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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Jessepaid(m): 7:19pm On Jul 12, 2021
Osas187:
Emotionss
Your post reminds me of a post on nairaland front page last year or earlier this year by a woman who complains about her husband that slaps her all because he lost his job and she told him to help her wash plates she would use to serve her costomer in her food business,since she's the one taking care of him and their children after he lost his job
Hehehe...


Men take care of themselves and their families for decades...


And nobody hears shit...



Women do it for some months and they start demanding division of labor...



There's a man in my area who is unemployed...


His wife pushes zobo, kunu and buns each morning..


After doing it for some months alone..


She demanded her husband follows her out each morning...


Now I see both of them each day pass by my office..


The man pushing the wheel barrow containing the snacks..


And the woman trotting slowly beside him...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DEMZEE(m): 7:19pm On Jul 12, 2021
PrinxArthur1:
anytime I enter YouTube na fresh&fit, Kevin Samuel or how not to simp videos I dey watch

Omo na where my data dey burn ooo on a daily lol

Fresh and fit, Kevin Samuels, crp, rational male etc

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Oyin2212(m): 7:21pm On Jul 12, 2021
SOZINN:
E shock me.
Dear lawd.
Sheet

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DEMZEE(m): 7:26pm On Jul 12, 2021
Osas187:
You should have tired of this your wack line "Islam and culture will never allow gynocentrism in Nigeria"incase you don't know Nigeria is not a islamic country and not everyone pratice or beleif in culture,if you don't allow it in your family becouse you pratice islam as I Do,other people who pratice other religions or who thinks he's civilized might accept it now

So because of this Nigeria wud become gynocentric. All our traditions and culture will be thrown away and people will allow femcentric laws to prevail the land. U are dreaming nigga, e b like say u don't know ur cultural history and heritage, western movies have blinded u too much

Reality is this Nigeria will never be gynocentric like western societies issha Allah

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DEMZEE(m): 7:31pm On Jul 12, 2021
Oldoinyolengai:
Whether you support them or otherwise it doesn't matter.

You should learn how to live in a world full of independent women.

Nigeria will never allow women to out-earn men. We are not like western societies that are championing single independent ladies and single mothers. There's no government welfare package for single mothers in Nigeria.

We have financially independent ladies sure but they will end up getting married to feminine men, nature balances everyone bro

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Jessepaid(m): 7:34pm On Jul 12, 2021
Hehehe

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DEMZEE(m): 7:35pm On Jul 12, 2021
Emotionss:
[color=#006600][/color]

They keep allowing ego and sentiments to cloud their judgment.

Let's use the last 3 BBNaija as an example how many how the male house mate are as successful as their female counterparts outside the house ?

More and more men are losing their managerial jobs to women in Nigeria. Go to banks, IT firms, Breweries,media houses, multinational corporations and see how women are gaining ground on the top managerial positions that was mostly dominated by men few years ago...

While our young men are busy dominating the menial jobs, construction jobs, Yahoo Yahoo, Driving jobs and other stress related jobs, the women are busy gunning for the managerial and other higher paying jobs. Yet some of us find it hard to accept that more and more women are becoming fainancal independent in Nigeria....

The purpose of Redpill is not to stop that evolution, but to equip men with the Mental and emotional maturity to deal and counter any negative issue that will arise as a result of that..

More and more men are losing their jobs on a daily basis thereby making the women the bread winners of their families as a man who depends on his fainancal status to dominate and control your environment how do you handle such situations if you're not mentally, emotionally and physically prepared for it.

How does a man that earns 200k a month attracts the attention of a woman that earns 500k a month if he's not mentally, emotional, physically different from other men.

As a Man. Without your fainancal status, Do you have the required mental, physical and emotional maturity to make a statement for yourself and impress others (men and women alike) if you're not a true Redpiller. ?

The world is changing how many men are ready for such change ?

I intend to remain a king in my little kingdom and for that I will continue to watched, abserve, adjust and improve myself when necessary while still maintaining my Redpill musiline mentality...

Any man that wants to remain in 1999 delusions about women independence is free to do so.

Time will tell.

