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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by BSdetector: 1:05am On May 26, 2021
heisenberg33:


Now I really know you are either a little kid or your brain is really full of mush. You really have a hard time understanding things. The aim of my argument is not whether the word "Akata" is a derogatory word or not. Even a mentally challenged person like you knows it is derogatory. The aim of my argument was for you to prove that its DEROGATORY MEANING originated with the Igbos. That you still do not get this shows that INDEED YOU ARE a person of inferior intelligence. I have no interest for now in getting into 2buffs and Khai's debate. I only replied you because I saw a lot of ignorance in your posts and i wanted to address them, and thank God we are as I am sure you will learn one or 2 things after this debate.

First, the evidence you use in backing up your false statements simply shows how retarded you are. In your small brain, pulling out an example of an Igbo guy in a you-tube video categorically proves your point lol. Did you go to any institution of learning at all? Have you ever heard of anecdotal evidence before? This is coming from someone who took issues with the urban dictionary, but yet goes to youtube for evidence. Can't I go to the same youtube or any other site and find videos of Yorubas who have been caught for one crime or the other whether yahoo, drugs, or rituals? Do such videos offer any verifiable statistics which proves anything beyond a reasonable doubt? No seriously this is no longer even an argument. I need to teach you something kid. Anecdotal evidence is evidence not backed by statistics. When you are arguing with anyone, make sure you pull hard statistics that cannot be challenged. Youtube videos and personal stories or statements do not cut it ok? If you notice I am trying not to insult you anymore because I really want you to learn. You are clearly ignorant of how to debate. Please learn so you don't embarrass yourself in public. It is a good thing we are in a faceless forum.

Let us dissect your other point also. According to you Abike Dabiri said that 20 out of 21 drug dealers in Indonesia are Igbos and you took this statistic and ran with it lol. Again, this is a teachable moment for you so listen attentively. The questions you should ask first before making a categorical statement are: Is this one case a representative sample of the prison population among the Nigerian tribes in all countries in the diaspora? Is there a statistic to back that up? Is the statistics based on rigorous studies which offer empirical evidence? Secondly, what period in time does the statistics cover? the last 1 month, 6 months, 10 years or 50 years? To make a categorical statement that the Igbos are known for drugs demands empirical analysis backed with statistics of all the tribes in Nigeria in different countries, the time period of the statistics has to be wide also. When you even go deeper you will find that it may be better to talk about the percentage of the population and not absolute numbers (but let me keep it simple for now so I do not lose you) . It is foolish for example to observe the birth rate of a population in just 1 month for example. The longer the time of observation the more accurate your analysis will be. There are so many factors to consider but let me stop here for now.

This is why I said, you pull stuff out of thin air. You do not understand the rigors it takes to make categorical statements. You cannot just sit in your parlor eating amala and ewedu and make up any fact you want. I was correct initially when I said you are impervious to logic. The evidence you presented are not only puerile but if you ever did this in a corporate environment in the USA, you will be fired and your amalmata may be blacklisted. I had to calm down not to insult you but to teach you because I see you really do not know. You are ignorant of how to properly draw logical conclusions. Hopefully, you can eschew arrogance and learn from what I have taught you. This is free community service I am rendering you. Learn for your own good or continue to drink from your poisoned well of hubris and ignorance.

It's a derogatory Igbo word, there's no word like akata in the Yoruba lexicon....thus it originated from the igbos. You trying to twist this argument with long epistles continue to prove your stupidity, you're trying soo hard to sound smart but so far you've brought nothing substantial to the discussion except for explaining your stupidity using big grammar. Like I said, you can keep wallowing in your stupidity.

And what the YouTube video, countless news articles and reports proves is that your criminal brothers have a reputation for being crack pushers, you don't need to be a demographer to realize that, simply go through all drug related crime news that happens in Nigeria and common sense would tell you that there's a pattern: the criminals are 90% igbo, even the Asian man who probably hasn't been to nigeria says so in the video, even one of your brothers on this thread attested to this when he justified crack pushing by saying "get rich or die trying"....if you put your numbskvll to work and do the research you're so bitching about you'd find the truth you seek and discover that you're a piece of shit.

I'd give you a data you can wankk off to...

Below is data for the ethic composition of Nigerian prisons in the 1950's....note that your savage bush tribe were just a 3rd minority in the mix but contributed more jail birds than the two major ethnic groups combined.....once more proving the fact that you animals are genetically criminals from time immemorial, backed up with hard data......the numbers at least don't lie. grin

You talking about making hasty generalizations and pulling stuff from thin air......how do you know am currently sitting in my house eating amala and ewedu "wHAt emPiriCal evIdence and logical statemenT" can you use to back that up, what if am currently in a 3some with your mum and your sisters...

Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by BSdetector: 1:18am On May 26, 2021
Activist001:

Nah, I don't hay African Americans. Heck, I even want to be one of them and experience what it is like to be an American citizen.

That said, I won't hesitate to call out bs when I see one no matter your tribe. If you go through my post history on this forum, you'll find out many occasions where I call my fellow Igbo brothers and sisters on tribalism, bigotry and shit like that.

