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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by pocohantas(f): 10:38am On Jun 25, 2021
Kondomatic:
My dear see question.

The man cheated because he's a cheat. Beauty, character etc cannot stop a cheat from cheating, it's that simple.

Akpai no only cheat, he was busy smoking, drinking and sniffing with a 21yr old girl.

Side chick don send him go the other side, case closed.


Landlord wife don become Landlady grin.


She should mourn him small and move on, and then find one sharp guy to maintain body.


Sometimes nah guy man dey fall make mugu chop.

It is the drugs part for me. Imagine finding out the head of your home is doing drugs with one smallie. I won’t even answer them if I am the wife, before they release more details that will finish my reputation. lipsrsealed
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by slimman007: 10:39am On Jun 25, 2021
Authoreety:
Many things, but most especially, no fear of God.

Anyways, in this instance, I see a career woman who ddnt have time for her family, hence the husband decided to find solace elsewhere..

Good bless you bro.Most of these career oriented women have no time for their family.I am not in support of the man philandering attitude.imagine having a wife that is not their for you emotional and otherwise even most times deny you sex when you need it,what do you expect the man should do
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Nobody: 10:39am On Jun 25, 2021
Hathor5:


Tell this your future girlfriend/wife and your in-laws upfront and right from the start.

LOL! In most cases, the Father-In-Law already knows whats-up, and the Mother-In-Law would turn a blind eye. As long as you are taking care of your family, and non-violent, you are good to go.
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Kondomatic(m): 10:53am On Jun 25, 2021
pocohantas:


It is the drugs part for me. Imagine finding out the head of your home is doing drugs with one smallie. I won’t even answer them if I am the wife, before they release more details that will finish my reputation. lipsrsealed
The whole family should just lay low and let it slide like it didn't happen and let the law enforcement agents take care of the killer(s)

The man died an embarrassing death.

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Arielle: 10:54am On Jun 25, 2021
Kambilly99:
Men are insatiable bastards stupid gender
Especially Nigerian men. If the comments on this board are anything to go by, a lot of them lack discipline and honour. They expect to get a free pass to behave in any manner just because they are male. I shudder to think of the kind of comments we would have seen if the wife had been the murdered cheater. Shame on you all.
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Munzy14(m): 11:02am On Jun 25, 2021
esthel:
Well from this I see a busy career woman who probably isn't home all the time. Still doesn't justify cheating, a man that will cheat will cheat even if the wife is available 24/7
This is the answer to the question.

Most Career women rarely have time for family...Which is basic in marital union...
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Mindlog: 11:09am On Jun 25, 2021
Munzy14:

This is the answer to the question.

Most Career women rarely have time for family...Which is basic in marital union...



What will be the rationalization for philandering married men whose wives are full-time housewives?
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Munzy14(m): 11:09am On Jun 25, 2021
chiemmanuel:
Show me a beautiful woman, And I will show you a man who is tired of sleeping with her.
cheesy
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by ceeceeuwa: 11:14am On Jun 25, 2021
olibeans:


I don't buy the story of the side chick stabbing the deceased twice at different times on the neck because of rough sex only to go withdraw less than a million naira.

The Nigeria Police is not telling Nigerians the true story of what really happened.
So, tell us the true story


Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by ceeceeuwa: 11:15am On Jun 25, 2021
olibeans:


I don't buy the story of the side chick stabbing the deceased twice at different times on the neck because of rough sex only to go withdraw less than a million naira.

The Nigeria Police is not telling Nigerians the true story of what really happened.


So, tell us the true story
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by calcal: 11:19am On Jun 25, 2021
Career women will always find a reason not to have sex, that's one of the reasons men marry second wives.

RIP to the death, no one is clever when it comes to this puna puna.

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Munzy14(m): 11:21am On Jun 25, 2021
Mindlog:


What will be the rationalization for philandering married men whose wives are full-time housewives?
This question will be rhetorical if you do a research on how some of us who have a working class mother kept their home and marriage up till date.

Like our working mothers brought resources home to assist our fathers, still looked after the hubby and kids and harness everything to work fine without hitches.

That can't be said for some mothers of current modern world.

It's a pity the man is dead, and dead men don't tell their stories...