USA that has high rate of single independent ladies even those ladies say most men in the USA are economical unattractive ie they are useless to them financially

That is why most of their ladies are single, marriage rates are dropping...everyone is just having casual sex

Maybe that is Wat u want Nigeria to turn too, casual sex nation ahbi

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Jessepaid(m): 7:46pm On Jul 12, 2021
DEMZEE:


USA that has high rate of single independent ladies even those ladies say most men in the USA are economical unattractive ie they are not useless to them financially

That is why most of their ladies are single, marriage rates are dropping...everyone is just having casual sex

Maybe that is Wat u want Nigeria to turn too, casual sex nation ahbi
hehehe....


Nigeria ladies are too proud....



Go jumia, search for intimacy gadgets....


Read the reviews and ratings....


These hoes would rather masturbate oo..


E no reach two women for Nigeria wey their head still correct..

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DEMZEE(m): 7:52pm On Jul 12, 2021
Jessepaid:
hehehe....


Nigeria ladies are too proud....



Go jumia, search for intimacy gadgets....


Read the reviews and ratings....


These hoes would rather masturbate oo..


E no reach two women for Nigeria wey their head still correct..

Even USA women too wud rather masturbate than date downwards

Being single and financially independent as a lady is a very big hindrance to securing a masculine husband. Wen a woman makes more money she's shrinking her potential pool of candidates for relationship/marriage

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 7:56pm On Jul 12, 2021
Guys remember monikers like @DEMZEE are trolls. Any engagement with such is a waste of time. That's why they're opposing every post.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by DEMZEE(m): 8:12pm On Jul 12, 2021
ubunja:
Guys remember monikers like @DEMZEE are trolls. Any engagement with such is a waste of time. That's why they're opposing every post.

Guy u are stoopid

Anybody that doesn't agree with ur point of view is a troll

U are a very low valued low IQ individual, I spit on ur grave. Useless broke nigga

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by PrinxArthur1(m): 8:18pm On Jul 12, 2021
Lol

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Saviolamemphix(m): 8:20pm On Jul 12, 2021
U all should stop quoting dis headslamming terrorist called demzee hes up to no good. undecided undecided

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by PrinxArthur1(m): 8:38pm On Jul 12, 2021
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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Zabiboy: 8:39pm On Jul 12, 2021
But tbh, sex is too cheap for us to use over 50+ pages to be talking about it...
Sex is too cheap for anyone to come to this thread to brag about how many pvssies he is smashing for how he smashed a girl within 2 mins of meeting her...
Just the way you wake up, go hustle and dont come here to tell us about it, no need coming to tell us how many girls you are fvcking..
Ubunj@ said he's here for pvssy so those of us here for other things can simply read his posts and move on or ignore rather than try to argue/debate...

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Zabiboy: 8:45pm On Jul 12, 2021
I dunno if it's only me but tbh i dont know why people make sex look like something that it's not ....i believe there are thousands of things out there that can give you the amount of pleasure sex cant give... But lets not go there..
Finally, please, if you are having sex, please do it with someone with standard/class.. Sometimes while driving through and i see lazy/broke/ugly women with kids or even in the ashewo thread seeing the beings men are fvcking ( and still end up paying) , i still dont know how these men get erect tbh... But yeah...it is what it is.. Who am i to judge

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by drealbenard(m): 8:50pm On Jul 12, 2021
DEMZEE:


Nigeria will never allow women to out-earn men. We are not like western societies that are championing single independent ladies and single mothers. There's no government welfare package for single mothers in Nigeria.

We have financially independent ladies sure but they will end up getting married to feminine men, nature balances everyone bro

It's always good to hope for the best, but wouldn't it be better if we are properly prepared in case things spiral out of control later? Won't it be better to prepare for a storm before it hits or is it when the storm hits with full force that we will begin to prepare? Wouldn't it be too late by then?

See my good friend, no one is in support of any sort of feminism here, but for the fact that we do not like it does not mean it won't happen.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Calibrator: 8:58pm On Jul 12, 2021
It is ironic that in nairaland general romance section which is renowned for excessive trolling, the most abused word there is "Simp" while on nairaland official Redpill thread, the most abused word here is "Troll".

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by CaveAdullam: 9:16pm On Jul 12, 2021
REDPILL IS FAR BEYOND WHAT YOU'RE THINKING!

From the Godfather of the manosphere: Bishop Rollo Tomassi.

PS: I'm starting an overdosing of the redpill, the ones I took before are now stale. I need a good refreshment. Lol!

