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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by vale20: 11:30am On Jun 05, 2021
That is the same way JESUS loved her mother and would do anything for HER
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Solsix(m): 11:37am On Jun 05, 2021
mariahAngel:
Times have changed.
Things are no longer as they used to be.
Fathers these days are consciously becoming more available and involved in the lives of their children than their own fathers were. And the children are closer to their fathers.

I once saw a video on Instagram;A woman went to pick her daughter up from school (she was about 5yrs) and they were having a conversation about what happened at school that day (they were being driven in a car), then the mother (who was making the video) told her daughter to say
Hi
to her daddy and she did, then her mother told her to say I love you daddy, but the little girl said
No
and changed her mood. why? the mother asked surprised, ...because he didn't come to pick me up from school yesterday as he promised she replied.

The dad, who is a busy businessman was the one who posted the video on his Instagram page, and asked his followers on suggestions on how best to make it up to his princess as he called her.
So, the day after that, he made out time to go pick her up himself and he made it up to her by taking her on a lunch date, just the two of them.
As they were eating, the dad (who was making the video this time) asked her So Zala, you were angry with daddy yesterday for not picking you up from school right? the little girl blushed, she didn't expect the question (how cute)cheesy
Do you forgive daddy now? the dad asked, the little girl nodded. Do you love daddy? she said yes. Then give daddy a kiss, and she happily kissed her dad on the cheek and smiled. cheesy
Now, who wouldn't love such a dad?
My dad was not available at all, but he taught me valuable lessons I have learnt in life. It was as if he knew how my life will turn out. My mom on the contrary was always available, very selfless, but I still prefer my dad though he is late. I won't have had any chance of survival if I was raised by my mom alone.
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by SeriouslySense(m): 11:38am On Jun 05, 2021
I love my mother more, because She is there for me, always shows concern, and works very hard.

I think Children love mothers more, because although some mothers can be strict, yet they are also very caring, and never give up on their children.

even as a child, the only person i usually think about and pray that God protect, is usually my mother, and whenever she is stressed out or not happy, i instinctively know that.

That is why mothers should be respected especially in the presence of their children. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

Fathers are equally important, i remember when i was little, i feel safe when father is around. I think Fathers are becoming more caring now a days, that's the way to establish a stronger bond with your children, Fathers need to find a way to be approachable and at the same time be able to pass on valuable wisdom to their children, fathers make children too.

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by coolhumble(m): 11:40am On Jun 05, 2021
EJanni:
The bond between mother and child is devine. Imagine being inside someone for 40weeks and two years of nurturing while father comes and goes. In other words mothers are always there for their children.



Please i will like you to explain that come and go aspect. Thank you!
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Thylord(m): 11:46am On Jun 05, 2021
mariahAngel:
Times have changed.
Things are no longer as they used to be.
Fathers these days are consciously becoming more available and involved in the lives of their children than their own fathers were. And the children are closer to their fathers.

I once saw a video on Instagram;A woman went to pick her daughter up from school (she was about 5yrs) and they were having a conversation about what happened at school that day (they were being driven in a car), then the mother (who was making the video) told her daughter to say
Hi
to her daddy and she did, then her mother told her to say I love you daddy, but the little girl said
No
and changed her mood. why? the mother asked surprised, ...because he didn't come to pick me up from school yesterday as he promised she replied.

The dad, who is a busy businessman was the one who posted the video on his Instagram page, and asked his followers on suggestions on how best to make it up to his princess as he called her.
So, the day after that, he made out time to go pick her up himself and he made it up to her by taking her on a lunch date, just the two of them.
As they were eating, the dad (who was making the video this time) asked her So Zala, you were angry with daddy yesterday for not picking you up from school right? the little girl blushed, she didn't expect the question (how cute)cheesy
Do you forgive daddy now? the dad asked, the little girl nodded. Do you love daddy? she said yes. Then give daddy a kiss, and she happily kissed her dad on the cheek and smiled. cheesy
Now, who wouldn't love such a dad?
u don try no be small.

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Jagunlabiodua: 11:51am On Jun 05, 2021
It is like that because the mother was the one that carried the child in her womb, this same child was sucking mothers breast to feed and survive all these leads to a bond beyond the connection to the father and as you know women are weaker than men so children have more sympathy to their mothers it’s natural.
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by SeriouslySense(m): 11:53am On Jun 05, 2021
Thats true, women are weaker so the child has more sympathy for the Mother. So they are more sensitive to the conditions of a Mother.