And you? Well, you're a tribalistic morón and you're not ashamed to show it. I've gone through your post history and truly, my instincts don't lie.

Don't forget to also put up the mirror to your own face too. That will help you greatly.

And before I forget, fuçk off.

"You don't hate them, you want to experience what it's like for you to be an american citizen" yet you're partaking in conversations that put all AA's into a box of negative stereotypes, people who paid hard prices for immigrants like you to be treated like humans, but you're also calling my BS on tribalism......

Do you even know how stupid and rettarded you sound? Are daft or just pretending to be?

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by BSdetector: 1:22am On May 26, 2021
Activist001:

You're just rumbling and bambling. Looks like your triggered by the thread huh?

Truth is bitter my friend, Black Americans blame everything on their white counterparts and muh "white supremacy" while they're the main cause of most of their problems especially in the aspect of police brutality.

Like I said, the truth is bitter so just swallow it. @2buffagain gave you a comprehensive and complete reply, you're just triggered and won't accept reality.


Lmao, just like the wannabe Igbo jews of Africa blame all their problems on the Yorubas, hausa/fulani, Awolowo, tinubu and Yoruba muslims while they peddle crack, fight over their dead brother's property, discriminate amongst themselves (0su caste), use their mothers for rituals, sell their daughters for yams and gin, and their leaders continue to be spineless mofos..... you're full of shit.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 8:34am On May 26, 2021
BSdetector:



Lmao, just like the wannabe Igbo jews of Africa blame all their problems on the Yorubas, hausa/fulani, Awolowo, tinubu and Yoruba muslims while they peddle crack, fight over their dead brother's property, discriminate amongst themselves (0su caste), use their mothers for rituals, sell their daughters for yams and gin, and their leaders continue to be spineless mofos..... you're full of shit.

BSdetector:


"You don't hate them, you want to experience what it's like for you to be an american citizen" yet you're partaking in conversations that put all AA's into a box of negative stereotypes, people who paid hard prices for immigrants like you to be treated like humans, but you're also calling my BS on tribalism......

Do you even know how stupid and rettarded you sound? Are daft or just pretending to be?

Looks like someone hurt you. Lol.

I don't have the time to exchange words with a morōn like you.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by heisenberg33: 4:20pm On May 26, 2021
Activist001:




Looks like someone hurt you. Lol.

I don't have the time to exchange words with a morōn like you.

Brother, the idiot you are talking to is a kid who has deeper mental health issues .
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by heisenberg33: 5:51pm On May 26, 2021
BSdetector:


It's a derogatory Igbo word, there's no word like akata in the Yoruba lexicon....thus it originated from the igbos. You trying to twist this argument with long epistles continue to prove your stupidity, you're trying soo hard to sound smart but so far you've brought nothing substantial to the discussion except for explaining your stupidity using big grammar. Like I said, you can keep wallowing in your stupidity.

And what the YouTube video, countless news articles and reports proves is that your criminal brothers have a reputation for being crack pushers, you don't need to be a demographer to realize that, simply go through all drug related crime news that happens in Nigeria and common sense would tell you that there's a pattern: the criminals are 90% igbo, even the Asian man who probably hasn't been to nigeria says so in the video, even one of your brothers on this thread attested to this when he justified crack pushing by saying "get rich or die trying"....if you put your numbskvll to work and do the research you're so bitching about you'd find the truth you seek and discover that you're a piece of shit.

I'd give you a data you can wankk off to...

Below is data for the ethic composition of Nigerian prisons in the 1950's....note that your savage bush tribe were just a 3rd minority in the mix but contributed more jail birds than the two major ethnic groups combined.....once more proving the fact that you animals are genetically criminals from time immemorial, backed up with hard data......the numbers at least don't lie. grin

You talking about making hasty generalizations and pulling stuff from thin air......how do you know am currently sitting in my house eating amala and ewedu "wHAt emPiriCal evIdence and logical statemenT" can you use to back that up, what if am currently in a 3some with your mum and your sisters...

The more you make comments the surer I become that you are just a little child. Your utterances which are pure unadulterated gibberish, your terrible vocabulary and manner of reasoning give you away. This is going to be my last reply to you because like I mentioned earlier, I like to argue with people who meet a basic level of intelligence. You unfortunately fall outside that yardstick. You are either a kid or an adult with the brain of a kid. Although even as a kid I was way more intelligent than what you have displayed. Therefore, calling you a kid is actually a dis-service to many smart kids out there.

To satisfy your primal instincts, you labored in vain and all you could find was an information written in the 50s (PRE INDEPENDENCE) spanning 1 year. Read this slowly, BS detector is relying on evidence that was published 6 decades ago spanning just 1 year to make categorical statements in 2021. These are the things which gives you away as someone with extremely low intelligence. You are trying to prove that a particular ethnic group is the most criminal today and the only evidence you could offer is one written probably even before your parents were born. It is a good thing you aren't working in any sphere of life which even directly impacts humans. That you even put this kind of evidence is only the lighter side of a terrible tragedy. The more terrible tragedy is that you really seriously believe you made your case. This really tells me you have no modicum of intelligence at all and it is a waste of time replying to you kid.

