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An average percentage of ladies in Nigeria does that.

I actually understand how constraining it is to find out your woman is having a side dude.

But guys, just like it is with the men that is how it is with the women. There is no perfect being.

However, the only person you can trust is God and yourself.

AutoChick4U:
Toh. Na your type dem dey deal with las las when you manage looseguard

My dear waiting I don see for this life ehnnn
Forget say I still small oh
But waiting I don see ehnn

AutoChick4U:
Lies. There are people who give me money that I haven't seen or intend seeing. Na orientation sha.

You reason like a typical Nigerian girl.
What do u know

Lol you they take Nigerian Girls Serious, na who get money them they love, most of them, i advice you make u remove mind for the girl matter, they live your life dey go no quarrel or tell the girl anything.. na she go use her hand go follow the boy..

Just leave her to go.... and stop having sex with her if you want your life to be complete, if not you will miss it...

Some yahoo guys use girls to carry destiny from her boyfriend or guys she date


I was once in your shoe... but God save me she return my ring back from dan all my contract come back in place....

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

Does the guy in question knows about your relationship with her?

PENNYSWAP:
She was watching all these Indian channel on Gotv , I had to keep my self busy cuz I don’t watch such channels .

Told her to give me her phone make I play 9ja ludo cuz game full her phone , she said no after holding on to the phone and pressing one or two things she now gave me the phone

she likely erased his messages on WhatsApp and those via text, blocked him on WhatsApp and put her phone on flight mode.

My advice you should not have given her go ahead, since you have done 45% of things need for traditional rites. All you had to do was sit her down and explain to her why her actions where wrong and from there monitor her going forward, if possible tell her to return the money back, her action going forward would guide you on canceling every thing or continuing. Na marriage una be wan enter so.

What does she mean by you were wasting time to raise money, these girls sha and their thinking, parents have to do better jobs raising their children including boys.

You are a big foooool to have unblocked a number which your gf blocked on WhatsApp. How are you sure she slept with him? You just assume, poor broke man with so much ego. She did it out of greed for money, You think a good woman is very easy to find, even with your brokenness? Okay, break up with her and marry a better one let's see.

AutoChick4U:
Lies. There are people who give me money that I haven't seen or intend seeing. Na orientation sha.

BigBashiru:
I've recently read from like 2 books now that females are incapable of true love.

Give me name of one let me read abeg

Run now while you can. A broken 45% is better than a broken 100%.
I have no time for such drama.
Move now, don't say we didn't warn you.

olibeans:
You're not a real guy, you're a simp.

Give me the girls contact make I bleep her wella so I can transfer some cash to her...

Now ask yourself, why has she been blocking his number on WhatsApp and yet they're communicating and sharing correspondence..

She's not your wife.
At the moment, she's not yet your wife. She can blow from now till kingdom come, even if you found a man on top of her, you don't own her yet.

This has been urging me to ask you if you're already married, and your wife gives you this kinda excuse that she's raising money from a yahoo guy to help you.

My guy, japa.. She will never make a good house wife.. Better start turning back from the 45% to 0% if you know what's good for you right now.

He hag haha bad boy so will chop red meat and clean mouth too abi

Hassanmaye:
Give me name of one let me read abeg

1. The Rational Male
2. Sexual Market Value by Chris capetown

both available on Amazon as kindle books.

both books were real eye openers. wish I read them earlier

apostle96:
You are just acting up unnecessarily
If she places all her burden on you, you will complain
Now she has an helper, u still dey complain

Really? Like you're serious with this your comment?

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

Bro, my advice for you is this... Let that girl go! Forget all the monies you've spent on her.. When you're married and there's a little tide in your home, she still would look for better options.. But this time, she'd hurt you big time... I wonder why men take such risks

PENNYSWAP:
She is bro... I have done 45% of the list at her her home town , hoping to complete the rest by year end based on how Naija levels be for man pikin pocket

This man no one learn person you go soon wed they use another man make money you think him go give her money without yanshing her ni. When una marry if little expense dey she go run to another guy and she would tell you its because of food. Yeye

Sometimes, u guys see wrong in a lady doing this, what of guys doing this as well or Married men saying they are just talking to some female volks because you never can tell if assistance will come from them. I'm not in support because I can and will never do such but if it's the guy that the girl caught doing this nko.

BabbanBura:
Hahahahaha, na to type our consolation for our brother dey wait am be that!

. If op follow real guys advice... He can still have the upper hand and make her pay for what she did.

Kaybae:
Sometimes, u guys see wrong in a lady doing this, what of guys doing this as well or Married men saying they are just talking to some female volks because you never can tell if assistance will come from them. I'm not in support because I can and will never do such but if it's the guy that the girl caught doing this nko.

hello ma'ma I will like you to know that women and men are not the same thing.

Women are not good in handling external affairs with their male counterpart...

