Karleb:


I disagree with this sha.

We don't need to be a feminist to treat a woman or a man right.

SegFault:

I know she did, but beating of women wasn't looked down on then, it's just at the beginning of this millennium that change started coming but e never reach everybody.

pocohantas:


Yes baby…
Good to see you around.

Nonexistent1:
Is that your prayers? It won't work. I have decided that any day a woman gives me daughter of Jezebel as child, I will use her for money ritual. By the way, when I am ready to have my son, I will have him without getting married to any olosho as wife.

greenie77:


No forget say that son whey dey hungry you, las, las na one olosho whey go be your baby mama go contribute her olosho infested 23 chromosomes con add to your own red pilled 23 chromosomes....imagining the pikin una go born!

greenie77:


No forget say that son whey dey hungry you, las, las na one olosho whey go be your baby mama go contribute her olosho infested 23 chromosomes con add to your own red pilled 23 chromosomes....imagining the pikin una go born!

NoToPile:


Any did you say any? Wrong very very wrong, there are hundreds of couples on NL ooo abi no be this NL again


2nd bolded Yimu

I would actually love to hear your view on this matter.

larryjonze:


Have yu ever wondered how those mad women & almajaris beggars on the street get pregnant, seems everyone as someone chasing .... you can never understand what super rich people go thru finding love ... we wey poor na our compensation be that
You wana live in fantasies or disney dreamland please knock yourself out.

Lizzyangel:
I started this thread confused and now I'm feeling as if I arrived at a feminist and red pillers thread, I felt ashamed for what the people doing this has belittled the GREAT
Nairaland I used to know to, how can you people be behaving this way?this is unfair of you all, with so much respect, I'm so disappointed in people involved in this.

Thanks to the good and working comments I've earlier received which is an eye opener and will possibly be my stepping stone to restructuring .

Seun
Lalasticlala
Mynd44
And other mods, you people need to do something about this derailers who take people's emotion as fun, Nairaland is gradually loosing it's glory ,not only this thread but on others recently.

Mr Seun Osewa please do something, this is not the NL I signed up for years ago.


#sad

Lizzyangel:



Thanks for your response, he had been telling me to leave, he even threatened me, to take my life if I insist on staying,atimes , he'd seize the key, lock me out, abuse me and others but I'll still beg him for my kid's sake and he's using this medium to blackmail me.

pocohantas:


Nawa

It is better he gets a virtuous surrogate.

doggedfighter:


How does a virtuous surrogate look like?

Lizzyangel:
I started this thread confused and now I'm feeling as if I arrived at a feminist and red pillers thread, I felt ashamed for what the people doing this has belittled the GREAT
Nairaland I used to know to, how can you people be behaving this way?this is unfair of you all, with so much respect, I'm so disappointed in people involved in this.

Thanks to the good and working comments I've earlier received which is an eye opener and will possibly be my stepping stone to restructuring .

Seun
Lalasticlala
Mynd44
And other mods, you people need to do something about this derailers who take people's emotion as fun, Nairaland is gradually loosing it's glory ,not only this thread but on others recently.

Mr Seun Osewa please do something, this is not the NL I signed up for years ago.


#sad

pocohantas:


They write very well. They can make good money from content writing.

Biglittlelois:



This has got to be a joke, is this the person people are sympathetic for? Lmao

mariahAngel:


Serious o.
If them put head together....

mariahAngel:

Serious o. If them put head together....

Lizzyangel:

Since that April I decided not to buy foodstuff with my salary for that month,I wasn't having a good phone, so I thought, if I'm having a phone,I'd be distracted from his troubles, I got a phone, Tecno pop 4-air for 36k, I started buying school food for my boy and never bought food stuff nor cook for him, sometimes, I wouldn't have enough money to buy soap for washing, I'd buy canoe #120 and wash my kids clothes and leave ours until the next time I have money, I started borrowing money to feed my son and I, diaper and daily expenses were not easy as I didn't buy in bulk,this made him to bring out the real HIM, all this while, I thought he wasn't having,I was playing the role of a wife and a husband, my kids school fees, our transportation to school, day to day needs became clearer that I was carrying a huge load, we became enemies, he'll rage and hit me at the slightest provocation saying I should leave since I'm no longer useful, I don't cook for him, I don't wash his clothes, I don't allow him have his way(intimacy). I live daily with fear of what he's say or do again, then I went back to cooking dinner for all of us, so far, this helped him as he now see reasons why he should follow people to villages in search for cocoa produce to buy, "hunger na bastard"
He started dropping something everyday after going to villages, 2h, 5h, 1k when fortunate 2k and I must make an account for every single thing I buy, I went back to buying foodstuff when may salary arrived and he's now used to working, but I stood my ground that I won't allow him to get me used again, I stopped calling or chatting up during the day, I stopped intimate conversation and stopped sex.



Save me Nairalanders.

Ishilove:

The Folykaze character is too busy being unfortunate to see the prospects of content writing.

FOLYKAZE:
... From this job, I was earning very little but managed to foot all necessary bills for her schooling, accommodation, her well-being and that of my baby. I also renovated that uncompleted building into a tasting simple apartment. During this period I was the best husband and best daddy. Yes, she had it all.

... Many months while she works, she never spend a dime from her earnings. All her money were saved, but mine was meant to be spent to the last penny. She never wanted to bear any financial responsibilities. I took up every necessary bills, even though when it entails monitoring and controlling every damn expenses. This include that of the kid and her own well-being. I systematically stopped footing her bills; clothing, hair making, among others, when I observed that her spending culture was becoming wild.

potland:
fountainofyouth

Efewestern:


Oga, were you expecting a woman to foot the home bills? why are you a man? It's your responsibility to provide, regardless what you or your wife earn.

You have got some fundamental issues.

Sanchez01:

Ideally, we should all be feminists. The major problem with champions of this cause is that they don't know which type of feminism they practice. I align with the philosophy of fourth wave feminism.

BSsniffer:


This is why we need birth control legislation.

Ishilove:

He is a very irresponsible individual. I don't know where women meet these kind of yeye men and even reproduce for them