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Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by mathskid: 6:35pm On Jun 04
For the over years now, despite all efforts put by fathers to train up their children, by attending to all their basic needs as fathers, after becoming successful in adulthood, children always tend to do great things for their mothers than that of their fathers. Even me is a victim as well, I want do great things for my mum but I remember my dad did all he could for me, make sure that I don't become a miscreant in the society by making sure I was discipline enough but still yet I love my mum more than him.
Why is it like that? Or is it written in the Bible to favour your mother than your father when you are fully mature?




Pls push to front page, let's know our mistakes as fathers in our children's life

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by LUGBE: 6:42pm On Jun 04
Sacrifice they have undergone.

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Bigredmachine: 6:52pm On Jun 04
That's just the way it's, it's a similar situation when compared to why guys always spend money on women and not the other way round, there's nothing anyone can do about it... Maybe many father's are just too harsh anyway...

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by mariahAngel: 7:15pm On Jun 04
Times have changed.
Things are no longer as they used to be.
Fathers these days are consciously becoming more available and involved in the lives of their children than their own fathers were. And children nowadays are closer to their fathers.

I once saw a video on Instagram;A woman went to pick her daughter up from school (she was about 5yrs) and they were having a conversation about what happened at school that day (they were being driven in a car), then the mother (who was making the video) told her daughter to say
Hi
to her daddy and she did, then her mother told her to say I love you daddy, but the little girl said
No
and changed her mood. why? the mother asked surprised, ...because he didn't come to pick me up from school yesterday as he promised she replied.

The dad, who is a busy businessman was the one who posted the video on his Instagram page, and asked his followers on suggestions on how best to make it up to his princess as he called her.
So, the day after that, he made out time to go pick her up himself and he made it up to her by taking her on a lunch date, just the two of them.
As they were eating, the dad (who was making the video this time) asked her So Zala, you were angry with daddy yesterday for not picking you up from school right? the little girl blushed, she didn't expect the question (how cute)cheesy
Do you forgive daddy now? the dad asked, the little girl nodded. Do you love daddy? she said yes. Then give daddy a kiss, and she happily kissed her dad on the cheek and smiled. cheesy
Now, who wouldn't love such a dad?

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by EJanni(f): 7:30pm On Jun 04
The bond between mother and child is devine. Imagine being inside someone for 40weeks and two years of nurturing while father comes and goes. In other words mothers are always there for their children.

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by SpeedyDave: 7:53pm On Jun 04
Natural selection

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Bola146(f): 8:41pm On Jun 04
It's natural, some men are just useless maybe by curse or behavior. If I give my mother #30 million, I'll give my father #1million cool shocked

Quote me and I'll give you your sincere answers cheesy grin grin

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Hathor5(f): 9:00pm On Jun 04
Are they?

It's not the case in my family. Everyone is loved and appreciated for the part they played in raising the family and keeping it together. I don't know what my father and grandfather did better than other fathers and grandfathers but we love our parents and grandparents all the same.

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Karleb(m): 9:10pm On Jun 04
This is just generalization. It's not true.

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Shellsploit: 9:21pm On Jun 04
Blame it on the umbilical cord angry

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Fiscus105: 9:53pm On Jun 04
EJanni:
The bond between mother and child is devine. Imagine being inside someone for 40weeks and two years of nurturing while father comes and goes. In other words mothers are always there for their children.

number one reason is that man disciplined kids far more than mother, as a result of this, kids use to fear dad far more than mother and tend to love mum who allows them do whatever they like.

As we all know, human being believes that anybody who chastises them for whatever issue hates them, even those in positions of authorities. Meanwhile in reality, anyone who chastises/discplines for the sake of wrongdoings loves genuinely.


So many kids are successful and discplined at adulthood largely because dad instilled it on them during their upbringings.

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Fiscus105: 9:56pm On Jun 04
Bola146:
It's natural, some men are just useless maybe by curse or behavior. If I give my mother #30 million, I'll give my father #1million cool
shocked

I think it happened in ur own family, so blame ur dad for his uncaring attitude and not every Father.


who knows maybe ur waywardness and nonsensical attitude being displayed on nairaland are attributed to the way you ignored ur dad chastisement in which ur mum embraced you thinking she was showing motherly love

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by ottiz: 10:56pm On Jun 04
I know my children love me, but I don't expect them to give me money when they approach the age to do such. Maybe some sentimental gifts once in a while. However, I expect them to give money to their mom. That does not mean they love me less. It is just the way of nature and nurture.

Men should play their role as providers and head of the family, while at the same time plan for their retirement. Don't put pressure on your child(ren) to "pay" you back.

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by mariahAngel: 11:48pm On Jun 04
ottiz:
I know my children love me, but I don't expect them to give me money when they approach the age to do such. Maybe some sentimental gifts once in a while. However, I expect them to give money to their mom. That does not mean they love me less. It is just the way of nature and nurture.

Men should play their role as providers and head of the family, while at the same time plan for their retirement. Don't put pressure on your child(ren) to "pay" you back.