Women are easily carried away.

So dont compare a man with a woman abeg.

efficiencie:
Guy I'm sorry for saying this but you have just concluded your coronation as the Oba Mumuni 1 of Mumu land. Your so called gf will be lashed till they kingdom come by the very same yahoo boy. I will advice you to use your discovery as the excuse to get out of that relationship and seek a God-fearing woman. You sef need to be born again. Marriage is a divine thing and you cannot be carnal and expect to enjoy a divine thing...whatever demon that told you to get her pregnant and abandon her wants to ruin your life very very quickly. If you do that you will be giving her the legal right in the spirit to reduce you to a loaf of bread. Be warned. Get out of that relationship, repent and seek Jesus, seek a godly wife and be faithful to her...do this or else you will crowned Supreme Overload of the Federal Republic of Fools!

I pray to our God Almighty he follows this advice which is the best.

mardis:
That is pure lie from the suppose fiancee, she is not worthy to be a wife.

The girl mad gan

AutoChick4U:
As long as d lady didnt cheat or even think of cheating, I see no issue here.

how do we now know if she cheated? If I were the guy I'd confront the Yahoo boy let them talk as men, from there he'd get more facts, if it's not clear enough weda they had both slept together, let him walk away and then he must have succeeded in making d Yahoo guy lose interest as well.

PENNYSWAP:
It’s not as you think , some one I caught in the act , changed the narrative of that she wants to play the said guy , I was just looking at her , like ok fine do what’s in your mind .

I had to give her the yes to know what she was upto, and she was so happy I gave her the go ahead . I am not a fool bro...

Many things were going through my mind , so this is some I’m to marry , how do I take my own pound of flesh , a million thoughts

Silly. The girl just read your tirade on Nairaland just now. That is if it's true.

She knows what you're up to.

U are already the mugu

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

My guy she hid it from u ,it Is inversely proportional to dey have had sexx more dan 2times if its a lie i owe u 5k

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

Someone you have done 45% of her dowry?

What do u mean?

Is marriage now an installmental issue?

She is not your wife until she is your wife.

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz

You're just being silly. Plane mode? You removed. Blocked chap? You unblocked and texted all because you want to see what your eyes want to see ba.

A wise man once said "we are often more happy from the things wears ignorant of than from those we are acquainted with"

Grow up as you're growing old

Guy u already plan what to do to her.just do am wisely.screenshot her body system then dump her.tommorow,she no go play with someone trust.

oga if you know you dont want to get married to her anymore. End it as soon as possible. There's no need having a child with her in the name of pay back. Na still two of una go suffer am together because you can't deny the child. You will bring more problem to yourself because you will have to father a child with someone that hurt you.

BarrSly:
Just allow her to recoup all your money you spent on dowry from the nigga then dump her ass cause trust me he’s already digging her guts out till she bbuuuhhhhh

Steph is cold✅�

U are a fool of the century. Ur medal is on the way

The lady she is playing with your emotions and wasting your time. She done received the Gbola of the Yahoo guy.

You already have the solution....

PENNYSWAP:
Greetings guys ..

I’m in an emotional trauma right now. This girl I have been dating , I want to marry and I have gone to her place and did a few of things my hand could afford traditionally .. I’m hoping to do the rest by Xmas .

She is a new graduate and she told me to open a side business for her to make small small change instead of being idle.

I told her to give me small time to save up money .

There is this guy she always talks about that is a yahoo boy and has plenty money , long story short , she came to my house last weekend , we were discussing, I wanted to use her phone and play 9ja ludo but she insisted on not giving me the phone .. she held the phone , turned her back after pressing it for long she gave it to me .

I angrily seized the phone , told her I bought the phone and sim that I’m seizing it.

We later settle and she slept early hours of the nxt day , I woke up brought her phone and it was on plane mood , I removed it from plane mood and a text msg came in from some guy .

I went to her WhatsApp to check the guy out and behold , she blocked the number on WhatsApp.

I unblocked the number and sent him message first , we started chatting , the guy was saying how he loves her and all that shit and the money he sent her to open up a side business.

I woke her up , confronted her and she said she did it for me since I was wasting time to raise money for her , she had to take it from her class mate , the said yahoo guy .

That she’s sorry not to tell me about it since .

She said I should allow her answer the guys calls so that she can get more money from the guy. I agreed and gave her the go ahead but she promised that she won’t allow any man see her unclothedness aside me her husband to be.

My mind has been heating up , why she lied to me and hid something of this nature to me .

The other mind is telling me to impregnate her then dump her when she’s 6 months pregnant that if I leave her now , the guy might take over and I will be the mugu here .

Guys what do I do , I need to wicked this girl I swear , my mind is boiling

Some one I have done 45% of her dowry is doing this to me . Kai I be mugu Oooooo

I need advise from real niggaz