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Background: I’m Igbo from Enugu state, I will be 29 in a few months. I am the only child of my parents. My dad is in his early 60’s and mom in her late 40’s, My mom and my aunts have been talking about getting a wife for me when I turned 21 years but my dad shunned them. My dad has always told me to marry from any part of the world I choose and when I’m ready.

My girlfriend is Tiv from benue state, I noticed some body changes in her and we checked and found out she’s pregnant. We agreed to keep it, she planned to travel home but she was certain that her step mother will find out, and her dad will not be happy about that, she then phoned her stepmother and told her everything. Now they have accepted her explanations but it remained me informing my own parents.

My mother’s reaction: So, I have been thinking of how I will start the sentence if I want to tell my parents about me getting a girl pregnant. I decided not to call my moms phone direct, I called my dad and asked him to pass the phone to my mom that I have something to tell her.

I said to her, mom I got a girl pregnant.. She started jumping up and thankingGod. I asked her what’s the issue and she simply told me that she’s happy to her this news. The next question from her was , where is is she. I told her tiv from benue, she said lovely.

She passed the phone to my dad and the old man said, fine we will see how we can make everything go normal.

I know my mom will double her prayer points now for God to protect the unborn child and her mother. . She will sleep happily from now on.

My girlfriend is yet to hear the reaction of my parents.

kestolove95:
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kestolove95:
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kestolove95:
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ford101:
my brother check well there is something about Tiv girls here in Abuja that I don't really understand.God am not that type of person who talk bad about a group of people.but Tiv and idoma girls are not so good to keep in the house.

22o62021:
I no go use those ones there to judge the one here in the south south

She’s good for me

22o62021:
Background: I’m Igbo from Enugu state, I will be 29 in a few months. I am the only child of my parents. My dad is in his early 60’s and mom in her late 40’s, My mom and my aunts have been talking about getting a wife for me when I turned 21 years but my dad shunned them. My dad has always told me to marry from any part of the world I choose and when I’m ready.

My girlfriend is Tiv from benue state, I noticed some body changes in her and we checked and found out she’s pregnant. We agreed to keep it, she planned to travel home but she was certain that her step mother will find out, and her dad will not be happy about that, she then phoned her stepmother and told her everything. Now they have accepted her explanations but it remained me informing my own parents.

My mother’s reaction: So, I have been thinking of how I will start the sentence if I want to tell my parents about me getting a girl pregnant. I decided not to call my moms phone direct, I called my dad and asked him to pass the phone to my mom that I have something to tell her.

I said to her, mom I got a girl pregnant.. She started jumping up and thankingGod. I asked her what’s the issue and she simply told me that she’s happy to her this news. The next question from her was , where is is she. I told her tiv from benue, she said lovely.

She passed the phone to my dad and the old man said, fine we will see how we can make everything go normal.

I know my mom will double her prayer points now for God to protect the unborn child and her mother. . She will sleep happily from now on.

My girlfriend is yet to hear the reaction of my parents.

edochie12:
I have the same issue here with me,I will be 29 by July and my girl is pregnant but I don't know how to inform my mum about it,I don't know whether she will be angry or not.

kestolove95:
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kestolove95:
See bad parents, encouraging immoral acts

kestolove95:
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Vanzcharles:
Congratulations to you man. I hope you get married soon and have more kids.

P1PrinceKT:
That's how most of your first childs come to this world.

We called them Shege. (A child born without marriege.)

Most you are #sheges .

kestolove95:
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Jeon:
So ur parents supported you for having premarital sex..
Well don't do that to ur future kids.

CharisEleos:
If you perceived what they've been through in child issues from the story, you won't really blame them. Imagine,. Ops father is already 60 and the mum in her late 40s with OP as the only child. So, it's possible theyve tried to have more after him but couldn't so they're hoping on him to give them more.

Its obvious they are baby-starved and have been craving for it for long hence their reaction.

Op, what you did was wrong but try and perform the necessary rites on her to avoid having a child out of wedlock.

It is well.

VlamesIffect:
You replying someone that's catching cruise

kestolove95:
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