Just before I go, my final advice to you little one is, when you present evidence not only should you avoid using evidence that is not representative of an entire sample (like your youtube videos lol), you need to also avoid SELECTIVE evidence (like the latest kind you managed to dig out) if you want to be taken seriously. Selective evidence is when you ignore the past 2,5,10,15,30 yrs........ and go all the way back to the 50s and conveniently choose 1 year and call it evidence lol. In the real world, you will be debunked and insulted. I am taking my time to teach you these things so you can learn. These are the kinds of critical thinking skills you should learn when you go to school. Unfortunately, the educational system doesnt live up to its duties anymore. So far, I have taught you 2 ways of presenting evidence: make sure it is a representative sample and ensure it is not selective. It is also possible for an evidence to be both ok? If it does not meet these 2, your bias will be evident as it is now and it will be debunked. An example of selective evidence which also may not be a representative sample is the link https://talkglitz.media/nigerians-on-death-row-in-saudi-arabia-beg-buhari-to-intervene

There are many Yorubas in the list and only 1 Igbo. By your flawed logic, this must mean there are more Yoruba criminals in the diaspora or even in Nigeria. This is how ludicrous your blanket statements are and they do not pass the smell test. Ordinarily, I would love to keep debating or teaching you till thy kingdom come because I love debating, but this is not even a debate of equals. You are clearly an intellectual Lilliput and as the saying goes, never argue with a fool for they will bring you down to their level and beat you with experience. So kid, intellectual discussions like these are outside your purview. Go and sit on mom's laps and cuddle. Then go play your xbox afterwards.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by BSdetector: 6:07pm On May 26, 2021
heisenberg33:


The more you make comments the surer I become that you are just a little child. Your utterances which are pure unadulterated gibberish, your terrible vocabulary and manner of reasoning give you away. This is going to be my last reply to you because like I mentioned earlier, I like to argue with people who meet a basic level of intelligence. You unfortunately fall outside that yardstick. You are either a kid or an adult with the brain of a kid. Although even as a kid I was way more intelligent than what you have displayed. Therefore, calling you a kid is actually a dis-service to many smart kids out there.

To satisfy your primal instincts, you labored in vain and all you could find was an information written in the 50s (PRE INDEPENDENCE) spanning 1 year. Read this slowly, BS detector is relying on evidence that was published 6 decades ago spanning just 1 year to make categorical statements in 2021. These are the things which gives you away as someone with extremely low intelligence. You are trying to prove that a particular ethnic group is the most criminal today and the only evidence you could offer is one written probably even before your parents were born. It is a good thing you aren't working in any sphere of life which even directly impacts humans. That you even put this kind of evidence is only the lighter side of a terrible tragedy. The more terrible tragedy is that you really seriously believe you made your case. This really tells me you have no modicum of intelligence at all and it is a waste of time replying to you kid.

Just before I go, my final advice to you little one is, when you present evidence not only should you avoid using evidence that is not representative of an entire sample (like your youtube videos lol), you need to also avoid SELECTIVE evidence (like the latest kind you managed to dig out) if you want to be taken seriously. Selective evidence is when you ignore the past 2,5,10,15,30 yrs........ and go all the way back to the 50s and conveniently choose 1 year and call it evidence lol. In the real world, you will be debunked and insulted. I am taking my time to teach you these things so you can learn. These are the kinds of critical thinking skills you should learn when you go to school. Unfortunately, the educational system doesnt live up to its duties anymore. So far, I have thought you 2 ways of presenting evidence: make sure it is a representative sample and ensure it is not selective. It is also possible for an evidence to be both ok? If it does not meet these 2, your bias will be evident as it is now and it will be debunked. An example of selective evidence which also may not be a representative sample are these links https://talkglitz.media/nigerians-on-death-row-in-saudi-arabia-beg-buhari-to-intervene

There are many Yorubas in the list in the 1st link and only 1 Igbo. By your flawed logic, this must mean there are more Yoruba criminals in the diaspora or even in Nigeria. This is how ludicrous your blanket statements are and they do not pass the smell test. Ordinarily, I would love to keep debating or teaching you till thy kingdom come because I love debating, but this is not even a debate of equals. You are clearly an intellectual Lilliput and as the saying goes, never argue with a fool for they will bring you down to their level and beat you with experience. So kid, intellectual discussions like these are outside your purview. Go and sit on mom's laps and cuddle. Then go play your xbox afterwards.


Engaging you is a waste of time and energy..... the more you talk the more you re-enforce your stupidity with lengthy explainers trying soo hard to sound smart, over 100 words and 4 paragraphs that can be sumed up into 4 words: inchorent shit and piss. Am busy, kindly fvck off.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by BSdetector: 6:11pm On May 26, 2021
heisenberg33:


Brother, the idiot you are talking to is a kid who has deeper mental health issues .

Not as deep as the hole in your brain.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by JohnSin97: 6:27pm On May 26, 2021
BSdetector:



Engaging you is a waste of time and energy..... the more you talk the more you re-enforce your stupidity with lengthy explainers trying soo hard to sound smart, over 100 words and 4 paragraphs that can be sumed up into 4 words: inchorent shit and piss. Am busy, kindly fvck off.

