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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by olite93(m): 2:00am On Jul 08, 2021
sweetshisha:
cool



You are an introvert , no big deal.

In other to help yourself you must set a goal daily to speak with a lady or two daily, try simple lines like " excuse me, do you stay around here, I like your looks, can I have your number, can we be friends" highest she'll say No, or walk off.. but slowly you'll start getting over the sense of embarassment and start replacing it with jokes like " She no even fine sef" , "girl wey I won manage"


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Abeg u bam... Confam nigga

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by LivingTribunal: 2:36am On Jul 08, 2021
Facts111:
is there any drug or medication that i can take to make me overcome shyness ?...

Smoke weed grin
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by BluntCrazeMan: 4:16am On Jul 08, 2021
Facts111:
Good day everyone..

I'll be 24 next month. The problem now is that am too shy. I don't have confidence. I don't have any girlfriend (am too shy to speak to a lady). You can wrongly accuse me and i will went away crying.

I am the first born of a family of six. A man once accused me of sleeping with his wife (the woman in question senior my mama) and i was like "me ? Me ? Me ? " and I went inside crying.

The only friend i have is my phone. The thing is affecting me seriously. I can't eat in public. I can't insult. I can't even look at your face to talk anything.... I talk alot inside... Am an online keyboard wariorr..

One boy was telling me yesterday to join 'cult' to improve. Though am thinking of it. People take me for a fool. Nairaland is my best website.

Please doctors in the house, is there any drug or medication that i can take to make me overcome shyness ?...
Wrong choices and wrong decisions kept your here at the first place.
And you're about to make more wrong choices.
You're actually considering joining Cult?
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by BluntCrazeMan: 4:18am On Jul 08, 2021
Facts111:

Thank you... But what of those taking advantage of my simple life. Any advice?
Solve “Number-1” first before rushing to solve “Number-2”
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Hoodyrich(m): 5:17am On Jul 08, 2021
You need to build up your mind. Stick with people that sees your value and relavance,every single situation that makes you feel shy;face it,build up a pattern around it don't you run from it.
This the only way you can be free and happy.
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by donshady(m): 6:44am On Jul 08, 2021
Facts111:

Ok.
You're suffering from Low testosterone, and low libido. You have to quit porn and masturbation so you can save your semen(Semen is your Life force). The more you waste it, the more you become weaker and unmotivated to approach woman because your have trained your mind to be satisfied with the screen instead of a real fleshy woman.

To boost your testosterone level, you need to quit porn and masturbation. And start your Nofap journey.

This is the time to start lifting weights. Hit the gym
Weight lifting increases testosterone, builds your muscle and put you in a more attractive shape.

Start eating clean. Stop sodas, coke, sugary stuffs and the rest. Eat more veggies, fruits, eggs.

Take supplements like maca, Hot goat weed, supplement with Macro and micro nutrient to restore loss nutrients due to effect of masturbation.

Quit alcohol.

After 2 weeks, you'll notice a big change. It's big going to be easy but you have to be determined.

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Joelobioha(m): 7:05am On Jul 08, 2021
Elock1:
Lol na so e be oh.. If chronic shyness timidity dy hold person you fit die of depression baba..

E better sef say you never chop than when u go house dy reason wetin ur shyness make you miss.

Me like this I for Don go extra extra far to say I been start correct am on time. But it's well.
me I dey very shy but with time I don dey open up..still upgrading

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by XavierD(f): 7:17am On Jul 08, 2021
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You have low self esteem my dear.

Possibly because you have listened to negative voices in your head for too long.

Try discover good things about your self and think about your good side.

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Clinghton: 7:26am On Jul 08, 2021
If you're truly an 'online keyboard' you can search on how to overcome shyness.
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by waploger(m): 8:47am On Jul 08, 2021
Albertone:

Oh I thought as much.
I love the seas

till now i can't talk to a girl while looking to her face.
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Binnoadams111: 9:11am On Jul 08, 2021
Facts111:
Good day everyone..

I'll be 24 next month. The problem now is that am too shy. I don't have confidence. I don't have any girlfriend (am too shy to speak to a lady). You can wrongly accuse me and i will went away crying.

I am the first born of a family of six. A man once accused me of sleeping with his wife (the woman in question senior my mama) and i was like "me ? Me ? Me ? " and I went inside crying.

The only friend i have is my phone. The thing is affecting me seriously. I can't eat in public. I can't insult. I can't even look at your face to talk anything.... I talk alot inside... Am an online keyboard wariorr..

One boy was telling me yesterday to join 'cult' to improve. Though am thinking of it. People take me for a fool. Nairaland is my best website.

Please doctors in the house, is there any drug or medication that i can take to make me overcome shyness ?...