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by fattprince(m): 9:24pm On Jul 12, 2021
Susily:


Bro don't put computer coding in that list

anyone that learns computer coding is one step away to hitting great wealth....... that's where the world is headed now

And I encourage men who have the time and the means to opt for computer programming and software engineering. You'd be doing yourself a huge favor as a man if you're savvy in these areas
But can guys that doesn't know anything about it learn it?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Calibrator: 10:09pm On Jul 12, 2021
Getting unhappy because other people are doing better makes no sense whatsoever if you're doing the best you can do for yourself.

For someone doing better than you, there's also someone doing worse than you.




@lifemathsmoney - Twitter.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by TheDarkGamer: 10:12pm On Jul 12, 2021
To be very honest, the reason why people here still reply to this "TUEHHHHHH" guy's posts baffles me. He is uncouth and vulgar. There is no refinement in his posts and he just spits garbage.

He might have good intentions but he is too rigid and he believes that his viewpoint is absolute. He is always ready to demean and abuse people who disagree with him.

He always has a particular stereotyped answer to give concerning the coming change. He says Islam and Nigeria's patriarchal glory days are enough to prevent females from becoming independent and having more control and influence than men. Same old response.

One thing he does not understand is that the change is already here. How else can you explain the increasing immorality displayed by females, females attaining jobs that make them equal or above men, men abused when accused of rape but in female cases, it is downplayed, etc. These are just examples. If Islam and patriarchy in Nigeria were really effective, we would not be chasing western ideals by now. Another thing he needs to understand is that Nigeria is not an Islamic nation (might soon be if you consider the way the country is being run, but that's another story), so why shout Islam when that does not apply to the south?

Religion cannot stop this change, unfortunately. Christianity is too lax and you can even see changes in the churches around you. In the past, women did not hold positions (mostly), they dressed moderately, etc. Now, it's a different story. If Christianity was really effective in matters concerning the country, we would not even be in this situation where Northern Muslims oppress the entire country. Rather, Christians are mostly made to believe that their kingdom is in heaven and that is why most are nonchalant about the situation on the Earth. Situations like this for example. Even in churches, the average woman has more influence than the average man (not men with power, average men).

When making an analysis, also consider the younger generation. I have this experience and I know what I'm talking about. Most kids nowadays do not really care about religion. They are only present in churches and religious events because they are forced by their parents and societal pressure. If given free will, a good number of them will abandon it. Teenagers all over the country and those in other countries are not really afraid of religion anymore. Consider that when you make such assumptions. In the future, if things continue like this, Christianity might become extinct (maybe that's too much) or irrelevant in the society. The younger ones are not really interested and they will raise their kids in that manner, the cycle will go on. It will be like how it is in the West.

I don't know much about Islam, so I won't talk about it.

You can use that Super Tv CEO's murder case as an example. If it was a man, he would be prosecuted immediately and the case would have died. He will also receive verbal abuse from a lot of people, regardless of if he committed the crime or not. But what do we see, the suspect is treated favorably and allowed to make interviews while under custody. One thing people don't understand is that humans are fickle creatures and easily forget. This media coverage that she is receiving will in time, make people feel pity for her and she has boldly made another claim that she didn't kill the man. You can imagine how many lies she has given and she is allowed to do so freely. Maybe, her case is special and there are higher forces involved but it still reflects how hypocritical our society is.

The LGBTQ+ movement is already in Nigeria and will sooner or later be legalized. There are enough sympathizers and advocates amongst our population. It is mainly young adults and teenagers. Most of my friends and mates do not have a problem with it. You'd hear rationalizations such as "They were born like that", or "As long as they are not hurting anybody, then they should be left alone". Check social media and see the comment sections. The movement is gaining traction among young people. Check the Nairaland Diary section and you'd see enough gay diaries there.

The media also aids the coming change too.

The fact is that there are many signs to indicate that a change is coming. However, as men, we are too rigid and our beliefs are set in stone. You see the facts around you, but you deny it. Just be aware, and make sure you adapt to any situation you find yourself in. Stop reminiscing about the good old days.

Now, regarding this "TUEHHHH" guy, whenever he is placed with facts like this, he gets emotional in his response. He will accuse you of wishing for the change to occur and tell you that you are not a man or something of the sort. What he doesn't seem to realize is that, even if you wish for it not to occur, if it will happen then it will happen. We should just be prepared.

