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Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by Realtalk20: 7:04am On Jul 12, 2021
Cousin9999:
I'm not Catholic, but:

Pedro Poveda

At past 6am grin

Talking 4 life my guy grin
Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by Todetayo(m): 7:23am On Jul 12, 2021
YorubaKinging:
The end is near

Catholicism is a fake religion

Since it gave birth to all Christianity practiced today,,

It's safe to say modern Christianity is a fake religion

Our Lord and savior knew this before it happened

The time comes when the true believers will worship GOD in truth and in spirit

Going to church doesn't guarantee you eternity

Believe in God, and obey his commandments

Verily I say unto you, Christianity will lead many into hell


Point of correction bro, Catholicism never gave birth to Christianity, it is safe to say that Catholicism is the first denomination to divert from the one true church that was established by the Bible.....
If you're a Christan, then were the seven churches of Asia Catholic?
Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by Todetayo(m): 7:25am On Jul 12, 2021
breathelove:

Sir, I still believe that we should be able to call out what is wrong.
When we loss a family member, we expect the church to come around and support.
Remember the scripture, mourn with those that mourn.
We cannot condone religion extorting a grieving family.
What would Christ do?
Chimamanda may be the most vocal but she is not the only one that has left the church because of this.
We can do better. There is no excuse to estort a grieving family.
You talked about Paul writing different letters to the various churches so let me end by quoting the words of Paul 1 corinthians 1.10 I appeal to you, brothers and sisters, in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ, that all of you agree with one another in what you say and that there be no divisions among you, but that you be perfectly united in mind and thought.
Why should you wait for the church to conduct a burial when even Jesus Christ said "let the dead bury their dead?
Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by Nobody: 7:35am On Jul 12, 2021
So true, my parents were almost ban because l married an Anglican. My parents didn't even attend my white wedding for the fear of banning them.
It was so horrible that the priest in charge of our then church, queried me about my plans to marry a non Catholic and how l was choosing darkness over light for agreeing to marry an Anglican.
My late dad wasn't given a full burial rite because of that but God pass them.

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Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by JayB11(m): 7:37am On Jul 12, 2021
godlessmind:



Lol I'm happy you will remain a slave to the foreign religion that was used to enslaved your ancestors. Black ppl will never get sense

If you don't believe in God entirely, I DO. We are two different persons here; i don't have a problem if you worship the Moon, but i will have a problem with you when you don't get rid of me.

Pack and go.

I BELIEVE IN GOD THE FATHER ALMIGHTY, CREATOR OF HEAVEN AND EARTH, AND IN JESUS CHRIST, HIS ONLY BEGOTTEN SON OUR LORD.......

I BELIEVE IN THE HOLY SPIRIT, THE HOLY CATHOLIC CHURCH, THE COMMUNION OF SAINTS, THE FORGIVENESS OF SINS, THE RESURRECTION OF THE BODY, AND LIFE EVERLASTING.

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Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by samuelevans(m): 7:45am On Jul 12, 2021
I'm sorry to say, i hate this church because they worship Mary and not Jesus. what makes you people think Mary the Mother of Jesus is different from other women in the Bible? because she was a virgin when she gave birth? Matthew 12 vs 47-49. Says Someone told Jesus Christ, “Your mother and your brothers are standing outside, and they want to Speak to you. But Jesus replied, Who is My mother, and who are My brothers Pointing to His disciples, He said, Here are My mother and My brothers. For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother" So why do you bow and worship the image of Mary after the Lord God has also warn not to bow down for any other gods (Exodus 20 vs 5), am not a born again Christian but not pleased with their doctrine.
Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by Babathanks(m): 7:56am On Jul 12, 2021
Bleep this woman, using your own Igbo ideology to judge the catholism is disgusting because everybody knows that igbos like money pass human being. "Bleep you again madam" proudly Catholic ���
Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by JayB11(m): 7:56am On Jul 12, 2021
Chukwuzobam89:
So true, my parents were almost ban because l married an Anglican. My parents didn't even attend my white wedding for the fear of banning them.
It was so horrible that the priest in charge of our then church, queried me about my plans to marry a non Catholic and how l was choosing darkness over light for agreeing to marry an Anglican.
My late dad wasn't given a full burial rite because of that but God pass them.

