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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Kirkman: 11:38pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Quim2:So upon your old age, you still dey find curvy light skinned lady. You still dey play choices game. Na wa for you o! So if the one God has destined for you is now dark skinned will you throw her away? 1 Like |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Paulakosu(m): 11:44pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Any man that cannot meet up with the basic needs of life (i.e. food, clothing and shelter) and is thinking of going into marriage is just insane... Which lady will even accept you 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Lightway: 11:49pm On Jul 07, 2021 |
Romanoff: You boyfriend posted it on nairaland when he proposed 1 Like |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by EmmaLege: 12:10am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Rapmoney: true talk brother 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Ifakiland(m): 12:20am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Rapmoney:Typical Nigerian he goat, thinking money can buy respect and love. Lol you SIMPs never seize to amaze someone with your high level stupidity 1 Like |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by MVLOX(m): 12:21am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Rapmoney: I need to save this thread for future purpose..... My son needs to read this 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Ifakiland(m): 12:23am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Typical Nigerian he goat, thinking money can buy respect and love. Lol you SIMPs never seize to amaze someone with your high level stupidity |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by pansophist(m): 12:45am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Rubbiish: Why not quote me directly? All this kpomo men sef To the topic, contentment is fluid, it is not something that is benchmarked on a particular amount before it (contentment) has an effect. A good example of contentment are the northern shoe cobblers, hawkers, finger nail trimmers and cloth sewers. Think about it, you'll hardly hear or see an hausa man on the news stealing, engaging in ritualist or Internet fraud, even if they are the poorest and largest ethnic group in Nigeria. Thats what contentment does to you. It kills envy for others, it's being at peace with yourself regardless of your earnings, with a sense of gratitude to top it all. I admire that trait in the Northerners, and it something you should learn from them. So my guy, the instant way to be rich right now, na you just comot mind for all the things wey you no fit afford. No go kill yaself. And next time, get balls quote me, no de go through woman, you hear? cc. Bukatyne 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Savagethe21st(m): 12:59am On Jul 08, 2021 |
pansophist:northerners are kidnappers and bandits oh 1 Like |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by BSsniffer: 1:00am On Jul 08, 2021 |
It depends. You can actually get married and decide to suspend having kids till you reach a certain level financially. You both can hustle it out then when you reach a certain level start shooting for kids. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by purples25(f): 1:04am On Jul 08, 2021 |
I read "Marrying A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable. " |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by ubola: 3:58am On Jul 08, 2021 |
vickydankal:You just nailed it dear. Continue to be a source of inspiration to young couple. Tell them to be up and doing as young men. Success is not for lazy people. 2 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by deltateam: 4:00am On Jul 08, 2021 |
yomi007k: Eheh nah. Abi how dem wan take born Bomboi? |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by deltateam: 4:03am On Jul 08, 2021 |
babyfaceafrica: Not everyone took cerelac. Enter village reason grandma make she formulate wetin she take raise your momsy and popsy dem. Make una no dey yarn dis kain okpaka nah. 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Vireani79: 4:09am On Jul 08, 2021 |
And after having ur steady source of income U marry And things goes bad What next Look all these rules and regulations are good What matters most is being financial smart Have sound financial IQ Cos nothing is sure Only the ability to find means of creating income is the best tool to sustain a marriage 1 Like |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by ubola: 4:22am On Jul 08, 2021 |
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Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Chochovini: 4:46am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Ruggman:. In that case, my question is “ IS MARRIAGE A MUST FOR EVERYONE |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Quim2: 4:57am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Kirkman: Where she dey since wey i dey suffer? I guess it's now a crime to make a choice in these things. Trust me, i worked and still work really hard to get what i want and God will give me something close this month Thanks 4 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Chochovini: 5:01am On Jul 08, 2021 |
kzubyar:. Thats a name of one of the clubs in Scotland championship. 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Optim1: 5:09am On Jul 08, 2021 |
This is why it is good to have a business that brings in extra income before going in to marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by AnI77: 5:23am On Jul 08, 2021 |
ogashman: It is not compulsory to marry and you can join the league of the defeated at any time if you like. |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by aribisala0(m): 6:00am On Jul 08, 2021 |
mofedamijo:I chose long time ago There is no option of foolish or wise choosing just luck People change after marriage and there is no wisdom to allow anyone predict that Goodbye 1 Like |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by JOACHINpedro: 6:04am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Op you just made marriage look scary Infact I'm leaving the marriage for una unless I build a castle I don't see need to marry. Before then, I wish you all well in marriage 1 Like |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Kirkman: 7:14am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Quim2:Amen o! Keep praying and never give up. What is yours will locate you soon. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Uniquekriss(m): 7:28am On Jul 08, 2021 |
IgweOfNnewi:this kinda encourages laziness. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Freelane33(m): 7:36am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Mr go marry a virgin , you are not an exception , go marry a virgin with an empty pocket or an unsatisfactory level of income and come back here to tell us your experience. I come in peace sir / ma IgweOfNnewi: |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by yassjib: 7:42am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Nothing but the truth, candid advice for the upcoming. I have married for 9 yrs now. I told my mother in-law that I have to get a job 1st before getting married but she said that I shouldn't worry that job will definitely come that I shouldn't mind, I agreed. To cut a long story short, after our 1st two kids my wife got a job with d FFS with d help from her mother side thinking that everything will be okay after d job since me I am not all that financially stable but the all things turned upside down. She started taking authorities over our homes since she have become d bread winner for now. Her mother started taking her side even if she is wrong as she started sending more money to her mum. I was not having peace again in our home because we both pay bills together she started feeling as if she does more. She and her mum collide together and brought her 25yr old sister to come and stay with us and that turned my home to hell. Pls guys be averagely better financially before getting marry 6 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by anointedlinks: 7:52am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Gerrard59(m): 7:54am On Jul 08, 2021 |
authority2006: But as a married man, your kids are expected to leave when they are 18 and divorce/separation is possible in his 50s or 60s |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by echodrum(m): 8:02am On Jul 08, 2021 |
ogashman:before nko? Or what do you suggest?. Produce a child that you can not be able to raise so that the child will become a criminal or suffer for 50 years and end up producing more problematic children. Making children is not a must biko nu. If you try and you don't have, just focus on yourself and take care of yourself as much as you can. 1 Like |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by Gerrard59(m): 8:04am On Jul 08, 2021 |
obembet: Ned Nwoko, Razak Okoya, Oscar Onyema, Peter Ashade, Donald Trump etc., all had kids at 50+. And there are many unpopular men who went same route. The mantra is to plan so well (with backup plans) to train them in good schools and provide a comfortable life for them. This belief that you should your savings to sponsor kids in schools when it should have been your investments' returns is wrong. People should plan well because the Nigeria of today will be a paradise compared to 2031. Marriage open doors. Just marry the right woman That is not true. If so, more doors would have been opened for Nigerians which would have reflected in the GDP rate. Or else, Nigerians are marrying the wrong partners. 3 Likes |
Re: Marrying As A Man When You Are Not Financially Stable by kokoboy4life(m): 8:04am On Jul 08, 2021 |
Blueelf: So all the people that got married in those cities you mentioned above earns 500k per month 1 Like |
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