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Stupidquestions:
Let me share a similar experience.
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It happened that for some reason for abt 3-Sundays I consistently contributed to donation being raised in church for a project. Along the line, a new babe in church had been giving me green light but I've been acting indifferent.
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Then through youth meeting, one Sunday, I decided to break the ice and gave her little attention.
Afterwards she started being nice, call and all...and when I returned her call she flatters me and talk sweetly...she also tried to push the conversation to romance side...I was aware and picking my words.
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Then one sunday evening, during that familiarizing, I called her to come see me at a bar..she said ok...then she stood me up and gave flimsy excuse not to come after first saying she was coming.......
To me, that was a red flag. I snubbed her for days...and this time she dint call too. Then like over a week, I went on a date with another babe, at a bar close to her schl....I've even forgotten abt her, then her call came in.
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...i picked it. She exchanged pleasantries, I was casual and she asked where I was, I told her when did she start asking where I was? She toned down a bit and we ended the call..
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After my date left the bar, and because It was close to her hostel, I decided to call her to say I want to stop by at her place, that I'm closeby.. she welcomed it.
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It was my first time visiting. My intention was to address her previous bad behavior and whine her..
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We seated in a classroom...there were couple of other people....so our gist became fun and interesting after the whole initial accusations and redress.
She was quite interesting and bold. She started getting sexual verbally, romantic and displayin public affection, and toiling with me...it was cold that day sha....u will tink we were lovers,...I played along..we even pecked.
To cut the story short...just before I left, she started demanding I give her money before I leave...I laughed it off and handled it with humor.. but she started getting serious abt it...that I shd treat like a sister now.
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I was getting embarrassed cos I have a rule of not accedding to a woman's financial demand at the beginning of a parole. I told her to calm down that I dint plan to come see her that it was her call that made me come...I Sha intentionally gave her N200 with shame lol..out of 1200 remaining from my earlier date.....she told me to call her when I get home...I dint but I messaged her..she dint reply.
Following morning she replied..and after greetings she asked me money that she's broke,, that this that that...
Maybe I should have sent her sth, maybe she was truly broke,...cos I felt guilt. But I told her I will send but not now..
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The conclusion is that..she stopped calling or chatting since then...I dint call too..I messaged her On Sunday to come to church.she didn't come nor reply....I've also snubbed her til now
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I'm not so bothered..I'm not sure if I handled it well or not...it's somehow Sha...I'm like so the whole love don end cos she ask me money and I din't send cos I felt it's too early to start on a billing note... u guys can add ur comment.

Vicas2000:
She knew you were a cheerful giver in church. Identified you. Isolated you to a meet up...gave you a bit of incentive by romancing you publicly to get you to give her money.

She does not want to date. She wants your money without you getting into her panties or wanting to date you.

My advise...stop calling or texting to avoid premium tears.

Also stop receiving her calls or attending to her messages

Stupidquestions

neyyoh:
Maybe because i have my own personal agenda which is tied to the redpill but bigger.

I don't do ideological worship, i study and use my mind, so if my view's differ, its just showing an independent mind.

Some people here capable of grasping what I'm about are cave, bloodysperm, demzee even though he comes across harsh, dark gamer will naturally grow into that mindset , I've studied how he thinks through his writing.

I can guarantee you these people i mentioned can read between the lines.

Also it could be down to level of exposure, experience and should i say maturity not that I'm that mature

I'll put people here into two groups the shallows and the deep thinker's, that's why there's a bit of a hiccup but it's all good.

xfactordv:
king, i know how to get the money but game is a bit difficult for me. how do i overcome this full details. please

ubunja:
you gents are spreading blue pill concepts. I don't know if you realize it or not. We talked about this a hundred times. Don't equate material and worldly success with your chances of reproductive success (babies). Especially in this day and age of female sexual freedom.

There are two ways to get women: Money and Looks.

Money gets you romance/love/Marriage.
Your looks get you Lust/Sex/Babies.

When It comes to sex, women will always choose a jobless man over a working man.
But, when it comes to love, women will always choose a working man over a jobless man. This is something every redpiller must understand. Jobless men are simply the best fvckers and have no stresses of life that affect their sexual performance. Unlike working men who don't have the time and are usually stressing about things like business and bills to really fvck consistently on a daily basis.

Since babies come out of sex, it's the jobless men who'll make more babies than working class men. But it's the working class men who'll raise those babies - knowing or unknowingly.

Women themselves are saying these things but you gents are not listening. This is the same thing I presented to CaveAdullam the other day.