I have been a Catholic ever since i was born, i studied at the Catholic Minor Seminary (for 6 good years), and i am still a Catholic. I have never seen this horrible encounter where the Church did all these things.

Lets be frank here, it is best to say "Your Priest" or "the Church Council" was responsible for that, but i doubt if it was a compliance in regards to Holy See.

When i was at the Minor Seminary, my Dad wasn't even Catholic, but i was admitted, my Dad attends ECWA and the school authority knew. If the Church were strict as you sounded, i would have been withdrawn.

Again, i have a friend who also attended a Catholic Minor Seminary different from mine, he graduated there and applied to become a Priest. However, he was declined the opportunity cos his Dad had two Wives. Here, the Church was fair. Infact, we both know that Christianity frowns at a Man having two Wives. But even when my friend's Dad passed away, more than 2 Priest were at his burial, accordingly.

Priest are Humans too, they have tendency of being a Fanatic or Extremist. So i will tell anybody again, it is the Priest.

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Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by SunTzu123(m): 7:59am On Jul 12, 2021
festacman:
If Chimmanda Adichie decides to be an atheist, she has the free will to go ahead and do that provided she loves her fellow human beings, obey the law and pay her tax. Chikena!

By the reality is the Church is an assemblage of imperfect CHILDREN who are striving to love and please their FATHER in appreciation of His love and providence. You need to understand this to rise above the limitations of fellow CHILDREN running the Church and focus on pleasing the FATHER. If you, an imperfect being, uses logic and seeks perfection from fellow imperfect beings, you will lose focus and then stop finding "meaning".

You just nailed it. We need to know what the "Church" is.
Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by MummyD2020(f): 7:59am On Jul 12, 2021
jesusjnr2020:
You're right that sexism is still prevalent in the church and the woman is still being treated by church leaders and Christians as the cause of man's downfall despite that Jesus had redeemed her from the curse of her sin. So that's not in question.

However in your own case, it's a matter of the curse of knowledge and fame etc., which is pride but the end thereof is destruction.

I hope God humbles you and makes you go through things that would make you realize how far you've strayed from the Truth so you can retrace your footsteps.

God bless.

What if you were the one deprived of burial just because of money, will you be able to go to that church with your whole heart? Or is treating someone like a second class citizen now a norm? Christianity is whole, not in part. Abeg

Remember what Jesus did to the woman at the well? Who are we then to segregate?
Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by JayB11(m): 8:01am On Jul 12, 2021
Babathanks:
Bleep this woman, using your own Igbo ideology to judge the catholism is disgusting because everybody knows that igbos like money pass human being. "Bleep you again madam" proudly Catholic ���

I am not happy with the fact that you called out that "bleep"......LOL, forgive me. But you are so right. They use "Igbo ideology" to judge in the Church. I have never seen "Holy See" giving such terrible directives. It is rather their Priest or Church Council.

I attended a Catholic Minor Seminary for six years, and my Dad is not even a Catholic. They know he attends ECWA.

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Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by BRATISLAVA: 8:06am On Jul 12, 2021
samuelgodson:
Judging d entire church based on d foolishness of some members of obviously a local parish.......Catholic till d end

You aren't Christian, you're Catholic.
Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by MummyD2020(f): 8:07am On Jul 12, 2021
InvertedHammer:
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LOL.

As expected.

Once you move to US as a Catholic or Anglican, chances are high that you will abandon them when you start reading American history especially the part that yielded the separation of the church from the state. It is an eye-opener not the brainwashing that goes on in Nigeria. The moment you start getting in touch with your inner spirituality marks the beginning of your freedom from mental slavery called religion. Some people erroneously tag it atheism. The best approach is always to excuse their ignorance.

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They have churches there but the simplicity is top notch . Preaching is excellent and calming. Everything no be fight.. Walai, God is everywhere

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Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by MummyD2020(f): 8:08am On Jul 12, 2021
InvertedHammer:
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LOL.