Wait until you get old, then you can decide if you want them to or not.
You never know what the future holds.
I feel sorry for those who say your children shouldn't be your retirement plan . They think it's just about the money. They think they have everything figured Out. O ga nya ha n'eze n'ikpeazu!

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by frozen70(f): 3:18am On Jun 05
mathskid:
For the over years now, despite all efforts put by fathers to train up their children, by attending to all their basic needs as fathers, after becoming successful in adulthood, children always tend to do great things for their mothers than that of their fathers. Even me is a victim as well, I want do great things for my mum but I remember my dad did all he could for me, make sure that I don't become a miscreant in the society by making sure I was discipline enough but still yet I love my mum more than him.
Why is it like that? Or is it written in the Bible to favour your mother than your father when you are fully mature?




Pls push to front page, let's know our mistakes as fathers in our children's life


Nature already bonded children and mothers right from pregnancy so it continues that way

Yes, fathers are doing good to provide for their children especially the responsible ones and they get the required respects from their children

But you see those acclaimed fathers that doesn't want to be responsible and left the suffering for their mothers alone, those children will grow up loving their mother more than their father

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by ottiz: 4:08am On Jun 05
Echefuelam na muna gi so na azu umuakam.
mariahAngel:


Wait until you get old, then you can decide if you want them to or not.
You never know what the future holds.
I feel sorry for those who say your children shouldn't be your retirement plan . They think it's just about the money. They think they have everything figured Out. O ga nya ha n'eze n'ikpeazu!
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by ibechris(m): 6:26am On Jun 05
Bola146:
It's natural, some men are just useless maybe by curse or behavior. If I give my mother #30 million, I'll give my father #1million cool shocked


This one don enter hate oh.

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Vision101(m): 6:41am On Jun 05
There's this general assumption that fathers generate income and can take care of themselves while mothers depend on them.

My son gives to my wife and complains that he doesn't know why I don't like taking money from him.

The female children are most times closer to their fathers.

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Kondomatic(m): 7:16am On Jun 05
Bola146:
It's natural, some men are just useless maybe by curse or behavior. If I give my mother #30 million, I'll give my father #1million cool shocked
Make N500k first

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Kondomatic(m): 7:17am On Jun 05
So many reasons bro.

1. Useless fathers: Some fathers are just there for the record nothing else. In some families, it is the women that work hard to ensure their kids are well cared for. The children tend to repay them when they grow up.


2. Manipulative mothers: Some fathers are actually trying but the mothers lie to the kids. Say for instance, the father gives the kid's school fee to their mother, she gives it to them as her own.

The man gives her money to get them stuffs, she claims she's the one buying for them.

Whenever they have misunderstanding, she will use the children to fight the father. The list is endless.
Many men are genuine victims of manipulative wives.

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by iamyemiakins(m): 7:53am On Jun 05
1. The strong bond and connection that has formed right from pregnancy majorly through the placenta (which is the lifeline between the baby and the mother).

2. Motherly care such as breastfeeding and nurturing keeps strengthening the love and bond.

3. Time spent together: Fathers drops money for food, clothes and other stuffs but it's the mothers that processes it further by going with the kids to market atimes and both selecting items to match up the kids and also prepares food ("Mama do good o, you do good") for them which are major ways to strengthen the love and bond.

4. The rate of unwanted pregnancy and single parenting keeps putting most men in bad light as being irresponsible which makes it difficult for men to garner enough love from their children.

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by iamyemiakins(m): 7:53am On Jun 05
Some people don dey vex on this thread o
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Offpoint1: 8:14am On Jun 05
The system was designed that way by the creator, civilization can't change that no matter how we try to...
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Bola146(f): 8:19am On Jun 05
Fiscus105:


I think it happened in ur own house, blame ur dad for his uncaring attitude and not every Father

Let me ignore aboki like you, always read well before you quote me lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Fiscus105: 8:36am On Jun 05
Bola146:


Let me ignore aboki like you, always read well before you quote me lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

nobody forced it out from you when you confessed ur father is useless and and that you would take care of him in his old age relunctantly, who knows what ur father might have done for you and more reason you become nuisance on faceless public forum.

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by iamyemiakins(m): 9:11am On Jun 05
I see Buhari making it more difficult for children to love their fathers due to the economic situation and auto-pilot state of the country as a result of his cluelessness.

This I have seen sad

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Betrand3: 9:48am On Jun 05
Breast feeding the child makes the mother the primary companion
Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by OsusTroller: 9:48am On Jun 05
grin
It's actually so unfair...


Most fathers actually put in more for their children than mothers.

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by inoki247: 9:48am On Jun 05
Because they spend most time with their Mom while the father is out there chasing papers to pay Bill's nd give dem more comfortable life....

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by slawormiir: 9:48am On Jun 05
Damnnn niggarrrr
Nothing is strange here

Staying in her belly for Nine months alone ehnnn
Exchanging fluids between her and the foetus

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by bewth96604: 9:48am On Jun 05
Bored

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Re: Why Are Mothers So Loved By Their Children Than Their Fathers? by Born2winnx: 9:48am On Jun 05
It's normal.

Mama spent more time...

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