Jagunlabiodua:
It is like that because the mother was the one that carried the child in her womb, this same child was sucking mothers breast to feed and survive all these leads to a bond beyond the connection to the father and as you know women are weaker than men so children have more sympathy to their mothers it’s natural.
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Aarenasbaba(m): 11:54am On Jun 05, 2021
Refers is the case on my own
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Angelacruz: 11:55am On Jun 05, 2021
Attachment theory
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Oshokalo: 11:57am On Jun 05, 2021
Kondomatic:
Make N500k first
abi let him make 500k first,and see how eazy it is to make money,him just mention million like say he easy
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by SeriouslySense(m): 11:57am On Jun 05, 2021
cheesy cheesy cheesy This is why i respect myself around Mothers, because i know the value, i placed on my Mother, when i was a child, and to respect that value, i respect any woman with a child, especially when that child is around.
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by MartinsD12(m): 11:58am On Jun 05, 2021
mathskid:
For the over years now, despite all efforts put by fathers to train up their children, by attending to all their basic needs as fathers, after becoming successful in adulthood, children always tend to do great things for their mothers than that of their fathers. Even me is a victim as well, I want do great things for my mum but I remember my dad did all he could for me, make sure that I don't become a miscreant in the society by making sure I was discipline enough but still yet I love my mum more than him.
Why is it like that? Or is it written in the Bible to favour your mother than your father when you are fully mature?




Pls push to front page, let's know our mistakes as fathers in our children's life
It's simple, mothers are more closer to their children, some fathers are like emperors or high mountain kings you can't climb them
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by EJEHSON(m): 12:00pm On Jun 05, 2021
Bola146:
It's natural, some men are just useless maybe by curse or behavior. If I give my mother #30 million, I'll give my father #1million cool shocked
Now I understand you just described your father.
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Akanoaaa(m): 12:01pm On Jun 05, 2021
My dad was a very caring dad and I love him hundred times than my mum. It been 13 years he left and I still miss him like it was yesterday.
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Oshokalo: 12:02pm On Jun 05, 2021
Children should atleast make it fair to the fathers also,I know some father who go through hunger feeding ones a day in order to pay children school fees
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by SeriouslySense(m): 12:02pm On Jun 05, 2021
its because he was maybe very caring and an interesting Father.

Akanoaaa:
My dad was a very caring dad and I love him hundred times than my mum. It been 13 years he left and I still miss him like it was yesterday.

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by SeriouslySense(m): 12:06pm On Jun 05, 2021
cheesy cheesy cheesy Sometimes i ask myself why did God allow Joseph to die, ( at a young Age Correction taken), when Jesus was still young, but preserved Mary.

Since Jesus can Just tell his heavenly Father to stop his Earthly dad from dying.

But i have never told anyone this, just goes through my mind

The answer is obvious. Jesus will follow the will of God, but i still wonder grin grin grin


vale20:
That is the same way JESUS loved her mother and would do anything for HER
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by LGDON: 12:07pm On Jun 05, 2021
mathskid:
For the over years now, despite all efforts put by fathers to train up their children, by attending to all their basic needs as fathers, after becoming successful in adulthood, children always tend to do great things for their mothers than that of their fathers. Even me is a victim as well, I want do great things for my mum but I remember my dad did all he could for me, make sure that I don't become a miscreant in the society by making sure I was discipline enough but still yet I love my mum more than him.
Why is it like that? Or is it written in the Bible to favour your mother than your father when you are fully mature?




Pls push to front page, let's know our mistakes as fathers in our children's life

Female children live their father

While male children love their mother
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by ceejay80s(m): 12:07pm On Jun 05, 2021
Bola146:
It's natural, some men are just useless maybe by curse or behavior. If I give my mother #30 million, I'll give my father #1million cool shocked
U are evil