As expected.

Once you move to US as a Catholic or Anglican, chances are high that you will abandon them when you start reading American history especially the part that yielded the separation of the church from the state. It is an eye-opener not the brainwashing that goes on in Nigeria. The moment you start getting in touch with your inner spirituality marks the beginning of your freedom from mental slavery called religion. Some people erroneously tag it atheism. The best approach is always to excuse their ignorance.

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They have churches there but their simplicity is top notch . Preaching is excellent and calming. Everything no be fight.. Walai, God is everywhere

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Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by JayB11(m): 8:09am On Jul 12, 2021
samuelevans:
I'm sorry to say, i hate this church because they worship Mary and not Jesus. what makes you people think Mary the Mother of Jesus is different from other women in the Bible? because she was a virgin when she gave birth? Matthew 12 vs 47-49. Says Someone told Jesus Christ, “Your mother and your brothers are standing outside, and they want to Speak to you. But Jesus replied, Who is My mother, and who are My brothers Pointing to His disciples, He said, Here are My mother and My brothers. For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother" So why do you bow and worship the image of Mary after the Lord God has also warn not to bow down for any other gods (Exodus 20 vs 5), am not a born again Christian but not pleased with their doctrine.

You may need to ask the angel who visited Mary with these words "Hail Mary, full of grace". To "hail" is to "honor"..... we honor Mary, not "worship".

We also do not worship images nor idols....you need to visit the Church and understand how it rolls, you cannot judge a book by its cover. Find any Catholic Church and get knowledgeable ideas from the Priest or Members there....cos we won't finish it here.
Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by JayB11(m): 8:14am On Jul 12, 2021
Orc13:
I believe from experience that the same Catholicism we profess in Nigeria us entirely different from the one obtainable in South East Nigeria.

The points Ms Adichie raised are just typical of the excessive nature of South East Catholics.

I'm a Catholic from the North. The treatment I receive from Priests from the Eastern stock who were raised & ordained in the North is different from those typically bred in the South East.

Bros, you say no more. I am also a Catholic from the North. I attended a Catholic Minor Seminary too, and they knew that my dad isn't even a Catholic, he still attends ECWA. Chimamanda had an encounter with a Priest who is independent with his ruling. So why would she tag it Catholic, asif it was an encounter with the Holy See.

Even if my GRANDFATHER was born & raised in South East, he can NEVER be a Cathecist, talk more of becoming a MINOR Seminarian, worst a Priest! Who born am well.

Our Igbo brethren have their own version of Catholicism. Shikenan!
Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by Fanuchi007: 8:16am On Jul 12, 2021
Sugardick:
Currently reading Americanah.


I find people who shout FTC as babies and fools in real life hmmm just thinking out loud undecided
The only baby and fool here is you. You are so full of foolishness that you don't understand when people de just catch cruise.
Some of the people who catch cruise for being the FTC, if u see them for real life, na sir/ma you go call them.
How much moni maturtrity don deposit for your account angry angry
Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by Babathanks(m): 8:29am On Jul 12, 2021
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I am not happy with the fact that you called out that "bleep"......LOL, forgive me. But you are so right. They use "Igbo ideology" to judge in the Church. I have never seen "Holy See" giving such terrible directives. It is rather their Priest or Church Council.

I attended a Catholic Minor Seminary for six years, and my Dad is not even a Catholic. They know he attends ECWA
Catholic in my region (Yoruba) don’t do like this. All this complains always come from the eastern part of the country because of there greed for money, comments like this make Protestant from the west always attack the parishioners, Holy See and our church also and there church especially there daddy G.O are the most corrupted person on earth���There daddy G.O are even more corrupt more than our politicians, example our Vice President is a pastor from there corrupted Protestant church,

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Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by breathelove(f): 8:39am On Jul 12, 2021
Todetayo:

Why should you wait for the church to conduct a burial when even Jesus Christ said "let the dead bury their dead?
That's what people like Chimamanda are realizing, the failures of the Catholic church.
If we now have to pay money for a prayer at our death then what is the purpose.
For which of his services did Christ collect money?
Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by Redoil: 8:48am On Jul 12, 2021
Primrose9ja:
Not just in the Catholic Church but some pentecostal churches too. The day I attended RCCG Youth Church, I thought I was in Christ Embassy, heard they are opening youth branches because they are loosing their youths to other Liberal churches.
typical nigerian youth do you understand what she is saying
Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by Nobody: 8:51am On Jul 12, 2021
JayB11:


I have been a Catholic ever since i was born, i studied at the Catholic Minor Seminary (for 6 good years), and i am still a Catholic. I have never seen this horrible encounter where the Church did all these things.

Lets be frank here, it is best to say "Your Priest" or "the Church Council" was responsible for that, but i doubt if it was a compliance in regards to Holy See.

When i was at the Minor Seminary, my Dad wasn't even Catholic, but i was admitted, my Dad attends ECWA and the school authority knew. If the Church were strict as you sounded, i would have been withdrawn.

Again, i have a friend who also attended a Catholic Minor Seminary different from mine, he graduated there and applied to become a Priest. However, he was declined the opportunity cos his Dad had two Wives. Here, the Church was fair. Infact, we both know that Christianity frowns at a Man having two Wives. But even when my friend's Dad passed away, more than 2 Priest were at his burial, accordingly.

Priest are Humans too, they have tendency of being a Fanatic or Extremist. So i will tell anybody again, it is the Priest.
My dear, it happens, l am a witness. My dad was a knight, my brother went through seminary school right from Jss1 till when he entered higher level (apostolate or something like that) though he left.
Why would l lie with something like that has to do with God and my Faith? l was a devoted Catholic, just like she rightly stated, l fought for my belief in catholism against Protestant students then in secondary School.
Up till now, that practice is still on in my village, my junior sister had to drag her non Catholic husband to Catholic church for their wedding to avoid what happened in mine.
I have nothing against them, l am still a Catholic at heart but not a fanatic.

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Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by Nobody: 8:56am On Jul 12, 2021
My dear, that form of Catholicism only occurs in the east. Definitely not in the West.
Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by ogbuefi677(m): 8:59am On Jul 12, 2021
jesusjnr2020:
You're right that sexism is still prevalent in the church and the woman is still being treated by church leaders and Christians as the cause of man's downfall despite that Jesus had redeemed her from the curse of her sin. So that's not in question.

However in your own case, it's a matter of the curse of knowledge and fame etc., which is pride but the end thereof is destruction.

I hope God humbles you and makes you go through things that would make you realize how far you've strayed from the Truth so you can retrace your footsteps.

God bless.
Exactly.
She mentioned the resistance of the church to women putting on shoulder baring clothes as one of her reasons and I ask,how long b4 it goes from shoulder baring to thighs baring like we see in some churches nowadays where a supposed house of God looks like a clubhouse?
Preventing a presumed fallen out of faith couple from taking communion?What is wrong with that?
In this present day of huge moral decadence, it is even heartwarming to see churches who still carry out such practices that reminds ppl of the need for repentance and avoidance of sin.
To me,she has no point and is just seeking attention

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Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by Nobody: 9:01am On Jul 12, 2021
BRATISLAVA:


You aren't Christian, you're Catholic.

Where's the sense in this statement?

Guess who gave Christendom the "Holy Bible"?

You need to go and read the history of Churches to get a grasp.
Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by ogbuefi677(m): 9:01am On Jul 12, 2021
BSsniffer:
It's not about Catholicism but a toxic Igbo culture that worships money and regards women as property.
First fool on the thread.
Congratulations.
Igbos regard women as property but Anambra presently has 2 female senators out of 3 and none of them is a 1st timer.
Okonjo Iweala,Arunma Otteh,Ndi Okereke Onyiuke,Kema Chikwe,and numerous Igbo women are doing wonders out there.
Nollywood was practically made popular by Igbo women but your Islamic skull still thinks Igbo women are relegated.
Igbos have the most prominent and visible women among all the regions and tribes but your Islamic skull thinks otherwise.
Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by Angelfrost(m): 9:44am On Jul 12, 2021
breathelove:

You are obviously very young and don't know so much.

