I'm in my mid thirties, not ugly, a health worker. From the southern part of Nigeria.

Will prefer men not boys from South south or south east. Lives in Lagos.

AS genotype, not much of a talker but cool.

If you are within 38 to 45 dm me, jokers and boys and red pillers stay away.

If there are white men on nairaland you can

dm me as well.

I need a friend that can become a confidant and husband tomorrow.

Modified:

Abroad based brothers are qualified as well.

Reach me on ambeed43@yahoo.com

Ambeed:
I'm in my mid thirties, not ugly, a health worker. From the southern part of Nigeria.

Will prefer men not boys from South south or south east. Lives in Lagos.

AS genotype, not much a talker but cool.

If you within 38 to 45 dm me, jokers stay away.

If there are white men on nairaland you can do me as well.

I need a friend that can become a confidant and husband tomorrow.

Abort mission sis.

Abort.

Cruiser catching Cruise...
BTW try correct front to from @OP.....

All the best.

Romanoff:


Abort mission sis.

Abort.

Why advise with such.....are you sure the OP is not a MAN....save yourself the stress...S/He is just catching fun.

Ambeed:
.

What do you mean by cruiser catching cruise?

Exactly what it means.

Ambeed:


...and you call yourself a writer and expect people to believe you when you can't believe others.

If this is your idea of catching cruise then you need to change your perspective towards certain things.

So I'm not a good writer because of my opinion about your post? Just wow.
LMAO.

Ambeed:


Why impossible? Do we not have good men in here?

All Hawks and bad men avoid me cos I can smell sense scammers from afar.

Pinned...

Romanoff:


Now your insinuation that I met my husband here is obviously false. I met my husband in our church, it was coincidental that we are both Nairalanders.

I don't take lightly to people insulting me or my marriage, choose your next comments carefully.

Be calming down Ma'am...

@Seniorwriter

Romanoff:


Abort mission sis.

Abort.

Why sis?

Seniorwriter:
Cruiser catching Cruise...
BTW try correct front to from @OP.....

All the best.

@Seniorwriter

.

What do you mean by cruiser catching cruise?

Mission impossible

Seniorwriter:
Cruiser catching Cruise...
BTW try correct front to from @OP.....

All the best.

Why advise with such.....are you sure the OP is not a MAN....save yourself the stress...S/He is just catching fun.



Exactly what it means.


@Seniorwriter

...and you call yourself a writer and expect people to believe you when you can't believe others.

If this is your idea of catching cruise then you need to change your perspective towards certain things.

Romanoff:


Abort mission sis.

Abort.

An attitude like yours is rather irritating. I wonder why you have taken to hypocrisy; I mean, apart from you and your husband meeting on Nairaland and gotten married here, before him, you also dated some other men here too. Before I go on, I'm not looking for any hook-up and not interested in OP's proposal, and I wish her nothing but success in her pursuits because I know that there are both good and bad men and women on Nairaland.

Once more, stop being a hypocrite. If you're indirectly saying that yours has been a mistake, I understand; yet, yours shouldn't be a standard.

So many.

MadamVanessa:
Mission impossible

Why impossible? Do we not have good men in here?

All Hawks and bad men avoid me cos I can smell scammers from afar.

RightToReject:


An attitude like yours is rather irritating. I wonder why you have taken to hypocrisy; I mean, apart from you and your husband meeting on Nairaland and gotten married here, before him, you also dated some other men here too. Before I go on, I'm not looking for any hook-up and not interested in OP's proposal, and I wish her nothing but success in her pursuits because I know that there are both good and bad men and women on Nairaland.

Once more, stop being a hypocrite. If you're indirectly saying that yours has been a mistake, I understand; yet, yours shouldn't be a standard.

Now your insinuation that I met my husband here is obviously false. I met my husband in our church, it was coincidental that we are both Nairalanders.

I don't take lightly to people insulting me or my marriage, choose your next comments carefully.

Romanoff:


Now your insinuation that I met my husband here is obviously false. I met my husband in our church, it was coincidental that we are both Nairalanders.


I don't take lightly to people insulting me or my marriage, choose your next comments carefully.

You and I know that both of you met here, but I'm not here to deride you, just stop the hypocrisy, OK.

Ambeed:


Why sis?

You're better off meeting someone in your daily life and routine, you're sure of meeting them as they are.

