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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by BSdetector: 1:05am On May 26, 2021 |
heisenberg33: It's a derogatory Igbo word, there's no word like akata in the Yoruba lexicon....thus it originated from the igbos. You trying to twist this argument with long epistles continue to prove your stupidity, you're trying soo hard to sound smart but so far you've brought nothing substantial to the discussion except for explaining your stupidity using big grammar. Like I said, you can keep wallowing in your stupidity. And what the YouTube video, countless news articles and reports proves is that your criminal brothers have a reputation for being crack pushers, you don't need to be a demographer to realize that, simply go through all drug related crime news that happens in Nigeria and common sense would tell you that there's a pattern: the criminals are 90% igbo, even the Asian man who probably hasn't been to nigeria says so in the video, even one of your brothers on this thread attested to this when he justified crack pushing by saying "get rich or die trying"....if you put your numbskvll to work and do the research you're so bitching about you'd find the truth you seek and discover that you're a piece of shit. I'd give you a data you can wankk off to... Below is data for the ethic composition of Nigerian prisons in the 1950's....note that your savage bush tribe were just a 3rd minority in the mix but contributed more jail birds than the two major ethnic groups combined.....once more proving the fact that you animals are genetically criminals from time immemorial, backed up with hard data......the numbers at least don't lie. You talking about making hasty generalizations and pulling stuff from thin air......how do you know am currently sitting in my house eating amala and ewedu "wHAt emPiriCal evIdence and logical statemenT" can you use to back that up, what if am currently in a 3some with your mum and your sisters...
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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by BSdetector: 1:18am On May 26, 2021 |
Activist001: "You don't hate them, you want to experience what it's like for you to be an american citizen" yet you're partaking in conversations that put all AA's into a box of negative stereotypes, people who paid hard prices for immigrants like you to be treated like humans, but you're also calling my BS on tribalism...... Do you even know how stupid and rettarded you sound? Are daft or just pretending to be? 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by BSdetector: 1:22am On May 26, 2021 |
Activist001: Lmao, just like the wannabe Igbo jews of Africa blame all their problems on the Yorubas, hausa/fulani, Awolowo, tinubu and Yoruba muslims while they peddle crack, fight over their dead brother's property, discriminate amongst themselves (0su caste), use their mothers for rituals, sell their daughters for yams and gin, and their leaders continue to be spineless mofos..... you're full of shit. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 8:34am On May 26, 2021 |
BSdetector: BSdetector: Looks like someone hurt you. Lol. I don't have the time to exchange words with a morōn like you. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by heisenberg33: 4:20pm On May 26, 2021 |
Activist001: Brother, the idiot you are talking to is a kid who has deeper mental health issues . |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by heisenberg33: 5:51pm On May 26, 2021 |
BSdetector: The more you make comments the surer I become that you are just a little child. Your utterances which are pure unadulterated gibberish, your terrible vocabulary and manner of reasoning give you away. This is going to be my last reply to you because like I mentioned earlier, I like to argue with people who meet a basic level of intelligence. You unfortunately fall outside that yardstick. You are either a kid or an adult with the brain of a kid. Although even as a kid I was way more intelligent than what you have displayed. Therefore, calling you a kid is actually a dis-service to many smart kids out there. To satisfy your primal instincts, you labored in vain and all you could find was an information written in the 50s (PRE INDEPENDENCE) spanning 1 year. Read this slowly, BS detector is relying on evidence that was published 6 decades ago spanning just 1 year to make categorical statements in 2021. These are the things which gives you away as someone with extremely low intelligence. You are trying to prove that a particular ethnic group is the most criminal today and the only evidence you could offer is one written probably even before your parents were born. It is a good thing you aren't working in any sphere of life which even directly impacts humans. That you even put this kind of evidence is only the lighter side of a terrible tragedy. The more terrible tragedy is that you really seriously believe you made your case. This really tells me you have no modicum of intelligence at all and it is a waste of time replying to you kid. Just before I go, my final advice to you little one is, when you present evidence not only should you avoid using evidence that is not representative of an entire sample (like your youtube videos lol), you need to also avoid SELECTIVE evidence (like the latest kind you managed to dig out) if you want to be taken seriously. Selective evidence is when you ignore the past 2,5,10,15,30 yrs........ and go all the way back to the 50s and conveniently choose 1 year and call it evidence lol. In the real world, you will be debunked and insulted. I am taking my time to teach you these things so you can learn. These are the kinds of critical thinking skills you should learn when you go to school. Unfortunately, the educational system doesnt live up to its duties anymore. So far, I have taught you 2 ways of presenting evidence: make sure it is a representative sample and ensure it is not selective. It is also possible for an evidence to be both ok? If it does not meet these 2, your bias will be evident as it is now and it will be debunked. An example of selective evidence which also may not be a representative sample is the link https://talkglitz.media/nigerians-on-death-row-in-saudi-arabia-beg-buhari-to-intervene There are many Yorubas in the list and only 1 Igbo. By your flawed logic, this must mean there are more Yoruba criminals in the diaspora or even in Nigeria. This is how ludicrous your blanket statements are and they do not pass the smell test. Ordinarily, I would love to keep debating or teaching you till thy kingdom come because I love debating, but this is not even a debate of equals. You are clearly an intellectual Lilliput and as the saying goes, never argue with a fool for they will bring you down to their level and beat you with experience. So kid, intellectual discussions like these are outside your purview. Go and sit on mom's laps and cuddle. Then go play your xbox afterwards. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by BSdetector: 6:07pm On May 26, 2021 |
heisenberg33: Engaging you is a waste of time and energy..... the more you talk the more you re-enforce your stupidity with lengthy explainers trying soo hard to sound smart, over 100 words and 4 paragraphs that can be sumed up into 4 words: inchorent shit and piss. Am busy, kindly fvck off. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by BSdetector: 6:11pm On May 26, 2021 |
heisenberg33: Not as deep as the hole in your brain. |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by JohnSin97: 6:27pm On May 26, 2021 |
BSdetector: What's hilarious is she trying to fact check you on the data and facts you're bringing but disregards the ones posted by some of her brothers, meanwhile she's made multiple assumptions in her long epistles. lol, just free am. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by LikeAking: 9:28pm On May 26, 2021 |
The Op should never create a useless thread like this again. Ewtin we come gain for this nonsense. Lets talk about the solution to the African problem. You will hardly see such threads on NL. We love to talk about hate. The truth is simple. No doubt AA will look down on Africans - We are inferior to some of them. So relationships with AA wont work. Life is like that. Move on. |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 9:46pm On May 26, 2021 |
LikeAking: YOU are inferior to some of them. 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by LikeAking: 1:09am On May 27, 2021 |
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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 2:29am On May 27, 2021 |
LikeAking: Who is "us"? Dude, stop projecting your mediocrity outwards. Own it for yourself. Sillyness is sillyness, whether Nigerian, African or Black american. I speak against all sillyness. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khiaa(f): 2:36am On May 27, 2021 |
2buffagain:I'll make this short, no drawn out essay. I'm tired of going in circles with you, you're just a white supremacists in black skin all because someone called you a booty scratcher. You behave just like the white supremacists, internally they feel inferior to everyone so they drag and drag others down to make themselves feel superior. You showed your lack of intellect when you stated that all Black Americans think alike, that's 40 million people who you couldn't possibly know to make such an unjustified, asinine, assumption. Boy just stop. |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 4:51am On May 27, 2021 |
BSdetector: You are wrong. Make your research, the word Akata is a wild cat in yoruba. And the origin and usage was not derogatory word. Like I explained before, our men saw their girls cannot be controlled like wives here, so they used to themselves "she is Akata oooo and tear you to pieces like a wild cat,.so if you dont love her, dont go near her". Also, they used to say they dance like wild cats cos their moves when dancing to Nigerian music but Akatas have perfected the moves and even better than Africans. But I agree with you that the word has been polluted these days. But Akatas who know the real meaning dont mind. The even call themselves akatas. |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 5:00am On May 27, 2021 |
Please, stop spreading fake info. You all keep saying Akata is an Igbo word, but cannot give the real meaning in Igbo and a good source or reference. Always causing confusions. By the way, SW moved more into the US and UK before any region in Nigeria because that region is about deep knowledge. Ibos were more of business, business, business. And in those days, more Nigerians moved abroad mainly for studying. It was after they got there, they started seeing opportunities. The main intent to travel abroad in those days was to study. And they all used to return home because juicy packages awaited them. Please, always get your facts right. And please, on this thread, do not make these girls feel inferior. When you discuss with majority of akatas, they are brilliant. They have better brains than African girls. There are brilliant Nigerian girls also, but come on! The population of black American girls is huge and greater than that of Nigerian girls. Well, I always hear these things from low class Nigerians. Those who really went to colleges or are presently attending (they left naija for school and went there without gist running away to mix with street girls), always prefer to hook up with any great minds there - black, white, Latinos, or any race. The issue here is that, life makes us meet who is on our level. You want to meet more quality people, then, upgrade yourself. Most Nigerians are hustlers, so who do you expect to meet? They go theere with visiting and student visas, run out of college and over stay their visitation period, and then what? They start hustling doing dirty jobs. So, do you expect to meet great minds in your low life state there? Of course the life is preferable to some than that of Naija cos the power of dollars can make you boast here, and the society is clean and has opportunities for even low class; therefore, it's not hard to post clean pictures to "oppress" everyone online. Lol. We use the word oppress ....kind funny. Fake social media life. Go to school, pay that $25,000 per annum buy the books, go to good and quality places, you will meet not only great Akatas, but excellent people from all races. You will meet brilliant minds. You will be dazzled. Lack of good education can even make one very hostile. So it's natural that it is likely anyone who doesnt go to school will kinda be hostile and uncultured. Even whites and Latinos are like that too..The US is huge, so judging all black girls there as slaves, mannerless, and whatever is wrong. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 5:03am On May 27, 2021 |