You just used this little space nairaland offered you to insult almost everyone.

I am sure you went to school but ask yourself, are you truly wiser or better than are the religious people you know?

Well, no insult was intended with that submission or opinion... If anyone, even you, feels slighted then I apologize but my statement and position stays unchanged.

It is deeper than that... Mind you, I haven't even poked at cultures or traditions, neither do I have anything against morality.

When I speak of religion, any deep thinker already knows I speak of the inhumanity and disunity it proliferates rather than addresses... So, my position holds even at the risk of coming off as indelicate to your sensitivity or bent.

Lastly, I have been religious... I long ceased to follow such pathetic bandwagon and truly embrace God in totality. Call me childish all ye want, but I'm liberated.

A good morning to you!
Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by BRATISLAVA: 9:45am On Jul 12, 2021
TripleOh7:


Where's the sense in this statement?

Guess who gave Christendom the "Holy Bible"?

You need to go and read the history of Churches to get a grasp.
Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by ogbuefi677(m): 9:46am On Jul 12, 2021
meobizy:
Abeg, this woman always finds one thing or the other to complain about when trying to appease her white masters. She strikes me as the type to quickly birth babies with white men in order to wash her 'impurity' during slave times. For a writer, she forgets there were mentions of heroic females in the bible. Yes, attack the Christian institution because Caucasians as at 2021 do not find religion useful. "Hey, massa white man, sir. I'm the same as you — only sunburnt".
Well said.
The curse of the woke generation.
Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by BRATISLAVA: 9:47am On Jul 12, 2021
TripleOh7:


Where's the sense in this statement?

Guess who gave Christendom the "Holy Bible"?

You need to go and read the history of Churches to get a grasp.

Where's the sense in your statement?

Why doesn't he say he's Christian? What on Earth is "I'm Catholic". Will every Pentecostal begin to state their denomination when asked what their religion is?

Who gave Christendom the Bible, do you want to tell us Moses was Catholic, or maybe John or Paul? Empty religious ego.
Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by Nobody: 9:53am On Jul 12, 2021
BRATISLAVA:


Where's the sense in your statement?

Why doesn't he say he's Christian? What on Earth is "I'm Catholic". Will every Pentecostal begin to state their denomination when asked what their religion is?

Who gave Christendom the Bible, do you want to tell us Moses was Catholic, or maybe John or Paul? Empty religious ego.


The way ignorant people come up here and post with confidence is alarming.

If you don't know will it kill you to admit that you're badly informed on the subject?

Someone who doesn't even know the meaning of the word "bible" or the word "Catholic" or "Katolika".

Anyway, keep stewing in your ignorance.
Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by Jesubaby: 10:07am On Jul 12, 2021
BSsniffer:
It's not about Catholicism but a toxic Igbo culture that worships money and regards women as property.
Thank you. Because i haven't heard of such in my diocess.(BOMADI DIOCESS) If u like to say cruel things about the Catholic church. U're on ur own. That won't make me to start castigating urs. May God all the haters. Amen.
Re: Why I Separated Myself From Catholicism – Chimamanda Adichie by BabaIbo: 10:15am On Jul 12, 2021
samuelevans:
I'm sorry to say, i hate this church because they worship Mary and not Jesus. what makes you people think Mary the Mother of Jesus is different from other women in the Bible? because she was a virgin when she gave birth? Matthew 12 vs 47-49. Says Someone told Jesus Christ, “Your mother and your brothers are standing outside, and they want to Speak to you. But Jesus replied, Who is My mother, and who are My brothers Pointing to His disciples, He said, Here are My mother and My brothers. For whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother" So why do you bow and worship the image of Mary after the Lord God has also warn not to bow down for any other gods (Exodus 20 vs 5), am not a born again Christian but not pleased with their doctrine.


You're ignorant and nobody cares about your stinking likeness.

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