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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by Angelacruz: 6:33pm On Jun 11, 2021
Bluntguy:
You are that your friend. You want to know whether to let go or [img]]fight for the guy. Say the truth and I will give you my advice for free.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by Neroski(f): 6:35pm On Jun 11, 2021
My No is No...

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by donPhill(m): 6:35pm On Jun 11, 2021
I opened this thread thinking the op was poco... No mentions

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by sonnie10: 6:36pm On Jun 11, 2021
Prechgold1180:
Well am kinda asking because of my friend
She got a guy that was crazy about her
The guy asked her to be his girlfriend but normal girly forming and all she said no to the guy , hoping that the guy would keep pressing and disturbing

2 days back the guy introduced another girl to my friend as his girlfriend that they actually started dating yesterday

My friend has been feeling so sad and confused , because she actually likes the guy

Well who doesn’t like him ??
He is good looking and has money with a nice ride

Now the question is
Have you ever regretted saying no to a guy
And what will you advise my friend to do
Let go or fight for love

You are not wise

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by mbak(m): 6:36pm On Jun 11, 2021
The problem is that while its good to form as a girl, you have to realise that the dynamics has changed these days. Because people date or marry for the wrong reasons. Oh he has a nice job, car, he has money. No one wants to lose. Everything is now transactional. The Nigerian hardship factor also contributes to this. Nigerians see every situation as an avenue to make money or gain an upper hand over the other person. Its in built in our minds. So if a guy toasts you, and you are forming hard to get, he might not genuinely like you. He probably just wants to use you to kill time. So many people actually don't knoe what they want. They just want what's available at the moment.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by sylve11: 6:36pm On Jun 11, 2021
richmond500:
Lalasticlala I deh beg u with two snake heads, no move this nonsense go front page


lol grin grin cool

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by BurntDodo: 6:36pm On Jun 11, 2021
mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

I missed you boss

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by Gamesmart: 6:37pm On Jun 11, 2021
Regardless:
Lol. Same thing I was telling a girl at my office yesterday. She was boasting to me about one guy who was asking her for her number. 'Make he come collect nau', who wan give am before?? cheesy lol.. I shook my head because she's just 21.. Na her time... I told her specifically 'babe continue but you'll remember my words that guys no get time again.'

To be a Nigerian is already a disadvantage then to be a man in Nigeria is more than a disadvantage. You have to hustle your blood to be comfortable. Who come get that time to dy 'pursue ' girl twice Infact na girls dy suppose rush guys now like this.

I bet she does not yet realise you gave her one of the best advice she will receive in her lifetime.

Many are so arrogant when it is "their time", dem go come dey stylishly insult men when we are arrogant back when it is "our time".

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by Akalia(m): 6:38pm On Jun 11, 2021
TOMSY:
Lol. He's goodlooking, has money and has a nice ride equals LOVE.
You are the female version of a real nigga. OP has only but superficial sentiments for the guy because he has got some material attributes. No true affection just infatuation and lust.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by TheRedpillguy: 6:39pm On Jun 11, 2021
TOMSY:
Lol. He's goodlooking, has money and has a nice ride equals LOVE.
Well it's a start. Seems without it the so called love is more difficult to find

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by AJohnnasa(m): 6:39pm On Jun 11, 2021
richmond500:
Lalasticlala I deh beg u with two snake heads, no move this nonsense go front page

grin the guy no hear o.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by 0taPiaPia(m): 6:39pm On Jun 11, 2021
mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Guy you still dey alive grin

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by RioCarputo(m): 6:40pm On Jun 11, 2021
okay

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by IMASTEX: 6:40pm On Jun 11, 2021
richmond500:
Lalasticlala I deh beg u with two snake heads, no move this nonsense go front page
grin grin grin Lala actually needed 7 snake heads hence your sacrifice was rejected.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by TOMSY(f): 6:41pm On Jun 11, 2021
TOMSY:
Lol. He's goodlooking, has money and has a nice ride equals LOVE.
Wow. Front page. See about 5 likes and 1 mention almost every second sha.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by RioCarputo(m): 6:42pm On Jun 11, 2021
not a single gram of fvcks will be given today....