Many well to do guys go this way...And the wives move on...But it doesn't call for her to celebrate because las las everybody go kpai!.
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by pocohantas(f): 11:23am On Jun 25, 2021
Mindlog:


What will be the rationalization for philandering married men whose wives are full-time housewives?

Shebi e done die. Make the woman add his assets to hers. Let’s call it the hand of God.

Nigerian Stock Exchange (NSE) should put his wife as top gainers for the week. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by studentofTruth: 11:27am On Jun 25, 2021
Munzy14:

This is the answer to the question.

Most Career women rarely have time for family...Which is basic in marital union...



I realized this not quite long ago. Before, I used to think of someone with a career. But now, the career can only be lecturing; otherwise, I open a boutique or big supermarket for her to manage.

I hate nonsense!
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Mindlog: 11:29am On Jun 25, 2021
Munzy14:

This question will be rhetorical if you do a research on how some of us who have a working class mother kept their home and marriage up till date.

Like our working mothers brought resources home to assist our fathers, still looked after the hubby and kids and harness everything to work fine without hitches.

That can't be said for some mothers of current modern world.

It's a pity the man is dead, and dead men don't tell their stories...

Many well to do guys go this way...And the wives move on...But it doesn't call for her to celebrate because las las everybody go kpai!.

But we can't discount the fact that some working mothers of the 80s and 90s who brought in income to the family, looked after their husbands and children unfortunately had husbands who were having extra-marital affairs but choose to remain in their marriage thereby giving a facade of a happy marriage by adopting uwa wu elecha aghara. cheesy cheesy

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by InvertedHammer: 11:29am On Jun 25, 2021
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You see the pictures.
You see the CV.

Do you know what's like to live with her under the same roof?
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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by phazotron(m): 11:31am On Jun 25, 2021
chronique:
Just look at the impressive cv of the wife. The kind of cv I would be proud of in a partner. To now think he left this one and went to be moving around with a 300 level student that has not even finished school? If you even want to cheat, cheat in your circle; not with someone below your circle.

You're right jare
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Benrosaria(m): 11:32am On Jun 25, 2021
Authoreety:
Many things, but most especially, no fear of God.

Anyways, in this instance, I see a career woman who ddnt have time for her family, hence the husband decided to find solace elsewhere..

It’s was just his time to leave earth nothing more.
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by fof1: 11:33am On Jun 25, 2021
FatherCHRISTMAS:
It's not in a man's nature to hold on to a single woman... No matter how much he loves the wife, the urge to hunt younger women will always be there.

Some men fight the urge... The good news is, non has ever won grin



Shout out Born2winnx
Man is born to win


THIS IS A VERY BIG LIE. UR Mindset Rules ur Life. Feed Ur Fantasies and Go to Hell Fire. We are Supposed to Stem our Urges.There is TRUE DELIVERANCE IN CHRIST,if U Know U Know...Not Deceitful PRETENDING Hypocritical Religious LEADERS,Pls.
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Munzy14(m): 11:34am On Jun 25, 2021
studentofTruth:


I realized this not quite long ago. Before, I used to think of someone with a career. But now, the career can only be lecturing; otherwise, I open a boutique or big supermarket for her to manage.

I hate nonsense!
My brother na prayer and luck...To get a good woman....

Even if it's lecturing, she can still turn to something else if she wishes...

A woman can be there, but literally not there for you as a lover and soul mate...And nature must fill the vacuum.

Never give room for nonsense from day1, if you do, it becomes a tradition...
My Pman will say if kids grow,widowhood will become an appetite for some women.
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by AfroBeatDiary: 11:36am On Jun 25, 2021
A lot of reasons.

She won't watch porn with him.
She won't let him do anal.
She criticises him for his weird sexual fantasies.
She is a career woman who dictates when oga to get down and the pace he will thrust madam.
She fight oga because he smokes Igbo and could go 3 days without talking to oga. Should I go on?


This incident is just very unfortunate but many will run their mouth to judge this man but they know not his personal struggle.

