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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by kudinkarfe: 7:03pm On Jul 07, 2021
If you marry without job or stable business you might die before your time

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by larryking540: 7:03pm On Jul 07, 2021
no amount is too small or too big to marry ,all that matters lies on the man and the woman

1 ,if he is a hustler ,he will definitely make it quickly
2,if the woman is also a motivator ,the family will make it faster ,not the one that waits for validation on social media o

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Nobody: 7:04pm On Jul 07, 2021
Ok
Again, a woman never forgets the advantage she has over her man in an argument.

All WOMEN insult.
Even Joseph the Father of Jesus to whom MARY was betrothed will still attest to this.
BEST DECISION remains to avoid a Leech & marry a lady that coughs out money and still insults.
Be warned.

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by larryking540: 7:04pm On Jul 07, 2021
Auntiebookie:
The man won't take you serious
,says who
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by samx4real(m): 7:04pm On Jul 07, 2021
No be lie

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by babyfaceafrica: 7:05pm On Jul 07, 2021
ogashman:
Op


What if you are approaching your fifties and still have not made that money, so u die a single man?
anyone poor at 50 shouldn't marry

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by ednut1(m): 7:05pm On Jul 07, 2021
If you allow society pressure you na tears

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by BrazilaAirporta: 7:05pm On Jul 07, 2021
You tried
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by larryking540: 7:05pm On Jul 07, 2021
VillagePipu:
When your wife insults you over money ehn, that love will evaporate.
that one fit happen when u marry who pass u
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by ofiko123(m): 7:06pm On Jul 07, 2021
People get married when they feel like..
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by adewumiopeyemi(m): 7:06pm On Jul 07, 2021
In this post you finally agree money wil buy love cheesy

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by tunapawizzy: 7:06pm On Jul 07, 2021
nothing anyone can tell me about it...e no make sense
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by ofiko123(m): 7:06pm On Jul 07, 2021
ednut1:
If you allow society pressure you na tears

I am telling you.. Na real tears..

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Kobicove(m): 7:07pm On Jul 07, 2021
Rapmoney:
As a young man, DO NOT let anyone, whether married or not to deceive you that money does not matter in marriage. The truth is that money solves more than half of the problems in marriage, especially in a Nigerian society.

This does not mean that you must be a millionaire or be rolling in money, but have the financial capacity to provide the basic things humans need for living, and luxuries inclusive.

Any home you enter where the man commands maximum respect, observe closely, he is living up to his responsibilities as a man. There is no respect from any woman for that man who cannot provide the basic necessities. Don't let anyone deceive you. That girl that tells you today that she will run any length for you will turn to a tigress tomorrow in marriage if the major finance comes from her.

If you would be respected, make sure you have a source of income that brings a substantial amount that can provide basic necessities and at least, modest luxuries.

Nothing but the truth!

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by babyfaceafrica: 7:07pm On Jul 07, 2021
larryking540:

that one fit happen when u marry who pass u
who no pass poor man?

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Ezehillary(m): 7:08pm On Jul 07, 2021
love is important than money

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by tunapawizzy: 7:08pm On Jul 07, 2021
VillagePipu:


Marriage is not by force.
i wonder why people have failed to realize this...marriage isnt by force, marriage can be done at any time

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by MolarT(m): 7:09pm On Jul 07, 2021
IgweOfNnewi:
Lies from the pit from hell, marry a virgin, I repeat marry a virgin without experience, if you have money or not you wouldn't have issues, if you marry a harlot that even give her all heavens she will go to hell to have sex, I know a woman who had a jobless husband, she was more educated and more financially stable than the man that had nothing but they are living well, even the woman took loan several times in her office to buy two cars for him for transportation and some others to buy the house they are living, they have been together for about 9years now.
just wanna ask...do u have sense at all?

