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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by candidbabe(f): 12:41pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: Jeeeeeeeeeeeesus He stretched his hands and collected money from your friend for an ordinary banana he bought for her after buying for himself? Who does that? Your friend should have dumped him right on that spot gosh!!! She should have created a scene, disgraced him and dump him right there Nonsense 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by emmanuelewumi(m): 12:41pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
breathelove: Hmmm, that is me ooo. " Stingy and calculative with his money, but generous with his knowledge and values, as a matter of fact will teach his women how to legally make, manage and multiply money." 5 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by BabylonCruise(m): 12:44pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:Aunty You are the One. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Munzy14(m): 12:47pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:Your friend is not telling you the truth, If she is you, you are also not saying the whole truth..I mean the gospel truth. Something primed this...Naturally a man is a giver if he has...Not to talk of someone his heart yearn for...Men don't see money as big deal as some ladies do...A man believe as long he is breathing...He can hustle his cash. This your rant get K-leg...tell us the gospel truth. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Gjmff: 12:49pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
She only needs one help to get a job and stop whoring around. No one is destined to pay anyone’s bill . Get a life and stop disgracing womanhood nigeria like you other colleagues |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nobody: 12:50pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Yansham: Her oloshoism must be expensive 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Nephilim: 12:55pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:Tell him straight. "I want a break up, I can't continue with this relationship, I believe you won't be able to take care of me" If he asks why, then ask him "Tell me one thing you've ever bought for me, like you've ever given to me" From there he'll get the gist. Such situation doesn't need to be padded. If he's stingy, then he's just a foot away from being irresponsible. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by YourWriter: 12:56pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: Ah, the guy stingy true true. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Monday60655(m): 12:58pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
You're are that your, so say the truth. Then you will have my advice. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Kagd10: 12:59pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Worldwise: I personally believe a guy should be able to spoil his girlfriend once at least and vice versa from his girl if she's got it, especially if they are in a serious relationship. Marrying a stingy person is the worst that can ever happened to a person. So you need to shine your eyes well. I'm talking from my aunt's experience. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by folks4luv(f): 12:59pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Seriously? I was neutral on this issue but seeing this, mehhhn! that guy is something else. I think he is proving stubborn cause your friend is not bold about leaving him. She may need to be bold about it. Tell him head-on she wants the relationship to end. But then, has she tried talking to him and letting him know how she feels? I know it is a difficult topic to raise, believe me, i have been there. But if you wanna spend the rest of your life with someone, you must learn how to raise difficult topics. Rozcol: |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by grandstar(m): 1:00pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol This is bad husband material. He's very selfish. He's thinking of only of himself and that's why he's hanging on. Deep down, don't be fooled, he knows he's not wanted. Why don't you get rid of him? You tell him point blank that you friend wants the relationship no more. Even if he's stubborn, he will be worn down by your persistence. You friend too should start ignoring and shunning calls. Out of 5 calls, let her pick one. She can also be blocking his number intermittently. She blocks him today, unblocks him next tomorrow and blame it on her phone. She can also leave town or pretend to be. Whatever happens, your friend must abandon him. I dislike stingy people. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Monday60655(m): 1:02pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:What about the petrol he spent? |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by folks4luv(f): 1:05pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
If you have never seen a man/woman stingy towards their own kid, then you need a lot to learn about life and people. I have seen men hoard money while they tell their kids no money for fees, 'goan meet your mother'. I have seen women hoard money even when they know their husbands are financially challenged at the time. They won't feed their own kids even though they can. People are very complicated, mariage is more complicated so it is good to watch out for these signs YngDenzel1: 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Monday60655(m): 1:06pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: Then continue nah! Why are you disturbing us for goodness sake. This is June 12 jare. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Monday60655(m): 1:08pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: You're that your friend. You're simply looking for advice indirectly. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Drizzy5001(m): 1:12pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Naija girls too dey demand, ẹ be like say your friend, wants to open office ontop the guy head, as a sharp guy, he decided to play along. By the way what has your friend ever bought for the guy!? |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by CHoccolaTE: 1:20pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Your friend has not seen life that is why she is still wondering how to handle this kind of person. If she is too soft to tell him to get lost forever she can use sense to dispose of him If he comes to her house let her prepare or order very delicious chicken and fried rice and soft drinks and start eating it alone without offering him anything. If he asks her for some she should tell him she is not his wife so he must pay before he can eat food that she prepared. Me sha, where I wicked reach I go show that guy pepper until he runs away by himself. Make sure your friend does not marry him ooo, because he will be stingy after marriage. If she complains after marriage he will remind her that she knew his behaviour while they were dating and she married him like that so why is she complaining now. Stingy people irritate me, and they can be so entitled. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Blacksavage: 1:24pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: How sure are you that your friend is not cheating on him? Cause no man is stingy madam check your friend well and no man will want to waste his money on something that's not beneficial... |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Kagd10: 1:26pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
slimman007: They're in a relationship. He's entitled to walk his ass out if he can't do little stuffs for his girlfriend tbh. Relationship isn't by force hence he shouldn't be entitled to the relationship and walk himself out. I would keep saying that the worst thing that can happen to a person is to marry a stingy person. I'm speaking from my aunt's experience. She's the only one who literally takes care of herself and kids FFS. |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by iLegendd(m): 1:27pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: He is a smart man, but he has taken the stinginess to another level. All wise men are stingy, but not to this extent. If your friend dumps him, she will look back with regrets — as long as he is a good-bad guy. He will move on and never reach out to her like those weak men. When the extravagant Yahoo+ boy your friend will meet is done with her, she'll realize what she missed because of her laziness in making her own legit money and quest for wealth from men who spend. I know the guy is not that great in bed and that's why she has the effrontery to get angry at his stinginess. If he was, she would do anything to keep him for life even if he is stingy.
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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by sokia: 1:32pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Kagd10: 1:34pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
CHoccolaTE: Exactly. 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by kunkelhanspeter(m): 1:36pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Waste of time |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Papadoh(m): 1:40pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol:Did he add money for fuel then? |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by hardon1(m): 1:42pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Forget girls o, I can only advise when I hear from the guy... Why didn't u mention the amount rather than saying a few thousand... Amounts mean different things to different guys depending on their earning I bet she isn't giving him pussy. And then expects him to be generous. If the guy is rich as she claims is being given pussy, he wouldn't do that. I can bet my neck on this 2 Likes |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Emmhychidi(m): 1:43pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Rozcol: What if that guy doesn't have money What if that money is his last change What if after paying the money he will trek home What if that money is all he has home and abroad See all these babes stop being witches ... Stop seeing mehn as tool for milking money... Yesterday I saw some guys clearing gutter and they were inside the gutter ooo... Something that was smelling I couldn't even pass there self ... That was what my fellow men were inside clearing... And one babe go dey complain say him collect all him money... Sha I Neva jam any babe like that and I dey seriously avoid them... |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Odunharry(m): 1:47pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Kondomatic:Endorse |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by richardwarner(m): 1:47pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
There's a thin line btw a stingy boyfrnd and a broke boyfrnd who does nt hv to give..if d later s d case then dnt call him stingy...him no get |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by richardwarner(m): 1:49pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
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Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by Tonyx5(m): 2:00pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Abeg make you, your friend and the guy getat abeg.... everyday, relationship this, relationship that...e no dey tire Ina Ogbeni share update joor 1 Like |
Re: Please Help Suggest Very Good Flimsy Excuses To Dump A Very Stingy Boyfriend by abimic(m): 2:16pm On Jun 12, 2021 |
Creamyebony2017:It's not good to double date. There are many ways to go about that, she still shows him affection, more reason the guy still hangs around. If she stops picking his calls,, stops returning his messages, becomes irritated anytime they're together, and uninterested in any conversation the guy initiates, then he would soon to realize this lady is long gone from his grip,but to me, there is nothing big in telling someone it's over. Everybody can move ahead, life continues, even marriages break talk more of relationships. |
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