E get wetin your eyes go see ,shyness go clear from am. You're shy cos you haven't experienced life drama that would wash shyness off your eyes. Almost every one was born shy until life visited either the soft way or the hard way. Soft way is when real good money meets you, it drives away the shyness , while the hard way if poverty and hardship jointly meet you... Imagine as the first born of your family and your parents are no More, and you are left to work hard and cater for yourself and young ones, my brother that shy shy go clear for your eyes. You go wild gan. You have parents giving you food to eat and cloth to Wear and other provisions . So for now enjoy being an introvert while you masturbate indoors. You no get problem!

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by choblak(m): 9:15am On Jul 08, 2021
Lordofalmajiri:
Be yourself, everything will fall In place.

Na gode baba na
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by choblak(m): 9:17am On Jul 08, 2021
Elock1:
we plenty Sha.. I have only one friend I can call a friend.

But I have been improving of late tho... I can now start a convo with anyone I like.

Problem is I still can't sustain it.. But when I come around now.. They are like my gee.

Same here with if I start a conversation I get hooked along the line
I will start looking dumb
Sometimes I prefer to be alone and I will be avoiding to associate with people
I will just talking with my brains
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Olibboy: 9:26am On Jul 08, 2021
Facts111:
Good day everyone..

I'll be 24 next month. The problem now is that am too shy. I don't have confidence. I don't have any girlfriend (am too shy to speak to a lady). You can wrongly accuse me and i will went away crying.

I am the first born of a family of six. A man once accused me of sleeping with his wife (the woman in question senior my mama) and i was like "me ? Me ? Me ? " and I went inside crying.

The only friend i have is my phone. The thing is affecting me seriously. I can't eat in public. I can't insult. I can't even look at your face to talk anything.... I talk alot inside... Am an online keyboard wariorr..

One boy was telling me yesterday to join 'cult' to improve. Though am thinking of it. People take me for a fool. Nairaland is my best website.

Please doctors in the house, is there any drug or medication that i can take to make me overcome shyness ?...
double cup and go to mars
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Elock1: 10:11am On Jul 08, 2021
choblak:


Same here with if I start a conversation I get hooked along the line
I will start looking dumb
Sometimes I prefer to be alone and I will be avoiding to associate with people
I will just talking with my brains

Lol I understand you Sha... Me I devised a means that work for me most times.

I will just say with a smile "omo na so the matter be oh, story Don finish for my mouth sha"

Most times they end up laughing and it eases your tension it... If the person reacts well you may go ahead and say "oya bring your own"

Now the ball is in his court to keep the discussion alive wink

With the number of people I see having such issues here, I think we should open a whatsapp group to encourage people. What do you think?

Facts111
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Elock1: 10:12am On Jul 08, 2021
choblak:


Same here with if I start a conversation I get hooked along the line
I will start looking dumb
Sometimes I prefer to be alone and I will be avoiding to associate with people
I will just talking with my brains

Lol I understand you Sha... Me I devised a means that work for me most times.

I will just say with a smile "omo na so the matter be oh, story Don finish for my mouth sha"

Most times they end up laughing and it eases your tension it... If the person reacts well you may go ahead and say "oya bring your own"

Now the ball is in his court to keep the discussion alive wink

With the number of people I see having such issues here, I think we should open a whatsapp group to encourage people. What do you think?

Facts111
Albertone
Joelobioha

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by daxon001(m): 10:26am On Jul 08, 2021
OnlyDeCapPlease:


First of all. Don't join cult. It won't change anything.

Shy people alway take themselves too seriously and think that everybody is watching them or has time for them. Wrong!

Shy people tend to think that other people are easily doing things but it's difficult for them. Wrong!

Learn not to take yourself too seriously. It's not that important. It's ok to be wrong or foolish or mumu or be rejected. Shy people have a problem dealing with rejection. So you get rejected? Fvck em all! You get told off? Fvck em all! Someone laughs at You? Fvck em all! Someone gives you "that look"? Fvck em all! Someone insults you? Fvck em all! All these things don't kill, e nor go commot anything for your body. People often do those things to embarrass you or get a reaction from you. They get annoyed when they can't get any visible reaction from you. That's not your problem.

Pick one day. Call that day you "fvck ya'll" day. On that day do or say anything that comes to your mind. Damn the consequences and just do it for that day. If anyone gets angry, just say I'm sorry, but in you mind say "fvck you", and then carry on doing things. Just don't break the law or physically fight anyone.

Try it and let me know how it went.

If you know how well this post is sitting inside my inside ehn... thanks
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Galatians: 10:51am On Jul 08, 2021
Facts111:
Good day everyone..

I'll be 24 next month. The problem now is that am too shy. I don't have confidence. I don't have any girlfriend (am too shy to speak to a lady). You can wrongly accuse me and i will went away crying.

I am the first born of a family of six. A man once accused me of sleeping with his wife (the woman in question senior my mama) and i was like "me ? Me ? Me ? " and I went inside crying.