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by ImpactCrater: 12:09pm On Jun 05, 2021
EJanni:
The bond between mother and child is devine. Imagine being inside someone for 40weeks and two years of nurturing while father comes and goes. In other words mothers are always there for their children.
it is because the mothers are selfish emotional manipulators!
The child has always lived inside his father's BALLS until he borrowed the woman for just nine months!!
Women will always bad mouth the men in front of the children because the man had to go out to earn a living and take care of the WOMAN and the CHILDREN, paradoxically..
if you allow your mother to tell you your father is USELESS then you are a useless son of a useless woman because no sane woman will make her children disrespect their father... BUT MOST WOMEN DO THIS NONSENSE!
You spend your whole life sacrificing and being humilated doing whatever you have to do - menial jobs, security, insulting office jobs, labourer, farming, conductor, etc... to take care of a woman and children only for them to wake up when you are old, the idiots will tag you a Useless man!
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by MICHEALADEX(m): 12:24pm On Jun 05, 2021
Breast milk get power pass chocolate and ice cream
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by toyinsalammy(f): 12:29pm On Jun 05, 2021
The stress of pregnancy alone will make the bond between mother n child strong.

I'm heavy with my first child now n I know what I have been going through.
I hardly slept through out d night while my husband just snored himself away.

But I do hope my kids will get to.love their dad as much as they will love me too.

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Fiscus105(m): 12:34pm On Jun 05, 2021
SeriouslySense:
cheesy cheesy cheesy Sometimes i ask myself why did God allow Joseph to die at a young Age, but preserved Mary.

Since Jesus can Just tell his heavenly Father to stop his Earthly dad from dying.

But i have never told anyone this, just goes through my mind

The answer is obvious. Jesus will follow the will of God, but i still wonder grin grin grin




where did you read it that Joseph died at young age?
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Fiscus105(m): 12:37pm On Jun 05, 2021
toyinsalammy:
The stress of pregnancy alone will make the bond between mother n child strong.

I'm heavy with my first child now n I know what I have been going through.
I hardly slept through out d night while my husband just snored himself away.

But I do hope my kids will get to.love their dad as much as they will love me too.


you forgot the sperm that is forming the gender of the baby comes from Dad, going by ur logic the child is supposed to love Dad more just because dad sperm superior to form him/her at foetus
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by SeriouslySense(m): 12:57pm On Jun 05, 2021
I should correct myself, hehe, maybe what i should have wrote is, why did Joseph die, when Jesus was still young, Jesus Could have extended his Life. cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy, but not sure what the answer is.
Fiscus105:



where did you read it that Joseph died at young age?
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Gambit23: 1:00pm On Jun 05, 2021
mathskid:
For the over years now, despite all efforts put by fathers to train up their children, by attending to all their basic needs as fathers, after becoming successful in adulthood, children always tend to do great things for their mothers than that of their fathers. Even me is a victim as well, I want do great things for my mum but I remember my dad did all he could for me, make sure that I don't become a miscreant in the society by making sure I was discipline enough but still yet I love my mum more than him.
Why is it like that? Or is it written in the Bible to favour your mother than your father when you are fully mature?




Pls push to front page, let's know our mistakes as fathers in our children's life

Because they spend much more time with their mothers than their fathers.
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by mariahAngel(f): 1:06pm On Jun 05, 2021
Solsix:

My dad was not available at all, but he taught me valuable lessons I have learnt in life. It was as if he knew how my life will turn out. My mom on the contrary was always available, very selfless, but I still prefer my dad though he is late. I won't have had any chance of survival if I was raised by my mom alone.

May God rest his kind soul.

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by mariahAngel(f): 1:08pm On Jun 05, 2021
Kriss216:

After reading this your article, to marry don dey hungry me cry

Mariah nwanyi oma, kedu kà idi?

Chineke ga e nye gi nwaanyi nwere ndidi, maka na I di very very complicated. cheesy


A di'm nke oma. I meela.
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by bleskid: 1:20pm On Jun 05, 2021
shame on you .... keep loving your mom more than dad,, one day it will be
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by razzydoo(m): 1:25pm On Jun 05, 2021
Resentment.
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Icon79(m): 1:27pm On Jun 05, 2021
KPOM! You’ve said it all.


O pari

EJanni:
The bond between mother and child is devine. Imagine being inside someone for 40weeks and two years of nurturing while father comes and goes. In other words mothers are always there for their children.
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by razzydoo(m): 1:30pm On Jun 05, 2021
komzygirl:
It's simply the law of nature. Have you ever wondered why everything is referred to as she? Even the earth you exist in is called mother earth. That is the power to bring to LIFE. Women are very DEEP. If only the can understand how DEEP!!
yimu! Delusion of grandeur. It takes two to tango. Well according to journal of psychology, women are prone to mental issues than men.

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