khiaa: My full statement:
Please lie now and tell me that Black conservatives are not the most internally disrespected subgroup within the black American community... Black American Conservatives are the quiet minority who rather focus, hold themselves accountable, and build wealth...than yell incoherently in support of bad behavior just because the misbehaver's skin color is black. My type of people! 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by LikeAking: 5:12am On May 27, 2021 |
2buffagain: Rest. Na ur type go say u and ur kins men beta pass oyibo man |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khiaa(f): 6:40am On May 27, 2021 |
2buffagain: Regardless if they are DemocRATS or RePUBiCans, they are individuals and do not all think alike, we are not robots. Contrary to your belief, unlike yourself, some black conservatives are against the brutality of black Americans by the white race soldiers. It's funny how you overlooked the info I posted about the warning of white supremacists infiltrating law enforcement by the FBI. The only time Black RePUBiCans (I won't even say Conservatives) are not respected is when they disrespect themselves. What do I mean by that? Those die hard RePUBiCans (like yourself) who will turn a blind eye to injustice and the evils being committed on Black citizens and minorities in this God forsaken country and choosing greed over self preservation. You are an newbie to this country you will never understand the soul crushing atrocities of Black Americans and Native Americans. Black RePUBiCans remind me of those 3 monkeys, **See No Evil** Hear No Evil** And **Speak No Evil** These are the things you will do to remain the pets of your White Daddies. You will not speak against them. White RePUBiCans love you guys (only politically) because you speak the Hatred and degradation against Black people that they long to say but dare not to, **UNTIL** your RePUBiCan GOD was elected and gave all of the white racists and black coons in the US the signal to stop hiding and come out and show their true demonic selves. That's what I hate about Black RePUBiCS, you stood by this wicked man and supported him knowing he is evil, simply because he supports your capitalism. I am proud of the many Black Conservatives who denounced Trump, left the RePUBiCan Party, regretted voting for him and didn't vote for him again, not to say they won't continue to support the party but they didn't support the party under Trump. Damn, you made me write another essay. Leave me alone Buff |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:01am On May 27, 2021 |
alphaNomega:This thread might be a year old but I’m proud of you man. You are one of the enlightened. 3 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:03am On May 27, 2021 |
Benevento:Lol. For your mind. Tears my ass. |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 4:04pm On May 27, 2021 |
khiaa: Babe who said anything about republican or democrat? I could care less about Trump. I'm talking about black conservatives. Black Conservatives will always be conservatives, no matter whether they side with the rats or the pubes on the political stage. Trump is openly racist. Biden is undercover racist. It makes no difference. All that matters is what you build for your family and your community, not what the government will give you. The Martin Luther King you guys talk about, was a conservative minded person. He wanted a world where his blackness did not stop him from having the sole power to create the life we want, and the result of that struggle is the freedom BA have today. There were actual challenges those days. Unfortunately with the fatherlessness of many BA families (due to racist police activities) and other oppressions (Jim crow, etc), the result so far has been a weakened demographic (by no fault of their own)...severely handicapped. You will never hear me say these things did not happen; they did and it sucked. But what you will always hear me say is to echo what the Spirit of God is also saying on that matter: "For how long will you continue to circle this mountain?". The years the locust and the cankerworms have eaten will be restored, IF you give yourself to self-reflection and set aside limiting beliefs of dependency and a false sense of right-to-misbehave. In today's America, a conservative minded person is truly free and has done away with the unhelpful mind of a slave. This person believes that only they can create the life they want and that they have the sole power to do so. This is true today. And because they also believe it, this is what manifests in their life. NOBODY gets anything in this life unless they believe it. Many have become so comfortable with the victim mentality that they cannot even see themselves as victors and act accordingly. And then ofcourse next comes the hatred of those who look like them but DON'T act like victims because this invalidates the logic behind their chosen form of existence...Viz-a-viz the general hatred of the black conservative within the BA community. A black conservative person does not care about skin color. We see white people as our equals, not superiors you have to constantly ask something from. If you want something now, create it. There is not a white man on earth that can stop me from achieving what I want to achieve in life. There is more than enough for everybody. We don't do scarcity mindset. No "The man" holding us back. That mindset is a relic of the past best cast aside to move