What's hilarious is she trying to fact check you on the data and facts you're bringing but disregards the ones posted by some of her brothers, meanwhile she's made multiple assumptions in her long epistles. lol, just free am.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by LikeAking: 9:28pm On May 26, 2021
The Op should never create a useless thread like this again.

Ewtin we come gain for this nonsense.

Lets talk about the solution to the African problem. You will hardly see such threads on NL.

We love to talk about hate.


The truth is simple.

No doubt AA will look down on Africans - We are inferior to some of them.
So relationships with AA wont work.

Life is like that.

Move on.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 9:46pm On May 26, 2021
LikeAking:
The Op should never create a useless thread like this again.

Ewtin we come gain for this nonsense.

Lets talk about the solution to the African problem. You will hardly see such threads on NL.

We love to talk about hate.


The truth is simple.

No doubt AA will look down on Africans - We are inferior to some of them.
So relationships with AA wont work.

Life is like that.

Move on.

YOU are inferior to some of them.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by LikeAking: 1:09am On May 27, 2021
2buffagain:


YOU are inferior to some of them.

Abeg rest.

Dem pass us.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 2:29am On May 27, 2021
LikeAking:


Abeg rest.

Dem pass us.

Who is "us"?

Dude, stop projecting your mediocrity outwards.
Own it for yourself.

Sillyness is sillyness, whether Nigerian, African or Black american. I speak against all sillyness.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khiaa(f): 2:36am On May 27, 2021
2buffagain:


This is a long post but read it to the end completely to comprehend what you are no doubt already itching to respond to.

Firstly, I never said there were no racist police. They can see me how they want. But what I will never give them is ammunition to act a certain way against me. They use easy psych tricks to get you riled up so you can respond a certain way and so they have ammunition to do their evil. The work to weed these guys out is ongoing. National and global pressures have been put on the US to see that changed.

The days of police just going to you and beating/shooting you just because you are black are no more because they know they won't get away with it. Kudos to BA for enforcing that progress in american society. But they might if you have given them ammunition. Racist cops are like demons in that way. If they Forget themselves and cause you emotional distress by arresting you falsely, you can sue and make them bleed from their pocket... As long as you do not do anything stupid while they are harassing you, which BA typically tend to do. BA also do not typically believe they can sue police for reckless behavior sure to the blending in their mind if the past and the present. Now moving on...

The 2 cases you bring up, upon analysis, you see where the individual gave ammunition for a racist cop to do what they did.
I know the usual statement is "well white people do worse and they don't get shot/" and I totally agree. A good example is the Capitol riots. That was large scale. But beyond that, there are white people who do get shot by police. They just don't make national news. It all depends on the officers involved and their individual biases...but none of their biases matter if you do not provide them any ammunition.

Let's put white people aside for a second and look at the other minority groups. Have you ever wondered why even they pull back from you?
It is not because they hate you. It is because the widely accepted way of thinking within your community goes against sound logical assessment. Every BA thinks the same way and there is very little variance and if there is, that black person is often ostracized in the black community and sometimes has to lie about their beliefs for peace to reign. E.g Black conservatives basically have to hide to exist peacefully in the BA community. Nobody can tell you this straight up except Africans, because you people counter and shutdown every chance at dialog by simply screaming that the other person is racist. You have no access to that default action when speaking with an African who calls you out on your BS.

Now put aside your feels and let's look at some of these cases whiles considering ALL aspects of the cases, not just what our feels want to latch onto to validate our own biases. This is not a right wrong thing. This is just to lay all the bits out and see issues from all sides and put our solipsism away for a moment.

The Black Army officer:
It was disrespectful what they did to him.
And the aggressive police deserved to lose his job as he did. In Naija, those policemen would be killed if they did that to a soldier.
The cop was obviously a racist piece of shite.

Where the army officer gave them ammunition though was...along with the tags issue...continuing to drive for 1.5miles (~2.4KM), with police behind him signalling him to pull over, in a black SUV with tinted windows, at night. It was not "just over some tags" as you earlier stated. That would be you being intellectually disingenuous just to buttress the point you want to make.

All these factors would heighten the blood of any police officer and put them on alert. In the process of being on alert, the stupid cops among them over-do and before they know it, they have shown the world their true self as a racist, heartless bastard who should not be in the job. You could also tell the junior police did not like the way the racist pig was escalating the thing afterwards.
Obviously if it was him taking charge, it would not have been that way, because not all police are racist scum. There are variances in personalities among law enforcement and these scum will be weeded out from leadership to beat cop.

Personally I would have parked, turned on my inner light and handled the interaction... not drive for a whole 1.5 miles with police lights behind me. Everything in me knows that will lead to a problem. But clearly, a lot of BA are lacking that thing inside them that gives them the right moves per situation. I believe that thing is called Wisdom.