The time I joined this thread and saw his moniker and posts, I knew instantly the type of person he was. I remember when he had a disagreement with ubunja and I challenged him about what he said. He couldn't defend it because he said rubbish.

Yes, I am not disputing the fact that he might add something beneficial from time to time, but that is on extremely rare occasions. He just repeats the same old statements without putting logic to them. He is also extremely emotional and insults everybody when challenged (just like a woman would).

All in all, beware of him. Yes, it's you DEMZEE.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Susily(m): 10:25pm On Jul 12, 2021
fattprince:

But can guys that doesn't know anything about it learn it?


Sure. Why not?

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Azurevermillion: 10:49pm On Jul 12, 2021
TheDarkGamer:
To be very honest, the reason why people here still reply to this "TUEHHHHHH" guy's posts baffles me. He is uncouth and vulgar. There is no refinement in his posts and he just spits garbage.

He might have good intentions but he is too rigid and he believes that his viewpoint is absolute. He is always ready to demean and abuse people who disagree with him.

He always has a particular stereotyped answer to give concerning the coming change. He says Islam and Nigeria's patriarchal glory days are enough to prevent females from becoming independent and having more control and influence than men. Same old response.

One thing he does not understand is that the change is already here. How else can you explain the increasing immorality displayed by females, females attaining jobs that make them equal or above men, men abused when accused of rape but in female cases, it is downplayed, etc. These are just examples. If Islam and patriarchy in Nigeria were really effective, we would not be chasing western ideals by now. Another thing he needs to understand is that Nigeria is not an Islamic nation (might soon be if you consider the way the country is being run, but that's another story), so why shout Islam when that does not apply to the south?

Religion cannot stop this change, unfortunately. Christianity is too lax and you can even see changes in the churches around you. In the past, women did not hold positions (mostly), they dressed moderately, etc. Now, it's a different story. If Christianity was really effective in matters concerning the country, we would not even be in this situation where Northern Muslims oppress the entire country. Rather, Christians are mostly made to believe that their kingdom is in heaven and that is why most are nonchalant about the situation on the Earth. Situations like this for example. Even in churches, the average woman has more influence than the average man (not men with power, average men).

When making an analysis, also consider the younger generation. I have this experience and I know what I'm talking about. Most kids nowadays do not really care about religion. They are only present in churches and religious events because they are forced by their parents and societal pressure. If given free will, a good number of them will abandon it. Teenagers all over the country and those in other countries are not really afraid of religion anymore. Consider that when you make such assumptions. In the future, if things continue like this, Christianity might become extinct (maybe that's too much) or irrelevant in the society. The younger ones are not really interested and they will raise their kids in that manner, the cycle will go on. It will be like how it is in the West.

I don't know much about Islam, so I won't talk about it.

You can use that Super Tv CEO's murder case as an example. If it was a man, he would be prosecuted immediately and the case would have died. He will also receive verbal abuse from a lot of people, regardless of if he committed the crime or not. But what do we see, the suspect is treated favorably and allowed to make interviews while under custody. One thing people don't understand is that humans are fickle creatures and easily forget. This media coverage that she is receiving will in time, make people feel pity for her and she has boldly made another claim that she didn't kill the man. You can imagine how many lies she has given and she is allowed to do so freely. Maybe, her case is special and there are higher forces involved but it still reflects how hypocritical our society is.

The LGBTQ+ movement is already in Nigeria and will sooner or later be legalized. There are enough sympathizers and advocates amongst our population. It is mainly young adults and teenagers. Most of my friends and mates do not have a problem with it. You'd hear rationalizations such as "They were born like that", or "As long as they are not hurting anybody, then they should be left alone". Check social media and see the comment sections. The movement is gaining traction among young people. Check the Nairaland Diary section and you'd see enough gay diaries there.

The media also aids the coming change too.

The fact is that there are many signs to indicate that a change is coming. However, as men, we are too rigid and our beliefs are set in stone. You see the facts around you, but you deny it. Just be aware, and make sure you adapt to any situation you find yourself in. Stop reminiscing about the good old days.

Now, regarding this "TUEHHHH" guy, whenever he is placed with facts like this, he gets emotional in his response. He will accuse you of wishing for the change to occur and tell you that you are not a man or something of the sort. What he doesn't seem to realize is that, even if you wish for it not to occur, if it will happen then it will happen. We should just be prepared.

