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Congratulations bro. Kudos to your Dad and Mom. Be more prayerful God will see you through as you make plan to do the necessary things.
Remember you are now a man. Be matured in your actions, things are not going to be rosy all through, your wife to be is not going to be all time sweet baby girl, her behaviors may even change with the growth of the baby inside her so be prepared to move from being a boyfriend to be a husband, a father, protector, provider etc. Above all, your wife is your first child correct her with love and praise her when she did well. Success

edochie12:
I have the same issue here with me,I will be 29 by July and my girl is pregnant but I don't know how to inform my mum about it,I don't know whether she will be angry or not.

The girl na nwa Aba or nwa Imo?

SenecaTheYonger:
Damn, that's cool. It's pretty rare to hear an Igbo marrying from another tribe.

oga dont say what you dont know!

igbos are the only tribe that freely marry from other tribes!

in fact 30% of igbo men married from various tribes across nigeria.

THE ONLY TRIBE I HAVE NOT YET SEEN AN IGBO MAN MARRY FROM IS THE FULANI TRIBE - AND I HATE THE FACT THEY MARRIED LOTS OF IGBO WOMEN.

Dear OP, please be sure the child belongs to you...

No, primarily because we play different socio-economic roles. In a world where women dominate the economy, it would probably be the case. Besides pre-marital sex is bad, and I wish he hadn't posted it. His post makes it look ok, which is not fine. I only hope he impregnated a woman he intends to marry and marry her properly. Having kids in marriage is a beautiful thing. I do not know how you can convince your child to stay away from premarital sex if you conceived he/she out of one. I am not exempting myself. We must strive to avoid it. May God mend our crooked ways.

stanisbaratheon:
Some parents can be genda bias.

What would have happened if you were a girl and you got pregnant for your boyfriend?? Would your mom still be jumping and thanking God??

I'm just curious, no pun intended

kestolove95:
See bad parents, encouraging immoral acts

With the number of likes on your comment, now I know na animals full Nairaland

obiekunie01:


oga dont say what you dont know!

igbos are the only tribe that freely marry from other tribes!

in fact 30% of igbo men married from various tribes across nigeria.

THE ONLY TRIBE I HAVE NOT YET SEEN AN IGBO MAN MARRY FROM IS THE FULANI TRIBE - AND I HATE THE FACT THEY MARRIED LOTS OF IGBO WOMEN.

Recently you mean, I know a lot of Igbo lady friends that are yet to marry cos their parents insisted on marrying a fellow Igbo.

kestolove95:
See bad parents, encouraging immoral acts

its better that doing several abortions and claiming saint

kestolove95:
See bad parents, encouraging immoral acts

Bad belle instead of your to rejoice with him you are forming holy Mary. Pray you too find happiness.

I wish my mum could just aleast pretend to like my girlfriend so that I will take the next step but women get problem

You carry your young family mata come nairaland okay you don't buy market boom wetin you de find you go see shey nah advice them go advice you sotey you go taya e don start already... If you no wan marry the said girl nah them go still blame and call you names and there so called feminist them go wan crucify you... Las Las no reason any advice from here bro I wish you success in your young family.


Gracias.

Boomboost:
OP got a girl pregnant, his parents are happy for him.

Boom got a girl pregnant, his parents will be embarrassed for him.

You that is reading, will they be happy for you?

Children unlocked before wedlock is a no for me. Maybe we have too many children to bring in another considering the economy.

Children born before, during or after wedlock, it doesn't matter, as long as the parents and families involve are happy and happy to love the child.

You expect the parents to start crying and reject both baby and mother? To many negative people with wicked hearts that hate to see others happy in this country.

Although I believe she was too harsh, she wasn' far from the truth, even though she may be engaged in it herself. It's ok to rejoice with them and criticize the action.

wirinet:


Bad belle instead of your to rejoice with him you are forming holy Mary. Pray you too find happiness.

obiekunie01:


guy be sure say na your picking.

Tiv girls! hmmm!

Lolllll

Lols... Omo God do am for u ooo
Weitin we dei run from... This guy don achieve n him mother wan go give testimony on sunday

You people have issues. Everyday, I'm always thankful for not being Igbo, Hausa, or Yoruba.

Where I'm from in the Niger Delta, you marry any living thing from anywhere and parents will be happy as long as she is obedient and follows Christianity, not any other religion.

ford101:
its true sha.i like TIV girls ooo but the way all of them mess up in Abuja .let me tell you the truth.just yesterday I called one of my TIv girl friend.a man picked the call and told me he owns the girl, owns her life,that even her phone he bought it for her and she's married to him.i was coming back today,it crossed my mind.and I said to my self I will not even sleep with a TIv girl unprotected let a lone have a child with one.