Mahkia Bryant (The one you called a Sasquatch. Your words grin)
How can you have watched that video and tell me the police was in the wrong?
This post is already getting too long. Knowing BA, I know many did not actually watch the video and just jumped on the bandwagon.
I will post the video of what happened again which shows her clearly about to stab another girl with the knife. She would not have been shot if she was just fighting with the girl. When a knife is involved, that is lethal assault! We can talk again after you watch it.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V8GEJkMjtEA
A lesson in wisdom: When the police get on the scene, your beef/drama does not matter. STOP and continue later. You are NOT going to stab someone when police is there telling you to stop/get down. It is unfortunate what happened, but anyone who is a lethal threat to ANOTHER person will be stopped lethally. It irks me that you people have made it a "racist" thing...ignoring the fact that a black life was also on the line that was saved by the police.
I'll make this short, no drawn out essay.

I'm tired of going in circles with you, you're just a white supremacists in black skin all because someone called you a booty scratcher.

You behave just like the white supremacists, internally they feel inferior to everyone so they drag and drag others down to make themselves feel superior.

You showed your lack of intellect when you stated that all Black Americans think alike, that's 40 million people who you couldn't possibly know to make such an unjustified, asinine, assumption.


Boy just stop. undecided
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 4:51am On May 27, 2021
BSdetector:


[u]It's a derogatory Igbo word, there's no word like akata in the Yoruba lexicon....thus it originated from the igbos. [/u]You trying to twist this argument with long epistles continue to prove your stupidity, you're trying soo hard to sound smart but so far you've brought nothing substantial to the discussion except for explaining your stupidity using big grammar. Like I said, you can keep wallowing in your stupidity.

And what the YouTube video, countless news articles and reports proves is that your criminal brothers have a reputation for being crack pushers, you don't need to be a demographer to realize that, simply go through all drug related crime news that happens in Nigeria and common sense would tell you that there's a pattern: the criminals are 90% igbo, even the Asian man who probably hasn't been to nigeria says so in the video, even one of your brothers on this thread attested to this when he justified crack pushing by saying "get rich or die trying"....if you put your numbskvll to work and do the research you're so bitching about you'd find the truth you seek and discover that you're a piece of shit.

I'd give you a data you can wankk off to...

Below is data for the ethic composition of Nigerian prisons in the 1950's....note that your savage bush tribe were just a 3rd minority in the mix but contributed more jail birds than the two major ethnic groups combined.....once more proving the fact that you animals are genetically criminals from time immemorial, backed up with hard data......the numbers at least don't lie. grin

You talking about making hasty generalizations and pulling stuff from thin air......how do you know am currently sitting in my house eating amala and ewedu "wHAt emPiriCal evIdence and logical statemenT" can you use to back that up, what if am currently in a 3some with your mum and your sisters...

You are wrong. Make your research, the word Akata is a wild cat in yoruba. And the origin and usage was not derogatory word. Like I explained before, our men saw their girls cannot be controlled like wives here, so they used to themselves "she is Akata oooo and tear you to pieces like a wild cat,.so if you dont love her, dont go near her". Also, they used to say they dance like wild cats cos their moves when dancing to Nigerian music but Akatas have perfected the moves and even better than Africans.

But I agree with you that the word has been polluted these days. But Akatas who know the real meaning dont mind. The even call themselves akatas.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 5:00am On May 27, 2021
Please, stop spreading fake info. You all keep saying Akata is an Igbo word, but cannot give the real meaning in Igbo and a good source or reference. Always causing confusions. By the way, SW moved more into the US and UK before any region in Nigeria because that region is about deep knowledge. Ibos were more of business, business, business. And in those days, more Nigerians moved abroad mainly for studying. It was after they got there, they started seeing opportunities. The main intent to travel abroad in those days was to study. And they all used to return home because juicy packages awaited them. Please, always get your facts right.

And please, on this thread, do not make these girls feel inferior. When you discuss with majority of akatas, they are brilliant. They have better brains than African girls. There are brilliant Nigerian girls also, but come on! The population of black American girls is huge and greater than that of Nigerian girls. Well, I always hear these things from low class Nigerians. Those who really went to colleges or are presently attending (they left naija for school and went there without gist running away to mix with street girls), always prefer to hook up with any great minds there - black, white, Latinos, or any race.

The issue here is that, life makes us meet who is on our level. You want to meet more quality people, then, upgrade yourself. Most Nigerians are hustlers, so who do you expect to meet? They go theere with visiting and student visas, run out of college and over stay their visitation period, and then what? They start hustling doing dirty jobs. So, do you expect to meet great minds in your low life state there? Of course the life is preferable to some than that of Naija cos the power of dollars can make you boast here, and the society is clean and has opportunities for even low class; therefore, it's not hard to post clean pictures to "oppress" everyone online. Lol. We use the word oppress ....kind funny. Fake social media life.

Go to school, pay that $25,000 per annum buy the books, go to good and quality places, you will meet not only great Akatas, but excellent people from all races. You will meet brilliant minds. You will be dazzled.

Lack of good education can even make one very hostile. So it's natural that it is likely anyone who doesnt go to school will kinda be hostile and uncultured. Even whites and Latinos are like that too..The US is huge, so judging all black girls there as slaves, mannerless, and whatever is wrong.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 5:03am On May 27, 2021
khiaa:

I'll make this short, no drawn out essay.