The time I joined this thread and saw his moniker and posts, I knew instantly the type of person he was. I remember when he had a disagreement with ubunja and I challenged him about what he said. He couldn't defend it because he said rubbish.

Yes, I am not disputing the fact that he might add something beneficial from time to time, but that is on extremely rare occasions. He just repeats the same old statements without putting logic to them. He is also extremely emotional and insults everybody when challenged (just like a woman would).

All in all, beware of him. Yes, it's you DEMZEE.
It's because of my dad that I still perform solat. Even now, if I no see better water I go perform am without ablution. I just haven't experienced that thing that made me believe with all my heart. Most parent in Africa are psychologically and emotionally daft

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Azurevermillion: 10:55pm On Jul 12, 2021
TheDarkGamer:



All in all, beware of him. Yes, it's you DEMZEE.
Brother man no shy cool

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Born2winKingOG: 11:18pm On Jul 12, 2021
Zabiboy:
I dunno if it's only me but tbh i dont know why people make sex look like something that it's not ....i believe there are thousands of things out there that can give you the amount of pleasure sex cant give... But lets not go there..
Finally, please, if you are having sex, please do it with someone with standard/class.. Sometimes while driving through and i see lazy/broke/ugly women with kids or even in the ashewo thread seeing the beings men are fvcking ( and still end up paying) , i still dont know how these men get erect tbh... But yeah...it is what it is.. Who am i to judge
when they can't get pucsy.... they downplay men...who gets it.

Same tactics.


Buh real gees are playing it back stage.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Oyin2212(m): 11:20pm On Jul 12, 2021
Zabiboy:
I dunno if it's only me but tbh i dont know why people make sex look like something that it's not ....i believe there are thousands of things out there that can give you the amount of pleasure sex cant give... But lets not go there..
Finally, please, if you are having sex, please do it with someone with standard/class.. Sometimes while driving through and i see lazy/broke/ugly women with kids or even in the ashewo thread seeing the beings men are fvcking ( and still end up paying) , i still dont know how these men get erect tbh... But yeah...it is what it is.. Who am i to judge
grin

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Stupidquestions: 11:21pm On Jul 12, 2021
Born2winKingOG:
when they can't get pucsy.... they downplay men...who gets it.

Buh real gees are playing it back stage

Lol...u dey mind the boy talking like a teenager who hasn't fvvcked varieties of pvssy

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Stupidquestions: 11:25pm On Jul 12, 2021
Azurevermillion:
It's because of my dad that I still perform solat. Even now, if I no see better water I go perform am without ablution. I just haven't experienced that thing that made me believe with all my heart. Most parent in Africa are psychologically and emotionally daft
It's a big problem in Africa...The disconnection between African parents and children is disheartening....And parents these days don't even know the kind of information at the disposal of their kids.....Our parents will talk and talk and talk and talk unend..simple questions they can't ask to get clarity of your thoughts...simple listening, they can't listen to hear u talk for 3 mins..lol...it bothers me...and makes parenting not attractive to me at all

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Born2winKingOG: 11:26pm On Jul 12, 2021
Stupidquestions:

Lol...u dey mind the boy talking like a teenager who hasn't fvvcked varieties of pvssy

Go through his topics...he is in group with our redpill monk.

Creating different topics about pornstars....mia khalifa and the rest.



Trust me... many of them here are chronic mastûbators.

That can't go out there to utilize this redpill knowledge...to get quality pucsy.
Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by Stupidquestions: 11:27pm On Jul 12, 2021
Born2winKingOG:


Go through his topics...he is in group with our redpill monk.

Creating different topics about pornstars....mia khalifa and the rest.



Trust me... many of them here are chronic mastûbators.
Wouldn't even waste my time to check his profile from bland post.

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Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by ubunja(m): 11:38pm On Jul 12, 2021
TheDarkGamer:
To be very honest, the reason why people here still reply to this "TUEHHHHHH" guy's posts baffles me. He is uncouth and vulgar. There is no refinement in his posts and he just spits garbage.

He might have good intentions but he is too rigid and he believes that his viewpoint is absolute. He is always ready to demean and abuse people who disagree with him.

