Truth is..Help starts from you, you are Already loosing her. So talk you yourself ,you r not a child..

Opemiposii:
mtcheew.. deal wit it.. u dumped a girl u have been dating for 5years for anoda girl for wat reason abeg? and u nw expect ya life to be meaningful... ntorr

Why the thing dey vex you so much?

sylve11:


Why the thing dey vex you so much?

i wasnt vexed

RadioMOUTH:


Old relationship was worst bro

Go to the nearest bridge/flyover...wait for Dangote lorry and jump in front of it. You don’t deserve to die nicely, let it crush you and end your miserable life.

Pls post your photos here and contact address. There are guys like you who’d want to get physical with you since you like to hit people.

ranap37497:
go find a councilor

counselor

where all of Una dey see this lovey dove y I no mean woman beater o

The reason you beat her could be a number of reasons.

1. Deep within you see her mentally as less than you. You don't see her as your equal. Change your mentality towards her.

2. You may have been brought up from a young age to view violence as a genuine means of conflict resolution.

It is good that you recognise and want to change. It is worth it.

Let's Hear Her Own Side Of Her Story.

If you beat a woman you will be going to jail.
It is only animal that fights not to talk of beating a woman.

Not even dating but habouring a single mom?





Pukes

RadioMOUTH:
I have been dating a girl over a year now, she has been so nice to me over this one year, I was in another relationship before I met her... she was so nice to me that I had to dump the other girl which I dated from 2014 till early (2020... about 6 years)

Right now, I don't know what to comment on my relationship anymore.... she helped me stop crack and other hard drugs which I was taking...(I appreciate that from her)


Before I met her she has a 6year old daughter which is now 7... ever since I met her.. I've been doing my best, I Normally spend my money in hotels and clubs but now it ends in the house... I love her daughter like she's mine, and she knows that... I pay her fees..


BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM



I'm a hot tempered person, words annoy me rather than action... I destroy things when I'm angry... I'm just 27 years old and she's 28... a programmer by profession..m I own a land and a personal car today...


She's respectful and does what a woman will do to satisfy every man, but most times when I'm broke, there's always trouble in the house... and I feel loved when I have money...


I have never hit a woman my whole life till I met her, now I'm used to beating and shouting... now she's even telling me I talk too much when I'm complaining..

This was never my life...


Please I need options..m what do I do, I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do....


I don't want to kill someone because I now feel I'm obsessed about her... I'm confused


Modified:

My old relationship was worst... I found love and care in this lady...

If you don't deal with anger you may never find a woman that will last with you

NwaAmaikpe:




The crack and other hard drugs must have really destroyed you for you to ditch a younger girl to go play daddy to a 7-year old and her older mom at 27.
What better way can we confuse dumbness for love.

Have you ever considered that you were an inexperienced 20year-old when that lady was spreading her legs wide in a labour room to push out a fvcking baby?

Only you can help yourself.
You know your triggers and you know your weaknesses.

From what I've read, being broke makes you a monster and it is only when you are broke that she starts being shitty.
But the beauty of this fvck is that you get broke from catering to her and her kid and not from living your youth to the fullest with other viable ladies.

But we shouldn't blame her for being shitty, you're just her fvckboy who pays the bills and plays dad to her child whose own father doesn't want anything to do with.

Yet you're emotionally at her mercy that your world revolves around another man's outcast.
Biko ditch that girl and look for an asset.
She's not just a liability, she's a master player and you my friend are her pawn.

You are really an unapologetic accuser and an angel of "ugly truth"

Opemiposii:
he should goan pray

its well.

I have a permanent solution to this problem of yours if only you can follow it to letter.

Here's it, any time you get angry, [b][/b]Just locate a soldier man and slap him. That's all.
The solution is that easy


No need thanking me, what are friends for.

You have mental problems, don't kill someone's life child abeg

RadioMOUTH:
I have been dating a girl over a year now, she has been so nice to me over this one year, I was in another relationship before I met her... she was so nice to me that I had to dump the other girl which I dated from 2014 till early (2020... about 6 years)

Right now, I don't know what to comment on my relationship anymore.... she helped me stop crack and other hard drugs which I was taking...(I appreciate that from her)


Before I met her she has a 6year old daughter which is now 7... ever since I met her.. I've been doing my best, I Normally spend my money in hotels and clubs but now it ends in the house... I love her daughter like she's mine, and she knows that... I pay her fees..


BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM



I'm a hot tempered person, words annoy me rather than action... I destroy things when I'm angry... I'm just 27 years old and she's 28... a programmer by profession..m I own a land and a personal car today...


She's respectful and does what a woman will do to satisfy every man, but most times when I'm broke, there's always trouble in the house... and I feel loved when I have money...


I have never hit a woman my whole life till I met her, now I'm used to beating and shouting... now she's even telling me I talk too much when I'm complaining..

This was never my life...


Please I need options..m what do I do, I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do....


I don't want to kill someone because I now feel I'm obsessed about her... I'm confused


Modified:

My old relationship was worst... I found love and care in this lady...

My brother, you no deserve better thing abeg. Just leave the woman for someone better that deserves her.
Tenk yiu.

Just see how you guys are normalizing violence. What do you guys want? A lady who is even older than you are and yet respects you gets brutalized just because "you have hot temper". Do you hit your boss or client at work when they say what you don't like? Would you hit a bigger/stronger man like that? You're hitting somebody's daughter, somebody's mother and people are treating you with kid gloves just because you're a man: see a therapist, take it easy, talk to her, etc. Ridiculous. You don't need a therapist cause you're only hitting this woman cause she submitted herself to you. Please, do that lady a favour and dump her. She deserves better. I even blame her for putting up with such nonsense at her age. You're 27, you have a car, you have a land, etc. but the one thing you need, you don't have.

I hate men that beat women up, I swear if it were my sister that you beat up ehhh
I for don disable your body , even your rage abi na anger go leave you run away.
No matter what she did, you had no right to lay your hands on her, there are better ways of resolving issues like this . See a therapist or better still let her go.

[quote author=JONSYN7154 post=103141366] Anytime you're angry just leave home for fresh air. When you simmer down from being angry you can return home.

God have given you the best woman as your companion, please don't loose her. You'll regret if you do.

My candid advice. [/quote[b][/b][i][/i]

Abeg get out!

RadioMOUTH:
I have been dating a girl over a year now, she has been so nice to me over this one year, I was in another relationship before I met her... she was so nice to me that I had to dump the other girl which I dated from 2014 till early (2020... about 6 years)

Right now, I don't know what to comment on my relationship anymore.... she helped me stop crack and other hard drugs which I was taking...(I appreciate that from her)


Before I met her she has a 6year old daughter which is now 7... ever since I met her.. I've been doing my best, I Normally spend my money in hotels and clubs but now it ends in the house... I love her daughter like she's mine, and she knows that... I pay her fees..


BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM



I'm a hot tempered person, words annoy me rather than action... I destroy things when I'm angry... I'm just 27 years old and she's 28... a programmer by profession..m I own a land and a personal car today...


She's respectful and does what a woman will do to satisfy every man, but most times when I'm broke, there's always trouble in the house... and I feel loved when I have money...


I have never hit a woman my whole life till I met her, now I'm used to beating and shouting... now she's even telling me I talk too much when I'm complaining..

This was never my life...


Please I need options..m what do I do, I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do....


I don't want to kill someone because I now feel I'm obsessed about her... I'm confused


Modified:

My old relationship was worst... I found love and care in this lady...

Talk psychologist or therapist. One of the side effects of cocaine use is violence......you need proper psychological evaluation.

[quote author=Owocourtesy post=103146700][/quote] Thank you Sir

Octopusssy:

How about you try beating someone who can actually fight back? You hit her because you know she can't hit back. If she hits you back once or twice I'm pretty sure the demon spirit of anger will leave your body

That would bring zero solution. He needs to be intentional about it in order to stop. I hope the lady won't leave him before he learn.

You must be very Stupid

Abi you need to be arrested.

Oga don't be laying your hands on anyone if it is not self defence.

You should let that lady go away to save yourself from committing crime. Then try to know how to control your emotion. PROVERB 25:28, "Whoever has no rule over his spirit is like a city broken down , without wall."

RadioMOUTH:
I have been dating a girl over a year now, she has been so nice to me over this one year, I was in another relationship before I met her... she was so nice to me that I had to dump the other girl which I dated from 2014 till early (2020... about 6 years)

Right now, I don't know what to comment on my relationship anymore.... she helped me stop crack and other hard drugs which I was taking...(I appreciate that from her)

Before I met her she has a 6year old daughter which is now 7... ever since I met her.. I've been doing my best, I Normally spend my money in hotels and clubs but now it ends in the house... I love her daughter like she's mine, and she knows that... I pay her fees..


BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM

I'm a hot tempered person, words annoy me rather than action... I destroy things when I'm angry... I'm just 27 years old and she's 28... a programmer by profession..m I own a land and a personal car today...

She's respectful and does what a woman will do to satisfy every man, but most times when I'm broke, there's always trouble in the house... and I feel loved when I have money...

I have never hit a woman my whole life till I met her, now I'm used to beating and shouting... now she's even telling me I talk too much when I'm complaining..

This was never my life...

Please I need options..m what do I do, I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do....

I don't want to kill someone because I now feel I'm obsessed about her... I'm confused


Modified:

My old relationship was worst... I found love and care in this lady...

You need rehab. You may have quit your addiction but you're not yet free from whatever pushed you into that addiction in the first place.

In developed countries, people who stop an addiction go for rehab before being allowed back into society. I don't think you had a rehab even though you've stopped your addiction, hence why you need one urgently now.

An American man told his addiction story with alcohol. He started drinking at age 10 and didn't stop till he was almost 44. He said his alcoholic father was abusive to his mother and used to hit her all the time. Eventually, he'd hit him too whenever he tried to defend his mother. So, unable to bear the sound of the beating and his crying mother, he'd steal some beers from his father's room and drink which helped him drown out the fight between his parents. Eventually, he got addicted to alcohol and the rest was history. However, he said that after ruining his fifth relationship because of his addiction, he sought for help. His current girlfriend helped him until he went to rehab, had a personal and private chat with his therapist and his healing journey started.

Anyway, the point of telling you this story is that I think it might apply to you. I need for you to first off all, temporarily end your relationship and go on a life journey. I need you to search deep inside your self and figure/discover how your addiction started. Once that is done, deal with that problem, forgive whoever you might need to forgive, get your healing and after that is done, you can restart your relationship.

Good luck.

Don't worry your eyes go clear when you finally kill her, shebi devil dey play ludo for your brain. You love her yet you can't stop beating her....Werey dey disguise! My friend make I tell you the koko, some people are destined to be eleribu(unfortunate) in life, based on your own confession I see you are on that path, no Nairalander can save you and it does not look like you're ready to be saved, the best thing you can do for that woman is to let her go, remmeber broken relationship is better than rotting in jail for murder.....REASON AM!

U used beating up, not beating or hitting,... Beating up, seems u enjoyed it... Hiss

oke2018:
where all of Una dey see this lovey dove y I no mean woman beater o

Wetin you dey find go sokoto, dey your Shokoto

RadioMOUTH:
I have been dating a girl over a year now, she has been so nice to me over this one year, I was in another relationship before I met her... she was so nice to me that I had to dump the other girl which I dated from 2014 till early (2020... about 6 years)

Right now, I don't know what to comment on my relationship anymore.... she helped me stop crack and other hard drugs which I was taking...(I appreciate that from her)


Before I met her she has a 6year old daughter which is now 7... ever since I met her.. I've been doing my best, I Normally spend my money in hotels and clubs but now it ends in the house... I love her daughter like she's mine, and she knows that... I pay her fees..


BUT HERE IS THE PROBLEM



I'm a hot tempered person, words annoy me rather than action... I destroy things when I'm angry... I'm just 27 years old and she's 28... a programmer by profession..m I own a land and a personal car today...


She's respectful and does what a woman will do to satisfy every man, but most times when I'm broke, there's always trouble in the house... and I feel loved when I have money...


I have never hit a woman my whole life till I met her, now I'm used to beating and shouting... now she's even telling me I talk too much when I'm complaining..

This was never my life...


Please I need options..m what do I do, I've just few hours ago hit her, because I saw her texting someone and she rescued to open her phone... causing damage on her left eye .... please what do I do....


I don't want to kill someone because I now feel I'm obsessed about her... I'm confused


Modified:

My old relationship was worst... I found love and care in this lady...

From what you said here, that lady and her daughter is a complete liability to you and she is not appreciative of you feeding her and her daughter also spending to see her daughter go to school is your responsibility, this shows she is jobless hence a liability and you also mention here that there is no peace for you once there is no money in the house, she is an ingrate, an ungrateful liability, do everything possible to leave her alone on yourself you need to work harder to stop being hot tempered I advice you wake away when angry as that will make you calm down, like what you said you love this lady but am afraid her attitude of not loving you when there is no money in the house is a red flag