I'm tired of going in circles with you, you're just a white supremacists in black skin all because someone called you a booty scratcher.

You behave just like the white supremacists, internally they feel inferior to everyone so they drag and drag others down to make themselves feel superior.

You showed your lack of intellect when you stated that all Black Americans think alike, that's 40 million people who you couldn't possibly know to make such an unjustified, asinine, assumption.

Boy just stop. undecided

My full statement:

Every BA thinks the same way and there is very little variance and if there is, that black person is often ostracized in the black community and sometimes has to lie about their beliefs for peace to reign. E.g Black conservatives basically have to hide to exist peacefully in the BA community

Please lie now and tell me that Black conservatives are not the most internally disrespected subgroup within the black American community... undecided
Black American Conservatives are the quiet minority who rather focus, hold themselves accountable, and build wealth...than yell incoherently in support of bad behavior just because the misbehaver's skin color is black. My type of people!

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by LikeAking: 5:12am On May 27, 2021
2buffagain:


Who is "us"?

Dude, stop projecting your mediocrity outwards.
Own it for yourself.

Sillyness is sillyness, whether Nigerian, African or Black american. I speak against all sillyness.

Rest.

Na ur type go say u and ur kins men beta pass oyibo man
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khiaa(f): 6:40am On May 27, 2021
2buffagain:


My full statement:


Please lie now and tell me that Black conservatives are not the most internally disrespected subgroup within the black American community... undecided
Black American Conservatives are the quiet minority who rather focus, hold themselves accountable, and build wealth...than yell incoherently in support of bad behavior just because the misbehaver's skin color is black. My type of people!

Regardless if they are DemocRATS or RePUBiCans, they are individuals and do not all think alike, we are not robots. Contrary to your belief, unlike yourself, some black conservatives are against the brutality of black Americans by the white race soldiers. It's funny how you overlooked the info I posted about the warning of white supremacists infiltrating law enforcement by the FBI.

The only time Black RePUBiCans (I won't even say Conservatives) are not respected is when they disrespect themselves. What do I mean by that? Those die hard RePUBiCans (like yourself) who will turn a blind eye to injustice and the evils being committed on Black citizens and minorities in this God forsaken country and choosing greed over self preservation. You are an newbie to this country you will never understand the soul crushing atrocities of Black Americans and Native Americans.

Black RePUBiCans remind me of those 3 monkeys, **See No Evil** Hear No Evil** And **Speak No Evil** These are the things you will do to remain the pets of your White Daddies. You will not speak against them. White RePUBiCans love you guys (only politically) because you speak the Hatred and degradation against Black people that they long to say but dare not to, **UNTIL** your RePUBiCan GOD was elected and gave all of the white racists and black coons in the US the signal to stop hiding and come out and show their true demonic selves.

That's what I hate about Black RePUBiCS, you stood by this wicked man and supported him knowing he is evil, simply because he supports your capitalism. I am proud of the many Black Conservatives who denounced Trump, left the RePUBiCan Party, regretted voting for him and didn't vote for him again, not to say they won't continue to support the party but they didn't support the party under Trump.

Damn, you made me write another essay. grin
Leave me alone Buff grin
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:01am On May 27, 2021
alphaNomega:



Don't you ever say this! Equal chance?! WTF what were our black forefathers doing when the whites were developing their societies and exploring the world?

Have you even read my signature? It is talk like this that inspired it! angry

What the heck do you mean by equal chance? The white people saw large water bodies and built ships, our forefathers saw large water bodies and did what? This was even before both groups ever met, so don't play that slavery card. How was there no equal chance then?

Let me tell you now, geographically white folks got the shorter end of the stick, they were at a disadvantage. They lived in places were year in, year out, the weather system is trying to kill you (think winter) But the lazy race had everything in abundance but were too dull to develop.

"We were enslaved for 400 years" mehn, fúck that! If we had sense then, we would have not been enslaved in the first place.
This thread might be a year old but I’m proud of you man. You are one of the enlightened.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:03am On May 27, 2021
Benevento:


BUSINESS EMAIL COMPROMISE.

It's a type of fraud where Hackers hijack or clone big companies Email.

Then they will start sending sensitive Mails to companies financial dept or business partners requesting for transfer of funds.

don't go there, it always end in tears.... ask Invictus.

let's get back to the subject of discussion.
Lol. For your mind. Tears my ass. cheesy
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by 2buffagain(m): 4:04pm On May 27, 2021
khiaa:


Regardless if they are DemocRATS or RePUBiCans, they are individuals and do not all think alike, we are not robots. Contrary to your belief, unlike yourself, some black conservatives are against the brutality of black Americans by the white race soldiers. It's funny how you overlooked the info I posted about the warning of white supremacists infiltrating law enforcement by the FBI.

The only time Black RePUBiCans (I won't even say Conservatives) are not respected is when they disrespect themselves. What do I mean by that? Those die hard RePUBiCans (like yourself) who will turn a blind eye to injustice and the evils being committed on Black citizens and minorities in this God forsaken country and choosing greed over self preservation. You are an newbie to this country you will never understand the soul crushing atrocities of Black Americans and Native Americans.