Ask yourselves WHAT DO BROKE JOBLESS MEN KNOW ABOUT SEX THAT WE DON'T?!
Research that and pin it down. That's the secret to getting laid ceaselessly.

ubunja:
it's a host of factors why broke men are sizzling in bed. And it's something the Red pillers will have to study closely if they're to dominate women in all spheres, including sex. But red pillers are secretly counting on winning through money that's why any talk of investigating this phenomenon is a talk they don't wanna have. This is one of those topics the movement will stay avoiding, to its loss.

Lmao

Masculinity has been reduced to just having a big dick in this modern times, Wat a shame!

Masculinity as a whole is about sexuality of men period not just having good and big dick.
Women are not sexual beings but they are bloody sexual objects. For example wen u use a mobile phone, who's enjoying the pleasure the phone gives out...is it the phone itself or u the handler

Women's orgasm isn't important for pregnancy and women's orgasm doesnt checkmate her hypergamy and monkey branching period!

Masculinity is beyond having a big dick.

Men play three roles in a women's life;
It's either the man is her friend, her lover or her father. Masculinity embraces the entirety of all that. Masculinity isn't sex alone period!!!!!

As a man who's broke there's no guarantee that u will b able to smash a lot of ladies especially in this modern age period!!!
Redpill isn't all about sex, it's about understanding masculinity as an entirety.

SOZINN:
It's a pity I can't share videos on nairaland. I just watched a lady say she will destroy your properties if you try to chase her out of your house because of a break up. According to her, if you improve her life and put her on a certain level. You have no right to take everything back if she breaks up with you.

You should continue to pay her bills till she finds her another capable man. And if she doesn't, her bills are on you till whenever. If you try to take the pedestal away, she will retaliate. She was very serious about this.

Note: For those of you who are still interested in dating, don't be afraid. She is a westerner.

Emotionss:
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There's something the jobless Men have that the working men don't have and that his Time.

While their husbands/boyfriends are busy hustling, the so called jobless and good for nothing Men are busy sampling and enjoying their women and their money.

A jobless man that knows his Game gets more attention and sex from women than a hustler that has no Game.

SOZINN:
It's a pity I can't share videos on nairaland. I just watched a lady say she will destroy your properties if you try to chase her out of your house because of a break up. According to her, if you improve her life and put her on a certain level. You have no right to take everything back if she breaks up with you.

You should continue to pay her bills till she finds her another capable man. And if she doesn't, iher bills are on you till whenever. If you try to take the pedestal away, she will retaliate. She was very serious about this.

Note: For those of you who are still interested in dating, don't be afraid. She is a westerner.

KiNg0G:
They are different reason why you see this game too difficult for you.

Trust me this really matters bro....how you were raised...mamas boy n all...secluded from the street... she's always saying don't want you to mix up with those bad eggs around..seeing other kids as trash n all (trust me bro...mama did you some good favours....but did it in a bad way)



The environment you lived in is it a street kinda vibes... where you can interact with everyone at ease... sometimes...press breast... and yansh... I remember back then in the days we use to call it free to air... any girl that is too loose we call her federal condemn..



We can go on and on bro....buh I tell you been a game player in relationships matters usually start when you were young..in your teens days.... your mindset.. ....kinda people you emulate... peer groups and all.




But later on we realised due to the society we live in....alot of those hot boys back then had to change their game ways.. just to fit in. many turned to simps and all..... some call it maturity but I say they fûcked up on that....that's why they are so many simps around....but only few of us born like this...were able to hold onto some certain things.




You as a rich dude...or a shy nigga... you want to get this street mentality... something you don't have ..due to your simping days... trust me bro...it's gone look hard to you...buts it's not....it's something you don't force... you let it flow ..



no matter the funds you think you have...


* You can't force your dress sense...(nor be by to pack cuban full neck)


* You can't force your style n attitudes.( nor be by to talk rudely... everytime to any girl u see..naaah bro....(do you know you can be arrogant and sexy at the same time with your words[


* You can't force your appearance ( nor be by to draw tats full body...or Pierce ear)have seen many simps with dreadlocks n all.

It's all about you my Gee... your mindset... your motivation.


At your bolded

I still don't get what' area is difficult for you.... tell me bro...so I can just jump on that.

Abba114:
ragga u have badly hurt by a vagina people i bet. u are so bitter

ubunja:
True man. A jobless man has time. Time for sex. And also time for perfecting his sex. Plus broke men fvck good because sex is the only way they can prove themselves.
But no man wants to be broke. I think the best way we can emulate jobless guys is to create TIME. I'm thinking passive income or something along those lines. Multiple Streams of passive income.

neyyoh:
That's what have been saying, non Nigerian redpillers can't relate.

These are the Nigerian girls I'm seeing everywhere.

Naija guy's have spoilt them to death so much so that relationship now equals payment.

fattprince:
That's for you bro. Redpill didn't say you shouldn't fvck married woman. Just play the game well. I too wouldn't fvck a married woman doesn't mean those who do aren't redpill.

