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Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Rapmoney(m): 9:07pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
As a young man, DO NOT let anyone, whether married or not to deceive you that money does not matter in marriage. The truth is that money solves more than half of the problems in marriage, especially in a Nigerian society. This does not mean that you must be a millionaire or be rolling in money, but have the financial capacity to provide the basic things humans need for living, and luxuries inclusive. Any home you enter where the man commands maximum respect, observe closely, he is living up to his responsibilities as a man. There is no respect from any woman for that man who cannot provide the basic necessities. Don't let anyone deceive you. That girl that tells you today that she will run any length for you will turn to a tigress tomorrow in marriage if the major finance comes from her. If you would be respected, make sure you have a source of income that brings a substantial amount that can provide basic necessities and at least, modest luxuries. 600 Likes 71 Shares |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by BeStroNG(m): 9:15pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
Seriously 9 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Rapmoney(m): 9:27pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Goldbw122(m): 9:51pm On Jun 25, 2021 |
On point 13 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by ogashman(m): 7:01am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Op What if you are approaching your fifties and still have not made that money, so u die a single man? 117 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by karkinase(m): 9:51am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Rapmoney:Absolute truth..marriage is where you just keep paying Bill's so the need to make more money shuld always be in your head. 114 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by aanuoluwami14(f): 9:58am On Jun 26, 2021 |
Gbam!! 1 Like |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by talk2hb1(m): 11:17am On Jun 26, 2021 |
ogashman:Marry Affordable One 94 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by IgweOfNnewi: 7:00pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Lies from the pit from hell, marry a virgin, I repeat marry a virgin without experience, if you have money or not you wouldn't have issues, if you marry a harlot that even give her all heavens she will go to hell to have sex, I know a woman who had a jobless husband, she was more educated and more financially stable than the man that had nothing but they are living well, even the woman took loan several times in her office to buy two cars for him for transportation and some others to buy the house they are living, they have been together for about 9years now. 92 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by NwaNimo1(m): 7:00pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
You may be stable....... [img]https://media1./images/e62e2b319ff7e6bbea5853ff45e81aa3/tenor.gif?itemid=4612939[/img] but if wifey is more stable or has 'Arssets'? [img]https://media1./images/d3c1d4933d5b503d5c0e68db8d1de76a/tenor.gif?itemid=17974846[/img] 27 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by CelestineNelson: 7:00pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Being financially stable here does not mean, being a millionaire oo, it simply means you have a stable source of income to carter for basic needs... Which is very very important for a marriage to succeed. Don't starve innocent kids. 193 Likes 12 Shares |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Romanoff(f): 7:01pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
As a woman, I advice strongly against it. If you're a woman, don't get married without a source of income, no matter how small. Either a job or a business. Just have something doing. It is a recipe for disaster if you have nothing doing. 155 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Inception(m): 7:01pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
You have said it all. As a mexican friend used to say : No money no honey cabron! 14 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by olanreyman(m): 7:01pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
As a young man, you don't have money and are happy you want to get married? Lmao premium tears 22 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by maak400: 7:01pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
You're right OP, money is important in marriage. But my question to everyone is, if a man is hustling and he's still not financially stable till he's 40 years old, will you advise him not to marry but to keep hustling till he is financially stable even if he's nearing 50 years old? 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by vickydankal(f): 7:01pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Truth be told we love our me to be up and doing. We can cover up here and there for few years but when the man decide to leave the providence for us, we tend to become tensed. We are coming to help not to carry the burden. We can hide the fact that we are the ones doing most of the financial needs but of course certain level of money can not be hidden. For struggling men, my advice don't get married yet and if you must forget childbearing for a year or 2. The insult, humiliation, embarrassment may not come from the wife, it may be from in-laws, neighbors and family members. 4 keys to solve half of the marital issues 1. Money 2. More money 3. Increase the more money 4. Make more money with the increased money Pampers, rent, dstv, repairs, upkeep, clothing, health, food, as the essential before talking of pleasures like outing, a local government worker with steady salary can't handle those not to talk of vacation and luxury. It's not easy on our men oooo seriously, I didn't know what my daddy past through until 1 year of marriage. No body will blame the ladies but the men for lack in the house no matter whose fault it is. Men are expected to do everything but it's not fair nah. You go kill your man if you leave the whole burden to him oooo. Live at a cheaper place Marry a manager Both hands (husband and wife) should have milt steams of income Start small with the must basic things in the home (na so me and oga start ooo, almost with nothing but story don change small) though give the opportunity I won't try it again, who suffer help abeg. May God favor and have mercy on our hard working men. 123 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Nobody: 7:01pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Bros no be today we dey hear this one nah.. Dem no dey tell person... 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by LarsunDesign: 7:01pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Abi, Even if a lady tells you she will marry you no matter you low standard of living,my brother run.. A time will come, when that your standard of living will flush from her eyes..�� 57 Likes 5 Shares
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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Dotunking01: 7:01pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
The last passage is not new to a common-sensical being. "If you would be respected, make sure you have a source of income that brings a substantial amount that can provide basic necessities and at least, modest luxuries." 4 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by seyz91(m): 7:02pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Nice talk and it's an Undeniable fact Worldly known Rapmoney: 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by yomi007k(m): 7:02pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
ogashman: Shey na by force to marry ni? 38 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by virginboy1(m): 7:02pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Who does Marriage Favors Most? Click Like for Women Share For Men. 91 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by saphiere(f): 7:02pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Rapmoney:Also advise them to not impregnate a girl and run leaving her to suffer alone. 12 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by VillagePipu: 7:03pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
When your wife insults you over money ehn, that love will evaporate. 50 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by obembet(f): 7:03pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Nonsense Op! And all those of you that aggreed with him, u beta think twice. That Linda said and later have baby. Is it when you are 50s u will settle down and train your children at old age? labisibrass: Marriage open doors. Just marry the right woman 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by labisibrass(m): 7:03pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Marry am first, money will come later The most useless advice ever! 78 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by VillagePipu: 7:03pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
ogashman: Marriage is not by force. 16 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by tobe1985: 7:03pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
even if u are aged 50 and your money never dey on point, forget marriage, do not let anyone shame you 47 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by babyfaceafrica: 7:03pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
If you are not financially stable, do not marry. Don't let anyone pressure you, cerelac is 4k now.. Na one week dem go finish am.. Be wise 91 Likes 7 Shares |
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