forward. Which is why I think ALL black people (not just BA) need therapy. As conservatives, Racism is wrong so we stand against it, no matter the skin color. Degenerate behavior is wrong, so we speak against it, no matter the skin color. Deliberate acts of stupidity are wrong, and we are sincere and non-nepotic enough to call them out for what they are, no matter the skin color. Is that not the goal ? The world everyone says they want to live in? So let's simply live it, hold people accountable for their actions, and build forward. We WILL NOT give you a pass to misbehave just because you are black. Never gonna happen. Grow up from this perpetual adolescence and understand that actions in life have consequences. This general BA misbehavior is why even the creator of BLM, as soon as she collected money from the movement, it is inside a peaceful white neighbourhood she went to go and buy multiple houses. Even she knows whats up. Dem no need tell person! MLK would be rolling in his grave today at what is going on. Your forefathers fought for human rights. You are here fighting for the right for a black girl to KILL another black girl, in broad daylight, while her father is there egging her on (who strangely enough BA ignore), in front of police....and expecting the police to not intervene. How far the branches have fallen from the tree. Now comes the question I ask every un-straight-forward BA regarding that event: if it was your daughter or family member who was about to be stabbed by that girl, what would be your stance on how it played out? DO NOT continue to hype up that event in your backward creeds until you answer that question in a straight and non-snakey manner. Also, what is the alternative to capitalism? Socialism? I don't want to have that argument here. But all I can say is, what is currently going on in the US with people not wanting to work because the government is giving them money, is but a taste of what happens when socialism runs rampant across the land. Hyperinflation is next, BET $300! Socialism has been the fall of many civilizations since the beginning of time. Some people do not read, nor do they know the history of past civilizations, nor do they have a basic understanding of macro economics. They just want to open their freshly-smoked-weed-stinking mouth and join every bandwagon without thinking...because "activity". But that one is another thread entirely. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 4:16pm On May 27, 2021 |
LikeAking:Who pass you? You don’t have any sense at all, inferiority complex kill you there. Nigerian Americans are way more successful than any African American. Even a dog knows that. I can’t believe you think this way. 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 4:24pm On May 27, 2021 |
2buffagain:He is very FOOLISH PERSON. Even my dog knows those people are way less educated and less successful than African migrants. 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 4:32pm On May 27, 2021 |
khiaa:LOL! Hey Liar “I have never dated African men and if I wanted to date African men it wouldn’t be a Nigerian” Do Colored American women lie as often as you do? And why? 3 Likes
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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khiaa(f): 7:42pm On May 27, 2021 |
Bobmarie:Lmao You actually think you have exposed some top secret information. |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:53pm On May 27, 2021 |
khiaa:Answer the question or get your fake lying ass out of mentions, E.G (DO NOT REPLY) Can’t believe I wasted my time reading all those lies, pDudd was spot on about you. All those pages clicked, data wasted on some bunch of liars. Poor me. 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by LikeAking: 10:15pm On May 27, 2021 |
Bobmarie: Guy u dont know the true meaning of success so keep quiet. You think success is building a house in the village and buying cars abi? Go rest with your inferior reasoning. 1 Like |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by LikeAking: 10:22pm On May 27, 2021 |
Bobmarie: yOUR GENERATIONS ARE fOOLS! You dont even know the meaning of succesfull. Which Nigerian American is as successful as Obama, Will Smith,MJ, Kanye west 50- CENTS, ETC? And the list is endless. bLOODY Idiot. Low IQ Nigerians always think they are relevant on the international scene. AA have a higer combined net worth than Nigerians in Americans put together. Nigerians and our ignorant pomposity. Instead of us to respect other people we end up showing our negative sefs. Competing with AA in America is a disater. AA are the reason we are enjoying certain American privileges, yet some of you are competing with them You think success is about buying iphones and stupid cars abi? Success it self is a structure put it place to create more and more success. If Nigerians continue competing with AA, the end result will be terrible. Nigerians pls be humble, sit down. 3 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by LikeAking: 10:44pm On May 27, 2021 |
Nigerians pls be humble, sit down. Empty vessel make the loudest noise. No Nigerian female in the US is richer than Opera, Serena W, etc. Dont all the cheap Nigerian degrees you have acquired deceive you. Life is not by degrees, your degrees will expire one day. Most Nigerian in the USA are menial workers, etc. Enjoy you privileges and rest. Success is a communial structure put in place to create more success. Eg. AA own lots of record labels thats changing the lives of many AA. AA own many movie production outfits changing the lives of AA. AA have a sports culture opening more and more doord for them. 2 Likes |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khiaa(f): 1:18am On May 28, 2021 |
Bobmarie: Show me where I said I have never dated an Nigerian you liar, or shut up little girl. |
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 6:47am On May 28, 2021 |
khiaa:Lmao! What do you take me for? One of the boys you mess with on this forum? You’re pathetic big ‘red haired’ Californian girl. 1 Like |
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