The only friend i have is my phone. The thing is affecting me seriously. I can't eat in public. I can't insult. I can't even look at your face to talk anything.... I talk alot inside... Am an online keyboard wariorr..

One boy was telling me yesterday to join 'cult' to improve. Though am thinking of it. People take me for a fool. Nairaland is my best website.

Please doctors in the house, is there any drug or medication that i can take to make me overcome shyness ?...
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Goddyj(m): 11:41am On Jul 08, 2021
In all you do to improve your self confidence, bro, don't join cult, don't do drugs and lastly, don't masturbate.

I was once like you but, but now I roll with the finest babes in the neighborhood.
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by choblak(m): 12:02pm On Jul 08, 2021
Elock1:


Lol I understand you Sha... Me I devised a means that work for me most times.

I will just say with a smile "omo na so the matter be oh, story Don finish for my mouth sha"

Most times they end up laughing and it eases your tension it... If the person reacts well you may go ahead and say "oya bring your own"

Now the ball is in his court to keep the discussion alive wink

With the number of people I see having such issues here, I think we should open a whatsapp group to encourage people. What do you think?

Facts111
Albertone
Joelobioha

Correct am in bro
I will also like to meet people like me outside this platform
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Elock1: 12:39pm On Jul 08, 2021
choblak:


Correct am in bro
I will also like to meet people like me outside this platform
Whatsapp or Nairaland thread.
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by HRprof: 12:50pm On Jul 08, 2021
Facts111:
Good day everyone..

I'll be 24 next month. The problem now is that am too shy. I don't have confidence. I don't have any girlfriend (am too shy to speak to a lady). You can wrongly accuse me and i will went away crying.

I am the first born of a family of six. A man once accused me of sleeping with his wife (the woman in question senior my mama) and i was like "me ? Me ? Me ? " and I went inside crying.

The only friend i have is my phone. The thing is affecting me seriously. I can't eat in public. I can't insult. I can't even look at your face to talk anything.... I talk alot inside... Am an online keyboard wariorr..

One boy was telling me yesterday to join 'cult' to improve. Though am thinking of it. People take me for a fool. Nairaland is my best website.

Please doctors in the house, is there any drug or medication that i can take to make me overcome shyness ?...

Is not a problem at the same time is a problem.
Is a problem because you are a man, you are suffering from low self-esteem, as a man you will find it difficult to face challenge in the society which is paramount, people with this kind of attribute often time are the people that commit suicide easily if not checked. I am not here to condem you but just an advise. You are young now start working on yourself.
I have a friend who is having same challenge and his is in his late 30's and currently he think is a spiritual problem and keep running from one church to another for deliverance. Please try and socialized. You need to be man to succeed in this country called Nigeria.
Who is a man ? A man is some one who can stand up for challenge and ready to face his fear.
My 2 kobo

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by kendological(m): 1:36pm On Jul 08, 2021
I was effeminate,
I was bullied,
I masturbate and enjoy it,
I don't have a girlfriend and I don't care, until I find a sincere lady,
I am handsome
I was hated and mocked,
I couldn't walk boldly when people stare at me,
I was disrespected, even by my parents,
But today...
I am struggling to get some of my former self, in order to be less distrusting, aggressive and to be more sympathetic.
In fact people made me lose my old self.
Today my confidence, strength and "no bleeps attitude" scares people.
Work on being successful, forget women for now, masturbate and Bleep when necessary, but you must not.

Stop worrying about people, especially gossips and those who disrespect you, they aren't worth your stress, show them your middle finger if you wish.

Stop trying to impress anyone but yourself.

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Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by dadasupremacy(m): 3:12pm On Jul 08, 2021
Start drinking beer it's builds confidence
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by choblak(m): 6:16pm On Jul 08, 2021
Elock1:

Whatsapp or Nairaland thread.

I think both
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Elock1: 6:22pm On Jul 08, 2021
choblak:


I think both
Oya start na.. Numbers and way to go about it
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Guyman111: 8:27pm On Jul 08, 2021
kodded:


Who cares about what she says ? undecided

She should be privileged that my guy is using her to learn on how to talk to a woman, not all women have that opportunity you know undecided
Woman wey no gree follow u talk don suffer
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by choblak(m): 8:45pm On Jul 08, 2021
Elock1:
Oya start na.. Numbers and way to go about it

Sorry I would have loved to manage but am busy here in school

If u think u can do it just help us do it
Tank u
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by kodded(m): 10:01pm On Jul 08, 2021
Guyman111:

Woman wey no gree follow u talk don suffer
Wetin concern me with women wey no want talk to me?

If she no like me, another woman go like me undecided
Re: Am I Normal ?... Am Too Shy by Albertone(m): 10:07am On Jul 09, 2021
Elock1:

Me sef no dy read oh.. Na YouTube be my book.. I even get about 3gb night sub bonus for YouTube alone

How do you read on youtube? shocked





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