Here you'll prolly meet people who claim to be who get are not, people who are bitter from previous experiences, people who prolly just want a hook up and very dishonest people.

Just be yourself, don't put it on your mind too much. There are other places you can meet people but online, especially Nairaland, I strongly go against.

And if you're a guy catfishing here, stoppeet.

RightToReject:


You and I know that both of you met here, but I'm not here to deride you, just stop the hypocrisy, OK.

Use what you hold dear to swear that we met here.

Since you're Omniscient and Omnipotent.

Don't sha call me a hypocrite unless you have proof that my husband and I met here. If you don't, just take your L and go.

To the Op, I met my husband in Church, we were friends for years before we took it further. It was even when we started courting we knew each other's Nairaland monikers.

If you're meeting guys on Nairaland, just expect nothing but friendship.

Ambeed:
I'm in my mid thirties, not ugly, a health worker. From the southern part of Nigeria.

Will prefer men not boys from South south or south east. Lives in Lagos.

AS genotype, not much of a talker but cool.

If you are within 38 to 45 dm me, jokers and boys and red pillers stay away.

If there are white men on nairaland you can do me as well.

I need a friend that can become a confidant and husband tomorrow.

Well good thing you mentioned the bolded.

You can meet your husband anywhere even on NL. Seen it happen severally.

Ambeed:
I'm in my mid thirties, not ugly, a health worker. From the southern part of Nigeria.

Will prefer men not boys from South south or south east. Lives in Lagos.

AS genotype, not much of a talker but cool.

If you are within 38 to 45 dm me, jokers and boys and red pillers stay away.

If there are white men on nairaland you can do me as well.

I need a friend that can become a confidant and husband tomorrow.

my dear sister.

may GOD guard through on NYLONLAND.

Romanoff:


Use what you hold dear to swear that we met here.

Since you're Omniscient and Omnipotent.

Don't sha call me a hypocrite unless you have proof that my husband and I met here. If you don't, just take your L and go.

May God take my life within five minutes from now if my posit isn't true according to your husband's submission, which you corroborated. Don't dare me further, lol. I wonder why some of you always lie unnecessarily, even when facts are so glaring and abound.

An evening newspaper is looking for reader.

The wall is imminent so a beta cuck, blue pilled simp is desired.

'A real man'



TRP

RightToReject:


May God take my life within five minutes from now if my posit isn't true according to your husband's submission, which you corroborated. Don't dare me further, lol. I wonder why some of you always lie unnecessarily, even when facts are so glaring and abound.

Well, we didn't meet here.

You just used your life to swear for nothing. My hubby first saw me in church and told his friend that he came with that he would marry me even though he didn't even know my name.

What facts, facts that you read about?

Abeg I no meet my husband for here, I pray for long life for you.

TarOrfeeek:


An evening newspaper is looking for reader.

The wall is imminent so a beta cuck, blue pilled simp is desired.

'A real man'



TRP

Alpha man spotted.

Romanoff:


Well, we didn't meet here.

You just used your life to swear for nothing. My hubby first saw me in church and told his friend that he came with that he would marry me even though he didn't even know my name.

What facts, facts that you read about?

Abeg I no meet my husband for here, I pray for long life for you.

Forget this lie you've just said here. Actually, there's nothing wrong with the fact that both of you met here and so on; it's nothing to be ashamed of because here is like any other avenue of meeting. Your first post on this thread ought not to be so, though.

Wishing you nothing but a healthy married life and good life in general.

RightToReject:


Forget this lie you've just said here. Actually, there's nothing wrong with the fact that both of you met here and so on; it's nothing to be ashamed of because here is like any other avenue of meeting. Your first post on this thread ought not to be so, though.

Wishing you nothing but a healthy married life and good life in general.

I don't know you and telling the truth won't cost me anything. You can't come to my house to beat me so why would I lie?

I have my reasons for my first comment on this post, if it offends you, it wasn't my attention.

Been on this forum longer than you have to be able to make such deductions, not cause people here are bad but cause the internet has had more sad stories than happy endings when it comes to meeting spouses.

Adios.

Romanoff:


I don't know you and telling the truth won't cost me anything. You can't come to my house to beat me so why would I lie?

I have my reasons for my first comment on this post, if it offends you, it wasn't my attention.

Been on this forum longer than you have to be able to make such deductions, not cause people here are bad but cause the internet has had more sad stories than happy endings when it comes to meeting spouses.