Black RePUBiCans remind me of those 3 monkeys, **See No Evil** Hear No Evil** And **Speak No Evil** These are the things you will do to remain the pets of your White Daddies. You will not speak against them. White RePUBiCans love you guys (only politically) because you speak the Hatred and degradation against Black people that they long to say but dare not to, **UNTIL** your RePUBiCan GOD was elected and gave all of the white racists and black coons in the US the signal to stop hiding and come out and show their true demonic selves.

That's what I hate about Black RePUBiCS, you stood by this wicked man and supported him knowing he is evil, simply because he supports your capitalism. I am proud of the many Black Conservatives who denounced Trump, left the RePUBiCan Party, regretted voting for him and didn't vote for him again, not to say they won't continue to support the party but they didn't support the party under Trump.

Damn, you made me write another essay. grin
Leave me alone Buff grin

Babe who said anything about republican or democrat?
I could care less about Trump.

I'm talking about black conservatives.
Black Conservatives will always be conservatives, no matter whether they side with the rats or the pubes on the political stage. grin
Trump is openly racist. Biden is undercover racist. It makes no difference. All that matters is what you build for your family and your community, not what the government will give you.

The Martin Luther King you guys talk about, was a conservative minded person.
He wanted a world where his blackness did not stop him from having the sole power to create the life we want, and the result of that struggle is the freedom BA have today. There were actual challenges those days.

Unfortunately with the fatherlessness of many BA families (due to racist police activities) and other oppressions (Jim crow, etc), the result so far has been a weakened demographic (by no fault of their own)...severely handicapped. You will never hear me say these things did not happen; they did and it sucked. But what you will always hear me say is to echo what the Spirit of God is also saying on that matter: "For how long will you continue to circle this mountain?". The years the locust and the cankerworms have eaten will be restored, IF you give yourself to self-reflection and set aside limiting beliefs of dependency and a false sense of right-to-misbehave.

In today's America, a conservative minded person is truly free and has done away with the unhelpful mind of a slave. This person believes that only they can create the life they want and that they have the sole power to do so.
This is true today. And because they also believe it, this is what manifests in their life. NOBODY gets anything in this life unless they believe it.
Many have become so comfortable with the victim mentality that they cannot even see themselves as victors and act accordingly. And then ofcourse next comes the hatred of those who look like them but DON'T act like victims because this invalidates the logic behind their chosen form of existence...Viz-a-viz the general hatred of the black conservative within the BA community.

A black conservative person does not care about skin color. We see white people as our equals, not superiors you have to constantly ask something from. If you want something now, create it. There is not a white man on earth that can stop me from achieving what I want to achieve in life. There is more than enough for everybody. We don't do scarcity mindset. No "The man" holding us back. That mindset is a relic of the past best cast aside to move forward. Which is why I think ALL black people (not just BA) need therapy.

As conservatives, Racism is wrong so we stand against it, no matter the skin color.
Degenerate behavior is wrong, so we speak against it, no matter the skin color.
Deliberate acts of stupidity are wrong, and we are sincere and non-nepotic enough to call them out for what they are, no matter the skin color.

Is that not the goal ? The world everyone says they want to live in? So let's simply live it, hold people accountable for their actions, and build forward.
We WILL NOT give you a pass to misbehave just because you are black. Never gonna happen. cheesy Grow up from this perpetual adolescence and understand that actions in life have consequences.
This general BA misbehavior is why even the creator of BLM, as soon as she collected money from the movement, it is inside a peaceful white neighbourhood she went to go and buy multiple houses. Even she knows whats up. Dem no need tell person! cheesy

MLK would be rolling in his grave today at what is going on.
Your forefathers fought for human rights.
You are here fighting for the right for a black girl to KILL another black girl, in broad daylight, while her father is there egging her on (who strangely enough BA ignore), in front of police....and expecting the police to not intervene.
How far the branches have fallen from the tree.

Now comes the question I ask every un-straight-forward BA regarding that event: if it was your daughter or family member who was about to be stabbed by that girl, what would be your stance on how it played out? DO NOT continue to hype up that event in your backward creeds until you answer that question in a straight and non-snakey manner.

Also, what is the alternative to capitalism? Socialism? I don't want to have that argument here.
But all I can say is, what is currently going on in the US with people not wanting to work because the government is giving them money, is but a taste of what happens when socialism runs rampant across the land. Hyperinflation is next, BET $300!
Socialism has been the fall of many civilizations since the beginning of time. Some people do not read, nor do they know the history of past civilizations, nor do they have a basic understanding of macro economics. They just want to open their freshly-smoked-weed-stinking mouth and join every bandwagon without thinking...because "activity".

But that one is another thread entirely.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 4:16pm On May 27, 2021
LikeAking:


Abeg rest.

Dem pass us.
Who pass you? You don’t have any sense at all, inferiority complex kill you there.


Nigerian Americans are way more successful than any African American. Even a dog knows that.

