here and not some stupid ego you're painting on the guy, then I don't know what really you want to see... 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Kenechukwu98: 4:07pm On May 22, 2021 |
You just publicly ask your husband to wash the plate.... Just tell me can your father do that if your mum ask him publicly.... You're not expecting slap at the first place abi??.. Learn this and know peace.. All men are not the same and can never be same... Stop making mistake... Me personally there are some chores I can never do as a man in the family no matter what that doesn't make me too pride or something but personally I can't do them...you told him that cos he lost his job at the moment whereas you know DAT if not for setback you can't ever tell him that and I heard you say you have workers or what.. Just imagining where you're decreasing your husbands worth for your worker... Seriously no need of ranting cos me too no fit go wash plate if my wife ask me publicly or where you have workers.. I can do that at home. Na only 30% of men go do this kind thing oo... Leave the young man to get himself a job.. Stop intimidating him.. You're hurting him more. He started the business to you to help him not intimidate him. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by babakb: 4:53pm On May 22, 2021 |
This Woman is a coward. If I was her I will just quit the business, besides he has outlived his usefulness since he lost his job. We will both sit at home and wait for his useless ego and self respect pay the bills. Where was his ego and self respect when scammers ripped him off, fvcking loser. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Godswrath(m): 5:00pm On May 22, 2021 |
Hotshisha:Tops |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by AFONAMARO: 5:12pm On May 22, 2021 |
AdakaBoro8: You already reek of disgrace and unhealthy blood, hence, you know what a menstruating man looks like. Agama lizard 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by omonnakoda: 5:16pm On May 22, 2021 |
bepositive11:I did not direct my remarks to you. You are the one seeking to impose your beliefs on me quite rudely calling me a coward. You need to learn manners. If you come here you see comments you disagree with learn to do so politely instead of calling people names otherwise shut your mouth 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by omonnakoda: 6:36pm On May 22, 2021 |
eyinjuege: Easier said than done . The essence of being a social animal is that people's opinion matter. That is why we have libel laws That is why we have brands. Opinions have monetary value. That is the core of social influencing People can stop your daily bread with their opinion especially in a superstitious society like ours. 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by wirinet(m): 8:24am On May 23, 2021 |
Teaveapoet:Me too I am married (for over a decade). Even though I don't support domestic violence, I believe that some women need factory reset slap once a while to keep the relationship going. During my "still searching" days, girls I have dated have left me because I was too gentle to take them. Washing plates might be nothing to you, but it might be something for other guys. I for one don't like washing plates or clothes. I can sweep, clean and cook. I repair all the things at home like electricals, plumbings, doors, toys, etc., but washing, no. Even when I was in school, I gave my cloths to people who did it or my girlfriend came weekends to wash my clothes. What I am saying different strokes for different folks. My wife would never tell me to go wash the plates at home, not to talk of in public. This is not about feeling superior, it's more about disrespect. If the man did not feel disrespected or unappreciated, he would not have left his home. Believe me the man can survive on his own without the burden of a family. Washing plates was never part of their arrangement. If the lady was not being disrespectful, she should have asked the husband for help before they left home, or discuss the whole situation before now. The restaurant in front of customers is not the place for such discussions. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Olaideolayemi(m): 11:34am On May 23, 2021 |
debbydams:How life and things? |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by debbydams(f): 2:01pm On May 23, 2021 |
Olaideolayemi:fine oo.. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Olaideolayemi(m): 4:16pm On May 23, 2021 |
debbydams:Good..I hope you're now enjoying your new relationship now, compared to the past?Have a nice weekend.. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by debbydams(f): 4:23pm On May 23, 2021 |
Olaideolayemi:lol...I'm not In any ...bin single is cool |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by MOVIC6: 5:09pm On May 23, 2021 |
You are far from comon sense, no matter your age, the point every male gender is dropping here is jus ERGO which have been one of the factor of broken home and if you are a Christian, my brother you have lost it cos you don’t know what love and sacrifice is, infact any day they talk about love in church ask the holy spirit to teach you. You have lost sense in the name of pride. Just getout. larryjonze: |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Nobody: 5:38pm On May 23, 2021 |
MOVIC6: Do you know why our forefathers enjoy marriage more than modern men? Ever wonder why modern men are fathering more bastards more than our so called uncivilized forefathers? All these men that carry bag and open doors for there spouse @ the end what is there gain .... abeggi |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by dickt(m): 8:48pm On May 23, 2021 |
Galaxydon1: E clear say you still be small boy. For the man to have slapped his wife, she must have requested him to wash the plates without being respectful about it, and the disrespect didn't start that day. Use your brain. It's meant for use 1 Like |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by dickt(m): 8:50pm On May 23, 2021 |
MOVIC6: E clear say sense nor dey enough within you because you nor dey think wide. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by DaCharis2016: 10:38pm On May 23, 2021 |
Olaideolayemi:Is all understanding |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Olaideolayemi(m): 6:47am On May 24, 2021 |
DaCharis2016:Some woman lack understanding.. All they know..Na exploitation.. Abeg.. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Olaideolayemi(m): 6:49am On May 24, 2021 |
debbydams:Are you that young like that?because time is passing out.. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by debbydams(f): 7:27am On May 24, 2021 |
Olaideolayemi:hum mm I'm not tho..pressure left nd right..it is well |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by Olaideolayemi(m): 7:29am On May 24, 2021 |
debbydams:Try to replan now..And give somebody a chance..experience and knowledge will help you out.. |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by DaCharis2016: 8:39am On May 24, 2021 |
Olaideolayemi:Pls are u married yet, if I may ask? |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by debbydams(f): 8:49am On May 24, 2021 |
Olaideolayemi:a chance? Hum mm it is well |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by debbydams(f): 11:18am On May 24, 2021 |
Olaideolayemi: |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by AdakaBoro8(m): 1:06pm On May 24, 2021 |
AFONAMARO:shut up you this woman-alike.. go watch zee world, you are not a man |
Re: My Husband Slapped Me For Asking Him To Wash Plates by rollyfemmy: 1:25pm On May 24, 2021 |
From what you have said, there is nothing wrong in your hubby washing the plates but all men have ego and always want to protect it. African men mostly nigerians dont believe in helping their wives to do domestic work because of this traditional ego issues. Just apologies to him and try to get any of your cousins, relations or younger family member to come help you with the shop work. Believe me, A man without a job and has a family is not always in a right state of mind and he will always be depressed and it take grace to keep him going. just apologies to him. There are couples that understands each other so much that they are friends, spouse and lovers and they can do anything for each other and dont care about any third party comments and interpretation. But i think yours is just a husband and wife thing. So just apologies to him, i am sure you did not mean to degrade him because of his joblessness but with what he is going through right now, he is not mentally stable thus interpreted your words wrongly and reacted to that. Dont worry all will be fine. just continue with your business and continue to pray for him, he will find a job soon and dont be surprised that he will apologies to you in the nearest future for slapping you. |
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