Emotionss:
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There's nothing Redpill about sleeping with a married woman unless you're not aware she's married.

With all the abundant single girls littered everywhere why will a Redpiller go after a married woman ?

fattprince:
You getting it wrong. First you didn't go after a married woman. She's coming to you. But let's agree to disagree.

Emotionss:
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It doesn't matter who came after who. A married woman should be a no no for a Redpiller. Not because of her But because of your dignity and reputation.

A Redpiller is supposed to view a married woman the same way he views a Single mother.

KiNg0G:
I saw a pic the other day here on this thread.... when a girl says if she dies today 5 guys will be single I just smile..

This guys here knows the reality... but because they wants to score cheap points at all times.... they argue without a proper thinking.


No true redpiller will go for married women my G.

I personally know myself...my dîck won't stand once I know you are married..that's a huge turn off....same with single mothers.

KiNg0G:
Like I always tell my OGs around.... you fit bad....but nor bad finish


A guy who build house from what a married woman gave him... b4 yahoo circulate...I don't judge him.. everyone has his own views and believe.


We are africans... tradition na tradition.....once a man don pay that money for her head..she's off market...I run with my 4legs.

Stupidquestions:
Let me share a similar experience.
.
It happened that for some reason for abt 3-Sundays I consistently contributed to donation being raised in church for a project. Along the line, a new babe in church had been giving me green light but I've been acting indifferent.
.
Then through youth meeting, one Sunday, I decided to break the ice and gave her little attention.
Afterwards she started being nice, call and all...and when I returned her call she flatters me and talk sweetly...she also tried to push the conversation to romance side...I was aware and picking my words.
.
Then one sunday evening, during that familiarizing, I called her to come see me at a bar..she said ok...then she stood me up and gave flimsy excuse not to come after first saying she was coming.......
To me, that was a red flag. I snubbed her for days...and this time she dint call too. Then like over a week, I went on a date with another babe, at a bar close to her schl....I've even forgotten abt her, then her call came in.
.
...i picked it. She exchanged pleasantries, I was casual and she asked where I was, I told her when did she start asking where I was? She toned down a bit and we ended the call..
.
After my date left the bar, and because It was close to her hostel, I decided to call her to say I want to stop by at her place, that I'm closeby.. she welcomed it.
.
It was my first time visiting. My intention was to address her previous bad behavior and whine her..
.
We seated in a classroom...there were couple of other people....so our gist became fun and interesting after the whole initial accusations and redress.
She was quite interesting and bold. She started getting sexual verbally, romantic and displayin public affection, and toiling with me...it was cold that day sha....u will tink we were lovers,...I played along..we even pecked.
To cut the story short...just before I left, she started demanding I give her money before I leave...I laughed it off and handled it with humor.. but she started getting serious abt it...that I shd treat like a sister now.
.
I was getting embarrassed cos I have a rule of not accedding to a woman's financial demand at the beginning of a parole. I told her to calm down that I dint plan to come see her that it was her call that made me come...I Sha intentionally gave her N200 with shame lol..out of 1200 remaining from my earlier date.....she told me to call her when I get home...I dint but I messaged her..she dint reply.
Following morning she replied..and after greetings she asked me money that she's broke,, that this that that...
Maybe I should have sent her sth, maybe she was truly broke,...cos I felt guilt. But I told her I will send but not now..
.
The conclusion is that..she stopped calling or chatting since then...I dint call too..I messaged her On Sunday to come to church.she didn't come nor reply....I've also snubbed her til now
.
.
I'm not so bothered..I'm not sure if I handled it well or not...it's somehow Sha...I'm like so the whole love don end cos she ask me money and I din't send cos I felt it's too early to start on a billing note... u guys can add ur comment.

CaveAdullam:
Millionaire businessman, Robert Kiyosaki had a meeting with the godfather of the manosphere, Rollo Tomassi some days ago. They might not discuss things about the intersexual dynamics (in details), but Robert meeting Rollo and taking photos with him and made it public means Robert has been consuming redpill shits. Rollo works in a liquor settings and his income comes no where to that of Robert, but yet both brains at the moment are cooking something big only God knows. If Robert hasn't benefited from Rollo, someone far less richer than him, he wouldn't have considered meeting with him. (Only Elon Musk has been parading publicly with the Redpill for sometime now).

Broke shaming is a tool beta simps, feminists, the downtrodden, haters of the redpill use in demoralizing the redpill. In their archaic and stupid thinking, they think financial freedom correlates with the truth. No wonder, old rich foolish men rule and are well respected, why no one pays attention to the intelligent professors. But when things are about to fall from the cliff, they all run helter skelter looking for scientists, economists, analysts to unravel the situation. Nigeria/African politics is a very good example.