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by femixx: 11:37am On Jun 25, 2021
Kambilly99:
Men are insatiable bastards stupid gender

KAMBILLY?!!
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Munzy14(m): 11:39am On Jun 25, 2021
Mindlog:


But we can't discount the fact that some working mothers of the 80s and 90s who brought in income to the family, looked after their husbands and children unfortunately had husbands who were having extra-marital affairs but choose to remain in their marriage thereby giving a facade of a happy marriage by adopting uwa wu elecha aghara. cheesy cheesy
What if this said career woman is in a secret affair with someone esle and the hubby decided to let it slide and remain the union, but definitely must fill up the natural need called konji.
After all uwa wu ofu mbia...cheesy

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by studentofTruth: 11:41am On Jun 25, 2021
Munzy14:

My brother na prayer and luck...To get a good woman....

Even if it's lecturing, she can still turn to something else if she wishes...

A woman can be there, but literally not there for you as a lover and soul mate...And nature must fill the vacuum.

Never give room for nonsense from day1, if you do, it becomes a tradition...
My Pman will say if kids grow,widowhood will become an appetite for some women.

I agree with you. But at least, let there not be any physical excuse.
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by jimcaddy(m): 11:41am On Jun 25, 2021
Only the late and unfortunate Mr Ataga can answer this question you are asking. Who knows what was going on in their marriage. Then again, nothing could be going on. Both couples might just be too busy with their work schedules to spend time with one another, hence the coming into the picture of Miss Chidinma. Men never let the issue of s*x cause a disagreement between you and a woman. Women are really so emotional by nature. Things get to them easily. Mr Ataga didn't see this coming. It was a very desperately unfortunate situation that fateful day. Mr Ataga has gone to the great beyond rendering his wife and kids husbandless and fatherless respectively.
Just pray for God to have mercy on his soul.
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Hathor5(f): 11:45am On Jun 25, 2021
FatherCHRISTMAS:

Nihgga hide your face. Quit fronting to be a female

grin
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Hathor5(f): 11:46am On Jun 25, 2021
Bagehot:


LOL! In most cases, the Father-In-Law already knows whats-up, and the Mother-In-Law would turn a blind eye. As long as you are taking care of your family, and non-violent, you are good to go.

The kind of people and families you are surrounded by, I see.
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Mindlog: 11:48am On Jun 25, 2021
pocohantas:


Shebi e done die. Make the woman add his assets to hers. Let’s call it the hand of God.

Nigerian Stock Exchange (NSE) should put his wife as top gainers for the week. lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

Who knows what his abuse of substances has caused in their marriage and their children, for him to feel at ease indulging that addiction with the accused is a likely indication why he might feel more comfortable being away from his family.

He made his choice as a full blown adult and has reached his earthly end, the woman and the children should strive not to be weighed down by any form of shame, dem no commit crime.

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by TossTos: 11:50am On Jun 25, 2021
Everything rises and falls on leadership !. I put all the blame on the late super tv ceo .
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by maisauki: 11:51am On Jun 25, 2021
Authoreety:
Many things, but most especially, no fear of God.

Anyways, in this instance, I see a career woman who ddnt have time for her family, hence the husband decided to find solace elsewhere..
What type of journalism is this, even at death they're still giving the man a cross to carry... imagine if we're to be the man that killed his wife's lesbian mate, feminists would have been upandan and roast the man alive
Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by pocohantas(f): 11:54am On Jun 25, 2021
Mindlog:


Who knows what his abuse of substances has caused in their marriage and their children, for him to feel at ease indulging that addiction with the accused is a likely indication why he might feel more comfortable being away from his family.

He made his choice as a full blown adult and has reached his earthly end, the woman and the children should strive not to be weighed down by any form of shame, dem no commit crime.

Na that drug part go vex me. If he were just cheating, I will wave it off. But a 50yrs old man doing drugs with a girl he can birth is a sign of irresponsibility. I wonder if the society would be fair on a married woman doing drugs and having an affair with one small boy. I am sure we would have read comments on how women are insatiable, but now they are here to blame the woman for having a career.

I commend her for having that career. If the man was busy with his own career, he won’t have time to be doing drugs with an undergraduate. undecided

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Re: Why Did Slain Usifo Ataga Cheat On Pretty Wife Brenda Ataga? by Standing5(m): 12:09pm On Jun 25, 2021
Kambilly99:
Men are insatiable bastards stupid gender
if that 21 y/o was satiable, she wouldn't have ended up where she is now.

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