I can’t believe you think this way.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 4:24pm On May 27, 2021
2buffagain:


YOU are inferior to some of them.
He is very FOOLISH PERSON. Even my dog knows those people are way less educated and less successful than African migrants.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 4:32pm On May 27, 2021
khiaa:


Regardless if they are DemocRATS or RePUBiCans, they are individuals and do not all think alike, we are not robots. Contrary to your belief, unlike yourself, some black conservatives are against the brutality of black Americans by the white race soldiers. It's funny how you overlooked the info I posted about the warning of white supremacists infiltrating law enforcement by the FBI.

The only time Black RePUBiCans (I won't even say Conservatives) are not respected is when they disrespect themselves. What do I mean by that? Those die hard RePUBiCans (like yourself) who will turn a blind eye to injustice and the evils being committed on Black citizens and minorities in this God forsaken country and choosing greed over self preservation. You are an newbie to this country you will never understand the soul crushing atrocities of Black Americans and Native Americans.

Black RePUBiCans remind me of those 3 monkeys, **See No Evil** Hear No Evil** And **Speak No Evil** These are the things you will do to remain the pets of your White Daddies. You will not speak against them. White RePUBiCans love you guys (only politically) because you speak the Hatred and degradation against Black people that they long to say but dare not to, **UNTIL** your RePUBiCan GOD was elected and gave all of the white racists and black coons in the US the signal to stop hiding and come out and show their true demonic selves.

That's what I hate about Black RePUBiCS, you stood by this wicked man and supported him knowing he is evil, simply because he supports your capitalism. I am proud of the many Black Conservatives who denounced Trump, left the RePUBiCan Party, regretted voting for him and didn't vote for him again, not to say they won't continue to support the party but they didn't support the party under Trump.

Damn, you made me write another essay. grin
Leave me alone Buff grin
LOL! Hey Liar “I have never dated African men and if I wanted to date African men it wouldn’t be a Nigerian” grin grin grin

Do Colored American women lie as often as you do? And why?

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khiaa(f): 7:42pm On May 27, 2021
Bobmarie:
LOL! Hey Liar “I have never dated African men and if I wanted to date African men it wouldn’t be a Nigerian” grin grin grin

Do Colored American women lie as often as you do? And why?
Lmao grin You actually think you have exposed some top secret information. grin grin
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 9:53pm On May 27, 2021
khiaa:

Lmao grin You actually think you have exposed some top secret information. grin grin
Answer the question or get your fake lying ass out of mentions, E.G (DO NOT REPLY) Can’t believe I wasted my time reading all those lies, pDudd was spot on about you. grin

All those pages clicked, data wasted on some bunch of liars. Poor me. undecided

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by LikeAking: 10:15pm On May 27, 2021
Bobmarie:
Who pass you? You don’t have any sense at all, inferiority complex kill you there.


Nigerian Americans are way more successful than any African American. Even a dog knows that.

I can’t believe you think this way.

Guy u dont know the true meaning of success so keep quiet.

You think success is building a house in the village and buying cars abi?

Go rest with your inferior reasoning.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by LikeAking: 10:22pm On May 27, 2021
Bobmarie:
He is very FOOLISH PERSON. Even my dog knows those people are way less educated and less successful than African migrants.

yOUR GENERATIONS ARE fOOLS!

You dont even know the meaning of succesfull.

Which Nigerian American is as successful as Obama, Will Smith,MJ, Kanye west 50- CENTS, ETC? And the list is endless.

bLOODY Idiot.

Low IQ Nigerians always think they are relevant on the international scene.

AA have a higer combined net worth than Nigerians in Americans
put together.

Nigerians and our ignorant pomposity.
Instead of us to respect other people we end up showing our negative sefs.

Competing with AA in America is a disater.

AA are the reason we are enjoying certain American privileges, yet some of you are competing with them

You think success is about buying iphones and stupid cars abi?

Success it self is a structure put it place to create more and more success.

If Nigerians continue competing with AA, the end result will be terrible.

Nigerians pls be humble, sit down.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by LikeAking: 10:44pm On May 27, 2021
Nigerians pls be humble, sit down.

Empty vessel make the loudest noise.

No Nigerian female in the US is richer than Opera, Serena W, etc.

Dont all the cheap Nigerian degrees you have acquired deceive you.

Life is not by degrees, your degrees will expire one day.

Most Nigerian in the USA are menial workers, etc.

Enjoy you privileges and rest.

Success is a communial structure put in place to create more success.
Eg. AA own lots of record labels thats changing the lives of many AA.

AA own many movie production outfits changing the lives of AA.

AA have a sports culture opening more and more doord for them.

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Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by khiaa(f): 1:18am On May 28, 2021
Bobmarie:
Answer the question or get your fake lying ass out of mentions, E.G (DO NOT REPLY) Can’t believe I wasted my time reading all those lies, pDudd was spot on about you. grin

All those pages clicked, data wasted on some bunch of liars. Poor me. undecided

Show me where I said I have never dated an Nigerian you liar, or shut up little girl.
Re: Tips For Dating An African American (akata) Woman by Nobody: 6:47am On May 28, 2021
khiaa:


Show me where I said I have never dated an Nigerian you liar, or shut up little girl.
Lmao! What do you take me for? One of the boys you mess with on this forum? You’re pathetic big ‘red haired’ Californian girl. grin grin grin

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