Adios.

"Been on this forum longer than you" . . . don't be too sure of that. On the other hand, I'll allow your needless denial about where you and your hubby met to slide. Of course, even as an unregistered member before, I have known you right from the time you were using the moniker that started with "K." More so, as a passive gifted mind reader coupled with my knowledge of the system, I can tell you everything about you or anyone behind any monkier at any given time.

Bye-bye.

No you can't get a good man here, the few good ones like crackhaus, Sir thorpido,Franchasng, pansophist donbachi,chatinent and my one and only SD are all married. Please avoid Monika's like Martinez, ubinja,luminous,icejayz and others associated with redpill, they are on a mission to destroy the institution called marriage and as a strong daughter of Zion I'm trying my best to see them fail.Light over darkness always amen.

RightToReject:


An attitude like yours is rather irritating. I wonder why you have taken to hypocrisy; I mean, apart from you and your husband meeting on Nairaland and gotten married here, before him, you also dated some other men here too. Before I go on, I'm not looking for any hook-up and not interested in OP's proposal, and I wish her nothing but success in her pursuits because I know that there are both good and bad men and women on Nairaland.

Once more, stop being a hypocrite. If you're indirectly saying that yours has been a mistake, I understand; yet, yours shouldn't be a standard.

Op, ignore the bolded, the above moniker is indirectly interested, so send a mail asap

Side note; he has money, mad money

TarOrfeeek:


An evening newspaper is looking for reader.

The wall is imminent so a beta cuck, blue pilled simp is desired.

'A real man'



TRP

Only SIMPs call men going for over 30s ladies simps cos they cannot imagine themselves going for a matured independent mind, they prefer to open unending threads in romance section to cry and wail on how their student girlfriend broke their fragile heart because of urgent 2k.

Romanoff:


Well, we didn't meet here.

You just used your life to swear for nothing. My hubby first saw me in church and told his friend that he came with that he would marry me even though he didn't even know my name.

What facts, facts that you read about?

Abeg I no meet my husband for here, I pray for long life for you.

I wonder why you feel you have to explain yourself, let them assume and speculate whatever they can, it doesnt change your truth.

Some ladies are totally immersed in their jobs and don't even have time dating in real life. If you aren't too busy, guys would definitely be asking you out. My dear you can't find a decent man here. NL is for news and bashing. You may try "Afro-introductions dating site", there are many singles there. Make sure you shine your eyes o, because there are many scammers online. Good luck.

RightToReject:



"Been on this forum longer than you" . . . don't be too sure of that. On the other hand, I'll allow your needless denial about where you and your hubby met to slide. Of course, even as an unregistered member before, I have known you right from the time you were using the moniker that started with "K." More so, as a passive gifted mind reader coupled with my knowledge of the system, I can tell you everything about you or anyone behind any monkier at any given time.

Bye-bye.

men like gods, omini-see all-know-all

This is not fair
You do not know or feel her pain
Just because you are married does not mean others should not
You are not God to judge a process
Many folks have been married through this platform and others too
Therefore, live and lets live
Free this Sis and if I should have my way, I will link her to someone I trust and fit in on what she wants.....

Romanoff:


Abort mission sis.

Abort.

Yes you can, but you'll get a man on nairaland because you deserve, not want him, and you're not going about it the right way. I know of a friend of my friend that found his wife on nairaland, five years ago, and he dm'ed her, and within a year, they are married. This is what I'll advice that you should do.

Pick a topic that you're good at, and kill it. By killing it, it means that you should be a competent voice on it, plastered with your feminine allure. Dont argue, insult or demean others. People can tell what kind of person is behind a moniker by just reading their post. It also helps to have a profile picture, and please I beg you in the name of God, make yourself fine. You may be naturally beautiful facially, but you have no excuse to be fat. You can be the sweetest woman inside, but by nature, men are attracted to appearance first, then will get invested to know more about you.


Just coming to write your desire (marriage), no picture (to command attention), and no depth of your kind of person (by your write up for a reasonable amount of time) is not the right way, and you won't go far far it. Lots of good men are on NL, many browse anonymously, many are scattered on different sections such as in business, investment, auto, travel etc, them plenty. They are also looking for virtuous women, and it's up to you to position yourself as such.

So do not be discouraged, it may take time, it will require some work, but its possible.