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by dammyllare(m): 6:42pm On Jun 11, 2021
Propheticdavid:
"men are like wine" what do you mean by that..i want u to explain pls.
They get better with age....
Old wine taste better, with quality and cost fortunes!

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by Prechgold1180(m): 6:43pm On Jun 11, 2021
Onyi22:

grin grin
how e b u now e don enter front page
Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by Oshilolo(m): 6:43pm On Jun 11, 2021
mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them
Seconded

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by rimijoshua(m): 6:44pm On Jun 11, 2021
The most painful part of it is,whenever you say hi to them,they reply with Ok...that response bring a sense of disgust...or how are you?...and the response is ok...how was your night..ok
I no get time...

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by WaffenSS(m): 6:44pm On Jun 11, 2021
Prechgold1180:


Well who doesn’t like him ??
He is good looking and has money with a nice ride


How shallow thou and thine kind think.

Is this what relationships are reduced to?

Pity.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by Eriokanmi: 6:47pm On Jun 11, 2021
bigpicture001:
Pride no go let girls gree say them regret their actions.
dem dey show am oo, though they don't say it verbally. There's a girl like that. She still regrets till date. She told me to get a life, imagine and by the time I got a life, e don late for am.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by WaffenSS(m): 6:47pm On Jun 11, 2021
mosdii:
Nigerian Girls Are Useless...All Of Them

Agreed.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by Prechgold1180(m): 6:48pm On Jun 11, 2021
cheesy
WaffenSS:


How shallow thou and thine kind think.

Is this what relationships are reduced to?

Pity.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by ABCthings: 6:48pm On Jun 11, 2021
richmond500:
Lalasticlala I deh beg u with two snake heads, no move this nonsense go front page
how will you beg a whole snake king with just 2 snake head? When you for you 50. Now e no work.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by babadee1(m): 6:50pm On Jun 11, 2021
Prechgold1180:
Well am kinda asking because of my friend
She got a guy that was crazy about her
The guy asked her to be his girlfriend but normal girly forming and all she said no to the guy , hoping that the guy would keep pressing and disturbing

2 days back the guy introduced another girl to my friend as his girlfriend that they actually started dating yesterday

My friend has been feeling so sad and confused , because she actually likes the guy

Well who doesn’t like him ??
He is good looking and has money with a nice ride

Now the question is
Have you ever regretted saying no to a guy
And what will you advise my friend to do
Let go or fight for love

She already said no to him so which love again? One doesn't reject love. If you reject someone then you definitely don't love them. Let your friend stop deceiving herself.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by BePrepared: 6:51pm On Jun 11, 2021
TOMSY:
Lol. He's goodlooking, has money and has a nice ride equals LOVE.

Thats the craziness of this generation, nothing genuine, their definition of love is purely outward, how those good looks and money and ride concern love.


Mercy fall on this generation

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by Nobody: 6:52pm On Jun 11, 2021
Powersurge:
Pressing could be a good thing. I don't want to castigate people doing it.

But for a long time, over 10 years ago, I stopped asking girls twice. In fact, most times if you tell me you would think about it, I don't ask for the reply.

It's not as if I expected a lady to say yes on the go. But as I grow older, I stress less over girls. I become less interested altogether.

The principle of "men are like wine" is becoming more real to me everyday.
You're a true man.

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Re: Have You Ever Regretted Saying No To A Guy by mrbesty2000(m): 6:55pm On Jun 11, 2021
Yea...most girls do that... Many of them keep calling and begging to comeback ..but as a sure guy ..my logo is....if a girl don't want to flow I always delete her and never repeat her.

By the way this is my first comment on nairaland..... Am sure I will have lots of fun here.

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