He always has a particular stereotyped answer to give concerning the coming change. He says Islam and Nigeria's patriarchal glory days are enough to prevent females from becoming independent and having more control and influence than men. Same old response.

One thing he does not understand is that the change is already here. How else can you explain the increasing immorality displayed by females, females attaining jobs that make them equal or above men, men abused when accused of rape but in female cases, it is downplayed, etc. These are just examples. If Islam and patriarchy in Nigeria were really effective, we would not be chasing western ideals by now. Another thing he needs to understand is that Nigeria is not an Islamic nation (might soon be if you consider the way the country is being run, but that's another story), so why shout Islam when that does not apply to the south?

Religion cannot stop this change, unfortunately. Christianity is too lax and you can even see changes in the churches around you. In the past, women did not hold positions (mostly), they dressed moderately, etc. Now, it's a different story. If Christianity was really effective in matters concerning the country, we would not even be in this situation where Northern Muslims oppress the entire country. Rather, Christians are mostly made to believe that their kingdom is in heaven and that is why most are nonchalant about the situation on the Earth. Situations like this for example. Even in churches, the average woman has more influence than the average man (not men with power, average men).

When making an analysis, also consider the younger generation. I have this experience and I know what I'm talking about. Most kids nowadays do not really care about religion. They are only present in churches and religious events because they are forced by their parents and societal pressure. If given free will, a good number of them will abandon it. Teenagers all over the country and those in other countries are not really afraid of religion anymore. Consider that when you make such assumptions. In the future, if things continue like this, Christianity might become extinct (maybe that's too much) or irrelevant in the society. The younger ones are not really interested and they will raise their kids in that manner, the cycle will go on. It will be like how it is in the West.

I don't know much about Islam, so I won't talk about it.

You can use that Super Tv CEO's murder case as an example. If it was a man, he would be prosecuted immediately and the case would have died. He will also receive verbal abuse from a lot of people, regardless of if he committed the crime or not. But what do we see, the suspect is treated favorably and allowed to make interviews while under custody. One thing people don't understand is that humans are fickle creatures and easily forget. This media coverage that she is receiving will in time, make people feel pity for her and she has boldly made another claim that she didn't kill the man. You can imagine how many lies she has given and she is allowed to do so freely. Maybe, her case is special and there are higher forces involved but it still reflects how hypocritical our society is.

The LGBTQ+ movement is already in Nigeria and will sooner or later be legalized. There are enough sympathizers and advocates amongst our population. It is mainly young adults and teenagers. Most of my friends and mates do not have a problem with it. You'd hear rationalizations such as "They were born like that", or "As long as they are not hurting anybody, then they should be left alone". Check social media and see the comment sections. The movement is gaining traction among young people. Check the Nairaland Diary section and you'd see enough gay diaries there.

The media also aids the coming change too.

The fact is that there are many signs to indicate that a change is coming. However, as men, we are too rigid and our beliefs are set in stone. You see the facts around you, but you deny it. Just be aware, and make sure you adapt to any situation you find yourself in. Stop reminiscing about the good old days.

Now, regarding this "TUEHHHH" guy, whenever he is placed with facts like this, he gets emotional in his response. He will accuse you of wishing for the change to occur and tell you that you are not a man or something of the sort. What he doesn't seem to realize is that, even if you wish for it not to occur, if it will happen then it will happen. We should just be prepared.

The time I joined this thread and saw his moniker and posts, I knew instantly the type of person he was. I remember when he had a disagreement with ubunja and I challenged him about what he said. He couldn't defend it because he said rubbish.

Yes, I am not disputing the fact that he might add something beneficial from time to time, but that is on extremely rare occasions. He just repeats the same old statements without putting logic to them. He is also extremely emotional and insults everybody when challenged (just like a woman would).

All in all, beware of him. Yes, it's you DEMZEE.
the one thing that is really baffling me here is how when you make an observation, suddenly it means you support that very thing you're observing.

I have said female independence is coming. And suddenly I'm labeled as supporting it and therefore as a male feminist of sorts. Which is hilarious. I may support it or I may not but a simple observation must be treated as such. It's like guys of late don't want to apply their logic or something.

In all our discussions we must be mindful of the near future. Hence no matter how much we talk about female nature we must always ask ourselves, How will things maybe look five years from now, ten years from now etc. The past is gone and reminiscing about the good old days won't help anyone, as you have said.

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