Who asked you?

ford101:
its true sha.i like TIV girls ooo but the way all of them mess up in Abuja .let me tell you the truth.just yesterday I called one of my TIv girl friend.a man picked the call and told me he owns the girl, owns her life,that even her phone he bought it for her and she's married to him.i was coming back today,it crossed my mind.and I said to my self I will not even sleep with a TIv girl unprotected let a lone have a child with one.

That's saying something about your character if those are the kind of girls you attract.

benji93:
Although I believe she was too harsh, she wasn' far from the truth, even though she may be engaged in it herself. It's ok to rejoice with them and criticize the action.

Why criticize them for which action. What you guys fail to realize is different strokes for different folks. You don't expect or impose your views on others. That's called religious fundamentalism.

This is a happy story on so many levels. It is a celebration of love and not of hatred that is common in our country today. It a celebration of a detribalize Nigeria we all dream of and not of tribal hatred.

I really respect the parents and wish more Nigerian parent are like that.

Hey slowpoke, Tiv murdered a whole lot of your people in thousands and I will never forgive them.

Congratulations Sir you're the correct C Ronaldo.

That would be wicked. We accept the consequences of mistakes too, don't we? The act was bad. What if after a while the man decides not to marry the lady? Now that's the problem. Turning the poor woman into a baby mama. Families build societies, we would be avoiding that by not engaging in premarital sex.I mean that eliminates the Baby mama. Although of course some would say you could use condoms. . The sons and daughters of men will always find a way to circumvent principles and values. We have been doing it from the beginning of time. thing. But well if a woman keeps doing that, as in sleeping with all the men she claims to love, these women become unsatisfied in their marriages. I am not here to judge the act, even though it's immoral(if you are a Christian), but i know the decisions that follow it could be devastating. So avoiding them is key. We should endeavour to lead a moral life. I am partly saying this cos it's becoming incredibly hard to find virgins these days, more like finding a needle in a haystack. . May God mend our crooked ways.

wirinet:


Children born before, during or after wedlock, it doesn't matter, as long as the parents and families involve are happy and happy to love the child.

You expect the parents to start crying and reject both baby and mother? To many negative people with wicked hearts that hate to see others happy in this country.

ford101:
my brother check well there is something about Tiv girls here in Abuja that I don't really understand.God am not that type of person who talk bad about a group of people.but Tiv and idoma girls are not so good to keep in the house.

You took the words right out of my mouth but no need stereotyping. Op girl might be different

Uyaincomparabl how far

For we Ibos, u are free to marry any good girl from any tribe but to give out our girls to another tribe? Brother we go look am well first n simply bc we are free with others, we welcome strangers but others are not free with us neither do they totally welcome us n too, no tribe can take care of a woman more than an average Ibo man

The first bolded. I definitely made an assumption that I shouldn't have. That the guy was Christian or something. So if he's not and he confronts me I will apologize.
my main question is, what if the guy doesn't marry the lady? Which is a possibility. Would that happy story have a happy ending?
I am talking about the institution of marriage here. If that love is any useful it must lead to it. You don't claim to love someone, impregnate them and not marry them. Not good. I hope the guy marries the lady though, wouldn't that be quite the happy ending? Now I am speaking about Christian values here. If he isn't, then it's void.
Second bolded:I am sorry, we don't all dream of the bolded. Speak for yourself. Some would rather be married to their fellow tribe member.

wirinet:


Why criticize them for which action. What you guys fail to realize is different strokes for different folks. You don't expect or impose your views on others. That's called religious fundamentalism.

This is a happy story on so many levels. It is a celebration of love and not of hatred that is common in our country today. It a celebration of a detribalize Nigeria we all dream of and not of tribal hatred.

I really respect the parents and wish more Nigerian parent are like that.

Love conquers all.

22o62021:



I no go use those ones there to judge the one here in the south south

She’s good for me

How sure are you that, you are the only one fuuccking this girl?

keep lying to yourself, not me

obiekunie01:


oga dont say what you dont know!

igbos are the only tribe that freely marry from other tribes!

in fact 30% of igbo men married from various tribes across nigeria.

THE ONLY TRIBE I HAVE NOT YET SEEN AN IGBO MAN MARRY FROM IS THE FULANI TRIBE - AND I HATE THE FACT THEY MARRIED LOTS OF IGBO WOMEN.

ford101:
its true sha.i like TIV girls ooo but the way all of them mess up in Abuja .let me tell you the truth.just yesterday I called one of my TIv girl friend.a man picked the call and told me he owns the girl, owns her life,that even her phone he bought it for her and she's married to him.i was coming back today,it crossed my mind.and I said to my self I will not even sleep with a TIv girl unprotected let a lone have a child with one.

Don't mind the simp OP. He doesn't know that other guys are sleeping with the girl. He is about taking a hoe to his parents.