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by annisy(f): 7:10pm On Jul 07, 2021
IgweOfNnewi:
Lies from the pit from hell, marry a virgin, I repeat marry a virgin without experience, if you have money or not you wouldn't have issues, if you marry a harlot that even give her all heavens she will go to hell to have sex, I know a woman who had a jobless husband, she was more educated and more financially stable than the man that had nothing but they are living well, even the woman took loan several times in her office to buy two cars for him for transportation and some others to buy the house they are living, they have been together for about 9years now.
Don't be deceived by what you see!!! If that man open up to you what he is passing through behind closed door, you will know they are far from leaving well

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by elganzar(m): 7:10pm On Jul 07, 2021
ogashman:
Op


What if you are approaching your fifties and still have not made that money, so u die a single man?


Yess o, if you want peace...
Marriage is not by force...The rate women are killing you people is alarming
If you're Hot you have load of options_ when it's settled, gently drink your gaari ...Nobody will insult u

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by clitah: 7:10pm On Jul 07, 2021
My babe just tell me say she dey even consider to marry me despite the age difference.
If say pepper dey well we'll, she for no talk that shit.

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by VillagePipu: 7:11pm On Jul 07, 2021
larryking540:

that one fit happen when u marry who pass u

My brother, if mouth dry, woman wey no reach you go insult you.

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by kudinkarfe: 7:11pm On Jul 07, 2021
Ezehillary:
love is important than money
If poverty do you, you no go know when you hate your partner

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by IgweOfNnewi: 7:11pm On Jul 07, 2021
MolarT:
just wanna ask...do u have sense at all?
You can turn to your father, you should be asking him
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by nextstep(m): 7:11pm On Jul 07, 2021
So what I'm hearing is: "men, work hard, get money, get married, then spend all your money on maintaning a wife, with children" angry

Abegi... this country has enough children. Men, use your money to travel abroad, treat yourself to a spa in Asia, spend a week in the Bahamas, chill out in our Lagos resorts.

With no dependents, you can save up enough to enjoy this world, instead of spending your every waking hour being a walking wallet.

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by VillagePipu: 7:11pm On Jul 07, 2021
clitah:
My babe just tell me say she dey even consider to marry me despite the age difference.
If say pepper dey well we'll, she for no talk that shit.

You never get babe.

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by mofedamijo(m): 7:11pm On Jul 07, 2021
Even the extremely wealthy are divorcing. Know your woman and work with her with what you have. What you think might be financially stable might be totally unstable for some women.

Even if you earn cool and live comfortably, some women will call you a pauper. Whereas, even when you don't have much, some women will stand by you till there is a change.

Some women will help you up the ladder, some will pull you down with your finances.

Choose wisely.

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by aribisala0(m): 7:12pm On Jul 07, 2021
"financially stable" Hmm
What guarantee is there that after marrying you won't lose your job, lose your business , health etc.
Do you know the statistics of okada riders that lose limbs daily whilst hustling
Life is complex .If your situation is great it is not because you are smarter than others.

Whether married or not a young man should be up and doing but there is never any guarantee of tomorrow. Pray that if your situation changes your wife will be there for you. With Naija women that is a long thing

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Mustiboy(m): 7:12pm On Jul 07, 2021
It's not a must you marry as a man.

A time will come when this thing they call marriage will become very unnecessary.

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Finchmgh: 7:14pm On Jul 07, 2021
saphiere:
Also advise them to not impregnate a girl and run leaving her to suffer alone.
That's for the girl to decide.
That choice or decision is entirely up to her.

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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by IgweOfNnewi: 7:14pm On Jul 07, 2021
annisy:

Don't be deceived by what you see!!! If that man open up to you what he is passing through behind closed door, you will know they are far from leaving well
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by IgweOfNnewi: 7:14pm On Jul 07, 2021
annisy:

Don't be deceived by what you see!!! If that man open up to you what he is passing through behind closed door, you will know they are far from leaving well
What I see? or what I know, does the detailed description looks like just what I see?.

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