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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by dacblogger: 5:49pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Marriage has its trying times especially in the first 5years... You already know her flaws,it's left for you to find a way around it. Dnt leave your marriage cos the devil you know is better than the angel you DNT know. 13 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Susily(m): 6:01pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
dacblogger: Well he can't take her abusive ways anymore and have decided to divorce for his Sanity He should always put his Sanity and peace of mind first, and if divorce will lead to it then he should go ahead with the divorce 21 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by dacblogger: 6:08pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Susily:What makes you think that the next person he will marry will give him peace of mind? Whenever she starts abusing him,he should just leave the house for her or completely ignore her.she will do it n get tired You have to apply psychology in marriage,when you notice that the person you're abusing is less concerned,it's not somebody that will tell you to close your mouth.i am a psychologist n a counselor so I should know better. Divorce is not always the solution please 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Oracleforce: 6:10pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
is marriage compulsory? if you want to live a peaceful and quiet life....abstain from marriage...i'm enjoying my single life till death do me part... but if you no fit hold body, either you marry or you pay olosho for easing of tension...say no to rape , domestic violence, and all sort of sexual violence. [size=8pt][/size] Pecoleee345: 8 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by dacblogger: 6:17pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Oracleforce:Marriage is not all about sex...companionship is the main purpose.Dnt forget that. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Susily(m): 6:35pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
dacblogger: Did he tell you he has plans of remarrying after the divorce?? Marriage wahala too much and he needs to file for the divorce then cool off and decide what next to do with his life 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by kazyhm(m): 6:41pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
chatinent: It idiotic to human race...... 4 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by dacblogger: 6:44pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Susily:Are you his mouth piece? Why you carry im matter for your head? Oga,please lemme alone |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Pecoleee345: 6:46pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
dacblogger:Would you advise same if I was beating her?? You women feel abusing and cursing is lesser evil to a man beating is wife but get this am done. She want to be beat her up but I won't.....I will rather walk out of the marriage. 29 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by dacblogger: 6:47pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Pecoleee345:Are you beating her If that's the case,I will have to advise the both of you ,not just you alone. |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Pecoleee345: 6:52pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
dacblogger: I see......well am not expecting anything different from a woman....Go read the post again this time slower so u can stop asking me lame questions. 24 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by dacblogger: 6:54pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Pecoleee345:You're quite rude,I only asked a simple question which you might have lied about in your post. No wonder your wife is always abusing you.learn how to talk to people,I was only trying to help out 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Susily(m): 6:54pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
dacblogger: I thought you said you're a psychologist, simple conversation we're having and you're all emotional If that's how psychologists behave then no one should pay for their services cos a professional getting emotional makes him/her inept in giving sound professional advice 39 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by dacblogger: 6:56pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Susily:You're not the poster so I have no business talking to you.Allow him to explain his situation,DNT explain it for him cos you're not living with him. |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Pecoleee345: 7:00pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
dacblogger:A psychologist indeed....answer the person above me first and mind ur damn business..... A wife I spent fortune to marry and provide for is always abusing and cursing me .....u are telling me to ignore her To you a sensible woman who want her hubby to prosper will be placing curses on him. 42 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by dacblogger: 7:04pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Pecoleee345:You're not paying me to do jack,so you DNT have the right to order me about. I was only trying to help but I can see you have serious mental health issues.i will leave you your problems,adios. 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Yusufisraelj(m): 7:09pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
dacblogger: Nope madam, the Devil you know is better than the Devil you don't know. There's nothing terrible about an Angel - they are mercenaries of peace and progress. OP Is there a willingness on her part to change her ways since it hurts you. You see as painful as it may sound love relationships is not about you, it's about the other person, seeking the best interest of the other party, If your lady doesn't have this understanding, it's going to be difficult to fix things or amends her ways. Well you're married, I don't encourage divorce but I think there's a way out. I believe you should see someone she respects to put some sense and perspectives into her, it's painful to have an insensitive spouse. Pls check this out https://naijasermons.com.ng/wp-content/uploads/Selman/COMPRESSED/The%20Principles%20of%20Effective%20Living-Koinonia%20with%20Apostle%20Joshua%20Selman%20NImmak%20(download%20more%20@%20www.naijasermons.com.ng).mp3 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Pecoleee345: 7:20pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj:Thanks for this question.....she isn't willing to change infact she compare herself with a neighbor wife that do worst.... that her is small. Most times I wonder how someone will rain curses on you and blame it on anger She started with abuses and step up to curses....this days she even dare me to my face. 15 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Yusufisraelj(m): 7:23pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Pecoleee345: Hmmm you made us believe your wife is the problem, but from this little fracas with dacblogger, it leaves a lot on the table. I think you should learn to see things from another perspective and more importantly be accommodating and stop being offensive and throwing words at people bkos you don't like their opinion. I'm no counsellor I'm just stating the obvious. 10 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by dacblogger: 7:28pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj:You will live long...only God knows what the poor woman is going through in his hands 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Yusufisraelj(m): 7:30pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Pecoleee345: Very well then, many will not subscribe to this opinion and would want to argue with it. The clearest sign a person is assisted by a spirit is carryout certain bad behaviors repeatedly is ANGER. Time will fail me to explain something's here. But if it will please you, send me a direct mail and let me forward a link to you on something very vital. Your marriage is under attack. That's just the simple truth and no amount of talking can change anything, you need to introduce LIGHT. If you're a Christian it would be most helpful. Enjoy your weekend |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Pecoleee345: 7:36pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj: I see...... since you are her advocate 1: why is picking the abuse line and ignoring the cursing part....I understood the angle she coming from most people have told me same which the bias I hate. 2: I asked If i was the one beating her would I advise be the same....she replied am I beating her That was a dull one.. 3:If she read my thread well she won't ask me some questions. And for u have read some of your thread and quote here.... honestly you ain't worth it. Lastly I doubt if either of you are married so just hush. 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Pecoleee345: 7:40pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
dacblogger: Always the thing. Is always the man fault and she the poor woman. Well is a society problem......they are always the victim.....Even if the phone she threw at him broke my head am meant to walk off and ignore becos a angel known is better. 26 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Nobody: 7:47pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Most of the time, the signs are always there but we men tend to ignore or overlook those shits. Thinking she would change but they don't change. Instead those shits get amplified after marriage. A woman with an anger and loosed tongue that can't be tamed is a No No. She can kill you and u would be history. Use your tongue to count your teeth. 19 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Yusufisraelj(m): 7:49pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Pecoleee345: Very well then my brother all the same enjoy your weekend once again. 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Yusufisraelj(m): 7:53pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
dacblogger: Sometimes you need both sides of the story to really get what's going. 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by dacblogger: 7:57pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Yusufisraelj:I'm telling you.i was actually feeling for him until he lashed out on me... I am married so I know how it goes,I was only trying to help him resolve the issue rather than advice him to divorce. He might have withheld some useful info in this post. I loved your last reply to him,it shows you're mature n learned.kudos 1 Like |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by nammi: 8:06pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Pecoleee345: Buzz me let's talk. na_mii2003@yahoo.com |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Rickmann: 8:10pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Pecoleee345: True talk 3 Likes
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Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by murphyibiam15(m): 8:34pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Bola146:Marrying a bad spouse can never be the end. Simply go your different ways 6 Likes |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by murphyibiam15(m): 8:35pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
Romanoff:You're just becoming active here despite registering since 2019. |
Re: Another Marriage About To Crash. by Austeeenxx: 8:35pm On Jul 16, 2021 |
That thing called marriage? Definitely not my type. 2 Likes
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