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I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by RadioMOUTH(m): 2:19pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
I have been dating a girl over a year now, she has been so nice to me over this one year, I was in another relationship before I met her... she was so nice to me that I had to dump the other girl which I dated from 2014 till early (2020... about 6 years) Right now, I don't know what to comment on my relationship anymore.... she helped me stop crack and other hard drugs which I was taking...(I appreciate that from her) Before I met her she has a 6year old daughter which is now 7... ever since I met her.. I've been doing my best, I Normally spend my money in hotels and clubs but now it ends in the house... I love her daughter like she's mine, and she knows that... I pay her fees.. BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM I'm a hot tempered person, words annoy me rather than action... I destroy things when I'm angry... I'm just 27 years old and she's 28... a programmer by profession..m I own a land and a personal car today... She's respectful and does what a woman will do to satisfy every man, but most times when I'm broke, there's always trouble in the house... and I feel loved when I have money... I have never hit a woman my whole life till I met her, now I'm used to beating and shouting... now she's even telling me I talk too much when I'm complaining.. This was never my life... Please I need options..m what do I do, I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do.... I don't want to kill someone because I now feel I'm obsessed about her... I'm confused Modified: My old relationship was worst... I found love and care in this lady... 20 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by aanuoluwami14(f): 2:22pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
You need a good counseling or you need not to be deceiving yourself again! Act up like a matured man! Sit and talk one on one with her to know the areas where she could be of help. You know the solutions too. If you are smoking or drinking, you need to stop too. Best wishes 57 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by ranap37497: 2:29pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
go find a councilor 39 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by DaddyRochie1642: 2:31pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Just pray you don't end up in Kirikiri Prison Weeping and gnashing your teeth 309 Likes 14 Shares |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by PAPAPET: 2:34pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Pls, chat on WhatsApp. 08033843822. 1 Like 2 Shares |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by richmond500: 2:35pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by SUPERPACK: 2:41pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
You are beating a woman that is not even your wife and you are here saying thrash about it, why not let her go and get a new girl. Continue hitting her till she pulls a Chidimma Ojukwu on you, I am patiently waiting for that story on front-page. 277 Likes 15 Shares |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by Oluromantic: 2:45pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Those crack and other hard drugs you were taking, this is the effect o. You took something for over 6 years, you think the addictive demons behind them go leave you go like that? Our people say e no dey finish for mad man brain, e go remain small sparks once once. You know say you agree to date am under the influence of crack. Now crack no dey your matter again, your eyes don dey open small small. Laslas, you go divorce her before wedding. No hit am o because you go go prison without being under the influence of crack and other drugs. A whistle is enough for the wise 126 Likes 11 Shares |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by Nobody: 2:47pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
No, you need sense 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by Nobody: 3:12pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Leave that lady. The beating will not stop. When you claim to love someone and you still hit her, there’s something wrong with the union. 61 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by NwaAmaikpe: 3:19pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
The crack and other hard drugs must have really destroyed you for you to ditch a younger girl to go play daddy to a 7-year old and her older mom at 27. What better way can we confuse dumbness for love. Have you ever considered that you were an inexperienced 20year-old when that lady was spreading her legs wide in a labour room to push out a fvcking baby? Only you can help yourself. You know your triggers and you know your weaknesses. From what I've read, being broke makes you a monster and it is only when you are broke that she starts being shitty. But the beauty of this fvck is that you get broke from catering to her and her kid and not from living your youth to the fullest with other viable ladies. But we shouldn't blame her for being shitty, you're just her fvckboy who pays the bills and plays dad to her child whose own father doesn't want anything to do with. Yet you're emotionally at her mercy that your world revolves around another man's outcast. Biko ditch that girl and look for an asset. She's not just a liability, she's a master player and you my friend are her pawn. 189 Likes 21 Shares |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by Opemiposii(f): 3:47pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
mtcheew.. deal wit it.. u dumped a girl u have been dating for 5years for anoda girl for wat reason abeg? and u nw expect ya life to be meaningful... ntorr 33 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by AutoChick4U(f): 3:54pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
RadioMOUTH:Better go see a therapist. 6 Likes |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by JONSYN7154: 3:56pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
RadioMOUTH:Anytime you're angry just leave home for fresh air. When you simmer down from being angry you can return home. God have given you the best woman as your companion, please don't loose her. You'll regret if you do. My candid advice. 26 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by AutoChick4U(f): 3:56pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Opemiposii:Don't mind men, they keep falling for d whole nice girl card. 9 Likes |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by JONSYN7154: 3:57pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Opemiposii:That's harsh. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by AutoChick4U(f): 4:02pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
JONSYN7154:Baba d lady will cheat on him soon. Ladies who lack contentment get irritated and annoying when money dry. Instead to support they'll rather frustrate d man 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by Opemiposii(f): 4:07pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
JONSYN7154:do u even knw hw dat dumped girl would feel at all? put yaself in her shoe na 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by Starz825(m): 4:11pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Pls I beg you men...if you're not financially stable...pls stay away from marriage...you will be more frustrated than ever... Only if your woman is the one who understands.. when I say *understands*, you know what that means... 17 Likes |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by aktolly54(m): 4:18pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
RadioMOUTH:can't she understand you can't be having money every time? Maybe you should be open with your finance then she can give better advice how you can manage it then when you broke after that time the respect will still be there because I don't understand attitude of some girls when a guy is broke ....its not as if you have but don't want to spend oooo . sit her down and talk to her if you still like her |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by OKOATA(m): 4:45pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Bros what I see here is that anytime you are broke you get angry about it that's why you take it out on her, a lady stabbed her BF while he was asleep, he used to beat her like you do to her. Be very careful cos females these days don't care, she can even poison your food just because of the beating alone you do to her. Why even date someone you are taking care of her responsibility, I am sure that's why you are mostly broke cos you should channel that dough on something else. 25 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by JONSYN7154: 5:25pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Opemiposii:I understand. OP only ask for advice ma. 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by RadioMOUTH(m): 5:28pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Opemiposii: Old relationship was worst bro |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by JONSYN7154: 5:28pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
AutoChick4U:Not all ladies and beside knowing that she have a child out of wedlock and yet the guy still accepted her she'll do everything to make the relationship work. Not every men want a woman with child. You and I know it. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by RadioMOUTH(m): 5:28pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
JONSYN7154: Thanks 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by Kenturkey048(m): 5:31pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
AutoChick4U: I swear to God... |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by RadioMOUTH(m): 5:31pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
BarrSly: 1. Stopping certain things sometimes you need help 2. Girl born no make her second hand my brother... I beg you 3. She's not clingy 22 Likes |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by RadioMOUTH(m): 5:32pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
NwaAmaikpe: Thanks, indeed... a hungry man is an angry man... but no woman is a bitch 11 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by RadioMOUTH(m): 5:37pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
Carchoice: Anger is just my problem 1 Like |
Re: I Need Help In My Relationship ❗ by RadioMOUTH(m): 5:38pm On Jun 27, 2021 |
SUPERPACK: I really want to stop bro... I love this lady, she has done alot for me 4 Likes |
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