The best way to speak truth especially on social media is through the incognito mode because it will make people judge what you post based on its authenticity rather than your family background, Alma mater, level of income, religious inclinations, sexual orientation, beauty, affiliations, date of birth etc.

Painful thing is that low IQ idiots will want to counter claims or appear intelligent without coming up with reasonable heuristics drawn from real life observation and pattern or empirical data. They think truth will always conform to their standard or taste. And by the time you bring data or well observed pragmatic pattern they go behind screeching in ignorance with subtle abuses rather than take correction, learn and move forward.

The truth is what it is! And it doesn't care about status, power or wealth.

Thanks.

2dice01:
Story Story
Wetin concern Lewandoski with snake bite

If you dont do it
There are thousands of you out there

Fiscus105:
Iyabo ojo as a case study, she is a frustrated figure today and that's why she is venting anger on everything pertaining to man, she wants to enjoy marriage but lacks requisite to sustain it.

Ditto for all men/guys who want to manipulate woman into relationships, you will continue leave a life of anxiety, full of fear and fear of unknown.

There are so many good men and women outside, one (guy or lady) should try to be open minded and chooses good-manner partner, by so doing one will enjoy the relationship maximally.

djon78:
Exactly
There are many good men and women out there
Well behaved
Well brought up

That you have been jamming the wrong ones doesn't mean that the good ones doesn't exist or are not out there


From my personal experience
One good partner that comes into your life in comparison to bad ones that you had before is like the difference between day and night

It's incomparable
The experience is beyond this world

And for you to get a good partner
You yourself must be good yourself
Because infinite intelligence
Can never allow you come near a good partner
You will mess there lives up
So you get exactly whom you are

But if you want a good partner
Be good yourself
Remove a lot of bad attitudes from your life
And voila
The right partner appears

Like some claim
They only face there life
So they end up with only selfish and self centered people's around them

How can you not give your woman
Some really good money
Sometimes lavish on her
And see whether you will not experience
The best care in the world
And even her good prayers and wish for you
You will even get so much more
In addition of genuine concern for you

Anyone that wants good
Should be good

Joker09:
I can relate. This how a lot of them do now. In fact they'll act like they have 'high interest' in you, only to bill you later on. This is their new technique. I've witnessed it several times but I refuse to fall for any of their antics. It's what a lot of naija girls do now. I'm not surprised at all, it's sad.

Kenogidi:
Dear brothers of the pill, the argument that "broke guys get all the pussy because they are jobless sex machines and hence are alpha; and rich guys don't get any pussy simply because they are rich and very busy and hence are simps" is a very flawed argument. Please understand the fact that "game", just like every other aspect of human relations, is not black and white, there will always be grey areas and believe me as far game is concerned, this is one of them. Especially when you take into consideration the Nigerian context where poverty owns the day.
I humbly submit that it's high time we realize that there is game for the "white man" who's economy is good and there's game for the "Nigerian guy" whose economy is trash and is surrounded by hungry girls.
Las Las rich guys get more pussy as far as Nigeria is concerned. So let's just all focus on getting basic game (redpill) first, get some value, money and status, put it together and you'll be unstoppable. My two cents!

Kenogidi:
Dear brothers of the pill, the argument that "broke guys get all the pussy because they are jobless sex machines and hence are alpha; and rich guys don't get any pussy simply because they are rich and very busy and hence are simps" is a very flawed argument. Please understand the fact that "game", just like every other aspect of human relations, is not black and white, there will always be grey areas and believe me as far game is concerned, this is one of them. Especially when you take into consideration the Nigerian context where poverty owns the day.
I humbly submit that it's high time we realize that there is game for the "white man" who's economy is good and there's game for the "Nigerian guy" whose economy is trash and is surrounded by hungry girls.
Las Las rich guys get more pussy as far as Nigeria is concerned. So let's just all focus on getting basic game (redpill) first, get some value, money and status, put it together and you'll be unstoppable. My two cents!

ubunja:
For those wondering why we're strongly silenting any talk of money see the snapshot below.

Here's one thing people here don't seem to get: HYPERGAMY IS ONLY FINANCIAL.

As per hypergamy A woman will always date a man more successful than herself. But when it comes to sex, sex lies outside the sphere of hypergamy. No matter how successful a woman is, a 6pack will always make her wet, REGARDLESS OF WHICH MAN HAS IT. RICH OR POOR. SHORT OR TALL. UGLY OR HANDSOME.

The body game AKA looks, is what separates the Beta from the Alpha. Alphas work with a woman's Lust. That's why they wait to be chosen and only deal with women who crave them.

You gents need to keep up with this shiit. Seriously.